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Re: Elder Bros Wife Mouthed Me Out! What do I do now? by Ten06(m): 12:48pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
So at your age you don't know that a wife will not be able to keep such secret from her husband, mostly if the man something touches her provocatively? You have learnt this lesson in a hard way. |
Re: Elder Bros Wife Mouthed Me Out! What do I do now? by Tribalism123(m): 12:50pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
Hmmm Ur case na case ooo. But what she told ur brother is to ur advantage. It means, mind us business. Unless it bros comes to u, no send them again. And if ur bros comes to u, stand on ur grand that u dont want anything from him, at least for the next 10yrs. If u see the wife, no greetings at all. Just Mind ur business. Understanding friends can bell u out with respect. 10 Likes |
Re: Elder Bros Wife Mouthed Me Out! What do I do now? by AmazingELixir: 12:50pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
Op I think it's your brother that betrayed you not the wife. He ought to have called you to hear your end of the story instead of drawing conclusions based on just what the wife told him. Look at it from the brighter side, atleast you have a far better understanding of the kind of woman your brother married, so do well to keep your distance from her, and more importantly do not ever discuss that issue with her because she will be expectingyou to so that she can unburden herself ...let her battle with the guilt if at all she harbours any conscience. 7 Likes |
Re: Elder Bros Wife Mouthed Me Out! What do I do now? by prophetfire: 12:51pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
Limitlessss:Forget it. It will die down. Obviously the woman dislikes you and have been looking for an opportunity to drive you far away from the husband. So she used the opportunity to make you look bad before him. When the dust settles, meet your brother and tell him in a calm manner what happened. However I will conclude that your brother is a pussy ass. Woman told him something and he is threatening fire and brimstone without getting the real facts. 5 Likes |
Re: Elder Bros Wife Mouthed Me Out! What do I do now? by Evercurious(f): 12:52pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
lagosrd: The elder brother no know say him get younger brother for school in the same townwith him? Must his brother starve to death before him remember say him brother dey school? Wetin happen to just sending small.small money . No be say the money wey the boy come find for him house sef naa serious money.. That's to tell that even N1k or N2k wld go a long way.. His brother is just being stupid and insensitive. infact husband and wife naa same Abeg this is just too sad 10 Likes |
Re: Elder Bros Wife Mouthed Me Out! What do I do now? by TenQ: 12:56pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
Limitlessss:She didnt report you o! Please dont get her wrong. Let me break it down for you. 1. The husband came back from his journey 2. The wife decided to tell him that the food money was not adequate 3. If not because you gave her a bottle of oil, the money wouldnt have been enough. 4. She didn't know it would boomerang 5. In the process of redressing the situation, she then spoke the whole truth. 6. The truth inflamed your brother the more She was as guilty of the offence as you Bro! The only difference is that she is high above you in hierarchy (she's a wife) Pickup yourself and move on 5 Likes |
Re: Elder Bros Wife Mouthed Me Out! What do I do now? by emmanuelbrown26: 12:56pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
aktolly54:Last paragraph, they do, just few occasion that doesn't. It's just that what we have this day are just boys in men skin |
Re: Elder Bros Wife Mouthed Me Out! What do I do now? by slimjohn2k5: 12:58pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
Mistake number 1: Never tell a wife not to tell her husband. 10 Likes |
Re: Elder Bros Wife Mouthed Me Out! What do I do now? by countryman13: 12:58pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
Limitlessss:Ur elder brother might have decided to accused u of selling d oil to his wife. I dont think u re having any rift wt d woman ooooo. Just pray to God for successful completion of ur studies. Put ur mind n effort on ur studies bros coz if u dey look back when u fall, u wont get to ur destination oooo. Those things re just distractions . All da best |
Re: Elder Bros Wife Mouthed Me Out! What do I do now? by Truvelisback(m): 12:59pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
Limitlessss:She is wicked and very greedy. She wants u to distance urself from ur brother and his house. |
Re: Elder Bros Wife Mouthed Me Out! What do I do now? by theamazonguru(m): 12:59pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
I do not see what you have done wrong here. Some people can be petty sha. You need to be careful chief. Your brother is not understanding. This is not an attribute of a good brother. If I may ask, what is his contribution to your academics? If nothing at least in that month in question, then permit me to say you got no brother. Una just share the same vehicle wey carry una come this world. And I would reckon you start seeing him in that light. Don't hold grudges against your brother and his wife but know from today that they are not worth being your relative. You simply can't count on them in tough times. This will help you to easily move on and face your live Headon. Let me share with you a friend's experience. When we were in school (Ogun), this guy would go home (Ibadan) only to be given N2,000. He would have borrowed N200 for transport to go home, then use another N200 for transport to come back. Leaving him with N1600 for the whole month. Life was simply unbearable and tough for him. We the friends assisted in the little way we could. But on his own, he had to summon the courage to take up a job at the bakery on campus. It wasn't easy but through that he survived and things got a bit better. Chief, take your destiny in your hand. No family anywhere. Peace 4 Likes |
