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Am just curious. With the current state of economy, as a lady, can you marry a guy whose salary is not up to 50k monthly?

Candid opinion please!

Jesu! How much is the lady earning? Must it base with his salary? Even if you earn #1m with no proper spending, it wouldn't last

HMMM, LET ME SIT DOWN HERE AND WAIT FOR MY FELLOW GENDER.

The issue isn't earning 50k..it Should be how he spends it.

It is not about the salary of the man. It's about being an hustler. Anyone that tells you salary is enough to survive or sustain a family is just deceiving himself. The higher the salary, the higher the expenses.

As a civil servant, that's my take home. I have about 4 different other hustle that bring money. I don't even rely on the salary.

Why does it always has to be based on what the male has to offer or how much he earns so the woman jst come empty handed and headed
This life no jst balance

Oga, if the lady is not working don't try.

Na lady wey understand you and won grow with you go do the marriage

posty56:
how much the dirty pig they earn wey she go choose, I swear na we they give Nigeria girls the audacity, na otedola pikin wey she go they size me up by salary

Ewww

Atleast the man go get prospect. But let's watch the fight



Anyway, Agriculture is life

Agricmoney:
Atleast the man go get prospect. But let's watch the fight



Anyway, Agriculture is life

Hey

Can the man marry himself? Is only a wicked man that would propose to a lady when he's earning less than 50k.


Mod: see them quoting me. Lol, people should be reasonable o. With this present economy, Buhari Regime, you want to propose to a lady when you're earning less than 50k?

steveneche:
Am just curious. With the current state of economy, as a lady, can you marry a guy whose salary is not up to 50k monthly?

Candid opinion please!

Sure... But marriages don't end with the couple...

Would we have kids? Then no!

I wouldn't encourage anyone to start a family if both partners earn less then 50k... In Nigeria... With the way things are...

posty56:
how much the dirty pig they earn wey she go choose, I swear na we they give Nigeria girls the audacity, na otedola pikin wey she go they size me up by salary

With the way most of you dish out insults...

Yes... She's entitled to choose or size you up... That's normal, intelligent even... Every living thing chooses a mate that has the most to offer...

You are entitled to choose also...

Your entire comment makes no sense...

First of all, you might be a suffer-head... Don't assume others are too... You might feel content being broke, struggling to feed... You seriously want to start a family this way?

See your child(ren) starve, sent home from school...etc.

It's not rude to be wise enough to know that 50k is not enough for even a family of three...(man, woman and one child)...

You should simply say that you can only marry if the woman earns the same amount too... A combined salary... A total of ₦100k... That's manageable...

But you're being unnecessarily defensive...

steveneche:
Am just curious. With the current state of economy, as a lady, can you marry a guy whose salary is not up to 50k monthly?

Candid opinion please!

Seun need to remove some people in this forum

which kind question be this? As if girls dey even dey earn more than 10k per month.


Another SIMP :-(

What you earn shouldn't determine when and if you should marry.

TeddyJammy:
Seun need to remove some people in this forum

which kind question be this? As if girls dey even dey earn more than 10k per month.


Another SIMP :-(

I just tire for that castrated illiterate slowpoke

steveneche:
Hey

Hi


Anyway, Agriculture is life

posty56:
how much the dirty pig they earn wey she go choose, I swear na we they give Nigeria girls the audacity, na otedola pikin wey she go they size me up by salary

Simple question you come here dey display your arrogance..wetin bring insult..you wey dey run mouth like this ehnn I hope say physically you go fit talk or na only online you dey talk upandan..make Dem nack dat your mouth now you go say people wicked...you open mouth dey call pesin dirty pig..

I am very concerned on why you need the opinion of women concerning your salary. Many of these women don't work or earn less than you, so why need their opinion?

So it's girls that choose who dey marry issoryte

Don’t be deceived by salary, I know some civil servants that have not touched their salaries in years. Look at his prospects, girl wey get scence sabi wetin I Dey talk about

tnerro1:
Don’t be deceived by salary, I know some civil servants that have not touched their salaries in years. Look at his prospects, girl wey get scence sabi wetin I Dey talk about

Word!

Yes we can

I can’t marry a lady earning less than that

meetme01:
It is not about the salary of the man. It's about being an hustler. Anyone that tells you salary is enough to survive or sustain a family is just deceiving himself. The higher the salary, the higher the expenses.

As a civil servant, that's my take home. I have about 4 different other hustle that bring money. I don't even rely on the salary.

...a hustler...

My Sis husband was earning less than 40 thousand when they got married 8 years ago.

Dude is now a millionaire, with his own investments.
It is not really about what he earns it about how smart and hard he can hustle to change his life.

It is about focus and determination to earn more

This topic don reach FP reach 100x .

Why can't she? If she can't make money to add,then she is not even fit to be a wife ..