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Re: All My Efforts To Settle Down This Year Is Failing by badbros(m): 4:18pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
I believe everything is up to you, you can't find all you are looking for in a lady. Find one you are comfortable with even if she has some crazy character or lifestyle. Talk to her, teach her, play with her... marriage no easy my guy |
Re: All My Efforts To Settle Down This Year Is Failing by Grace2Grace(m): 4:19pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
#OP, eve was Adam's bone of bone and flesh of flesh, but she contributed greatly to his down fall. He even blamed God for giving her to him. It's not just finding a wife, but staying married. And that depends on you to a large extent. Work on yourself and you will attract who you are 2 Likes |
Re: All My Efforts To Settle Down This Year Is Failing by samwillyco1(m): 4:22pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
That's why I no wan leave my girl ooo, i go try pay her bride price next year, before guy wey get money go collect am from my hand 2 Likes |
Re: All My Efforts To Settle Down This Year Is Failing by TRADELYN: 4:22pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
nkemdi89:What could be your expectations? |
Re: All My Efforts To Settle Down This Year Is Failing by FunnyDude(m): 4:24pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
fluffybaby:Exactly, not necessarily involve s*x, but just to protect one's self from fatal heartbreak. Alot of people out there waiting to take advantage in the name of dating 2 Likes |
Re: All My Efforts To Settle Down This Year Is Failing by omoharry(f): 4:25pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
EkehPraise:Art houses , Public library, at your work place and parties ..Tell your guys with babe to hook you up ..Their girlfriends might have nice lady friends or sisters that might be wife material. Secondly,have you ask yourself if you Did not raise the bar too high for your expected woman ,? |
Re: All My Efforts To Settle Down This Year Is Failing by FunnyDude(m): 4:25pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
NOETHNICITY: I did too and it worked |
Re: All My Efforts To Settle Down This Year Is Failing by darediamond(m): 4:26pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
Norabay:Ain't you ladies out there in search of already "created" man? So why the shifting now? The truth is the culture we practice here in Nigeria makes ladies what majority of you have wrongly become today. A Responsible Wife Material Lady MUST ACCEPT THAT SHE MUST BE AS WELL FINANCIALLY RESPONSIBLE DURING COURTSHIP TOWARDS HER HUSBAND MATERIAL FIANCEE UPTILL MATRIMONY. There must be Balance or else, the lady would be seen as "olosho". Or a lady who uses what she have to get what she wants. And she will have less say in her matrimonial home. A lady who is not trained to know those facts can never mutates into A Wife Material at all. 1 Like |
Re: All My Efforts To Settle Down This Year Is Failing by Czarina21(f): 4:27pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
Most hilarious post I've seen today. Sire, sort yourself and you'll definitely find a wife. 1 Like |
Re: All My Efforts To Settle Down This Year Is Failing by nkemdi89(f): 4:30pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
TRADELYN:Not an high expectation , just something not out of normal. |
Re: All My Efforts To Settle Down This Year Is Failing by omoharry(f): 4:30pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
Skyfornia:Good women are not scarce.Tge only thing is that you men rather go for the flashy & bling bling ladies with Brazilian hair rather that the Ned looking babes that dress modestly and less flashy. The problem is that you don't see them at parties or clubs . 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: All My Efforts To Settle Down This Year Is Failing by darediamond(m): 4:32pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
Parisian:He was likely in the relationship that long waiting for the Girl to change. But He as forgotten that it is not His duty to give the lady a finishing touch so to speak. Who stay in front of an empty A. T. M? SOME GUYS SHAY!!! 2yrs? |
Re: All My Efforts To Settle Down This Year Is Failing by AYNL: 4:34pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
oh sequel to the last thread you created before this the babe truly stole those things damn |
Re: All My Efforts To Settle Down This Year Is Failing by Boss13: 4:35pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
nkemdi89: You don't think so? Where is your husband? I will advise you read to comprehend rather than read to respond. You played yourself means you are not getting your desired outcomes because of certain decisions made. You decided to turned marriage proposal for a high paying job. That was a choice based on your decision and now you are finding it difficult to land a husband. |
Re: All My Efforts To Settle Down This Year Is Failing by zilon12(m): 4:35pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
You don't have sense |
Re: All My Efforts To Settle Down This Year Is Failing by RuddyFusion(m): 4:35pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
