₦airaland Forum

MufasaLion:
You are right. That's still under assumptions. This particular lady already tested the guy's dick and she ain't cool with it.

pocohantas:
Oga rest abeg. No dey cap nonsense and offpoint. When you have a daughter and disapprove her marriage, tell her to run off with the guy because of love. For your small pikin brain, love is going against your family. Na too much film dey make una mumu. If they ask you to donate one kidney, love go clear from your opolo eyes.

Because your gbola dey rise, you think you are in love. Small children of this generation sha.

pocohantas:
Why do you men ask this question when it is a woman saying it? Isn’t it your usual chorus that men are polygamous in nature? Seems men know the truth but hate to hear it from women.

MufasaLion:


Till you get some sense, you will keep attending Shiloh! I ain't gonna dignify you with any response no more. Useless bitter old cunt!

Sermwell:
It's only that can spew this trash! I checked and wasn't disappointed!

FalseProphet1:
What's with the outburst...I can see that you're speaking out of experience. Hope the heartbreak wasn't that bad, and hope you're recovering very fast, sorry ok?

I see you meeting a sugar daddy before the end of this year, I see him buying you iPhone 13 but it will be fake, I see you angry very very angry, I see you doing plastic surgery for your breast and bum, I see you looking more sexy than chioma davidos ex.

This I have seen.

emonis88:
Buhari is not all these, but he is d head of them all. I don't understand y u rejoice over mediocrity, even when it is staring u n every Nigerian in d face, y didn't u make these same excuses for previous presidents? But u were shouting then about them being incompetent, like this guy is shout about ur bubu, but u come here to defend what now, ur pocket?

MufasaLion:
Lol

This lady never said she wanted a big dick. For her to have left the guy, his dick was very small and it couldn't even last long.

You keep saying it could be worked on, but I hope you know working on such in a marriage is not easy. The guy should go and work on himself before thinking of marriage. He was not even straightforward with the lady with his genital problem.

larryking540:
I didn't need to check page 4 of that guys comment and I was about commenting back but had a breaking service ,,I don't advocate for cheating in relationship if you know me very well in nairaland ,both for male and females ,I have met red pillers who advocate of knacking a lady and dropping her or turning her into a baby mama ,and I am never in support of that behavior and I tell girls or lady which ever ,marry before you carry (marriage before pregnancy ) .... because the chances of becoming a baby mama is 70% higher
you will end up as a single Mother if you still choose the opposite ..

so choose your words wisely if you are coming for me , because both genders are faulty in my dictionary sweetheart

gift0123:
I know that all beautiful ladies may not be marriage materials, but such situation can never make a man to settle for a woman he never finds attractive, a woman who isn't presentable? "it's not possible"!

Guyman02:
Yes, we dated for 4 years as students, proposed to her after my NYSC when I secured a job, met her family, discussed my intention and they felt we are not on the same level (full of themselves), later they even claimed that they went to investigate my family in our village and they were told that mental illness runs in our lineage.
They convinced her to abandon our marriage plans which she did instead of fighting for us, I asked her to refund part of the bulk money I gave to her for the marriage preparation which she later did because I wanted a proper closure to the relationship, felt really humiliated, locked myself inside and cried, washed my face and told myself it was time to move on.

Deleted her contact from my phone, never scooped around her social media handles, put aside all our pictures together under a locker and didn't worry myself about her anymore.

Started another relationship with a lady I was close to as friends who was very passionate about me but I didn't look at her because I was faithful to my ex.

Suddenly from the blues, my ex elder sister called me after some months that she has been erratic, cursing everyone for making her to abandon the love of her life and that the family has agreed to our plans for marriage.

Later she called me asking for forgiveness and that it was an Uncle of mine who told her family that mental illness runs in our family because he felt I was marrying into a prominent family and to a girl who works in a big establishment while his own children are scattered.

I simply told her I have moved on and wasn't gonna look back and had already started marriage plans with the lady I mentioned earlier and I even invited her to the superlative wedding we were planning in an exquisite location then.
I used the opportunity to tell her that I am wiser now as I go for only ladies who stand by their men because I am afraid if I show any signs of madness (as my uncle told her family) instead of taking me to a psychiatrist hospital, she will rather take me to a market square so that the madness will become permanent.

Today we are both married to different people and talk freely on general topics anytime she calls me, but I totally avoid making any reference to our 4 years failed relationship to avoid Okafors Law.

ultraviolet27:
My anger was for that Gandokie Guy for those middle Sentences though and what is it with me Choosing my Words wisely?If u made a Comment on a thread u would be Quoted

AfroKnight:
I’m glad you escaped. Naija feminists are not supposed to be in relationships. Very dangerous creatures

Kirkman:
Na better trailer you jam.

LolaO:
Yes I have
We dated for 5 years.
Proposed to - Jan 2020
Introduction - February 2020
Engagement and wedding was supposed to be - November 2020
I called off the wedding in August 2020 due to the below reasons:
- Dishonesty in finances (non-communication too)
- LIES, very strong ones

- Cheating (deal breaker was while engaged)
- Sexual incompatibility
- Loss of love and attraction because of the above.
The red flags had always been there, but I chose to ignore because I was blinded at the time.
He got married to someone else in less than a year.
I don’t regret my decision and I’m glad I called it off; I deserved better.

