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Re: All My Efforts To Settle Down This Year Is Failing by Validated: 2:05pm On Dec 16, 2021
EkehPraise:
Like every well brought up young man, I'm in my early 30's and really doing fine at least I'm not begging for anything from anyone.

I set out this year to wife my girlfriend whom I had dated for 2 years but her character made me think twice so we broke up and I moved on. I have tried to make friends with matured ladies in the church I worship but it's been from one bad experience to another.

Ever since I started looking for a woman to call my wife I have been meeting different characteristics of women.
Within the space of 1 year I've met one who is a maniac, one I met at a hangout didn't hesitate to show her lazy attitude the day she came to my place to see I'm a bit comfortable, another one I met recently in church turned out to be a thief.

2021 is almost over and I'm yet to find a wife. Where do you advice I go in search for a good woman?

Wife material scarce oh!
Just go to a river bank, collect clay, mold her and ask God to breath into her. You are so selective and I guess even if a dozen angels come your way, you would find some fault. My question is, are you perfect? You seek perfection ... tooo! Guess you will run into a pretending demon if you continue in this manner of finding faults.
You have been in church and cannot find, been in hangout, you cannot find, then go to brothel

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Re: All My Efforts To Settle Down This Year Is Failing by seyz91(m): 2:05pm On Dec 16, 2021
cheesy
Nicepoker:
God is working so hard to delay your premium tears.

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Re: All My Efforts To Settle Down This Year Is Failing by Newyorkitis(m): 2:05pm On Dec 16, 2021
EkehPraise:
Like every well brought up young man, I'm in my early 30's and really doing fine at least I'm not begging for anything from anyone.

I set out this year to wife my girlfriend whom I had dated for 2 years but her character made me think twice so we broke up and I moved on. I have tried to make friends with matured ladies in the church I worship but it's been from one bad experience to another.

Ever since I started looking for a woman to call my wife I have been meeting different characteristics of women.
Within the space of 1 year I've met one who is a maniac, one I met at a hangout didn't hesitate to show her lazy attitude the day she came to my place to see I'm a bit comfortable, another one I met recently in church turned out to be a thief.

2021 is almost over and I'm yet to find a wife. Where do you advice I go in search for a good woman?

Wife material scarce oh!


Hahahahaha
I want to laugh concerning the LAZY lady that came to your house.... That was how my friend will clean and scrub his house morning till night. I warned him that he will attract a lazy lady and he thought i was joking, until he almost fell into that trap.

All of us want to live with less stress, so seeing a place that is always clean to a lady, she automatically feels that aha! There will be less cleaning to do here.
The error is that, the man will not have the chance to clean once he goes out to work and comes back at night.


Guys, please be watchful.

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Re: All My Efforts To Settle Down This Year Is Failing by OdogwuToks(m): 2:05pm On Dec 16, 2021
The church is not a guarantee for well behaved ladies, don't be deceived.

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Re: All My Efforts To Settle Down This Year Is Failing by drlateef: 2:05pm On Dec 16, 2021
EkehPraise:
Like every well brought up young man, I'm in my early 30's and really doing fine at least I'm not begging for anything from anyone.

I set out this year to wife my girlfriend whom I had dated for 2 years but her character made me think twice so we broke up and I moved on. I have tried to make friends with matured ladies in the church I worship but it's been from one bad experience to another.

Ever since I started looking for a woman to call my wife I have been meeting different characteristics of women.
Within the ; ;DDspace grin of 1 year I've met one who is a maniac, one I met at a hangout didn't hesitate to show her lazy attitude the day she came to my place to see I'm a bit comfortable, another one I met recently in church turned out to be a thief.

2021 is almost over and I'm yet to find a wife. Where do you advice I go in search for a good woman?

Wife material scarce oh!


Go to the house of Bobrisky grin grin grin. On a serious note, have you considered praying for what you want first. And ask your pastor whom he thinks is an eligible material.
Re: All My Efforts To Settle Down This Year Is Failing by phenase(m): 2:06pm On Dec 16, 2021
grin grin With your altitude, you can't find a good wife. Be calming down and try to find one that you can manage because women are all the same ( the same character)

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Re: All My Efforts To Settle Down This Year Is Failing by Nobody: 2:06pm On Dec 16, 2021
EkehPraise:
Like every well brought up young man, I'm in my early 30's and really doing fine at least I'm not begging for anything from anyone.

