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Your brother is a spoilt brat feeling emasculated, now that's a dangerous combination.

omoadeleye:
Your brother has mental health problem, the only help you can provide for him is by taking him to a psychiatric hospital for evaluation.

Cause if you don't help him on time, he will surely render the whole family helpless and i won't pity your family.

And what if he chooses not to go. You are so quick in blaming the family. Not like they are the ones that introduced him to drugs.

He is a cultist.

Bombastically00:
Best Advice is arrange Area boys to teach him some lesson then he will beg for money to treat himself ...

no need to go medieval on him,what the guy needs is a close heart to heart talk with his father,the father could be too distant from the child that he cannot properly guide him right,most of the times violence can backfire into something bigger and terrible,you should also know that the father as the head of the house shares half of the responsibility of what his child is doing, because it is his shortcomings as a father figure created a vacuum for rubbish and nonsense to fill up,age is not maturity,I bought my first car a Honda babyboy at 19 yrs and by 24yrs I was already married with my first daughter,most of the time nature and reality always conspire to reset the mindset of a man that burn #70k in Nigeria now,he will regret and cry about that money he burnt,to me such behavior is utter desecration,taboo and an outright evil that will warrant a curse to follow whoever burnt money he did not sweat to earn.

Make ur big sis try get house fr u nd ur dad ND Liv far away without a trace,let de mumu fed fr himself...or rather still get a soldier to flog de hell out of him or rather still mk una round up money send am to Dubai,law fr there go cool him head nd if he looseguide na prison,den u ppl can decide to b sending him DT penny in jail in Dubai..u nd ur dad need peace,nd if not dis person go kill una...yes na ur brother,bt comot feeling in this

Cyntie55:
Good day nairalanders. Season greetings to y'all. I'm so angry right now. Please I need mature advice.

My father is not a learned person but he make sure all his children are graduates. My younger brother(last born and only son) rounded up his Nysc few months ago, we're just 2 girls. My elder sis and I. My elder sis is a nurse in Austria (3 years now), she's married with a kid in Austria. My big sister send money home once in 3 months, and I have been the one receiving the money. I share the money exactly as instructed by my big sis. I have never cheated anyone, Infact my Dad and Big sis communicate very well. My Dad trust me so much.

My younger brother is always angry, He said he feel cheated all the time. He shouts and talks to me anyhow like I'm his mate.
Honestly speaking, I gave my younger brother more love and respect that he could ever imagine. When he was serving, he would call telling me he need 10k urgently, sometimes 20k, that he will pay back. Immediately I will send it to him and he would never pay back. Same thing he does to my father.
If we ask him what's he using his allawee for?? He would angrily say so is becus we're sending him "chicken change" that's why we're asking jamb questions.

He said we don't regard him, he called my Dad a SIMP, he said my Dad listen more to my big sis and I....but he don't listen to any of his suggestions.

My brother is a 2:1 (second class upper) graduate in economics from UNIBEN. After his Nysc all he does is to sleep and eat. My Dad's good friend told my brother to come to Lagos and resume work with him. He refused. My Dad ask him if he wants to further his education (masters or professional courses)he said no....Okay follow my Dad to his cement shop and help him (my dad even promised to pay him salary) he refused....I overheard him on a call with a friend and i suspect he's now into yahoo yahoo.

Look at what happened. My big sis sent us money yesterday to celebrate this festive period. She said I should give my brother 50k, I should take 80k and give my father the rest (abt 250k). My Dad is always aware of everything.
I even added 20k out of my money and I transferred 70k to my brother, I was left with 60k (becus she also sent me hair and I plan to sell it becus I already had enough). You can imagine this ungrateful idiot started insulting me, that I cheated him. the fool angrily withdrawn the money from his account and SET IT ON FIRE (70k). He called my elder sister and started warning her saying "if he can't receive the money henceforth, she should stop sending him money again that he's the man of the house".
My Dad gave him a resetting, resounding, hot and dirty slaps. He pulled out a knife, deflated my Dad's car tyres and ran away from the house.

Everyone is not happy. I don't want my brother to live a wayward life. He's 24 years old. Please nairalanders Help!

ignore him.

I would like to hear your brother's side of the story before I contribute

He called your dad a SIMP?

