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Re: 3 Reasons To Walk Away When Faced With The Choice Of Proving Your Fertility by Jidemoo: 12:49pm On Dec 29, 2021 |
Noted |
Re: 3 Reasons To Walk Away When Faced With The Choice Of Proving Your Fertility by Righteousness2(m): 12:50pm On Dec 29, 2021 |
Well said Op. Never fall that trick from the Pit of Hell to test you before marriage so as to see if you can do this or that. You are not test tube. That is Pure Fornication. There is no modification to it. Run from any man or Home that tells u that. 1 Like |
Re: 3 Reasons To Walk Away When Faced With The Choice Of Proving Your Fertility by juanmiguel: 12:52pm On Dec 29, 2021 |
Its another one! |
Re: 3 Reasons To Walk Away When Faced With The Choice Of Proving Your Fertility by rajiedreez: 12:53pm On Dec 29, 2021 |
Alaye don't deceive us from the reality joor. Its important for everyone to marry someone that has similar mentality with you. That a guy love a lady dearly and equally wants children too, he should forgo his ambition to have kids because his partner can't giver her kids. To me it'll be selfish of the lady also to advice him to go on with the relationship. We have people that doesn't see having kids as a big deal. So its best you to be with those that shares your philosophy of life. Or will you tell a lady to also wants kids to marry an impotent guy that doesn't even have erections at all. How will the union work out. We need to be realistic in all our endeavor and not look at textbook solutions to life that are not practicable 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 3 Reasons To Walk Away When Faced With The Choice Of Proving Your Fertility by Nobody: 12:55pm On Dec 29, 2021 |
Op you got this very wrong, every woman is born fertile, thats whats expected, what was tested before was virginity, guess its no longer done due to bad influence. Girls these days do all sorts of things to get approval, they sleep about from a very tender age, commit multiple abortions (genocide level abortion) do drugs. This is why they are required to prove that they are fertile, any lady whose got nothing to hide shouldn't worry about it. Its only those who wasted their lives that cry about it, fact is they ve got something to hide. Nothing to do with ring, you dont need a ring to prove that you re married and engaged, even hoes wear rings . I support fertility test cos one of the reasons people marry is to have kids, forget companionship, you can always get that anytime. But having your own kids is a luxury, a childless marriage never lasts, ask people who are married. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 3 Reasons To Walk Away When Faced With The Choice Of Proving Your Fertility by Nobody: 12:56pm On Dec 29, 2021 |
The PRIMARY purpose of marriage is to raise a family and give legitimacy and respectability to the future children. If a woman is not fertile, there is no "purpose" to the marriage. You dont need to be married to be in a relationship. Dont bring love into this, in the same way you say if a man loves a woman he wont need to proof or fertility, so also if a woman truly loves a man she doesnt need a ring (or money) to have a relationship!!! Marraige is a contract, a contract has a purpose, the purpose is raising a family. Dont get it twisted!!!! Marriage has nothing to do with love. its about expectations and compatibility. Marraige is a mutually beneficial partnership of coexistence with a purpose. If one party expects something (finances. children etc) and the other cannot deliver, the contract (marraige) is unfulfilled, "love" or no "love"!!!!! When push comes to shove, people find out that "true love" is actually a very scarce item aka it doesnt exist for 99.9% of people who profess love. what people call "love" is actually conditional...most humans are incapable of unconditional love....except perhaps to their children. The same woman who says a man should not inquire about her fertility will not "fall in love" with talk less of entertain any thoughts of marrying a man who is broke or infertile!!! So who is fooling who? 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 3 Reasons To Walk Away When Faced With The Choice Of Proving Your Fertility by 1Sharon(f): 12:57pm On Dec 29, 2021 |
SankaraSo: You can test a woman's fertility by going for a medical check up. 3 Likes |
Re: 3 Reasons To Walk Away When Faced With The Choice Of Proving Your Fertility by ossyprince: 12:57pm On Dec 29, 2021 |
Nonsense write up....after wey all dis girls don spoil ground finish..n there Tito...gasket don wear out finish..then one gentle man go come marry her..abi..1 year ,2years,3yyears...........no bellee no piking...then the gentle guy go dey run up down.... 1 Like |
Re: 3 Reasons To Walk Away When Faced With The Choice Of Proving Your Fertility by Nobody: 12:58pm On Dec 29, 2021 |
1Sharon: Will you be comfortable if a guy you're about to get married to suggests such a test? |
Re: 3 Reasons To Walk Away When Faced With The Choice Of Proving Your Fertility by Heterodox(m): 1:03pm On Dec 29, 2021 |
People dishing out advice they can't follow. OP will call himself a writer. Junks. |
Re: 3 Reasons To Walk Away When Faced With The Choice Of Proving Your Fertility by 1Sharon(f): 1:07pm On Dec 29, 2021 |
theForth: Ofcourse because I'd also appreciate if he did the same test. Fertility/STD testing/genetic testing are what all couples are supposed to do before marriage. Didn't you know that? 5 Likes |
Re: 3 Reasons To Walk Away When Faced With The Choice Of Proving Your Fertility by Enny2013(f): 1:12pm On Dec 29, 2021 |
