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Elder Bros Wife Mouthed Me Out! What do I do now? by Limitlessss: 9:30am On Dec 16, 2021
I need frank and candid advice guys.

I'll be as brief as possible.

I am a student in my 400l nw, things aren't so Rosey nor easy especially financially for me now.

Something happened this past weekend, i returned back from lectures with no dime on me, I left very early because I needed to read more, (exam things) my Elder bros travelled which I had no idea of, I live close by, (actually choose this institution because of his presence in the state) Truth is I am the type that usually keep hard times to myself, I only open up when I am choked, i hardly check on him because of negative energies i receive from his wife so I prefer communicating with him via phone, i keep my distance as possible as appropriate.

So I went to his house to check on him, i was totally broke and hungry, learnt from his wife that he traveled, asked her if she had anything, she said no money o, what she had, she wants to use it to go to the market to buy some stuff, I saw her writing a list and with some money, she was about going to market, I saw small Eva rubber red oil #900.

It hit me, I had just a little above the quantity of red oil she needed, and I hardly cook.

So I told her that instead of buying #900 in d market that I will bring the exact quantity she needs, but I just need 5h, that I am broke, I reasoned with her and pleaded that she do not see this wrongly that I am selling it to her, that its just an exchange, she said no p, I also pleaded with her not to tell my bros her husband which she also agreed.

We made the exchange, I got the #500 and gave her d oil she would have bought #900.

I just received a call from my elder bros yesterday, and he was very pissed? That y should I sell d oil to his wife?

I tried to explain but he won't listen, has even refused seeing me, honestly I am not happy right now, why will she disclose it to him? We had a pack?

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Re: Elder Bros Wife Mouthed Me Out! What do I do now? by RealLordZeus(m): 9:32am On Dec 16, 2021
grin grin
The future is smarter than you

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Re: Elder Bros Wife Mouthed Me Out! What do I do now? by goodlistener: 9:38am On Dec 16, 2021
cheesy cheesy Collect d red oil and give her back the 5 hundred, make she go buy am for market.

lalasticlala what do you have to say?

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Re: Elder Bros Wife Mouthed Me Out! What do I do now? by MufasaLion: 9:45am On Dec 16, 2021
Damn! I understand you.

If I were to be in your position, I would rather go find help somewhere else than do such trade. One thing I've realised among many married couples is that they will tell each other everything which ain't supposed to be so sometimes.

Always avoid anything that would make you venerable to your brother's wife. She took advantage of your vulnerability.

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Re: Elder Bros Wife Mouthed Me Out! What do I do now? by dawnomike(m): 9:45am On Dec 16, 2021
Just keep your cool... The tension will die down with time.

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Re: Elder Bros Wife Mouthed Me Out! What do I do now? by MufasaLion: 9:46am On Dec 16, 2021
RealLordZeus:
grin grin
The future is smarter than you

She did a very terrible thing. I really pity the OP. I hate when people breach trust.

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Re: Elder Bros Wife Mouthed Me Out! What do I do now? by Foodqueen(f): 9:47am On Dec 16, 2021
U shouldn't av asked for the exchange.

It would av been better if u took it out and sold to an outsider completely.

Little things betrays family trust.

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Re: Elder Bros Wife Mouthed Me Out! What do I do now? by Limitlessss: 10:08am On Dec 16, 2021
I feel betrayed

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Re: Elder Bros Wife Mouthed Me Out! What do I do now? by LilMissFavvy(f): 10:09am On Dec 16, 2021
One of the things I don't like about my genderundecided . Most women cant keep secrets. Better to send your brother a message and narrate things just as it happened because she may have twisted the issue when she told your brother. I don't see it as a bad thing to have asked for that exchange since you were helpless. What's her gain now that she has put you in trouble.

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Re: Elder Bros Wife Mouthed Me Out! What do I do now? by Limitlessss: 10:23am On Dec 16, 2021
Foodqueen:
U shouldn't av asked for the exchange.

It would av been better if u took it out and sold to an outsider completely.

Little things betrays family trust.

Did I plan to go there to sell anything in the first place? You've never been in a desperate needy situation b4 I guess.

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Re: Elder Bros Wife Mouthed Me Out! What do I do now? by Nobody: 10:43am On Dec 16, 2021
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Re: Elder Bros Wife Mouthed Me Out! What do I do now? by Richy4(m): 11:08am On Dec 16, 2021
I don't know why I believed you 100%...It could be because the truth was glaring enough...

Since your brother doesn't want to listen to you, simply send a text message to him stating everything that u have said here... There's no way he can delete it without reading...

End it by saying if he refused to believe u, that it was fine.. That u thought by now, he would have known the kind of person you are... Then stay away from them...

That woman doesn't like u...Do not even try to impress her because it won't work. No matter how hard u try... Besides, assuming u gave her that oil for free, she would have remembered another thing she's gonna do with the money without giving you a Kobo

If this whole thing blows over, when next you were visiting and your brother isn't around, do not enter into that house.. no matter how broke u are... It's not a good idea..

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Re: Elder Bros Wife Mouthed Me Out! What do I do now? by Klass99(f): 11:25am On Dec 16, 2021
I honestly can't see what you did wrong and I read your story twice to be sure I didn't miss something.

Your brother and his wife are just very insensitive people, if you ask me.

I don't know what's worse, people who are insensitive to the needs of others or stingy/selfish people?

I think I'll lump them together. Both are worse!

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Re: Elder Bros Wife Mouthed Me Out! What do I do now? by Mariangeles(f): 12:05pm On Dec 16, 2021
What was she trying to achieve by ratting you out to your brother?
I’d say watch out for that your brother’s wife.
She’s trying to bring discord between you and your brother.
She probably does not like seeing you coming around.