I set out this year to wife my girlfriend whom I had dated for 2 years but her character made me think twice so we broke up and I moved on. I have tried to make friends with matured ladies in the church I worship but it's been from one bad experience to another.

Ever since I started looking for a woman to call my wife I have been meeting different characteristics of women.
Within the space of 1 year I've met one who is a maniac, one I met at a hangout didn't hesitate to show her lazy attitude the day she came to my place to see I'm a bit comfortable, another one I met recently in church turned out to be a thief.

2021 is almost over and I'm yet to find a wife. Where do you advice I go in search for a good woman?

Wife material scarce oh!
..please...go get a girl pregnant...a girl you think is not that bad... because your chances of finding what you want is like zero behind a decimal point...

With baby Mama you will have rest of mind, and still be in charge of your life and activities...not unnecessary flights and negative energy in the House...month end you send money to your baby...or if she is living with you, she will be continuously loyal because you have not paid her Bride Price...


Get married and see how your life will change from good to bad...married men in the house won't tell you this... because they want you to enter

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Re: All My Efforts To Settle Down This Year Is Failing by Eli360(m): 2:07pm On Dec 16, 2021
Don't rush oooooh because marriage isn't something to rush in and rush out, its a life time decision, when you see you missing rib, you will definitely know. Keep searching �
EkehPraise:
Like every well brought up young man, I'm in my early 30's and really doing fine at least I'm not begging for anything from anyone.

I set out this year to wife my girlfriend whom I had dated for 2 years but her character made me think twice so we broke up and I moved on. I have tried to make friends with matured ladies in the church I worship but it's been from one bad experience to another.

Ever since I started looking for a woman to call my wife I have been meeting different characteristics of women.
Within the space of 1 year I've met one who is a maniac, one I met at a hangout didn't hesitate to show her lazy attitude the day she came to my place to see I'm a bit comfortable, another one I met recently in church turned out to be a thief.

2021 is almost over and I'm yet to find a wife. Where do you advice I go in search for a good woman?

Wife material scarce oh!

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Re: All My Efforts To Settle Down This Year Is Failing by Nobody: 2:07pm On Dec 16, 2021
U don 35? Calm down your woman dey for you . I would advise that you be yourself, then look for woman that will match you. The woman for you will never stress you. Trust me on this.

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Re: All My Efforts To Settle Down This Year Is Failing by jrusky(m): 2:07pm On Dec 16, 2021
Don't give up you surely get one but don't be too rigid or looking for 100% human out there pls such human does not exist ok but don't give up you will get there.

Pls in your quest avoid with passion any trait of feminist, tonto, Anita, kemi, tega etc they are in hundred of thousands out there they are wizards created to give any man high BP stay off bro goodluck.

My honest advice.

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Re: All My Efforts To Settle Down This Year Is Failing by OvertheTop(m): 2:07pm On Dec 16, 2021
FunnyDude:
Op if you looking to settle down, you don't date one lady alone. You game alot of them at the same time.

You should have keep dating alot of women at the same time so that you will have access to pick from, and not starting all over each time dissappoint you.

As when one fvk up, u upgrade the next suitable lady asap. That's how to do it


LOUD AM!. Its a Game of Numbers...i believe.

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Re: All My Efforts To Settle Down This Year Is Failing by Nosa111(m): 2:08pm On Dec 16, 2021
When will you start training your kids, when you are 50? And ready for retirement ? LOL
blockgeek69:
Man no get deadline go marry, if you doubt me, ask Ned Nwoko.

At OP, the woman meant for you (if there is anything like that) will come your way when you aren't expecting or searching. So chill and live your life to the fullest, enjoying every moment of it.

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Re: All My Efforts To Settle Down This Year Is Failing by RightToReject(m): 2:08pm On Dec 16, 2021
A wife material isn't an atom that can neither be created nor destroyed. So, as a man, you can always create wife material from almost all kinds of women. Just be truthful to yourself and focus on either one or two attributes that always tickle your fancy on the opposite sex and magnify them on a woman you see that possesses them and who's in sync with you - this requires a good level of discernment to perfect - and boom understanding will automatically be created. Of course, understanding breeds love, where sane people are involved.

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Re: All My Efforts To Settle Down This Year Is Failing by Eli360(m): 2:09pm On Dec 16, 2021
EkehPraise:
Like every well brought up young man, I'm in my early 30's and really doing fine at least I'm not begging for anything from anyone.

I set out this year to wife my girlfriend whom I had dated for 2 years but her character made me think twice so we broke up and I moved on. I have tried to make friends with matured ladies in the church I worship but it's been from one bad experience to another.

