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Re: Give Me Tips On How To Hold A No Sex Relationship Till Marriage by ojotobiloba1: 12:04pm On Jan 04, 2022
They wanna take ds OP Handicap for new year......
Re: Give Me Tips On How To Hold A No Sex Relationship Till Marriage by Bamzyriches451: 12:04pm On Jan 04, 2022
Broda run! Broda!! Broda run!!!
Re: Give Me Tips On How To Hold A No Sex Relationship Till Marriage by Nobody: 12:06pm On Jan 04, 2022
Dont be scammed, she shagging all they guys in the area and wants you to inherit a borehole.
Re: Give Me Tips On How To Hold A No Sex Relationship Till Marriage by casppyjay: 12:08pm On Jan 04, 2022
Uyi168:
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dormo sir..
ihon owiepa lamogun
Re: Give Me Tips On How To Hold A No Sex Relationship Till Marriage by cococandy(f): 12:08pm On Jan 04, 2022
perambulator:
no one said she does. she should go and find a man who is prepared to wait for sex. Every relationship is about 2 parties being comfortable with the other's demands/position. A woman has a right to say no sex before marraige just as a man has a right to say he must have sex before marraige, if both parties cannot agree then they part ways...no fight there!!!!
She should find a man who agrees to that? Oh But she just did.
Op agreed and is asking for tips on how to succeed so instead of you guys to encourage him , you’re yarning nonsense.

You don’t even believe in what you’re saying
Re: Give Me Tips On How To Hold A No Sex Relationship Till Marriage by Mom007(f): 12:08pm On Jan 04, 2022
Its funny how so many men here are shouting how they will never agree to such terms and how the op is about to be scammed yet they are all still single and without any serious relationship. So what becomes of all those you have been deflowering all these years? If you had married one out of all the ladies you have 'tested' all these years, the situation would not have been as bad as this Abi is that how y'all want to continue to sleep with women without any kind of commitment in the name of relationship and the women have no way of defending themselves or preserving whatever dignity they have left?
Oga op, if you love her and think you guys are compatible, if she has small sense and is not lazy, make haste to marry her then all her cookies can legally be yours to devour. I think a man should be glad when he meets a lady who isn't giving her goodies away and cherish her. Its never too late to stop fornicating.
Re: Give Me Tips On How To Hold A No Sex Relationship Till Marriage by Joseph08(m): 12:08pm On Jan 04, 2022
cococandy:
“Of any sort”

But yea. The fact that you think spending money on someone entitles you to their private part shows you’re looking for a prostitute. Nothing wrong with prostitutes but please be upfront about your mindset.
And that's a typing error "sought"
Re: Give Me Tips On How To Hold A No Sex Relationship Till Marriage by Kajaard: 12:08pm On Jan 04, 2022
cococandy:
She can if she wants to. It’s her body and There’s nothing you can do about it.
Likewise the guy can eat his cake and have it as well. Just as she says no sex, the guy can as well sleep with other girls according to that logic, right?

Happy new year Coco wink
Re: Give Me Tips On How To Hold A No Sex Relationship Till Marriage by adanny01(m): 12:09pm On Jan 04, 2022
EkehPraise:
Top of the morning dear Nairalanders..

I think I have found the girl of my dreams and she ticks all the boxes for me except that she has said our relationship should be a no sex relationship till marriage because we intend to settle down this year by God's grace.
So please if you have been in a no sex relationship kindly share tips on how to preserve it and be steadfast till we tie the knots.
Thank you.

I really need good advice because I want this to be my Bus-Stop.
To be honest, if you don't feel the same, just walk away.

The problem with no sex before marriage is that it puts a trust strain on you. She wants you to trust her but you may not be able to. If you cant trust her, then its not going to work.

If it were me, i will never marry a no sex girl that isn't a virgin.