As for your brother, let him calm down first before you explain your own side to him. (He should at least understand how desperate you were for you to even sell the palm oil to his wife.)
Never let anything or anyone come between you and your brother.

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Re: Elder Bros Wife Mouthed Me Out! What do I do now? by brain54(m): 12:26pm On Dec 16, 2021
Just be cautious in your interaction with your sister in law in future.

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Re: Elder Bros Wife Mouthed Me Out! What do I do now? by princeade86(m): 12:28pm On Dec 16, 2021
Sorry
Re: Elder Bros Wife Mouthed Me Out! What do I do now? by FahBuLous: 12:28pm On Dec 16, 2021
Trust a woman at your own detriment...

Very deceitful creatures...

Something that spoke face to face with the devil and you had the mind to keep a secret with them...

Learn boy, learn...

For the record, you did nothing wrong..
Before you told her not to tell your brother, you must have known the kinda brother you have but that deceitful creature still fell your hands...

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Re: Elder Bros Wife Mouthed Me Out! What do I do now? by slawormiir: 12:28pm On Dec 16, 2021
Damnnn niggar
Isoright
You can't trust that gender

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Re: Elder Bros Wife Mouthed Me Out! What do I do now? by Galileopapi(m): 12:28pm On Dec 16, 2021
The man above me just spoke very LOUD
My 2 cent to you be very careful with in law's ooo how they interpret things is different, and you can't blame them, if you where in same position, your bro you regularly help sold oil he can give for free to your wife how would you feel? Upset I think sad

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Re: Elder Bros Wife Mouthed Me Out! What do I do now? by 9jayes: 12:29pm On Dec 16, 2021
I understand how #500 looks like 500k for someone students I also understand to how it feels to judge someone without hear his/her story, let ur wife tell us her own part
Re: Elder Bros Wife Mouthed Me Out! What do I do now? by franchuks(m): 12:29pm On Dec 16, 2021
It's well with your soul.
Re: Elder Bros Wife Mouthed Me Out! What do I do now? by emmanuelbrown26: 12:29pm On Dec 16, 2021
Anything a woman can't destroy that thing does not exist.
Yhe wizard woman took advantage of your situation and your brother being a simp was unable to handle the situation. Let me boost your brain, for her to cause this issue means your simp brother doesn't handle her or put her in her position.
U gat nothing to worry about my brother, just feel as if nothing happened. Life na turn by turn, I was in worst situation back then, but do u know what, I'm a winner.

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Re: Elder Bros Wife Mouthed Me Out! What do I do now? by 99thEnemy(m): 12:29pm On Dec 16, 2021
grin
Re: Elder Bros Wife Mouthed Me Out! What do I do now? by money121(m): 12:29pm On Dec 16, 2021
Ok
Re: Elder Bros Wife Mouthed Me Out! What do I do now? by sylve11: 12:30pm On Dec 16, 2021
She's been looking for means to do away with you since. She finally succeeded.... cool

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Re: Elder Bros Wife Mouthed Me Out! What do I do now? by Passionate888: 12:30pm On Dec 16, 2021
Ehya

The future doesn't keep a promise

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Re: Elder Bros Wife Mouthed Me Out! What do I do now? by flexlatifa: 12:30pm On Dec 16, 2021
How dear you loose gaurd to that gender


Gender of betrayals

Future is feeeemale.

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Re: Elder Bros Wife Mouthed Me Out! What do I do now? by revived2: 12:30pm On Dec 16, 2021
You have done nothing wrong

Now you need to hustle

So this bullshit will stop

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Re: Elder Bros Wife Mouthed Me Out! What do I do now? by money121(m): 12:30pm On Dec 16, 2021
Limitlessss:
I need frank and candid advice guys.

I'll be as brief as possible.

I am a student in my 400l nw, things aren't so Rosey nor easy especially financially for me now.

Something happened this past weekend, i returned back from lectures with no dime on me, I left very early because I needed to read more, (exam things) my Elder bros travelled which I had no idea of, I live close by, (actually choose this institution because of his presence in the state) Truth is I am the type that usually keep hard times to myself, I only open up when I am choked, i hardly check on him because of negative energies i receive from his wife so I prefer communicating with him via phone, i keep my distance as possible as appropriate.

So I went to his house to check on him, i was totally broke and hungry, learnt from his wife that he traveled, asked her if she had anything, she said no money o, what she had, she wants to use it to go to the market to buy some stuff, I saw her writing a list and with some money, she was about going to market, I saw small Eva rubber red oil #900.

It hit me, I had just a little above the quantity of red oil she needed, and I hardly cook.

So I told her that instead of buying #900 in d market that I will bring the exact quantity she needs, but I just need 5h, that I am broke, I reasoned with her and pleaded that she do not see this wrongly that I am selling it to her, that its just an exchange, she said no p, I also pleaded with her not to tell my bros her husband which she also agreed.

We made the exchange, I got the #500 and gave her d oil she would have bought #900.

I just received a call from my elder bros yesterday, and he was very pissed? That y should I sell d oil to his wife?

I tried to explain but he won't listen, has even refused seeing me, honestly I am not happy right now, why will she disclose it to him? We had a pack?
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Re: Elder Bros Wife Mouthed Me Out! What do I do now? by Ignatiusprince(m): 12:30pm On Dec 16, 2021
Ok
Re: Elder Bros Wife Mouthed Me Out! What do I do now? by Lincoln275(m): 12:30pm On Dec 16, 2021
Sorry ooo, sorry ooo

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