He thinks his behaviour is that of a red piller and an alpha male. your brother is just stubborn, nothing else. He needs someone to talk sense into him and if he still refuses to change, then your dad should use the rod on him. After all, the Bible says spare the rod and spoil the child.

And again, He's been over pampered too.. Even yahoo yahoo wouldn't make one stubborn like he is, but rather make one hard working, focus, patience and understanding.

Please is the job your brother rejected still available?
Sir your brother needs deliverance.

Lamanii22:
What did I just read? He set the 70k on fire Jesu! La ye mi, yourp sister is really trying ooo, your brother is such a fool, so proud at heart... What about your mom? Please send me one of the hairs lol, wish I have someone that's even send me 5k I don't mind



Anyway Sha, I think your brother need to work on himself or maybe he needs deliverance.....

hello

All these are happening because your family make the boy feel very important... He's the only son probably your people are pampering him...

Solution!

Make una all commot eye for his matter, make hunger catch am fes, if he commit, he should be treated accordingly by law, make una no de fear say he fit die or police fit carry am, make una commot hand fes for his matter

Economy go reset his senses...

Cyntie55:
My Dad gave him a resetting, resounding, hot and dirty slaps. He pulled out a knife, deflated my Dad's car tyres and ran away from the house.

When the foundation is faulty, no amount of slaps can reset it. Una don spoil the boy. He has no sense of responsibility anymore.

Vicktorhmustjap:
Na Benin boy... The average Benin boy that has a family member abroad that's how they behave... They are lazy and very ungrateful of what they get from their sibling abroad..

The truth is the guy want to travel I'm sure he must have told them... He is frustrated because the sister has not helped him out of the country..

Make oya send ham go Cyprus make ona fit get peace of mind

very true.

https://gist.am/my-younger-brother-is-a-bone-in-our-throat-pls-help/a/2669

Una don spoil the bros come dey complain give us. .. Make una send am more money. Am sure say him dey arrange girls come house dey keep bad friends and no be today the thing start. Even for school na sorting and Na una give am money to sort.

This is so sad and unfortunate, i don't understand how men, grow up to become self-entitled and not ready to give to work and build.

Cyntie55:
Good day nairalanders. Season greetings to y'all. I'm so angry right now. Please I need mature advice.

My father is not a learned person but he make sure all his children are graduates. My younger brother(last born and only son) rounded up his Nysc few months ago, we're just 2 girls. My elder sis and I. My elder sis is a nurse in Austria (3 years now), she's married with a kid in Austria. My big sister send money home once in 3 months, and I have been the one receiving the money. I share the money exactly as instructed by my big sis. I have never cheated anyone, Infact my Dad and Big sis communicate very well. My Dad trust me so much.

My younger brother is always angry, He said he feel cheated all the time. He shouts and talks to me anyhow like I'm his mate.
Honestly speaking, I gave my younger brother more love and respect that he could ever imagine. When he was serving, he would call telling me he need 10k urgently, sometimes 20k, that he will pay back. Immediately I will send it to him and he would never pay back. Same thing he does to my father.
If we ask him what's he using his allawee for?? He would angrily say so is becus we're sending him "chicken change" that's why we're asking jamb questions.

He said we don't regard him, he called my Dad a SIMP, he said my Dad listen more to my big sis and I....but he don't listen to any of his suggestions.

My brother is a 2:1 (second class upper) graduate in economics from UNIBEN. After his Nysc all he does is to sleep and eat. My Dad's good friend told my brother to come to Lagos and resume work with him. He refused. My Dad ask him if he wants to further his education (masters or professional courses)he said no....Okay follow my Dad to his cement shop and help him (my dad even promised to pay him salary) he refused....I overheard him on a call with a friend and i suspect he's now into yahoo yahoo.

Look at what happened. My big sis sent us money yesterday to celebrate this festive period. She said I should give my brother 50k, I should take 80k and give my father the rest (abt 250k). My Dad is always aware of everything.
I even added 20k out of my money and I transferred 70k to my brother, I was left with 60k (becus she also sent me hair and I plan to sell it becus I already had enough). You can imagine this ungrateful idiot started insulting me, that I cheated him. the fool angrily withdrawn the money from his account and SET IT ON FIRE (70k). He called my elder sister and started warning her saying "if he can't receive the money henceforth, she should stop sending him money again that he's the man of the house".
My Dad gave him a resetting, resounding, hot and dirty slaps. He pulled out a knife, deflated my Dad's car tyres and ran away from the house.

