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Re: My Girlfriend Ran Away Because Of My Proposed Family Financial Plan by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 2:56pm On Jan 05, 2022
GetMeRight:
Another young widow in the making. What a mentality? Mother don tear father's life with curses, lol
undecided
Re: My Girlfriend Ran Away Because Of My Proposed Family Financial Plan by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 2:57pm On Jan 05, 2022
BigBashiru:
Ur finished! Lol.... but to be fair guys are finished too at 45.....
You will be finished.

I still have time jare. Let me flex small. When I get to 40, I will reason marriage.
Re: My Girlfriend Ran Away Because Of My Proposed Family Financial Plan by pawesome(m): 3:07pm On Jan 05, 2022
Judybash93:
Wait oOo, wives no dey buy gown for themselves again? huh
na the man go give her money to rent gown na
Re: My Girlfriend Ran Away Because Of My Proposed Family Financial Plan by lavamaestro(f): 3:08pm On Jan 05, 2022
Nyascobar1414:
But most of Y'all women are living under the pay check of men..
If men leave women alone, women will starve and die.. Just go to a university and see how married men sponsor this young girls..

I just take girls like normal beings, but I'm really surprised as some men hold them at high esteem..
When I was a lil kid I thought ladies were different set of beings,as in they dint defecate,urinate and so on.. But when I grew up and with the knowledge of biology I knew that women also excrete, even menstruate..and all those filthy stuffs.. I was kinda piss off...
Just that I look beyond lust that why I take women as normal beings.. And Ion fornicate, so why the Bleep should I value women...
I dont..
Women make men submit to them cos of sex.. But I've overcomed sex and lust, so no shii with me and women..
Only when I need kids I can house a female and endure all those filthy stuffs that come with them..
And note, I ain't gay, women turn me on, not men. But I still suppressed libido, grace though.
So because women do the filthy toilet duties men do, you were pissed off. You are talking like women created themselves. So immature and delusional.

Women don't control men with sex. Men allow themselves to be controlled with sex. No one is begging you guys to approach ladies. In short, I'm irritated by the number of men that approach me daily. Not all ladies want male attention and the ones that do don't even meet the men to give them attention, men give them on their own accord.

You said women will starve if left alone, then leave us. Let us be the one approaching you guys then. Because with all the bashing that women are useless and only for the money, men are still ready to fund a girl's lifestyle and not just fund but beg the lady to even be in his life. I'm talking from experience. Most men than women go after the opposite gender.

You don't care about us so why are you worried that we are going to be hungry? If men left women alone and relationships were not seen as poverty alleviation scheme, then women would be forced to work.

And you said you were attracted to women, it's funny. How can you be attracted to a gender that you see as inferior, a gender you disrespect and hate? Make it make sense. Women who hate men follow the gender they like.

It's still your gender that will approach a lady and be scorned when she refuses to be with you. It's your gender that can't take no for an answer and is ready to put money just to make the other gender appreciate them. It's your gender that would still come online to insult women just because she didn't love you. Go with the superior gender and leave the inferior gender that has so much weakness.
Re: My Girlfriend Ran Away Because Of My Proposed Family Financial Plan by Ishilove: 3:15pm On Jan 05, 2022
Mariangeles:
Na make e for no be like say we dey exaggerate. cheesy
They cannot understand
Re: My Girlfriend Ran Away Because Of My Proposed Family Financial Plan by BigBashiru: 3:26pm On Jan 05, 2022
UyaiIncomparabl:
You will be finished.

I still have time jare. Let me flex small. When I get to 40, I will reason marriage.
Ur finished...
Re: My Girlfriend Ran Away Because Of My Proposed Family Financial Plan by Nyascobar1414: 3:38pm On Jan 05, 2022
lavamaestro:
So because women do the filthy toilet duties men do, you were pissed off. You are talking like women created themselves. So immature and delusional.

Women don't control men with sex. Men allow themselves to be controlled with sex. No one is begging you guys to approach ladies. In short, I'm irritated by the number of men that approach me daily. Not all ladies want male attention and the ones that do don't even meet the men to give them attention, men give them on their own accord.

You said women will starve if left alone, then leave us. Let us be the one approaching you guys then. Because with all the bashing that women are useless and only for the money, men are still ready to fund a girl's lifestyle and not just fund but beg the lady to even be in his life. I'm talking from experience. Most men than women go after the opposite gender.

