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Re: All My Efforts To Settle Down This Year Is Failing by INCREDIBLE007(m): 2:54pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
EkehPraise: That one na sharp shooter 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: All My Efforts To Settle Down This Year Is Failing by Shalommy(f): 2:55pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
You're looking for a perfect woman when you ain't perfect. You go old. Chaii.. |
Re: All My Efforts To Settle Down This Year Is Failing by lexy2014: 2:57pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
chudez0147: do u need to spend money to keep a woman? |
Re: All My Efforts To Settle Down This Year Is Failing by Hassanmaye(m): 2:58pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
Nicepoker: |
Re: All My Efforts To Settle Down This Year Is Failing by noCAP(m): 2:58pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
Bros, remove that marriage thing from your mind. This generation of girls ain't worth shit. If marrying an ex-olosho/hoe won't be a problem for you, then be my guest 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: All My Efforts To Settle Down This Year Is Failing by RPG2020(m): 2:58pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
EkehPraise: Marriage nor be your mate 4 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: All My Efforts To Settle Down This Year Is Failing by chudez0147(m): 2:58pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
lexy2014:No o... You need sand . |
Re: All My Efforts To Settle Down This Year Is Failing by VEE2010(m): 2:59pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
EkehPraise: I always advise people not to be so conscious about settling down, just live your life as if you are not looking for a wife while you try to mingle and make friends. The right person will come your way when you are less concerned about quitting bachelorhood. Importantly, be sensitive, the right person that will emerge will come so naturally and your instinct will prove it. I met my wife when I was so relaxed about the thought of getting married. While we dated, the instinct was so strong from both of us even when I tried very hard to resist it citing several failed attempts. I was so freaking about just continuing with the dating only until I was totally convinced that it was actually the right chemistry between both of us. We are happily married for 7 years now and have no regret even when we have a little misunderstanding, we still find ourselves attuned to each other. Meanwhile, these are the little secrets traits that mustn't be ignored while dating: 1. Be free as if you are living your normal life - avoid drama and fake life 2. Be sincere to her in virtually everything, you may not disclose your intention even in the next 6 months 3. Study and understand her background 4. Get involved in her personal affairs to know if you can cope with her 5. Let her know your close relatives on time so that, they can as well observe her. Mind you, do not disclose your intention even to your relatives and friends. 6. Do not be too emotionally attached to her because doing so might keep lots of things away from you. You may not know when you start making decisions based on your emotion or sentiments 7. Learn to create little issues to know if you can manage her temperament 8. Do not judge her but rather let her know her little weaknesses and see if she will take correction 9. Do not be too perfect to a fault, she will also need to understudy your attitude to know if she can cope with you 10. Avoid what you will not like in the future...if you are not an outgoing type, make it known to her except you are willing to change to suit her person 11. Be fervent in your prayers and also, observe her spiritual life 12. Church dating most times is full of deceit and pretense because both of you may want to look good to each other courtesy of the message you hear in church 13. Try to understand the essence of a win-win situation in every argument that ensues between you both. 14. Be open in your finances on both sides 15. Focus more on what the future holds for you both even when you have not made your intention known to her 16. Be courageous to accept your faults and take responsibility when reflecting on remote causes of your little issues 17. Be caring and observe if she will reciprocate the same 18. Do not be too circulated around her while it is important you step back at times to assess her urge for you 19. Build friendship instead of lust for her 20. Don't pay so much attention to her shape but focus more on her inner beauty which is what will stand the test of time 23 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: All My Efforts To Settle Down This Year Is Failing by InvertedHammer: 3:00pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
EkehPraise:/ Did you see a video of Shiloh 2021? Plenty women dey market but no wife. Single ladies are busy chasing the fantasy they read about online instead of facing reality. Try any of the Colleges of Education--the ladies there are being snapped up quickly. A lot of "reasonable" bachelors have turned their backs on the co-habiting, ill-mannered, yahoo-boys'-destroyed, materialistic, online-begging, catfishing, sugar-daddies-prone, semi-literate, runs girls (masquerading as students) that litter our universities and Polytechnics. You are better off picking one from Allen Avenue at night. Do all the necessary lab works and if she comes out clean, then marry her like that. There is no significant difference between her and the ones you see in church. Don't be surprised to see her leading Songs and Praises on Sunday. Unconditional love between a man and a lady does not exist in Nigeria. / 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: All My Efforts To Settle Down This Year Is Failing by adeiza4u(m): 3:01pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
EkehPraise:Let me gift you an unfailing advice free of cost. Come and thank me afterwards. And the advice is: Pray to God by Jesus for guidance, and favor. PRAY AND PRAY 2 Likes |
Re: All My Efforts To Settle Down This Year Is Failing by Berankis: 3:01pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
My advice for you is not to be too picky, as none of us are without our shortfalls. Just look for the one you can manage and can manage with you. |
Re: All My Efforts To Settle Down This Year Is Failing by AfriNotesNEWS: 3:02pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