Everyone is not happy. I don't want my brother to live a wayward life. He's 24 years old. Please nairalanders Help!

CUMIN:
Just do a zoom meeting with your elder sister. Let your elder sister be giving him his own money separately.

After like 3 month your elder sister should slash his allowance to ¼ of what he's recieving at present.
Telling him to get a job.


You must not disclose anything your sister sent to you.

Why should the elder sister be giving him any money at all? A 24 year old graduate of economics for that matter.
He slashed their dad's car tyres and you think he should be rewarded with more money. Next time he will probably burn the house down.
He has no regards for the father or the family. A family that paid his education up to university level. He is just a spoilt and entitled brat.

Now the OP needs to file a police report with the video as evidence. He must be made to pay for the vandalized car. He must start learning that actions have consequences, which I am sorry to say your family has refused to teach him.

He must also never be allowed to return to the house, until he truly repents. He most probably has joined bad gangs or cults, which is a danger to the whole family.

Cyntie55:
Good day nairalanders. Season greetings to y'all. I'm so angry right now. Please I need mature advice.

My father is not a learned person but he make sure all his children are graduates. My younger brother(last born and only son) rounded up his Nysc few months ago, we're just 2 girls. My elder sis and I. My elder sis is a nurse in Austria (3 years now), she's married with a kid in Austria. My big sister send money home once in 3 months, and I have been the one receiving the money. I share the money exactly as instructed by my big sis. I have never cheated anyone, Infact my Dad and Big sis communicate very well. My Dad trust me so much.

My younger brother is always angry, He said he feel cheated all the time. He shouts and talks to me anyhow like I'm his mate.
Honestly speaking, I gave my younger brother more love and respect that he could ever imagine. When he was serving, he would call telling me he need 10k urgently, sometimes 20k, that he will pay back. Immediately I will send it to him and he would never pay back. Same thing he does to my father.
If we ask him what's he using his allawee for?? He would angrily say so is becus we're sending him "chicken change" that's why we're asking jamb questions.

He said we don't regard him, he called my Dad a SIMP, he said my Dad listen more to my big sis and I....but he don't listen to any of his suggestions.

My brother is a 2:1 (second class upper) graduate in economics from UNIBEN. After his Nysc all he does is to sleep and eat. My Dad's good friend told my brother to come to Lagos and resume work with him. He refused. My Dad ask him if he wants to further his education (masters or professional courses)he said no....Okay follow my Dad to his cement shop and help him (my dad even promised to pay him salary) he refused....I overheard him on a call with a friend and i suspect he's now into yahoo yahoo.

Look at what happened. My big sis sent us money yesterday to celebrate this festive period. She said I should give my brother 50k, I should take 80k and give my father the rest (abt 250k). My Dad is always aware of everything.
I even added 20k out of my money and I transferred 70k to my brother, I was left with 60k (becus she also sent me hair and I plan to sell it becus I already had enough). You can imagine this ungrateful idiot started insulting me, that I cheated him. the fool angrily withdrawn the money from his account and SET IT ON FIRE (70k). He called my elder sister and started warning her saying "if he can't receive the money henceforth, she should stop sending him money again that he's the man of the house".
My Dad gave him a resetting, resounding, hot and dirty slaps. He pulled out a knife, deflated my Dad's car tyres and ran away from the house.

Everyone is not happy. I don't want my brother to live a wayward life. He's 24 years old. Please nairalanders Help!

Leave him! There is nothing you guys can say to him that will make him change, he has to learn by himself. He is old enough to make his choices and bear the consequences.

Your father should not worry about him and he should leave the house permanently to fend for himself.

When/If he realizes his stupidity, he will come back home. He should only be allowed back in the house omly if he us truly remorseful.

Cyntie55:
Good day nairalanders. Season greetings to y'all. I'm so angry right now. Please I need mature advice.