As if it is hard to get d RING. Just b decent,brilliant,smart, respectful n hardworking... Dnt just try to b a liability n a dullard...u WL c men chasing u. 4 Likes |
Re: 3 Reasons To Walk Away When Faced With The Choice Of Proving Your Fertility by marhez43(f): 1:13pm On Dec 29, 2021 |
If u pray to God for heavenly husband or wife u will not be faced to test ur fertility.men shine ur eye wuman shine am o |
Re: 3 Reasons To Walk Away When Faced With The Choice Of Proving Your Fertility by marhez43(f): 1:15pm On Dec 29, 2021 |
Men any girl u want to marry that is 1)wearing wig dont marry her 2)cannot fast from 6to 6 to marry her 3)cannot pray. |
Re: 3 Reasons To Walk Away When Faced With The Choice Of Proving Your Fertility by annyz: 1:20pm On Dec 29, 2021 |
Grootz: Then write your own make we read. |
Re: 3 Reasons To Walk Away When Faced With The Choice Of Proving Your Fertility by Getrich47(m): 1:21pm On Dec 29, 2021 |
ObaKlaz: |
Re: 3 Reasons To Walk Away When Faced With The Choice Of Proving Your Fertility by Goldie16(f): 1:23pm On Dec 29, 2021 |
That was how my cousin was insulting her brothers wife that she was barren. Only for her to get married too and till now, could not conceive. She was very hygienic and decent girl, hence her confidence in abusing barren women. Nobody knows who will be visited by infertility. 4 Likes |
Re: 3 Reasons To Walk Away When Faced With The Choice Of Proving Your Fertility by GboyegaD(m): 1:26pm On Dec 29, 2021 |
Very good site up. I don't know why some women accept to accept such proofs. You are only seeing your marriage to keep hanging on conditions. 1 Like |
Re: 3 Reasons To Walk Away When Faced With The Choice Of Proving Your Fertility by 1Sharon(f): 1:28pm On Dec 29, 2021 |
Goldie16: Is the infertility from her? You're also insulting them by using the word "barren" |
Re: 3 Reasons To Walk Away When Faced With The Choice Of Proving Your Fertility by derbykol(f): 1:30pm On Dec 29, 2021 |
Goldie16:But I may ask what about her husband's fertility? 1 Like |
Re: 3 Reasons To Walk Away When Faced With The Choice Of Proving Your Fertility by muheeb01(m): 1:37pm On Dec 29, 2021 |
SankaraSo:That's my precious town o and we know how to treat infertility very well...and we are also very fertile lol 1 Like |
Re: 3 Reasons To Walk Away When Faced With The Choice Of Proving Your Fertility by marsup: 1:39pm On Dec 29, 2021 |
siofra:Please what has feminism got to do with fertility/child bearing? 1 Like |
Re: 3 Reasons To Walk Away When Faced With The Choice Of Proving Your Fertility by muheeb01(m): 1:43pm On Dec 29, 2021 |
Infertility major menace affecting marriages after money....If you're a man with low sperm count treat yourself before,or inside the marriage it's very important either oligospermia or Azoospermia,sperm with low motility or with no head or tail can't reproduce,it could be due to stress,infection,or genetic disorder and lifestyle,treat yourself,herbs is very effective. If you're a woman and you're finding it hard to conceive,in as much your uterus or womb is still intact you'll conceive,you just need to treat yourself,either tubal blockage,stomach upset or disorder,constant stomach ache or worm problem,excess freezing diet,fibroid or èdà (when sperm can't travel omto your uterus or draws back immediately after sex,this one is more deeper than you think and you need traditional treatment) you'll conceive just don't remain quiet...dm me I'll treat you tradomedically Check my signature and profile for my work....contact me on anything about your HEALTH TRADOMEDICALLY... 4 Likes |
Re: 3 Reasons To Walk Away When Faced With The Choice Of Proving Your Fertility by jeff1607(m): 1:44pm On Dec 29, 2021 |
Mood11: Some are sterile due to infections they’ve had in past and not treated early enough 3 Likes |
Re: 3 Reasons To Walk Away When Faced With The Choice Of Proving Your Fertility by Dybala11(m): 1:54pm On Dec 29, 2021 |
siofra:Amen, and hopefully the menace of paternity fraud too will decrease and women will truly embrace the equality they are clamouring for and not gender equity. Just kidding o. |
Re: 3 Reasons To Walk Away When Faced With The Choice Of Proving Your Fertility by ti4c: 1:55pm On Dec 29, 2021 |
The third reason was how my mum gave birth to five of us for three different men without getting the ring and had to raise us alone, therefore putting us through a lot of suffering and negligence. Marriage is not everything in life. Wisdom is very important as well. 4 Likes |
Re: 3 Reasons To Walk Away When Faced With The Choice Of Proving Your Fertility by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 2:00pm On Dec 29, 2021 |
Mood11: Thank you for this. To them, it's always a "woman's" problem. Infertility is all about the woman. I hope they learn. |
Re: 3 Reasons To Walk Away When Faced With The Choice Of Proving Your Fertility by charlsecy(m): 2:03pm On Dec 29, 2021 |
binarymachine:How would you relate this with the idea of taking genotype tests before marriage? Do you think two AS or SS persons should go ahead and marry since they are "in love?" |
Re: 3 Reasons To Walk Away When Faced With The Choice Of Proving Your Fertility by Lalas247(f): 2:05pm On Dec 29, 2021 |
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Re: 3 Reasons To Walk Away When Faced With The Choice Of Proving Your Fertility by FaithBrain1994(m): 2:26pm On Dec 29, 2021 |
Op you've made some real salient points. Normally, women don't deserves test and carry but that is how the modern society is structured. Even a woman would pressurize his would-be husband to lay with her to prove his fertility before tying the knot. So, its a two-way thing and we have to live with it. 2 Likes |
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