Compromise is the name but most are not ready for the truth, most of us grew up thinking that the happy after ever that's been splashed across the giant screen is the real life, well, fantasy is a good projection.
I've lost many a good damsels because of the issue of compromise and I'll still lost more, it's up to us to work on ourselves.

And as for the 'old flames' reading or viewing this, for letting you down, I'm not sorry one bit.

Takataka:
Respect your wife but dnt take shit from her, always be in control as the man of the house.

Was with a friend somedays back with his wife we went for an occasion we were about to leave and the guy hurriedly step out of the occasion with the wife behind wen we met outside the venue of the occasion, the wife was ranting on him that why did u leave like that without carrying my bag she almost embarrass my guy for public. New wife for that matter way never reach 5 months. The guy just dey look like zoombie for my mind i say chai them don they remote guy man. Trust me iif iit was me i would dealt with her that moment me i dnt take shit.

try to dey lie small small !

Pataricatering:
try to dey lie small small !

Akwamkpuruamu:
You are a slave right in your own house oooo if you are the only one afraid of quarrels in your home. Make your wife know u as a no nonsense man, a trouble maker, she go respect herself.

Simply put, make your wife know say you be baba werey. That devil wey dey her body sef go mellow.

It's your business not mine

Lie how i just told u the truth

Pataricatering:
try to dey lie small small !

Depressed101:
yes many girls do this, this is why I don't eat everyone woman's food, if I see that you like me alot and I notice you have stupid friends (aka bad advicer) or you mention Kaya.... I will not even let you finish , I will avoid eating your food and cut a yardstick for you.. The world is truly wickedness...

In this world wether you believe in Christianity or not, you have to marry a prayerful and intelligently religiously woman, by intelligent, I mean not those who do whatever their pastor's tell them to do, but those who know the word of God

I'm sorry o but does it actually make.sense.to u that someone who.does this will freely.tell this dude ? Lol
Don't be gullible ,.pls

thebosstrevor1:


You created a fake story and you are here defending nonsense.

Fyi, there is nothing like MENSTRUAL WATER

Have you ever been with a woman before, no woman in this world brings out water during menstruation.

Stop pumping out lies from your black ass

water that has been used by women to washed vagina is called_____what?

theForth:


And How do you know that they are broke?

You guys just find a way to belittle people who have different ideologies to yours.

but you don't have a problem with how op was belittling a woman though . Lol

Yinkakolawole:
water that has been used by women to washed vagina is called_____what?

Now you are changing story.

Water used to wash vagina is called WATER.

There is nothing like Menstrual Water.

Village boy.

Yinkakolawole:
I once had an encounter with a married woman who says anytime she want to cook raw meat at home, she said she will be rubbing the raw meat on the surface of her private part & be mentioning her husband name saying whatever i will be telling you be hearkening unto me. And she will cook the meat with her menstrual water then serve her husband without eating from it. I was shocked when she told me this, some women are going far just to bring their husband under their command.

Jesus!!! This is serious o.

ThiagoKid:
"My girlfriend called me from office to come and fetch bathing water for her. I had to do it for peace to reign."

"I don't want any rancor between my wife, and i, so i had to beg her for sex. I did it to allow peace to reign."

"I had to watch all the dishes in the kitchen to allow peace to reign. I dont want my wife to wake up, and be shouting."

The abovementioned phrases are nonsensical and insha allah! Wtf?
See bro, if your wife doesn't want peace herself, why don't you take the vawulence back to her? Abi iro palapala wo niyen?

Why can't she allow peace to reign by compromising on her stand? Why must it be you? Osheeey, peacesetter.

See, i already preinformed my wife that:
If she nag, i'm sending her back to her father's house.
If she cheat, to her father's house
If she discomfort my mom/siblings, to her father's house.

I'm doing you a favour getting married to you. So?

Peace ko, wee-wee ni!