Re: Elder Bros Wife Mouthed Me Out! What do I do now? by rajiedreez: 12:59pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
Na ur brother f.up no be his wife 2 Likes |
Re: Elder Bros Wife Mouthed Me Out! What do I do now? by Nobody: 1:00pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
Any man who doesn't understand how wicked women naturally are, is in trouble. 5 Likes |
Re: Elder Bros Wife Mouthed Me Out! What do I do now? by Evercurious(f): 1:00pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
Tribalism123: Thank you.. this is just me .This was exactly what I did and it paid off real good |
Re: Elder Bros Wife Mouthed Me Out! What do I do now? by MufasaLion: 1:01pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
slimjohn2k5: Exactly!!! He already made himself vulnerable. 3 Likes |
Re: Elder Bros Wife Mouthed Me Out! What do I do now? by Innocentbaloo: 1:01pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
Never allow any despiration lead you to the doorstep of your enemy, you know the woman is not your fan and you must have observe the insensitivity of your brother, just be careful next time. Never keep a secret with a wife thinking she will not reveal to her husband and vice versa, if she didn't do it consciously she will do it unconsciously. Find time to explain your own side of the story to your brother later. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Elder Bros Wife Mouthed Me Out! What do I do now? by lomprico(m): 1:01pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
Limitlessss: She is not a good person. Even if she wanted to tell her husband, she should havevsaid u gave her d oil for free. |
Re: Elder Bros Wife Mouthed Me Out! What do I do now? by MufasaLion: 1:02pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
[s] TenQ:[/s] TRASH 8 Likes |
Re: Elder Bros Wife Mouthed Me Out! What do I do now? by Klass99(f): 1:06pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
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Re: Elder Bros Wife Mouthed Me Out! What do I do now? by TenQ: 1:07pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
MufasaLion:I can understand that maturity is far from some people. Since you aren't Limitless:, keep your opinion to yourself. |
Re: Elder Bros Wife Mouthed Me Out! What do I do now? by Mariangeles(f): 1:09pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
slimjohn2k5: True. 1 Like |
Re: Elder Bros Wife Mouthed Me Out! What do I do now? by cococandy(f): 1:09pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
She has leaky mouth syndrome. Can’t shut up to save her own life 4 Likes |
Re: Elder Bros Wife Mouthed Me Out! What do I do now? by Mariangeles(f): 1:12pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
Tribalism123: That is not good na. They’re brothers. |
Re: Elder Bros Wife Mouthed Me Out! What do I do now? by akojispy: 1:14pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
goodlistener:Guy did have been don u nw know who she really is because of next time |
Re: Elder Bros Wife Mouthed Me Out! What do I do now? by freemi(m): 1:17pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
goodlistener:seriously this is what I would do. I hate nonsense |
Re: Elder Bros Wife Mouthed Me Out! What do I do now? by Ofadaman(m): 1:17pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
You'd have told her , you can get it cheaper from a friend whose mother sells oil inn school, you just go and bring the oil , lobatan. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Elder Bros Wife Mouthed Me Out! What do I do now? by Tallesty1(m): 1:17pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
UTILITYMAY:He owe the brother no apology, dude is an idiot. He should very angry at his wife for exploiting his siblings desperation. Like seriously? Dude, if a friend plays this on me, I will end the friendship because he's no friend at all. Have you tried to imagine what would have happened if the wife's sibling was the one in need and the husband plays this dirty game? The man doesn't have any sense and the woman is evil, I will advise the OP to avoid like them Omicron. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Elder Bros Wife Mouthed Me Out! What do I do now? by Tallesty1(m): 1:19pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
Mariangeles:They're not 1 Like |
Re: Elder Bros Wife Mouthed Me Out! What do I do now? by freemi(m): 1:19pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
Limitlessss:terrible things. So bro. Learn and move on 2 Likes |
Re: Elder Bros Wife Mouthed Me Out! What do I do now? by juman(m): 1:21pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
The wife expected to tell her husband everything. Don't be angry with her. She exhibit a good wife habit. |
Re: Elder Bros Wife Mouthed Me Out! What do I do now? by UTILITYMAY(m): 1:21pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
Tallesty1: You maybe right. Sometimes we apologize to the ones at fault just to make peace reign and keep future opportunities for ourselves intact. Burning family bridges because of a woman who came from a total different background is not wise. That's the role the apology is coming to play. It is not about who is right or wrong, it is about peace of the family. |
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