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Re: My Younger Brother Is A Bone In Our Throat. Pls Help! by Jeon(f): 2:32pm On Dec 22, 2021
OP UR BRO IS ON NAIRALAND FOR CALLING UR DAD A SIMP. grin

he need serious service.

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Re: My Younger Brother Is A Bone In Our Throat. Pls Help! by Bignuell(m): 2:35pm On Dec 22, 2021
He set 70k on fire. He's an adult at 24 and because of he still gat the privilege of free food and housing na him make am dey misbehaving. There is little you guys can do now, he'll change when he's ready to, but for now make una lock up for him matter. Make sure you don't have money lying around even your atm card

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Re: My Younger Brother Is A Bone In Our Throat. Pls Help! by VOsimhen144(m): 2:35pm On Dec 22, 2021
KiNg0G:


Exactly why i nor believe the storyline.

Even madman can't go to atm withdraw 5k and set it on fire.
For this country situation when we dey.
..

It's bulous
well it might be true. I've seen someone set ablaze 15k and international passport becus of anger.

Even the Bible encourages us to control our anger. "Ecclesiastes 7:9"

Op. Pray that God delivers him from the path of life he has chosen to follow.

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Re: My Younger Brother Is A Bone In Our Throat. Pls Help! by KiNg0G: 2:40pm On Dec 22, 2021
Skyflygang2:


I swear my gee a whole 70k haha omo I no fit sef 50naira on fire like dis talk less of 70k

1000naira note x 70 pieces

Impossible

If 70k no come reach you shey na to come burn am remain

Like common

People go just dream and make up stories just say I want to trend

Ha ha ha ha OP try again abeg

The story make sense but na dat burning part spoil am jare

I tire bros, the story make sense but the 70k the op sat him brother burn turn nonsense (nor be say na Small pickin, 24 year old boy.. when be graduates..lol)


Even yahoo boys self, if control come....they cheat you...

You go come vex withdraw the money born am?

70k for that matter.


Even let's assume he's a drug addict...he head nor correct.


You know how many parcel of crack cocaine or crystal that 70k go give am?


Even if he's gambler, like bet9ja addict....he go burn a whole 70k?.



This na person when dey beg you 10k as a elder sister, go gather mind go bank or pos withdraw 70k

Burn am for your present.





All this people and their fake stories dey tire me.

For real.


Burn 70k for this December?
Where harmattan make everywhere extra dry.




The funny thing


SOME MUMU GO BELIEVE THE STORY... BECAUSE NA EVERYTHING THEM DEY BELIEVE

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Re: My Younger Brother Is A Bone In Our Throat. Pls Help! by KiNg0G: 2:42pm On Dec 22, 2021
VOsimhen144:
well it might be true. I've seen someone set ablaze 15k before becus of anger.

Even the Bible encourages us to control our anger. "Ecclesiastes 7:9"

Op. Pray that God delivers him from the path of life he chooses to follow.

Bros believe anything when you won believe

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Re: My Younger Brother Is A Bone In Our Throat. Pls Help! by Nobody: 2:44pm On Dec 22, 2021
KiNg0G:


I tire bros, the story make sense but the 70k the op sat him brother burn turn nonsense (nor be say na Small pickin, 24 year old boy.. when be graduates..lol)


Even yahoo boys self, if control come....they cheat you...

You go come vex withdraw the money born am?

70k for that matter.


Even let's assume he's a drug addict...he head nor correct.


You know how many parcel of crack cocaine or crystal that 70k go give am?


Even if he's gambler, like bet9ja addict....he go burn a whole 70k?.



This na person when dey beg you 10k as a elder sister, go gather mind go bank or pos withdraw 70k

Burn am for your present.





All this people and their fake stories dey tire me.

For real.


Burn 70k for this December?
Where harmattan make everywhere extra dey.




The funny thing


SOME MUMU GO BELIEVE THE STORY... BECAUSE NA EVERYTHING THEM DEY BELIEVE



You said it all

Like if na Ashewo him like you know how many Ashewo 70k go kpansh ni

Na ogun go kill this OP iswear

Yes ama finna curse

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Re: My Younger Brother Is A Bone In Our Throat. Pls Help! by KiNg0G: 2:50pm On Dec 22, 2021
Skyflygang2:


You said it all

Like if na Ashewo him like you know how many Ashewo 70k go kpansh ni

Na ogun go kill this OP iswear

Yes ama finna curse

Hahahaha, we can go on and on brah.



