Limitlessss:
I need frank and candid advice guys.

I'll be as brief as possible.

I am a student in my 400l nw, things aren't so Rosey nor easy especially financially for me now.

Something happened this past weekend, i returned back from lectures with no dime on me, I left very early because I needed to read more, (exam things) my Elder bros travelled which I had no idea of, I live close by, (actually choose this institution because of his presence in the state) Truth is I am the type that usually keep hard times to myself, I only open up when I am choked, i hardly check on him because of negative energies i receive from his wife so I prefer communicating with him via phone, i keep my distance as possible as appropriate.

So I went to his house to check on him, i was totally broke and hungry, learnt from his wife that he traveled, asked her if she had anything, she said no money o, what she had, she wants to use it to go to the market to buy some stuff, I saw her writing a list and with some money, she was about going to market, I saw small Eva rubber red oil #900.

It hit me, I had just a little above the quantity of red oil she needed, and I hardly cook.

So I told her that instead of buying #900 in d market that I will bring the exact quantity she needs, but I just need 5h, that I am broke, I reasoned with her and pleaded that she do not see this wrongly that I am selling it to her, that its just an exchange, she said no p, I also pleaded with her not to tell my bros her husband which she also agreed.

We made the exchange, I got the #500 and gave her d oil she would have bought #900.

I just received a call from my elder bros yesterday, and he was very pissed? That y should I sell d oil to his wife?

I tried to explain but he won't listen, has even refused seeing me, honestly I am not happy right now, why will she disclose it to him? We had a pack?

RealLordZeus:

The future is smarter than you

Emily22:



I was once in that position, reading for exam with empty stomach, trekking from South gate to futa junction.

Drop ur NUM make I reason u small change

God no go shame us

Tallesty1:
He owe the brother no apology, dude is an idiot.

He should very angry at his wife for exploiting his siblings desperation. Like seriously? Dude, if a friend plays this on me, I will end the friendship because he's no friend at all.

Have you tried to imagine what would have happened if the wife's sibling was the one in need and the husband plays this dirty game?

The man doesn't have any sense and the woman is evil, I will advise the OP to avoid like them Omicron.

AmazingELixir:


Op I think it's your brother that betrayed you not the wife.

He ought to have called you to hear your end of the story instead of drawing conclusions based on just what the wife told him.

Origin:
All couples do tatafo (male and female)...


But don't see it as betrayal... Maybe the oil no good and she gats to explain y it was not her fault


Let time heal the wounds. Send happy Xmas texts, happy weekend text, send apology text then go to their house and greet them for new year...

All bad things would have passed away

RealLordZeus:

The future is smarter than you

Limitlessss:
I need frank and candid advice guys.

I'll be as brief as possible.

I am a student in my 400l nw, things aren't so Rosey nor easy especially financially for me now.

Something happened this past weekend, i returned back from lectures with no dime on me, I left very early because I needed to read more, (exam things) my Elder bros travelled which I had no idea of, I live close by, (actually choose this institution because of his presence in the state) Truth is I am the type that usually keep hard times to myself, I only open up when I am choked, i hardly check on him because of negative energies i receive from his wife so I prefer communicating with him via phone, i keep my distance as possible as appropriate.

So I went to his house to check on him, i was totally broke and hungry, learnt from his wife that he traveled, asked her if she had anything, she said no money o, what she had, she wants to use it to go to the market to buy some stuff, I saw her writing a list and with some money, she was about going to market, I saw small Eva rubber red oil #900.

It hit me, I had just a little above the quantity of red oil she needed, and I hardly cook.

So I told her that instead of buying #900 in d market that I will bring the exact quantity she needs, but I just need 5h, that I am broke, I reasoned with her and pleaded that she do not see this wrongly that I am selling it to her, that its just an exchange, she said no p, I also pleaded with her not to tell my bros her husband which she also agreed.

We made the exchange, I got the #500 and gave her d oil she would have bought #900.

I just received a call from my elder bros yesterday, and he was very pissed? That y should I sell d oil to his wife?

I tried to explain but he won't listen, has even refused seeing me, honestly I am not happy right now, why will she disclose it to him? We had a pack?

MufasaLion:


She did a very terrible thing. I really pity the OP. I hate when people breach trust.

Limitlessss:


God bless u sir, 303-913-1233 First Bank, I am in gratitude

Kungah:
It has already happened , I reasoned with your situation , you don't need to punish yourself through thinking , send your brother a text and explain to him and also apologize , I believed he will understand , only if he have a mindset , you have learned a lesson from this next time you will know how to associate with her.

Erickymania:
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I really feel for you guy. That is how a large number of ladies of nowadays do. Always doing everything possible to cause disaffection between thier husband and his family.
Plz drop your account number, you really need help to get you going.

Emily22:


Done

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggar
Isoright
You can't trust that gender

flexlatifa:
How dear you loose gaurd to that gender


Gender of betrayals

Future is feeeemale.

Richy4:
I don't know why I believed you 100%...It could be because the truth was glaring enough...

Since your brother doesn't want to listen to you, simply send a text message to him stating everything that u have said here... There's no way he can delete it without reading...

End it by saying if he refused to believe u, that it was fine.. That u thought by now, he would have known the kind of person you are... Then stay away from them...

That woman doesn't like u...Do not even try to impress her because it won't work. No matter how hard u try... Besides, assuming u gave her that oil for free, she would have remembered another thing she's gonna do with the money without giving you a Kobo

If this whole thing blows over, when next you were visiting and your brother isn't around, do not enter into that house.. no matter how broke u are... It's not a good idea..

Limitlessss:


God bless u

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Erickymania:
.
I really feel for you guy. That is how a large number of ladies of nowadays do. Always doing everything possible to cause disaffection between thier husband and his family.
Plz drop your account number, you really need help to get you going.

Limitlessss:


God bless u sir, 303-913-1233 First Bank, I am in gratitude

Electroweb:
The truth of the matter is that she is loyal to her husband (your brother) and not to you. She has just used you to raise her loyalty profile with her husband. lol! Marriage and politics. It is when you are in it that you will see the politics in it.
Don’t take it so bad. Pray that your wife is also loyal like that.

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Emily22:



I was once in that position, reading for exam with empty stomach, trekking from South gate to futa junction.

Drop ur NUM make I reason u small change

God no go shame us

Limitlessss:

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God bless u and your colleagues sir.