Continue your search but pray and ask God to give you your own wife.... |
Re: All My Efforts To Settle Down This Year Is Failing by Virusvetty: 4:38pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
samwillyco1:��� U fit break up with am small Use dat test if she loves u |
Re: All My Efforts To Settle Down This Year Is Failing by sidonlook: 4:38pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
Look out for the lady that loves you. If she loves you , you will be able to Mould her to your taste. I think you need to be accommodating too because nobody has all you are looking for in a lady. Take the good side and manage the others while you try to work on the negative characteristics. But if you can't bear it don't go into it. |
Re: All My Efforts To Settle Down This Year Is Failing by nkemdi89(f): 4:39pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
Boss13: You are not getting it, not that they are not coming , I am ready to settle down, unfortunately I am having issues with choice . 1 Like |
Re: All My Efforts To Settle Down This Year Is Failing by Nobody: 4:40pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
debbydams:Stamped! |
Re: All My Efforts To Settle Down This Year Is Failing by darediamond(m): 4:42pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
colestephan86:Any lady who in a relationship ony have SEX TO OFFER IN EXCHANGE FOR WHAT SHE GETS FROM THE GUY IS USELESS. SHE DOES NOT DESERVE TO BE A MOTHER. SEX IS FOR LOVE NOT MONEY MAKING. A PROSTITUTE IS WHICH KIND OF WOMAN OR MAN? |
Re: All My Efforts To Settle Down This Year Is Failing by cococandy(f): 4:47pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
You’re the problem 1 Like |
Re: All My Efforts To Settle Down This Year Is Failing by efficiencie(m): 4:50pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
EkehPraise: Why do you need a wife? If it is sex, I am sure you have been straffing before now. If it is money, well by your admission you are doing well...so if sex and money is covered what really do you need a wife for? 1 Like |
Re: All My Efforts To Settle Down This Year Is Failing by TRADELYN: 4:50pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
nkemdi89:Just curious to know. What are the basics for you? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: All My Efforts To Settle Down This Year Is Failing by samwillyco1(m): 4:51pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
nkemdi89: Hmm Turning down proposals then, now you are ready but haven't seen the type you want. What are the qualities you are looking for in a man you would like to settle down with ? |
Re: All My Efforts To Settle Down This Year Is Failing by ufotty2001: 4:51pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
toujurs:God bless u for saying the truth. |
Re: All My Efforts To Settle Down This Year Is Failing by Skyfornia(m): 4:51pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
omoharry: It's not true... personally I don't fancy flashy woman. Be educated, industrious, have a good character...and most especially, a decent background/history. Many girls nowadays has done threeesome and sxx in public places. 1 Like |
Re: All My Efforts To Settle Down This Year Is Failing by TRADELYN: 4:52pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
cococandy: Could you please explain. |
Re: All My Efforts To Settle Down This Year Is Failing by darediamond(m): 4:52pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
nkemdi89:OH MINE!! NKEM, YOU ARE THE REAL DIAMOND AMONG SEVERAL WOMEN ON NAIRALAND. "I was turning down proposals because I wasn't financially ready to settle down and I was aiming for a particular level at work" Now THIS IS ONE OF THE MAIN DEFINITIONS OF A WIFE MATERIAL!! That you believe a lady too must be Financially Okay Before Ever Thinking Of Getting Married Sets You Apart From The Park. You are Rare Gem!!! Yeah You Ain't Perfect, But You Are A Wife Material Readily. You know what, An Husband Material Shall LOCATE YOU IN JESUS NAME AND BLESS YOUR UNION IN VIEW. AMEN. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: All My Efforts To Settle Down This Year Is Failing by Mixty: 4:52pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
Vinnie2000: This is as true as it gets EkehPraise. I was taken aback when you said you invited a babe to your house and she was acting lazy when she noticed you are comfortable. For goodness sake, do you really expect a first or second time guest to start acting like a wife in your house? Really? You are desperate.. You need to take a chill pill and allow things unfold. Also, you are too expectant. More or less a perfectionist. People will have their flaws. You definitely have your flaws from the little you have described. You need to make a list of the main qualities that matter to you and things you can overlook cos you MUST overlook some things. |
Re: All My Efforts To Settle Down This Year Is Failing by EkoErrands: 4:57pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
EkehPraise: You need to break up with your spirit wife first b4 any physical marriage can work for you. |
Re: All My Efforts To Settle Down This Year Is Failing by KennethEnyi(m): 5:04pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
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