Like you said, if the 70k was in 1k denominations that

1k x 70 pieces. (You know how heavy it go dey for hand... for this December period..then op go tell me say him brother when be graduates go burn am)


if the 70k was in 500naira denominations that's 140 pieces.



This op self.



Weda them dey feel say we when nor get jobs dey online...we be fool I nor know self.

For real bros.


It nor get who never see Money o.

If he carry the 70k go fûck Toto...I for believe.

But burn am for this December like so.



Except na flexing burning him mean

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Re: My Younger Brother Is A Bone In Our Throat. Pls Help! by NoToPile: 3:13pm On Dec 22, 2021
This is a result of the culture of overindulgence of the so called first son, only son whatever , the so called heir of everything he has zero respect for his elder sisters.

Spoilt and over indulged brat, you father did well by trying to reset his brain with that slap, maybe it's even coming a bit late.

Your sister should stop giving him any cut of the money she sends. He's a man let him go and work but you guys seem soft and might pity him again

He burnt 70k he didn't work for? 70 thousand naira this December, 70 thousand that cab change the life of some people. Chai oooo your sister should ensure her 1naira doesn't get into his hand at least for the next 5 years.

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Re: My Younger Brother Is A Bone In Our Throat. Pls Help! by Richy4(m): 3:30pm On Dec 22, 2021
U guys are feeding his ego and indulging his behaviour by giving him whatever he asked for.. That's why... That's all I have to say... sad

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Re: My Younger Brother Is A Bone In Our Throat. Pls Help! by OSDD(m): 4:05pm On Dec 22, 2021
You brother doesn't need prayers or counseling, he needs discipline and it is too late for that..

So, make una no give am money, he should hustle hard for every penny he gets, do that for 3 months and watch life and her ugly reality hit him back to back, na two way thing; e fit repent , e fit turn bad pass Wetin dey on ground.. But try to reduce his money,


Person Wey hunger dey beat no dey get erection

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Re: My Younger Brother Is A Bone In Our Throat. Pls Help! by bluefilm: 4:16pm On Dec 22, 2021
Cyntie55:
Good day nairalanders. Season greetings to y'all. I'm so angry right now. Please I need mature advice.

My father is not a learned person but he make sure all his children are graduates. My younger brother(last born and only son) rounded up his Nysc few months ago, we're just 2 girls. My elder sis and I. My elder sis is a nurse in Austria (3 years now), she's married with a kid in Austria. My big sister send money home once in 3 months, and I have been the one receiving the money. I share the money exactly as instructed by my big sis. I have never cheated anyone, Infact my Dad and Big sis communicate very well. My Dad trust me so much.

My younger brother is always angry, He said he feel cheated all the time. He shouts and talks to me anyhow like I'm his mate.
Honestly speaking, I gave my younger brother more love and respect that he could ever imagine. When he was serving, he would call telling me he need 10k urgently, sometimes 20k, that he will pay back. Immediately I will send it to him and he would never pay back. Same thing he does to my father.
If we ask him what's he using his allawee for?? He would angrily say so is becus we're sending him "chicken change" that's why we're asking jamb questions.

He said we don't regard him, he called my Dad a SIMP, he said my Dad listen more to my big sis and I....but he don't listen to any of his suggestions.

My brother is a 2:1 (second class upper) graduate in economics from UNIBEN. After his Nysc all he does is to sleep and eat. My Dad's good friend told my brother to come to Lagos and resume work with him. He refused. My Dad ask him if he wants to further his education (masters or professional courses)he said no....Okay follow my Dad to his cement shop and help him (my dad even promised to pay him salary) he refused....I overheard him on a call with a friend and i suspect he's now into yahoo yahoo.

Look at what happened. My big sis sent us money yesterday to celebrate this festive period. She said I should give my brother 50k, I should take 80k and give my father the rest (abt 250k). My Dad is always aware of everything.
I even added 20k out of my money and I transferred 70k to my brother, I was left with 60k (becus she also sent me hair and I plan to sell it becus I already had enough). You can imagine this ungrateful idiot started insulting me, that I cheated him. the fool angrily withdrawn the money from his account and SET IT ON FIRE (70k). He called my elder sister and started warning her saying "if he can't receive the money henceforth, she should stop sending him money again that he's the man of the house".
My Dad gave him a resetting, resounding, hot and dirty slaps. He pulled out a knife, deflated my Dad's car tyres and ran away from the house.

Everyone is not happy. I don't want my brother to live a wayward life. He's 24 years old. Please nairalanders Help!


Sorry, I feel your situation.