Afterall, you are not the only one losing, she will also lose a serious man.
Re: Give Me Tips On How To Hold A No Sex Relationship Till Marriage by Bahamas95(m): 12:10pm On Jan 04, 2022
Don't make that mistake.
I met my current girlfriend a virgin and she told me same thing. I wasn't ok with it but I played cool to gain her trust first before I unleash my venom.....I knew deep down that she won't be able to resist me even as a church girl. I am very selective when it comes to women and I don't joke with anything that involves sex. I wanna see and taste what she got in between her legs to be very sure if am ok with it or not.......I don't wanna get married today and divorce tomorrow cos of sex related issues.
Re: Give Me Tips On How To Hold A No Sex Relationship Till Marriage by Uyi168: 12:10pm On Jan 04, 2022
casppyjay:
ihon owiepa lamogun
..
epa, na small boy I be o..

labo baba nokhua
Re: Give Me Tips On How To Hold A No Sex Relationship Till Marriage by Nobody: 12:12pm On Jan 04, 2022
EkehPraise:
Top of the morning dear Nairalanders..

I think I have found the girl of my dreams and she ticks all the boxes for me except that she has said our relationship should be a no sex relationship till marriage because we intend to settle down this year by God's grace.
So please if you have been in a no sex relationship kindly share tips on how to preserve it and be steadfast till we tie the knots.
Thank you.

I really need good advice because I want this to be my Bus-Stop.
First of all is she a virgin .? If she is then pls I beg of you wait since you're both getting married this year .
But if she's not pls I beg of you don't be a stupid and unfortunate simp fuçk the hell outta her wreck that pússy angry..
Re: Give Me Tips On How To Hold A No Sex Relationship Till Marriage by ufotunang: 12:13pm On Jan 04, 2022
Have you confirmed if she is a virgin..... nowadays is hard for girls to stay without sex till after marriage.... body no be firewood...konji girls everywhere
Re: Give Me Tips On How To Hold A No Sex Relationship Till Marriage by Nyascobar1414: 12:13pm On Jan 04, 2022
cococandy:
She can if she wants to. It’s her body and There’s nothing you can do about it.
Or..their problem..
But ah go talk am again say..
Na mumu dey marry non virgin lady..

Imagine paying a million naira bride price for coochie wey guy use 2k chop..
Sense is far from such men.
Re: Give Me Tips On How To Hold A No Sex Relationship Till Marriage by yorubarere: 12:16pm On Jan 04, 2022
Romanoff:
I'll advise you to repent and give your life to Christ. Ask God to reveal this woman to you. Allow God to lead you.

Any secret she's hiding, if you have a relationship with God, God will reveal it to you.

It takes the grace of God, discipline and commitment to avoid fornication.

Don't do it because of her, do it because of you and your soul.
You just confused the man. This is why it is disastrous to take advises from women. Shame
Re: Give Me Tips On How To Hold A No Sex Relationship Till Marriage by adanny01(m): 12:16pm On Jan 04, 2022
caesymore:
Nna Mehn...


On grounds say she be virgin or wetin?
Tips kee, well the first tip be say make sure she be virgin to avoid premium tears .

Second Tip, Change is constant and so is konji. E go hard to tell pesin wey don dey chop before say make eno chop again.

well, you can wait for our resident Pastor for third tip on this.
Same is the other way round.

E go hard to tell pesin wey no dey chop before say make e start dey chop steady and well.
Re: Give Me Tips On How To Hold A No Sex Relationship Till Marriage by Curious346: 12:18pm On Jan 04, 2022
Nyascobar1414:
Or..their problem..
But ah go talk am again say..
Na mumu dey marry non virgin lady..

Imagine paying a million naira bride price for coochie wey guy use 2k chop..
Sense is far from such men.
lady sang no sex before marriage. Guy agreed .

After wedding , guy saw a tatto on his wife's VJ
Re: Give Me Tips On How To Hold A No Sex Relationship Till Marriage by makavellidon(m): 12:19pm On Jan 04, 2022
EkehPraise:
Top of the morning dear Nairalanders..

I think I have found the girl of my dreams and she ticks all the boxes for me except that she has said our relationship should be a no sex relationship till marriage because we intend to settle down this year by God's grace.
So please if you have been in a no sex relationship kindly share tips on how to preserve it and be steadfast till we tie the knots.
Thank you.

I really need good advice because I want this to be my Bus-Stop.
pastor righteousness your attention is needed here
Re: Give Me Tips On How To Hold A No Sex Relationship Till Marriage by Nobody: 12:19pm On Jan 04, 2022
cococandy:
She should find a man who agrees to that? Oh But she just did.
Op agreed and is asking for tips on how to succeed so instead of you guys to encourage him , you’re yarning nonsense.