Sunday2021:
this is not military regime,this is democracy. Buhari have no right to give order to a governor who was elected the same way Buhari was.
Some of you argue blindly.

Mrsserene:
Have you ever thought about yourself in 40 years? Being old and lonely is not fun at all

Magnoliaa:
I have. Plenty of times.

Reasons:
- Money
- Attitude
- Ideological differences
- Religious beliefs
- Sexual Incompatibility

Helper1991:
I got her engaged 2019 after my NYSC, she was in her final year. I met her on facebook, she was a nice girl. Though, as a born again brother I am, she thought I will be bleeping her but to her surprise I didn't do that. Instead I helped her to control herself and drew her closer to God. I engaged her three months into the relationship. She was nice but very aggression. After a year and six months, I discovered that she couldn't be my wife due to the consistent revelations I had at night. I couldn't quit instead, I did 14days fasting asking God to intervent. God did and we separated peacefully. We are still friends til date.

larryking540:
any thing that involves protection of continual generation a man will always spend on it ,it's not the issue of not helping a fellow man

FalseProphet1:
I'm not the cause of your misery, look for someone else to throw your frustrations at.

Vintiana:
A friend of mine (not too close) proposed to me sometime 2018 even though we weren’t dating as of that time. after too much pressure from my family I accepted this guy and we started dating and was planning a wedding the same time. A date was fixed for the wedding already, even though I wasn’t ready to settle with someone like him. I tried to adapt to his kinda person but it wasn’t working for me I had to call the wedding off. Everyone was mad my parents could not take the shame they begged and begged but I stood my ground cos we were not compatible and most importantly there was no communication in the relationship but nobody could actually understand my point. Long story short. He got married to someone else January 2021, I got married November 2021.

ezegenigbonine:
I think you are still a child depending on your parents that's why you don't know what is happening in this country. Children everywhere

SirMichael1:
Jeeez!! Did you just say three weeks to the wedding?? Aren't you guys suppose to ask yourselves when the relationship looks like it's headed for marriage?? That's some pain it must have brought. So sorry.

Tranquillity360:
A man without girlfriend is happy.





If not for kids man no suppose put himself in trouble in the name of marrying vagina people.

Guyman02:
Yes, we dated for 4 years as students, proposed to her after my NYSC when I secured a job, met her family, discussed my intention and they felt we are not on the same level (full of themselves), later they even claimed that they went to investigate my family in our village and they were told that mental illness runs in our lineage.
They convinced her to abandon our marriage plans which she did instead of fighting for us, I asked her to refund part of the bulk money I gave to her for the marriage preparation which she later did because I wanted a proper closure to the relationship, felt really humiliated, locked myself inside and cried, washed my face and told myself it was time to move on.

Deleted her contact from my phone, never scooped around her social media handles, put aside all our pictures together under a locker and didn't worry myself about her anymore.

Started another relationship with a lady I was close to as friends who was very passionate about me but I didn't look at her because I was faithful to my ex.

Suddenly from the blues, my ex elder sister called me after some months that she has been erratic, cursing everyone for making her to abandon the love of her life and that the family has agreed to our plans for marriage.

Later she called me asking for forgiveness and that it was an Uncle of mine who told her family that mental illness runs in our family because he felt I was marrying into a prominent family and to a girl who works in a big establishment while his own children are scattered.

I simply told her I have moved on and wasn't gonna look back and had already started marriage plans with the lady I mentioned earlier and I even invited her to the superlative wedding we were planning in an exquisite location then.
I used the opportunity to tell her that I am wiser now as I go for only ladies who stand by their men because I am afraid if I show any signs of madness (as my uncle told her family) instead of taking me to a psychiatrist hospital, she will rather take me to a market square so that the madness will become permanent.

Today we are both married to different people and talk freely on general topics anytime she calls me, but I totally avoid making any reference to our 4 years failed relationship to avoid Okafors Law.

pocohantas:
The truth is bitter to you and your kind. In the absence of a logical rebuttal, you play the “you sound bitter and hurt by men”. I would have expected you to put on your thinking cap and tell me what part of my submission is wrong.

Ad hominem is stale and only goes to butress how mentally deficient you are. T for tenkz.

inumidun2010:
Ok... Yours is even better... IHUOMA wey TEAR ME hot SLAP because I was talking to her FRIEND in her PRESENCE nko....
All is well

pocohantas:
Of course it is brainwashing when you men are at the receiving end, but let your mother reject your fiancee and you would dump her in seconds because what an elder can see sitting down…

So a Nigerian woman in Nigeria, who is not even regarded as a member of the family she is marrying into. Who is seen as disposable. Should marry you without the support of her family because she LOVES you? Same love that would make you cheat on her because men are polygamous in nature. Only a very foolish lady without a strong family tie will do that and only a more foolish man would expect a woman to go against her family to prove she loves him. When he starts dealing with her, she will know the importance of her family and run back home. They always do. Toor!

Love indeed. No Naija woman should try to prove any nonsense love to a Naija man.

Itzurboi:
maybe nah engineering student

Phoenixk:
Got Engaged to someone who had asked me out years ago ,I wasn't interested but I felt he had been persistent enough ....

Next thing he said as a good Christian he will wait till after the wedding to consummate

It sounded great till someone hinted he may be hiding a health problem

She was right! D was tiny finger small & man cums in 10seconds

He also wanted me to forge some important docs ,I realised our values are very different.... Returned his ring & took a walk