But I couldn't stop laughing when I read this line. grin grin grin

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Re: My Younger Brother Is A Bone In Our Throat. Pls Help! by ibechris(m): 4:28pm On Dec 22, 2021
I just want to commend ur father for the way he trained u guys,but my fear is this. He is gradually losing that boy.

He is already a spoilt brat...see we that our father no get oh we struggle,struggle and struggle till we became men and doing well today. Here is a boy with everything yet,he cant calm his head down.

Nawah for this life.
And for men who always treat their only girls like they will never amount to anything,u can see how these girls are well behaved.

U guys should arrange men to beat him like a thief before 2023,u will see the change in him.

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Re: My Younger Brother Is A Bone In Our Throat. Pls Help! by Collins4u1(m): 4:45pm On Dec 22, 2021
If una give that man money again I know say una for that house get problem..

At 24 nigga still dey drag person money

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Re: My Younger Brother Is A Bone In Our Throat. Pls Help! by Nicepoker(m): 4:56pm On Dec 22, 2021
Don't worry yourself too much. He will end up grilling vultures.

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Re: My Younger Brother Is A Bone In Our Throat. Pls Help! by Caboceer: 5:26pm On Dec 22, 2021
Cyntie55:
Good day nairalanders. Season greetings to y'all. I'm so angry right now. Please I need mature advice.

My father is not a learned person but he make sure all his children are graduates. My younger brother(last born and only son) rounded up his Nysc few months ago, we're just 2 girls. My elder sis and I. My elder sis is a nurse in Austria (3 years now), she's married with a kid in Austria. My big sister send money home once in 3 months, and I have been the one receiving the money. I share the money exactly as instructed by my big sis. I have never cheated anyone, Infact my Dad and Big sis communicate very well. My Dad trust me so much.

My younger brother is always angry, He said he feel cheated all the time. He shouts and talks to me anyhow like I'm his mate.
Honestly speaking, I gave my younger brother more love and respect that he could ever imagine. When he was serving, he would call telling me he need 10k urgently, sometimes 20k, that he will pay back. Immediately I will send it to him and he would never pay back. Same thing he does to my father.
If we ask him what's he using his allawee for?? He would angrily say so is becus we're sending him "chicken change" that's why we're asking jamb questions.

He said we don't regard him, he called my Dad a SIMP, he said my Dad listen more to my big sis and I....but he don't listen to any of his suggestions.

My brother is a 2:1 (second class upper) graduate in economics from UNIBEN. After his Nysc all he does is to sleep and eat. My Dad's good friend told my brother to come to Lagos and resume work with him. He refused. My Dad ask him if he wants to further his education (masters or professional courses)he said no....Okay follow my Dad to his cement shop and help him (my dad even promised to pay him salary) he refused....I overheard him on a call with a friend and i suspect he's now into yahoo yahoo.

Look at what happened. My big sis sent us money yesterday to celebrate this festive period. She said I should give my brother 50k, I should take 80k and give my father the rest (abt 250k). My Dad is always aware of everything.
I even added 20k out of my money and I transferred 70k to my brother, I was left with 60k (becus she also sent me hair and I plan to sell it becus I already had enough). You can imagine this ungrateful idiot started insulting me, that I cheated him. the fool angrily withdrawn the money from his account and SET IT ON FIRE (70k). He called my elder sister and started warning her saying "if he can't receive the money henceforth, she should stop sending him money again that he's the man of the house".
My Dad gave him a resetting, resounding, hot and dirty slaps. He pulled out a knife, deflated my Dad's car tyres and ran away from the house.

Everyone is not happy. I don't want my brother to live a wayward life. He's 24 years old. Please nairalanders Help!


Sounds lkke he's on drugs already

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Re: My Younger Brother Is A Bone In Our Throat. Pls Help! by Spherical77(m): 5:36pm On Dec 22, 2021
Op please try as much as possible to avoid him completely like a plague. Someone who behaves like this can beat up his sister someday

You can inform your pastor to support your family in praying for him.

Please avoid him completely

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Re: My Younger Brother Is A Bone In Our Throat. Pls Help! by Flamezreal(m): 6:06pm On Dec 22, 2021
Bad parenting fruition

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Re: My Younger Brother Is A Bone In Our Throat. Pls Help! by Lamanii22(f): 6:24pm On Dec 22, 2021
What did I just read? He set the 70k on fire shocked shocked shocked Jesu! La ye mi, yourp sister is really trying ooo, your brother is such a fool, so proud at heart... What about your mom? Please send me one of the hairs lol, wish I have someone that's even send me 5k I don't mind



Anyway Sha, I think your brother need to work on himself or maybe he needs deliverance.....