You don’t even believe in what you’re saying
he hasnt agreed, if he has he isnt comfortable with it. otherwise he wouldnt be here asking for advice.

Like i said if a woman has never had sex then it is ok saying no sex before marraige. it is then up to the man if he can wait but if it is a woman who has aleady had sex then she has no leg to stand on. Why didnt she wait for marraige before having sex? It is her body and she is free do do as she likes as you said. But knowing Nigerian women, a woman who is not a virgin saying no sex before marraige is a big red flag and a wise man would do well to run!!!!

I am not saying he has a right to demand sex or that she must give him sex, I am saying if she isnt a virgin he needs to run away just for the fact that she has the audacity to deny a man who wants to marry her sex when she has given it away freely to a man or men who clearly did not want to marry her. what is the prize worth waiting for marraige if it is something you have already given away cheaply? How is a man supposed to feel that he waited for marraige for something other(s) have chopped and cleaned mouth? it shows the mindset of a woman that will be a problem in a marraige.
Re: Give Me Tips On How To Hold A No Sex Relationship Till Marriage by casppyjay: 12:22pm On Jan 04, 2022
Uyi168:
..
epa, na small boy I be o..

labo baba nokhua
na so but remember dem nor dey see small snake ooooo na Man U be las las .. Etiosa!
Re: Give Me Tips On How To Hold A No Sex Relationship Till Marriage by segtech68: 12:22pm On Jan 04, 2022
Go with your friends to meet her parents , go with wine, once they are happy with you, that's marriage. you can fck your bride. Then fix weeding date. Sex before marriage is only allowed for virgin. It doesn't mean a virgin is better than none virgin
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Re: Give Me Tips On How To Hold A No Sex Relationship Till Marriage by cococandy(f): 12:22pm On Jan 04, 2022
Kajaard:
Likewise the guy can eat his cake and have it as well. Just as she says no sex, the guy can as well sleep with other girls according to that logic, right?

Happy new year Coco wink
Happy new year

I don’t know how this your logic works

If they agreed to wait until marriage, if he actually agrees and then goes out to sleep with other girls, tell me how it’s the same logic as her saying it’s her body and she wants to wait? No don’t tell me.. But I’ll tell you. The logical equivalent is for him to disagree with the arrangement if he doesn’t want it that way and go on his merry way
Re: Give Me Tips On How To Hold A No Sex Relationship Till Marriage by smokeyupu(m): 12:24pm On Jan 04, 2022
alphaNomega:
Should we tell him?
A beg... Let am discover the tattoo by himself!
Re: Give Me Tips On How To Hold A No Sex Relationship Till Marriage by cococandy(f): 12:28pm On Jan 04, 2022
He asked for advice to make it work Not whether he should agree or not.

If a woman has had sex before marriage, the leg she had to stand on is that it’s her humanity, body and you have no right to dictate what she can or cannot do with it. Whether a man has been there before you or not doesn’t get to determine your ability to be there as well. It solely lies on if she lets you. 100% her decision

Some of you don’t even see women as human beings because you have an astonishing lack of respect for women’s bodily autonomy. Almost like we are pieces of furniture to you guys and you can tell us where and when to be.

It’s would be amusing if it wasn’t horrifying.

perambulator:
he hasnt agreed, if he has he isnt comfortable with it. otherwise he wouldnt be here asking for advice.

Like i said if a woman has never had sex then it is ok saying no sex before marraige. it is then up to the man if he can wait but if it is a woman who has aleady had sex then she has no leg to stand on. Why didnt she wait for marraige before having sex? It is her body and she is free do do as she likes as you said. But knowing Nigerian women, a woman who is not a virgin saying no sex before marraige is a big red flag and a wise man would do well to run!!!!
Re: Give Me Tips On How To Hold A No Sex Relationship Till Marriage by jrusky(m): 12:28pm On Jan 04, 2022
Haaa girl of you dream? Pls how long have been on this forum young man that you are still falling for this type of fake old, girls antic to waste your timehuh

I'm not saying turn her to sex machine but I heard this your statement last may be 15 or 20 years ago because when babe want to trap you and dump you at the very die minute you will hear them saying this nonsense.