My father is not a learned person but he make sure all his children are graduates. My younger brother(last born and only son) rounded up his Nysc few months ago, we're just 2 girls. My elder sis and I. My elder sis is a nurse in Austria (3 years now), she's married with a kid in Austria. My big sister send money home once in 3 months, and I have been the one receiving the money. I share the money exactly as instructed by my big sis. I have never cheated anyone, Infact my Dad and Big sis communicate very well. My Dad trust me so much.

My younger brother is always angry, He said he feel cheated all the time. He shouts and talks to me anyhow like I'm his mate.
Honestly speaking, I gave my younger brother more love and respect that he could ever imagine. When he was serving, he would call telling me he need 10k urgently, sometimes 20k, that he will pay back. Immediately I will send it to him and he would never pay back. Same thing he does to my father.
If we ask him what's he using his allawee for?? He would angrily say so is becus we're sending him "chicken change" that's why we're asking jamb questions.

He said we don't regard him, he called my Dad a SIMP, he said my Dad listen more to my big sis and I....but he don't listen to any of his suggestions.

My brother is a 2:1 (second class upper) graduate in economics from UNIBEN. After his Nysc all he does is to sleep and eat. My Dad's good friend told my brother to come to Lagos and resume work with him. He refused. My Dad ask him if he wants to further his education (masters or professional courses)he said no....Okay follow my Dad to his cement shop and help him (my dad even promised to pay him salary) he refused....I overheard him on a call with a friend and i suspect he's now into yahoo yahoo.

Look at what happened. My big sis sent us money yesterday to celebrate this festive period. She said I should give my brother 50k, I should take 80k and give my father the rest (abt 250k). My Dad is always aware of everything.
I even added 20k out of my money and I transferred 70k to my brother, I was left with 60k (becus she also sent me hair and I plan to sell it becus I already had enough). You can imagine this ungrateful idiot started insulting me, that I cheated him. the fool angrily withdrawn the money from his account and SET IT ON FIRE (70k). He called my elder sister and started warning her saying "if he can't receive the money henceforth, she should stop sending him money again that he's the man of the house".
My Dad gave him a resetting, resounding, hot and dirty slaps. He pulled out a knife, deflated my Dad's car tyres and ran away from the house.

Everyone is not happy. I don't want my brother to live a wayward life. He's 24 years old. Please nairalanders Help!

let him be lockup in a guard room for just 3days, the one Mp use to correct soldiers, no beating ooo, I swear his brain will reset..

This your brother don cast..☹️��



As the only boy, I suspect your
parents spoilt him.



Imagine him even launching an
attack on his father, as per the knife
and tyre☹️❌❌❌❌

Abeg OP no vex can I be your brother for three months?

Cyntie55:
Good day nairalanders. Season greetings to y'all. I'm so angry right now. Please I need mature advice.

My father is not a learned person but he make sure all his children are graduates. My younger brother(last born and only son) rounded up his Nysc few months ago, we're just 2 girls. My elder sis and I. My elder sis is a nurse in Austria (3 years now), she's married with a kid in Austria. My big sister send money home once in 3 months, and I have been the one receiving the money. I share the money exactly as instructed by my big sis. I have never cheated anyone, Infact my Dad and Big sis communicate very well. My Dad trust me so much.

My younger brother is always angry, He said he feel cheated all the time. He shouts and talks to me anyhow like I'm his mate.
Honestly speaking, I gave my younger brother more love and respect that he could ever imagine. When he was serving, he would call telling me he need 10k urgently, sometimes 20k, that he will pay back. Immediately I will send it to him and he would never pay back. Same thing he does to my father.
If we ask him what's he using his allawee for?? He would angrily say so is becus we're sending him "chicken change" that's why we're asking jamb questions.

He said we don't regard him, he called my Dad a SIMP, he said my Dad listen more to my big sis and I....but he don't listen to any of his suggestions.

My brother is a 2:1 (second class upper) graduate in economics from UNIBEN. After his Nysc all he does is to sleep and eat. My Dad's good friend told my brother to come to Lagos and resume work with him. He refused. My Dad ask him if he wants to further his education (masters or professional courses)he said no....Okay follow my Dad to his cement shop and help him (my dad even promised to pay him salary) he refused....I overheard him on a call with a friend and i suspect he's now into yahoo yahoo.