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Re: My Younger Brother Is A Bone In Our Throat. Pls Help! by azammi(m): 6:38pm On Dec 22, 2021
Op your brother na cultist ?

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Re: My Younger Brother Is A Bone In Our Throat. Pls Help! by azammi(m): 6:43pm On Dec 22, 2021
Me where never see 5naira for Christmas they give person 70k he burn em chai God forbid.

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Re: My Younger Brother Is A Bone In Our Throat. Pls Help! by akezn: 7:07pm On Dec 22, 2021
The slap your dad gave him was not resetting and resounding enough. He dey mad ni.
He get luck say person dey when dey send money for am now. He is just being lazy.

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Re: My Younger Brother Is A Bone In Our Throat. Pls Help! by Austeeenxx: 7:20pm On Dec 22, 2021
Imagine calling your own father a simp?

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Re: My Younger Brother Is A Bone In Our Throat. Pls Help! by jmoore(m): 7:21pm On Dec 22, 2021
Why have you not reported the matter to police?
Is it when he kills your father you will report him to the police?

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Re: My Younger Brother Is A Bone In Our Throat. Pls Help! by KingMack(m): 7:28pm On Dec 22, 2021
Entitlement mentality Na bad thing..ah swerru gad angry

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Re: My Younger Brother Is A Bone In Our Throat. Pls Help! by ThatsONYI: 7:35pm On Dec 22, 2021
... smiley ...

To find the solution, we need to discover the root of the problem. How did this start? What influenced this foolish young man to act so wicked and ungrateful? How? When? Where?


I don't care what happened but burning 70k naira is wickedness at its peak, he's an ingrate! Nevertheless, I believe something is wrong somewhere; how come 70k is a "small amount" for a jobless and lazy man?

Maybe he's into fraud and sees millions or prolly believe your elder sister is worth more, so she ought to have sent more for his lazy ass. Or y'all pampered him? And yes, his friends? What kind of friends does this lazy man has?

Sadly, when the gods wants to kill a man - they first, make him mad.

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Re: My Younger Brother Is A Bone In Our Throat. Pls Help! by faithfull18(f): 7:39pm On Dec 22, 2021
Na wa, stop giving him money, whether requested for or not.

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Re: My Younger Brother Is A Bone In Our Throat. Pls Help! by adebayo3449(m): 7:46pm On Dec 22, 2021
Cyntie55:
Yes, he did. I even have the video as evidence. I don't want it go viral, I would have uploaded it.
Hello, please don't send the video to anyone apart from your sister.
And please try to be careful with that your brother, if a 24yrs old guy can behave in such manner. Please be careful with him, your father should not stay alone with him at any time, even you. Always lock your door when you want to sleep, he needs serious prayers and advice. At 24yrs, please be careful with him.
Take heed

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Re: My Younger Brother Is A Bone In Our Throat. Pls Help! by adebayo3449(m): 7:47pm On Dec 22, 2021
adebayo3449:

Hello, please don't send the video to anyone apart from your sister.
And please try to be careful with that your brother, if a 24yrs old guy can behave in such manner. Please be careful with him, your father should not stay alone with him at any time, even you. Always lock your door when you want to sleep, he needs serious prayers and advice. At 24yrs, please be careful with him.
Take heed
Re: My Younger Brother Is A Bone In Our Throat. Pls Help! by sisisioge: 8:00pm On Dec 22, 2021
Wowzerful! Anyways, he has proffered the right solution.....stop sending him or giving him money. He is a graduate. Let him be economically gainful. Stop enabling him. EOD.

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Re: My Younger Brother Is A Bone In Our Throat. Pls Help! by MufasaLion: 8:03pm On Dec 22, 2021
Skyflygang2:
He set 70k on fire... haha pablo escobar and walter white jnr that one sef is good

grin grin grin

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Re: My Younger Brother Is A Bone In Our Throat. Pls Help! by CruzJoe(m): 8:30pm On Dec 22, 2021
He is already living a wayward life and is ur parents caused it......

they didn't train him well when he is still a kid....maybe they pampered him as the only male....

He has already gone astray.....and if you guys push him much now.....he might kill ur dad coz as it is now....he doesn't regard/respect ur dad and he is already seeing him as an enemy.

I think is prayer that can subdue him....

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Re: My Younger Brother Is A Bone In Our Throat. Pls Help! by MrStan11(m): 8:31pm On Dec 22, 2021
As par only son, una son spoilam finish. The only solution is to send him abroad UK. Not Austria where your sis is. Once he's abroad, make una cut communication.
Come back and thank me later

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