Limitlessss:
I need frank and candid advice guys.

I'll be as brief as possible.

I am a student in my 400l nw, things aren't so Rosey nor easy especially financially for me now.

Something happened this past weekend, i returned back from lectures with no dime on me, I left very early because I needed to read more, (exam things) my Elder bros travelled which I had no idea of, I live close by, (actually choose this institution because of his presence in the state) Truth is I am the type that usually keep hard times to myself, I only open up when I am choked, i hardly check on him because of negative energies i receive from his wife so I prefer communicating with him via phone, i keep my distance as possible as appropriate.

So I went to his house to check on him, i was totally broke and hungry, learnt from his wife that he traveled, asked her if she had anything, she said no money o, what she had, she wants to use it to go to the market to buy some stuff, I saw her writing a list and with some money, she was about going to market, I saw small Eva rubber red oil #900.

It hit me, I had just a little above the quantity of red oil she needed, and I hardly cook.

So I told her that instead of buying #900 in d market that I will bring the exact quantity she needs, but I just need 5h, that I am broke, I reasoned with her and pleaded that she do not see this wrongly that I am selling it to her, that its just an exchange, she said no p, I also pleaded with her not to tell my bros her husband which she also agreed.

We made the exchange, I got the #500 and gave her d oil she would have bought #900.

I just received a call from my elder bros yesterday, and he was very pissed? That y should I sell d oil to his wife?

I tried to explain but he won't listen, has even refused seeing me, honestly I am not happy right now, why will she disclose it to him? We had a pack?

lagosrd:
Ure just getting matured, tough times don't last, only tough people do.

Give yourself a break and just relax, your brother will call you someday. Don't call him at all again.

Or do the nigga stuff

Call him and ask him for money and tell him you're starving Ooooo. Abi make you go commit suicide?

Limitlessss:
I need frank and candid advice guys.


We made the exchange, I got the #500 and gave her d oil she would have bought #900.

I just received a call from my elder bros yesterday, and he was very pissed? That y should I sell d oil to his wife?

I tried to explain but he won't listen, has even refused seeing me, honestly I am not happy right now, why will she disclose it to him? We had a pack?

aktolly54:
it might take years for tension like this to die down because some man are just idiot ,if I were the brother I will surely understand ,its my sister. If something happened to me tomorrow, my wife might marry another man and move on but my sister will always be my sister.

PS: some parents don't raise kids with love among themselves,

Limitlessss:
I need frank and candid advice guys.

I'll be as brief as possible.

I am a student in my 400l nw, things aren't so Rosey nor easy especially financially for me now.

Something happened this past weekend, i returned back from lectures with no dime on me, I left very early because I needed to read more, (exam things) my Elder bros travelled which I had no idea of, I live close by, (actually choose this institution because of his presence in the state) Truth is I am the type that usually keep hard times to myself, I only open up when I am choked, i hardly check on him because of negative energies i receive from his wife so I prefer communicating with him via phone, i keep my distance as possible as appropriate.

So I went to his house to check on him, i was totally broke and hungry, learnt from his wife that he traveled, asked her if she had anything, she said no money o, what she had, she wants to use it to go to the market to buy some stuff, I saw her writing a list and with some money, she was about going to market, I saw small Eva rubber red oil #900.

It hit me, I had just a little above the quantity of red oil she needed, and I hardly cook.

So I told her that instead of buying #900 in d market that I will bring the exact quantity she needs, but I just need 5h, that I am broke, I reasoned with her and pleaded that she do not see this wrongly that I am selling it to her, that its just an exchange, she said no p, I also pleaded with her not to tell my bros her husband which she also agreed.

We made the exchange, I got the #500 and gave her d oil she would have bought #900.

I just received a call from my elder bros yesterday, and he was very pissed? That y should I sell d oil to his wife?

I tried to explain but he won't listen, has even refused seeing me, honestly I am not happy right now, why will she disclose it to him? We had a pack?

Limitlessss:
I need frank and candid advice guys.

I'll be as brief as possible.

I am a student in my 400l nw, things aren't so Rosey nor easy especially financially for me now.

Something happened this past weekend, i returned back from lectures with no dime on me, I left very early because I needed to read more, (exam things) my Elder bros travelled which I had no idea of, I live close by, (actually choose this institution because of his presence in the state) Truth is I am the type that usually keep hard times to myself, I only open up when I am choked, i hardly check on him because of negative energies i receive from his wife so I prefer communicating with him via phone, i keep my distance as possible as appropriate.

So I went to his house to check on him, i was totally broke and hungry, learnt from his wife that he traveled, asked her if she had anything, she said no money o, what she had, she wants to use it to go to the market to buy some stuff, I saw her writing a list and with some money, she was about going to market, I saw small Eva rubber red oil #900.

It hit me, I had just a little above the quantity of red oil she needed, and I hardly cook.