Look at what happened. My big sis sent us money yesterday to celebrate this festive period. She said I should give my brother 50k, I should take 80k and give my father the rest (abt 250k). My Dad is always aware of everything.
I even added 20k out of my money and I transferred 70k to my brother, I was left with 60k (becus she also sent me hair and I plan to sell it becus I already had enough). You can imagine this ungrateful idiot started insulting me, that I cheated him. the fool angrily withdrawn the money from his account and SET IT ON FIRE (70k). He called my elder sister and started warning her saying "if he can't receive the money henceforth, she should stop sending him money again that he's the man of the house".
My Dad gave him a resetting, resounding, hot and dirty slaps. He pulled out a knife, deflated my Dad's car tyres and ran away from the house.

Everyone is not happy. I don't want my brother to live a wayward life. He's 24 years old. Please nairalanders Help!

your brother too do o,u all spoilt him ,and I wonder the type of friends that comes around your hux to visit him ,me as a man there are level at which I can get angry ,but deflating tires ,I no do that shite ,I think your father need to carry your younger brother along in his business let him know no body plugs money from trees ,and that's the part your father has failed to do

MaverickA3:
To be honest with you,
Your brother is taking hard drugs and he is engaged in some stuff that has led to his mental illness.
One of the solutions to his problem it is to get him arrested and lock him up for 1 week. He should be given 2 loaves of bread and a satchet water each day for that 1 week. After one week, take him to a white garment church. They will conduct deliverance on him on 7 different mountains and then take him to Atlantic ocean to wash his head seven times so that the baby evil spirit that has entered him will not grow into maturity. This advise may sound like a joke to you but if you handle his issue with levity, it will cause your family a big shame.

Abeg no run am mad o!

Send dis guy to dubai as soon he reach there agent go collect de passport,he go work fr Arab till he get brain..he go wise

adecz:
This your brother don cast..☹️��



As the only boy, I suspect your
parents spoilt him.



Imagine him even launching an
attack on his father, as per the knife
and tyre☹️❌❌❌❌

na parental spoilt life ,you see uniben students mostly the one's who have people overseas,they act like say they day private university but last last na federal university they day

My brother. The truth is not far from what you typed.

Subsea101:
Bros when I hear this pamper of a thing, I laff, person wey one spoil go spoil. I am the only son in my family, and my parents spoilt me to the core... yet, I no dey misbehave. Na me they make them proud sef.

Yes, I know excess pampering spoils some kids, but person wey one spoil, go spoil.

I blame your parents for all this. They didn't train him well. There's nothing spectacular about being the only son or daughter. What is important is to be successful in life , otherwise no one will even pay attention to you .
I am the only son in my family, but our parents were so strict when we were growing up, so I didn't see anything special about being the only..
Once again, I blame your parents.

I was expecting to read “ My Late brother withdrew and Burnt the Money our sister sent to us” because if na our house, we for don kill am before I come post anything here. 70k in this economy?

The guy lucky sey nur be my brother him be....lol I for don give am brain damage with slaps .....most people here would say he needs prayer...Omo j don't think prayer would do anything...my own advice is to take him to a military correctional center and leave him there a couple of months... because at that age he is uncontrollable...
Plus, you guys including your parents should've recognised the signs of waywardness in him while growing up....I think he was given too much privileges while growing up... that's the reason for his self entitlement and narcissism I must say..your parents also have a hand in his behaviour

The guy don mad already

funshint:
Abeg no run am mad o!

Cyntie55:
Good day nairalanders. Season greetings to y'all. I'm so angry right now. Please I need mature advice.

My father is not a learned person but he make sure all his children are graduates. My younger brother(last born and only son) rounded up his Nysc few months ago, we're just 2 girls. My elder sis and I. My elder sis is a nurse in Austria (3 years now), she's married with a kid in Austria. My big sister send money home once in 3 months, and I have been the one receiving the money. I share the money exactly as instructed by my big sis. I have never cheated anyone, Infact my Dad and Big sis communicate very well. My Dad trust me so much.

My younger brother is always angry, He said he feel cheated all the time. He shouts and talks to me anyhow like I'm his mate.
Honestly speaking, I gave my younger brother more love and respect that he could ever imagine. When he was serving, he would call telling me he need 10k urgently, sometimes 20k, that he will pay back. Immediately I will send it to him and he would never pay back. Same thing he does to my father.
If we ask him what's he using his allawee for?? He would angrily say so is becus we're sending him "chicken change" that's why we're asking jamb questions.