Well, what suits you. It is not as if you are the first person that will do it neither will you be the last, it doesn't make you the best or the worst person on earth, you will not receive award or recognition for it either. There are also many people doing the opposite of your opinion and the world has not stopped for anybody. I am saying this so that you will not feel you are the chairman or the real deal . It is just one of the lifestyles some people out of the billions of people we have on earth live So, we move.

ThiagoKid:
"My girlfriend called me from office to come and fetch bathing water for her. I had to do it for peace to reign."

"I don't want any rancor between my wife, and i, so i had to beg her for sex. I did it to allow peace to reign."

"I had to watch all the dishes in the kitchen to allow peace to reign. I dont want my wife to wake up, and be shouting."

The abovementioned phrases are nonsensical and insha allah! Wtf?
See bro, if your wife doesn't want peace herself, why don't you take the vawulence back to her? Abi iro palapala wo niyen?

Why can't she allow peace to reign by compromising on her stand? Why must it be you? Osheeey, peacesetter.

See, i already preinformed my wife that:
If she nag, i'm sending her back to her father's house.
If she cheat, to her father's house
If she discomfort my mom/siblings, to her father's house.

I'm doing you a favour getting married to you. So?

Peace ko, wee-wee ni!

I love You!!!

thebosstrevor1:


You created a fake story and you are here defending nonsense.

Fyi, there is nothing like MENSTRUAL WATER

Have you ever been with a woman before, no woman in this world brings out water during menstruation.

Stop pumping out lies from your black ass

i ve seen a woman during her period, keeps the water she used washing her vagina... And ur mother fucker is here talking trash

ThiagoKid:
"My girlfriend called me from office to come and fetch bathing water for her. I had to do it for peace to reign."

"I don't want any rancor between my wife, and i, so i had to beg her for sex. I did it to allow peace to reign."

"I had to watch all the dishes in the kitchen to allow peace to reign. I dont want my wife to wake up, and be shouting."

The abovementioned phrases are nonsensical and insha allah! Wtf?
See bro, if your wife doesn't want peace herself, why don't you take the vawulence back to her? Abi iro palapala wo niyen?

Why can't she allow peace to reign by compromising on her stand? Why must it be you? Osheeey, peacesetter.

See, i already preinformed my wife that:
If she nag, i'm sending her back to her father's house.
If she cheat, to her father's house
If she discomfort my mom/siblings, to her father's house.

I'm doing you a favour getting married to you. So?

Peace ko, wee-wee ni!

One of the few 5 muslims in this forum I swear though I don't subscribe to violence. How will I marry a woman that will kill my peace?

Newboss:


So her being beautiful makes her valuable to you? You do realise she will only fûck you if she wants to? You can't just fûck her because she's your wife.

She's as useless to you as anything can ever be. Most people come to terms with this truth after getting married.

Na just wahala some people dey look for inside this life. Somebody go just wake up say he dey look for wife.

e be.like.say to.dey.call women useless dey make many of you pryck dey hard ..later.you go.dey shout say feminists hate men .

Yinkakolawole:
I once had an encounter with a married woman who says anytime she want to cook raw meat at home, she said she will be rubbing the raw meat on the surface of her private part & be mentioning her husband name saying whatever i will be telling you be hearkening unto me. And she will cook the meat with her menstrual water then serve her husband without eating from it. I was shocked when she told me this, some women are going far just to bring their husband under their command.

Bro, dey lie small , small . Abeg .

Newboss:


So her being beautiful makes her valuable to you? You do realise she will only fûck you if she wants to? You can't just fûck her because she's your wife.

She's as useless to you as anything can ever be. Most people come to terms with this truth after getting married.

Na just wahala some people dey look for inside this life. Somebody go just wake up say he dey look for wife.

Hahahaha...
Bros wetin happen nau?
Are you saying men should not marry at all?

Yinkakolawole:
i ve seen a woman during her period, keeps the water she used washing her vagina... And ur mother fucker is here talking trash

Village boy.

only you saw the woman that used meat to rub her vagina, now only you saw another woman that keeps the water she used to watch her vagina.

Like why only you??

