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Have you Ever Been Engaged And Never Got Married To The Person by Imoh555(m): 2:36pm On Apr 25, 2019 |
Please share your experience with us and how you handled the situation |
Re: Have you Ever Been Engaged And Never Got Married To The Person by avast01(m): 7:06pm On Apr 25, 2019 |
This should be interesting 1 Like |
Re: Have you Ever Been Engaged And Never Got Married To The Person by LordKO(m): 7:56pm On Apr 25, 2019 |
Yes. And she's one of the most beautiful, intelligent and benevolent (at least towards me) women in the world - she was submissive with a genuine intention to make it work out between us. Unfortunately, I wasn't able to fall in love with her - even though I love her - despite trying my utmost. She wasn't perfect, just as no human being is, and her personal imperfection wasn't the main reason I was unable to fall in love with her. Walking out of her life, despite all her pleas and considering the fact that we didn't quarrel even for a day, is one of the hardest decisions I've ever taken in life, but I couldn't afford wasting her time and continually raising her hope that I may succeed in falling in love with her. Love is a mystery. 40 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Have you Ever Been Engaged And Never Got Married To The Person by Imoh555(m): 8:21pm On Apr 25, 2019 |
LordKO: Did you propose /plan to get married |
Re: Have you Ever Been Engaged And Never Got Married To The Person by LordKO(m): 8:30pm On Apr 25, 2019 |
Imoh555: Lol. Even after I started my previous submission with "Yes" you still put forth this query. 13 Likes |
Re: Have you Ever Been Engaged And Never Got Married To The Person by Biglittlelois(f): 9:10pm On Apr 25, 2019 |
Nope, never been engaged, personally don't like the ring thing before one becomes lord of the ring. 3 Likes |
Re: Have you Ever Been Engaged And Never Got Married To The Person by Nobody: 9:11pm On Apr 25, 2019 |
LordKO: |
Re: Have you Ever Been Engaged And Never Got Married To The Person by LordKO(m): 9:13pm On Apr 25, 2019 |
Guest007: Lol. Mystery. Mystery is different from misery. 10 Likes |
Re: Have you Ever Been Engaged And Never Got Married To The Person by Nobody: 9:17pm On Apr 25, 2019 |
Biglittlelois: 1 Like
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Re: Have you Ever Been Engaged And Never Got Married To The Person by Biglittlelois(f): 9:24pm On Apr 25, 2019 |
[quote author=SmellySperm post=77856673][/quote] Lol nah true now |
Re: Have you Ever Been Engaged And Never Got Married To The Person by Imoh555(m): 9:35pm On Apr 25, 2019 |
LordKO: Sorry my bad... I hope you both have moved on and are happy now |
Re: Have you Ever Been Engaged And Never Got Married To The Person by Nobody: 9:38pm On Apr 25, 2019 |
My first 'love' It was a weird relationship because it wasn't an intimate relationship (1st Base tings, and nothing else) But it was the real deal for me. We planned everything down to the detail, we spent 24hrs marathon talking session This went on from age 14/15 until I was 21... when I was 19, we tried to go all the way, and when he reached my girls, with kisses, I nearly threw up in my mouth... It was shocking for me, and I didn't have the mouth to tell him the truth. Few weeks later... He took me to a local funfair, and he spoilt me rotten, everything I wanted and somethings were a surprise. We stayed out until 4am... (I remember him in a short sleeve top, while I wore his oversized jacket) His blood was hot though We spent the rest of the night on the Broadway, and when everything closed we went back to the funfair (Park) we had a picnic under the stars (drinks, snacks, and his cigarettes, and we cuddle and right there as I lay on his chest, listening to his heart beat, (I'd taken my headscarf off, and shawl, and used it as cove) He popped the question, and I accepted. Then I ghost him for 3/4 years. Oh, and I lost the ring, and I joined bad gang 7 Likes |
Re: Have you Ever Been Engaged And Never Got Married To The Person by Nobody: 9:39pm On Apr 25, 2019 |
Biglittlelois: may be na to come arrange you and import you to my obodo oyibo. but no submission no marriage |
Re: Have you Ever Been Engaged And Never Got Married To The Person by Nobody: 9:40pm On Apr 25, 2019 |
LordKO: That was my 2 cents... I think love is a miserable misery. I wasn't doing a #grammarNazi one... |
Re: Have you Ever Been Engaged And Never Got Married To The Person by LordKO(m): 9:57pm On Apr 25, 2019 |