So I told her that instead of buying #900 in d market that I will bring the exact quantity she needs, but I just need 5h, that I am broke, I reasoned with her and pleaded that she do not see this wrongly that I am selling it to her, that its just an exchange, she said no p, I also pleaded with her not to tell my bros her husband which she also agreed.

We made the exchange, I got the #500 and gave her d oil she would have bought #900.

I just received a call from my elder bros yesterday, and he was very pissed? That y should I sell d oil to his wife?

I tried to explain but he won't listen, has even refused seeing me, honestly I am not happy right now, why will she disclose it to him? We had a pack?

Tribalism123:
Hmmm
Ur case na case ooo.
But what she told ur brother is to ur advantage. It means, mind us business. Unless it bros comes to u, no send them again. And if ur bros comes to u, stand on ur grand that u dont want anything from him, at least for the next 10yrs. If u see the wife, no greetings at all. Just Mind ur business. Understanding friends can bell u out with respect.

slimjohn2k5:
Mistake number 1: Never tell a wife not to tell her husband.

Limitlessss:
I need frank and candid advice guys.

I'll be as brief as possible.

I am a student in my 400l nw, things aren't so Rosey nor easy especially financially for me now.

Something happened this past weekend, i returned back from lectures with no dime on me, I left very early because I needed to read more, (exam things) my Elder bros travelled which I had no idea of, I live close by, (actually choose this institution because of his presence in the state) Truth is I am the type that usually keep hard times to myself, I only open up when I am choked, i hardly check on him because of negative energies i receive from his wife so I prefer communicating with him via phone, i keep my distance as possible as appropriate.

So I went to his house to check on him, i was totally broke and hungry, learnt from his wife that he traveled, asked her if she had anything, she said no money o, what she had, she wants to use it to go to the market to buy some stuff, I saw her writing a list and with some money, she was about going to market, I saw small Eva rubber red oil #900.

It hit me, I had just a little above the quantity of red oil she needed, and I hardly cook.

So I told her that instead of buying #900 in d market that I will bring the exact quantity she needs, but I just need 5h, that I am broke, I reasoned with her and pleaded that she do not see this wrongly that I am selling it to her, that its just an exchange, she said no p, I also pleaded with her not to tell my bros her husband which she also agreed.

We made the exchange, I got the #500 and gave her d oil she would have bought #900.

I just received a call from my elder bros yesterday, and he was very pissed? That y should I sell d oil to his wife?

I tried to explain but he won't listen, has even refused seeing me, honestly I am not happy right now, why will she disclose it to him? We had a pack?

TenQ:

She didnt report you o!
Please dont get her wrong.

Let me break it down for you.
1. The husband came back from his journey
2. The wife decided to tell him that the food money was not adequate
3. If not because you gave her a bottle of oil, the money wouldnt have been enough.
4. She didn't know it would boomerang
5. In the process of redressing the situation, she then spoke the whole truth.
6. The truth inflamed your brother the more

She was as guilty of the offence as you Bro!
The only difference is that she is high above you in hierarchy (she's a wife)
Pickup yourself and move on

MufasaLion:
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TRASH

slimjohn2k5:
Mistake number 1: Never tell a wife not to tell her husband.

Tribalism123:
Hmmm
Ur case na case ooo.
But what she told ur brother is to ur advantage. It means, mind us business. Unless it bros comes to u, no send them again. And if ur bros comes to u, stand on ur grand that u dont want anything from him, at least for the next 10yrs. If u see the wife, no greetings at all. Just Mind ur business. Understanding friends can bell u out with respect.

goodlistener:
Collect d red oil and give her back the 5 hundred, make she go buy am for market.

lalasticlala what do you have to say?

goodlistener:
Collect d red oil and give her back the 5 hundred, make she go buy am for market.

lalasticlala what do you have to say?

UTILITYMAY:
Just send a message to your brother, explaining what happened exactly to your him. In fact, tell him about the agreement you had with his wife not to tell you; let him understand you don't intend to keep secret from him, but for him not to feel bad. Finish with this: "However, I apologize for the way it all happened, I promise never to repeat such again. I am so sorry Brother, please forgive me."

I am sure he would reason with you and all be fine again. But after that, make sure you distance yourself as much as possible from that lady. Never have anything to do with her again. She can destroy your relationship with your brother, which may affect your family.

Mariangeles:



That is not good na. They’re brothers.

Limitlessss:
I feel betrayed

Tallesty1:
He owe the brother no apology, dude is an idiot.

He should very angry at his wife for exploiting his siblings desperation. Like seriously? Dude, if a friend plays this on me, I will end the friendship because he's no friend at all.

Have you tried to imagine what would have happened if the wife's sibling was the one in need and the husband plays this dirty game?

The man doesn't have any sense and the woman is evil, I will advise the OP to avoid like them Omicron.