Wake up young man seek matured experienced men advice. Good luck.
Re: Give Me Tips On How To Hold A No Sex Relationship Till Marriage by Johel(m): 12:28pm On Jan 04, 2022
EkehPraise:
Top of the morning dear Nairalanders..

I think I have found the girl of my dreams and she ticks all the boxes for me except that she has said our relationship should be a no sex relationship till marriage because we intend to settle down this year by God's grace.
So please if you have been in a no sex relationship kindly share tips on how to preserve it and be steadfast till we tie the knots.
Thank you.


Is she a virgin??

I really need good advice because I want this to be my Bus-Stop.
Re: Give Me Tips On How To Hold A No Sex Relationship Till Marriage by Johel(m): 12:28pm On Jan 04, 2022
EkehPraise:
Top of the morning dear Nairalanders..

I think I have found the girl of my dreams and she ticks all the boxes for me except that she has said our relationship should be a no sex relationship till marriage because we intend to settle down this year by God's grace.
So please if you have been in a no sex relationship kindly share tips on how to preserve it and be steadfast till we tie the knots.
Thank you.




I really need good advice because I want this to be my Bus-Stop.
Is she a virgin??
Re: Give Me Tips On How To Hold A No Sex Relationship Till Marriage by Ybaby: 12:29pm On Jan 04, 2022
EkehPraise:
Top of the morning dear Nairalanders..

I think I have found the girl of my dreams and she ticks all the boxes for me except that she has said our relationship should be a no sex relationship till marriage because we intend to settle down this year by God's grace.
So please if you have been in a no sex relationship kindly share tips on how to preserve it and be steadfast till we tie the knots.
Thank you.

I really need good advice because I want this to be my Bus-Stop.
Go to the registry and marry her since she ticks all boxes.... nothing to wait for again.
Re: Give Me Tips On How To Hold A No Sex Relationship Till Marriage by gidado14(m): 12:29pm On Jan 04, 2022
EkehPraise:
Top of the morning dear Nairalanders..

I think I have found the girl of my dreams and she ticks all the boxes for me except that she has said our relationship should be a no sex relationship till marriage because we intend to settle down this year by God's grace.
So please if you have been in a no sex relationship kindly share tips on how to preserve it and be steadfast till we tie the knots.
Thank you.

I really need good advice because I want this to be my Bus-Stop.
become a muslim simple

Re: Give Me Tips On How To Hold A No Sex Relationship Till Marriage by meobizy(m): 12:31pm On Jan 04, 2022
How is she the girl of your dreams if she doesn’t tick that box? The girl of my dreams should fulfill my every earthly wish and more. My friend, you found a fellow human being, compromise with her or find a real dream girl.
Re: Give Me Tips On How To Hold A No Sex Relationship Till Marriage by Nobody: 12:31pm On Jan 04, 2022
cococandy:
He asked for advice to make it work Not whether he should agree or not.

If a woman has had sex before marriage, the leg she had to stand on is that it’s her humanity, body and you have no right to dictate what she can or cannot do with it. Whether a man has been there before you or not doesn’t get to determine your ability to be there as well. It solely lies on if she lets you. 100% her decision

Some of you don’t even see women as human beings because you have an astonishing lack of respect for women’s bodily autonomy. Almost like we are pieces of furniture to you guys and you can tell us where and when to be.

It’s would be amusing if it wasn’t horrifying.
Like i said womwn should stop seeing sex as a prize or a tool of manipulation. if you have given it out freely dont even try to tell any man to wait for marraige. Only a weak man will accept such conditions and You are actually creating problems for yourself because when his head clears, the man will eventually resent you.

As for your nonsense about treating women like Human beings, well if you respect yourself as a woman, you will get respect from men. If sex is that valuable to you then dont give it out freely and if you have dont use it as a bargaining tool because that is adding insult to injury.
Re: Give Me Tips On How To Hold A No Sex Relationship Till Marriage by OdenKelechi(m):
Then hurry up and marry her, since you like Bleep too much
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