Guest007: Aside it been a mystery, truly it can equally be a "miserable misery" for one at the receiving end of a breakup - whether or not the breakup happens amicably and harmoniously. 9 Likes |
Re: Have you Ever Been Engaged And Never Got Married To The Person by sukerefakere(m): 10:19pm On Apr 25, 2019 |
Guest007:Ramsey Noah really tried in this movie oooo... Nollywood don dey try sha 26 Likes |
Re: Have you Ever Been Engaged And Never Got Married To The Person by Nobody: 10:32pm On Apr 25, 2019 |
A number of times |
Re: Have you Ever Been Engaged And Never Got Married To The Person by panmunium(m): 10:33pm On Apr 25, 2019 |
Yes I engaged her and later found out our genotype was not compatible, I still miss her sometimes but everyone has moved on 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Have you Ever Been Engaged And Never Got Married To The Person by Divay22(f): 10:41pm On Apr 25, 2019 |
Nope. Not even gotten to that level yet. Lemme stand back and read comments |
Re: Have you Ever Been Engaged And Never Got Married To The Person by Nobody: 10:51pm On Apr 25, 2019 |
i see two people starting a relationship and getting married on this thread. 2 Likes |
Re: Have you Ever Been Engaged And Never Got Married To The Person by leonard002(m): 11:00pm On Apr 25, 2019 |
panmunium:Good decision bro. If you're a hospital staff like me and you see what these SS kids go through, you'll swear for their parents 12 Likes |
Re: Have you Ever Been Engaged And Never Got Married To The Person by Nobody: 11:08pm On Apr 25, 2019 |
Divay22: let me know if you wish to experience it |
Re: Have you Ever Been Engaged And Never Got Married To The Person by Divay22(f): 11:14pm On Apr 25, 2019 |
Elderlucifer:Because you're what? |
Re: Have you Ever Been Engaged And Never Got Married To The Person by Nobody: 11:16pm On Apr 25, 2019 |
Divay22: i want to help you arrange your destiny and there you are asking a lousy question 3 Likes |
Re: Have you Ever Been Engaged And Never Got Married To The Person by drmikeadams(m): 11:19pm On Apr 25, 2019 |
she proposed to me and I said yes but my momma said ""hell no son it's either u marry a virgin or remain single "" am still searching for a virgin to propose to me 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Have you Ever Been Engaged And Never Got Married To The Person by ise82(m): 11:30pm On Apr 25, 2019 |
Bad gal! Guest007: |
Re: Have you Ever Been Engaged And Never Got Married To The Person by MissRaine69(f): 11:32pm On Apr 25, 2019 |
I am a complex women who functions slightly different from the expected. He got understood me, was not intimidated and stood his own ground. He was my calm. I am very ambitious and have never been one to conform just because. He was ok with that. Things went downhill when he decided to enter politics. I was expected to dress a certain way, be this person I could not relate to. Suddenly the open minded man became very critical and condescending. I lost myself and was unhappy. So rather than morph into some I was not, keep up appearances to please people whom I know are from perfect yet expect perfection from me. I asked to be set free. I was castigated for walking away from wealth. But then I was not schooled to sit on my hands. People change and not for the better. We parted in good terms. He still hopes that perhaps one day maybe. But if you see the very negative and dark side of someone it’s hard to focus on the positives 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Have you Ever Been Engaged And Never Got Married To The Person by Divay22(f): 11:33pm On Apr 25, 2019 |
Elderlucifer:Go and rearrange yours son. My destiny is covered and responsive. I won't reply you again. 1 Like |
Re: Have you Ever Been Engaged And Never Got Married To The Person by Nobody: 11:35pm On Apr 25, 2019 |
Divay22: bitter girl |
Re: Have you Ever Been Engaged And Never Got Married To The Person by Nobody: 11:42pm On Apr 25, 2019 |
MissRaine69: e bi like say i go direct my satellite for were u dey. i go import u from UK to NZ 1 Like |
Re: Have you Ever Been Engaged And Never Got Married To The Person by MissRaine69(f): 11:48pm On Apr 25, 2019 |
DukeofNZ:I was in Auckland 2 years ago 1 Like |
Re: Have you Ever Been Engaged And Never Got Married To The Person by panmunium(m): 11:11pm On Apr 26, 2019 |
leonard002:hmmm sickle cell disease is really devastating |
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