He said we don't regard him, he called my Dad a SIMP, he said my Dad listen more to my big sis and I....but he don't listen to any of his suggestions.

My brother is a 2:1 (second class upper) graduate in economics from UNIBEN. After his Nysc all he does is to sleep and eat. My Dad's good friend told my brother to come to Lagos and resume work with him. He refused. My Dad ask him if he wants to further his education (masters or professional courses)he said no....Okay follow my Dad to his cement shop and help him (my dad even promised to pay him salary) he refused....I overheard him on a call with a friend and i suspect he's now into yahoo yahoo.

Look at what happened. My big sis sent us money yesterday to celebrate this festive period. She said I should give my brother 50k, I should take 80k and give my father the rest (abt 250k). My Dad is always aware of everything.
I even added 20k out of my money and I transferred 70k to my brother, I was left with 60k (becus she also sent me hair and I plan to sell it becus I already had enough). You can imagine this ungrateful idiot started insulting me, that I cheated him. the fool angrily withdrawn the money from his account and SET IT ON FIRE (70k). He called my elder sister and started warning her saying "if he can't receive the money henceforth, she should stop sending him money again that he's the man of the house".
My Dad gave him a resetting, resounding, hot and dirty slaps. He pulled out a knife, deflated my Dad's car tyres and ran away from the house.

Everyone is not happy. I don't want my brother to live a wayward life. He's 24 years old. Please nairalanders Help!

your brother is on drugs, that's the truth. Any help you can get from expect will do him good

Cyntie55:
Good day nairalanders. Season greetings to y'all. I'm so angry right now. Please I need mature advice.

My father is not a learned person but he make sure all his children are graduates. My younger brother(last born and only son) rounded up his Nysc few months ago, we're just 2 girls. My elder sis and I. My elder sis is a nurse in Austria (3 years now), she's married with a kid in Austria. My big sister send money home once in 3 months, and I have been the one receiving the money. I share the money exactly as instructed by my big sis. I have never cheated anyone, Infact my Dad and Big sis communicate very well. My Dad trust me so much.

My younger brother is always angry, He said he feel cheated all the time. He shouts and talks to me anyhow like I'm his mate.
Honestly speaking, I gave my younger brother more love and respect that he could ever imagine. When he was serving, he would call telling me he need 10k urgently, sometimes 20k, that he will pay back. Immediately I will send it to him and he would never pay back. Same thing he does to my father.
If we ask him what's he using his allawee for?? He would angrily say so is becus we're sending him "chicken change" that's why we're asking jamb questions.

He said we don't regard him, he called my Dad a SIMP, he said my Dad listen more to my big sis and I....but he don't listen to any of his suggestions.

My brother is a 2:1 (second class upper) graduate in economics from UNIBEN. After his Nysc all he does is to sleep and eat. My Dad's good friend told my brother to come to Lagos and resume work with him. He refused. My Dad ask him if he wants to further his education (masters or professional courses)he said no....Okay follow my Dad to his cement shop and help him (my dad even promised to pay him salary) he refused....I overheard him on a call with a friend and i suspect he's now into yahoo yahoo.

Look at what happened. My big sis sent us money yesterday to celebrate this festive period. She said I should give my brother 50k, I should take 80k and give my father the rest (abt 250k). My Dad is always aware of everything.
I even added 20k out of my money and I transferred 70k to my brother, I was left with 60k (becus she also sent me hair and I plan to sell it becus I already had enough). You can imagine this ungrateful idiot started insulting me, that I cheated him. the fool angrily withdrawn the money from his account and SET IT ON FIRE (70k). He called my elder sister and started warning her saying "if he can't receive the money henceforth, she should stop sending him money again that he's the man of the house".
My Dad gave him a resetting, resounding, hot and dirty slaps. He pulled out a knife, deflated my Dad's car tyres and ran away from the house.

Everyone is not happy. I don't want my brother to live a wayward life. He's 24 years old. Please nairalanders Help!

If your story is true then he's already living a wayward life...

And going by your story I think he needs all the help he can get...is he into drugs and smoking too?

He needs to see a shrink

Have they confirm his DNA coz with your narration his attitude is close to any of the family