Ever since I started looking for a woman to call my wife I have been meeting different characteristics of women.
Within the space of 1 year I've met one who is a maniac, one I met at a hangout didn't hesitate to show her lazy attitude the day she came to my place to see I'm a bit comfortable, another one I met recently in church turned out to be a thief.

2021 is almost over and I'm yet to find a wife. Where do you advice I go in search for a good woman?

Wife material scarce oh!
Don't rush oooooh because marriage isn't something to be rush in and rush out, its a life time decision, when you see your missing rib, you will definitely know. Keep searching �

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Re: All My Efforts To Settle Down This Year Is Failing by PrinceMajestic: 2:10pm On Dec 16, 2021
oke2018:
Just pray about it
are you urhobo girl?
Re: All My Efforts To Settle Down This Year Is Failing by Nobody: 2:10pm On Dec 16, 2021
As you dey single with comfortability,if you marry your bills go double.If you go marry a lady wey be materialistic,and you no fit pay her bills she go give you HBP.

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Re: All My Efforts To Settle Down This Year Is Failing by WHITELIGHTER: 2:11pm On Dec 16, 2021
Had similar experience last year when I was really looking forward to settling down…I met all manner of ladies en..I finally gave up and took my mind off the idea until I meet a wonder this year, now we are looking at doing the needful next year.

Brother take your mind off the marriage idea and the best will come your way

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Re: All My Efforts To Settle Down This Year Is Failing by sisisioge: 2:12pm On Dec 16, 2021
Actually, finding the good spouse is scarce for both men and women. For men, it's a bit easier for them to find that person cos they mostly do the traditional chasing and are conditioned to marry the MVPs around with the hope of augmenting with side chicks and other distractions later on. It is not easy fa....guys are only just waking up to the issue women had reckoned with for ages.....no wonder, the rate of divorce and domestic violence around is on a jet fly!

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Re: All My Efforts To Settle Down This Year Is Failing by marsup: 2:12pm On Dec 16, 2021
Are you a husband material?
Anyway, stop searching, the right person will come along, when you aren't looking.

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Re: All My Efforts To Settle Down This Year Is Failing by chudez0147(m): 2:14pm On Dec 16, 2021
FunnyDude:
Op if you looking to settle down, you don't date one lady alone. You game alot of them at the same time.

You should have keep dating alot of women at the same time so that you will have access to pick from, and not starting all over each time dissappoint you.

As when one fvk up, u upgrade the next suitable lady asap. That's how to do it
As if no be money him go spend to keep all them women. Op no mind this one abeg
Re: All My Efforts To Settle Down This Year Is Failing by everyoung12: 2:14pm On Dec 16, 2021
Lol
Re: All My Efforts To Settle Down This Year Is Failing by ahaika23: 2:14pm On Dec 16, 2021
You in time to your childhood friends. Works all the time.
Re: All My Efforts To Settle Down This Year Is Failing by Nobody: 2:15pm On Dec 16, 2021
@Ekehpraise

Seek God's guidance in finding a life partner, fast and pray for him to lead you to her.
don't go in the flesh if not you will make a mistake.

Moreso dont expect a God fearing decent wife if you are not God fearing and decent. God will never give you a daughter he has worked on when you yourself have not been worked on by him. That will be totally unfair cause God is interested in building kingdom marriages.

Have a nice day.

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Re: All My Efforts To Settle Down This Year Is Failing by Sosaristic4life(m): 2:15pm On Dec 16, 2021
jawalis:

C’mon baby. You don’t have to be that way, how can you even think I’ll chose anyone over you, pls don’t listen to anyone my love. I want you to know how blessed I feel to have you. and, in any other lifetime, I would still choose to fall in love with you. For you I make this promise, my sweetheart, that I will never leave you and I will always be your support, protector, your other half. I've been waiting for you for so long, and now that you are here, I will never ever let you go denique, We both know that life is not always fair. We know that there will come a time when we have to face trials right, but if you can hold my hands with you; we’ll overcome. You are my happiness, a very special blessing God has given to me. I love you so much and will always love until forever. That's a promise that I’ll surely going to keep forever in my heart.

u b specialist 4 writing love letters lol

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Re: All My Efforts To Settle Down This Year Is Failing by Nobody: 2:15pm On Dec 16, 2021
EkehPraise:
Like every well brought up young man, I'm in my early 30's and really doing fine at least I'm not begging for anything from anyone.