Btw did the woman you mentioned .. kept the water to boil meat for her husband

Oponu ni ee

seunlayi:
Op, that is called the simple "riot act of marriage" is good, stick to it. Don't ever over pampered a woman.

1. I pray my husband will help me start boiling water before I got home,

2. I wish he can help me get some items from the market on his way home

3. I hope he will help me make the breakfast because he knew am just recovery from sickness.

4. Don't worry, continue with your gist, my husband will finish the cooking before I got home.

5. Let me go straight home, he must buy those items on his way home

6. Let me continue sleeping, he must serve me breakfast before going out.

From my over 27yrs of marriage, if your case is something similar to number 1 - 3 example, yours is better but if it's similar to number 4-6, DEM DON USE YOUR HEAD

See, Nigeria is a shithole now doing and practicing # 1-3, praying, hoping and wishing.

See the western world doing and practicing # 4-6

You can't compare. He does it because he knows what is right not because he "must"

Alright you guys carry on with your # 1-3

Yinkakolawole:
I once had an encounter with a married woman who says anytime she want to cook raw meat at home, she said she will be rubbing the raw meat on the surface of her private part & be mentioning her husband name saying whatever i will be telling you be hearkening unto me. And she will cook the meat with her menstrual water then serve her husband without eating from it. I was shocked when she told me this, some women are going far just to bring their husband under their command.

this is the reason why stronge men don't eat food cooked by their wife.

I like men that are like the OP...

You are the man, you should take authority and stop being a f00lish simp...

Op, nice one....
I'm learning...

thebosstrevor1:


Now you are changing story.

Water used to wash vagina is called WATER.

There is nothing like Menstrual Water.

Village boy.

so the water used in washing vagina is called_water & the pure water u bought everday too is called_pure water. Ur head is just big 4 nothing, u went to sch just to waste ur parents effort, Ode boy.

solidmyk:
Op just dey burst my head
Nice writeup dude

Op de gimme real joy

thebosstrevor1:


Village boy.

Ooh...so keeps it to boil meat for her husband

Oponu ni ee

iwo ni oponu, nitoriwipe oni opolo. I dont pray u fall into the hands of such a woman, ur brain will reset.

vickydevoka:


Exactly. I'm scared of wahala, dats y I come back late at night, yet she always waiting for me.

Coming back late at night doesnt solve the problem. Work on your issues, talk about it. If possible involve reasonable people to mediate. What if she also comes back at night? You wll accuse her of cheating but here you are. What makes you think that she doesn't want to also go out and let the steam off and come back at night? You guys need to sit down and have a long talk and i believe it will end well.

If you dont give her wahala, how does give you wahala?

Talk is cheap

Yinkakolawole:
so the water used in washing vagina is called_water & the pure water u bought everday too is called_pure water. Ur head is just big 4 nothing, u went to sch just to waste ur parents effort, Ode boy.

You are the definition of MUMU

Imagine a human being believes Women brings out water during menstruation.

Pls explain to is, how this woman was able to accumulate this menstral water to cook a juicy meat for her husband.

Sometimes learn to reason well

Yinkakolawole:
iwo ni oponu, nitoriwipe oni opolo. I dont pray u fall into the hands of such a woman, ur brain will reset.

Opolo brain, ori jatijati

Only a fool will think the way you do.

Stop watching too much yoruba movies that makes no sense

thebosstrevor1:


You are the definition of MUMU

Imagine a human being believes Women brings out water during menstruation.

Pls explain to is, how this woman was able to accumulate this menstral water to cook a juicy meat for her husband.

Sometimes learn to reason well

i dont argue with fools

There is a simp pandemic in Nigeria, it's getting worse by the day

Takataka:
Lie how i just told u the truth

Don't mind her. She knows that what you narrated is true but she is still saying it's a lie. Na her gender and she is very familiar with what happened in what you wrote. That gender, they all naturally operate with the brain/sense of a child - stubborn and want corrections all the time. The other day, one was saying women love to be begged and petted and that's why they misbehave a lot.