EkehPraise: You should be thankful that u did not met a scammer among them 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: All My Efforts To Settle Down This Year Is Failing by yemi1504: 3:03pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
karkinase: You and him are just getting to know? Wife material don become dey find needle for haystack imo o. |
Re: All My Efforts To Settle Down This Year Is Failing by Onliie(m): 3:03pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
EkehPraise:Many Christian ladies are fake. Even serious ones are shallow. 6 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: All My Efforts To Settle Down This Year Is Failing by silibaba: 3:03pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
EkehPraise: Them dey search for wife?. Don't go and marry all this endtime babe poop. Just marry your bestfriend is all I can say. 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: All My Efforts To Settle Down This Year Is Failing by lexy2014: 3:04pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
InvertedHammer: are u the one doing the census at colleges of education, polytechnics and universities to no who and who are being snapped up quickly and who are runs girls? by d way, shiloh 2022 hasnt taken place yet. it will take place next year |
Re: All My Efforts To Settle Down This Year Is Failing by mrksquare: 3:06pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
EkehPraise: I'm on the same ship with you. When one finally decide to get married that is when you will know that good women are an endangered specie. 5 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: All My Efforts To Settle Down This Year Is Failing by Koffiatama: 3:06pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
You mean for 2years you dated her, she was good?. At the mention of marriage, bad character entered into her. wonderful ? Others are just useless, some are even thieves. Show women some respect, they breath air same as you. Else you may have 2022 and beyond to search 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: All My Efforts To Settle Down This Year Is Failing by lexy2014: 3:07pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
nkemdi89: make u and op put heads together to solve your common problem |
Re: All My Efforts To Settle Down This Year Is Failing by Okeedu(m): 3:08pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
Honestly I'll tell u to get a child through surrogacy first,then continue ur search later on. Check out my signature guys. 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: All My Efforts To Settle Down This Year Is Failing by lexy2014: 3:08pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
iamme1234: where should he change his location to? |
Re: All My Efforts To Settle Down This Year Is Failing by shonepet: 3:09pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
Brother, I am in the same shoe with you. Since January, myself and my friend decided to settle down with a good lady this year. As i write, we have not achieved a % of this target..... especially me becos, i don't even have a girlfriend. God help us 7 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: All My Efforts To Settle Down This Year Is Failing by Obiorahpcfg: 3:09pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
Like every well brought up young man, I'm in my early 30's and really doing fine at least I'm not begging for anything from anyone. I set out this year to wife my girlfriend whom I had dated for 2 years but her character made me think twice so we broke up and I moved on. I have tried to make friends with matured ladies in the church I worship but it's been from one bad experience to another. Ever since I started looking for a woman to call my wife I have been meeting different characteristics of women. Within the space of 1 year I've met one who is a maniac, one I met at a hangout didn't hesitate to show her lazy attitude the day she came to my place to see I'm a bit comfortable, another one I met recently in church turned out to be a thief. 2021 is almost over and I'm yet to find a wife. Where do you advice I go in search for a good woman? Wife material scarce You think so? |
Re: All My Efforts To Settle Down This Year Is Failing by ibechris(m): 3:09pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
EkehPraise: If all these women u mentioned can't be good enough for u including ur girl friend of 2years....guy,to be candid with u,u have a problem. U are looking for a faultless woman to marry as if u are faultless yourself. Change ur attitude towards women and get the best of them. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: All My Efforts To Settle Down This Year Is Failing by yemi1504: 3:10pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
toujurs: You can say that again! But these ladies blame other things for their predicaments and not the real reason - them! I have one here and one is on the way to becoming one even though the one on the way is a very good pretender like most of them are. |
Re: All My Efforts To Settle Down This Year Is Failing by lexy2014: 3:10pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
chudez0147: have u spent sand on a lady before? |
Re: All My Efforts To Settle Down This Year Is Failing by latogng: 3:10pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
Kirkman: I get one deeper life girl wey dey com nack me on Sundays After Church, It doesn't look like i'm the only one she is seeing at the time, because she told me point blank we ain't heading anywhere due to our Tribal differences and her family strong Position on this. 1 Like |
Re: All My Efforts To Settle Down This Year Is Failing by PrinceMajestic: 3:12pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
oke2018:pls PM me |
Re: All My Efforts To Settle Down This Year Is Failing by EmyGod(m): 3:13pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
heniford2:Do not X the lord please it is merry Christmas not X please. |
Re: All My Efforts To Settle Down This Year Is Failing by isaiah4life(m): 3:13pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
Dreytonisback: Oga, you and smoke eeh! Make e no kill you, |
Re: All My Efforts To Settle Down This Year Is Failing by Worksunlimited: 3:15pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
EkehPraise: Take a chill pill.. na wetin I dey do ryt now.. I am on relationship break 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: All My Efforts To Settle Down This Year Is Failing by msMonyei: 3:15pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
FunnyDude: And how does dating game and street OT relate? Some real nggaz no even get time for dating.. |
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