I set out this year to wife my girlfriend whom I had dated for 2 years but her character made me think twice so we broke up and I moved on. I have tried to make friends with matured ladies in the church I worship but it's been from one bad experience to another.

Ever since I started looking for a woman to call my wife I have been meeting different characteristics of women.
Within the space of 1 year I've met one who is a maniac, one I met at a hangout didn't hesitate to show her lazy attitude the day she came to my place to see I'm a bit comfortable, another one I met recently in church turned out to be a thief.

2021 is almost over and I'm yet to find a wife. Where do you advice I go in search for a good woman?

Wife material scarce oh!

Try date girls from other African continent . Nigerian girls are useless...all of them...

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Re: All My Efforts To Settle Down This Year Is Failing by ednut1(m): 2:17pm On Dec 16, 2021
you never see something.
Re: All My Efforts To Settle Down This Year Is Failing by 4gunners(m): 2:19pm On Dec 16, 2021
Nicepoker:
God is working so hard to delay your premium tears.
grin grin grin

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Re: All My Efforts To Settle Down This Year Is Failing by Wuminity(f): 2:19pm On Dec 16, 2021
EkehPraise:
Like every well brought up young man, I'm in my early 30's and really doing fine at least I'm not begging for anything from anyone.

I set out this year to wife my girlfriend whom I had dated for 2 years but her character made me think twice so we broke up and I moved on. I have tried to make friends with matured ladies in the church I worship but it's been from one bad experience to another.

Ever since I started looking for a woman to call my wife I have been meeting different characteristics of women.
Within the space of 1 year I've met one who is a maniac, one I met at a hangout didn't hesitate to show her lazy attitude the day she came to my place to see I'm a bit comfortable, another one I met recently in church turned out to be a thief.

2021 is almost over and I'm yet to find a wife. Where do you advice I go in search for a good woman?

Wife material scarce oh!

Keep searching......you will definitely find yours someday.

Differentiate:


Try date girls from other African continent . Nigerian girls are useless...all of them...

Oga, define useless
Re: All My Efforts To Settle Down This Year Is Failing by colestephan86: 2:19pm On Dec 16, 2021
EkehPraise:
Like every well brought up young man, I'm in my early 30's and really doing fine at least I'm not begging for anything from anyone.

I set out this year to wife my girlfriend whom I had dated for 2 years but her character made me think twice so we broke up and I moved on. I have tried to make friends with matured ladies in the church I worship but it's been from one bad experience to another.

Ever since I started looking for a woman to call my wife I have been meeting different characteristics of women.
Within the space of 1 year I've met one who is a maniac, one I met at a hangout didn't hesitate to show her lazy attitude the day she came to my place to see I'm a bit comfortable, another one I met recently in church turned out to be a thief.

2021 is almost over and I'm yet to find a wife. Where do you advice I go in search for a good woman?

Wife material scarce oh!
You dated her for 2 years , and broke up with her when it's almost marriage time cos of her character. Hmm.
You shagged her to your satisfaction and dumped her.
You deserve to be punished

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Re: All My Efforts To Settle Down This Year Is Failing by nkemdi89(f): 2:21pm On Dec 16, 2021
Same thing I am passing through as a woman , I was turning down proposals because I wasn't financially ready to settle down and I was aiming for a particular level at work , now I am ready but the choice of men I am seeing it's not what I was expecting.

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Re: All My Efforts To Settle Down This Year Is Failing by snoopz: 2:22pm On Dec 16, 2021
Nothing scarce na you dey look for Mary mother of Jesus
Re: All My Efforts To Settle Down This Year Is Failing by Mom007(f): 2:22pm On Dec 16, 2021
EkehPraise:
Like every well brought up young man, I'm in my early 30's and really doing fine at least I'm not begging for anything from anyone.

I set out this year to wife my girlfriend whom I had dated for 2 years but her character made me think twice so we broke up and I moved on. I have tried to make friends with matured ladies in the church I worship but it's been from one bad experience to another.

Ever since I started looking for a woman to call my wife I have been meeting different characteristics of women.
Within the space of 1 year I've met one who is a maniac, one I met at a hangout didn't hesitate to show her lazy attitude the day she came to my place to see I'm a bit comfortable, another one I met recently in church turned out to be a thief.

2021 is almost over and I'm yet to find a wife. Where do you advice I go in search for a good woman?

Wife material scarce oh!
if you yourself are a good husband material and you need a good wife material, hit me up for recommendations.

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