You don't care about us so why are you worried that we are going to be hungry? If men left women alone and relationships were not seen as poverty alleviation scheme, then women would be forced to work.

And you said you were attracted to women, it's funny. How can you be attracted to a gender that you see as inferior, a gender you disrespect and hate? Make it make sense. Women who hate men follow the gender they like.

It's still your gender that will approach a lady and be scorned when she refuses to be with you. It's your gender that can't take no for an answer and is ready to put money just to make the other gender appreciate them. It's your gender that would still come online to insult women just because she didn't love you. Go with the superior gender and leave the inferior gender that has so much weakness.
hahahahaaa....
I'm attracted to the opposite sex, thats normal.. But Ion have anything to do with them IF am not ready to marry...
I have also turn down many girls, so it a win win.. When I turn them down, they now claim like they hate me... Ladies value mens attention, that why they post all those naked stinky pussy on media... Just that you have been able to see niggas that beg and chase the other gender...
Me, Ion do that, instead they chase me, which I hate it, cos they will look desperate and weak..
Let me tell you, most men dont love women for sex... That why you see men after marrying the so called wife, especially after pregnancy, they leave her and go for the next hot girl..
So, most men beg ladies for sex disguising it as love...

Thats why some real niggas after sex they will hate you.. Cos that what they wanted. Not love...

Not all men chase or beg ladies..
Its only weak, pussy ass niggas..

When I just remember that any beautiful girl that I fancy is just like another human(girl that menstruate, pussy still has bacteria, smells).. Its likewise a turnoff for me..
Re: My Girlfriend Ran Away Because Of My Proposed Family Financial Plan by YxngLionKing: 3:40pm On Jan 05, 2022
Opeyemiextra:
And your own specie is what?
Please.
You don't know the details about their relationship so stop!
Quick Question
Did you read the first line correctly? Do you know what an endangered specie is?
I wasn't attacking you
Re: My Girlfriend Ran Away Because Of My Proposed Family Financial Plan by BigBashiru: 3:59pm On Jan 05, 2022
Nyascobar1414:
hahahahaaa....
I'm attracted to the opposite sex, thats normal.. But Ion have anything to do with them IF am not ready to marry...
I have also turn down many girls, so it a win win.. When I turn them down, they now claim like they hate me... Ladies value mens attention, that why they post all those naked stinky pussy on media... Just that you have been able to see niggas that beg and chase the other gender...
Me, Ion do that, instead they chase me, which I hate it, cos they will look desperate and weak..
Let me tell you, most men dont love women for sex... That why you see men after marrying the so called wife, especially after pregnancy, they leave her and go for the next hot girl..
So, most men beg ladies for sex disguising it as love...

Thats why some real niggas after sex they will hate you.. Cos that what they wanted. Not love...

Not all men chase or beg ladies..
Its only weak, pussy ass niggas..

When I just remember that any beautiful girl that I fancy is just like another human(girl that menstruate, pussy still has bacteria, smells).. Its likewise a turnoff for me..
Very nice response....
Re: My Girlfriend Ran Away Because Of My Proposed Family Financial Plan by BigBashiru: 4:03pm On Jan 05, 2022
Nyascobar1414:
hahahahaaa....
I'm attracted to the opposite sex, thats normal.. But Ion have anything to do with them IF am not ready to marry...
I have also turn down many girls, so it a win win.. When I turn them down, they now claim like they hate me... Ladies value mens attention, that why they post all those naked stinky pussy on media... Just that you have been able to see niggas that beg and chase the other gender...
Me, Ion do that, instead they chase me, which I hate it, cos they will look desperate and weak..
Let me tell you, most men dont love women for sex... That why you see men after marrying the so called wife, especially after pregnancy, they leave her and go for the next hot girl..
So, most men beg ladies for sex disguising it as love...

Thats why some real niggas after sex they will hate you.. Cos that what they wanted. Not love...

Not all men chase or beg ladies..
Its only weak, pussy ass niggas..

When I just remember that any beautiful girl that I fancy is just like another human(girl that menstruate, pussy still has bacteria, smells).. Its likewise a turnoff for me..
You should bcome polygamous....so many guys lose frame, become desperate etc bxos they were sold the lie of monogamy....i believe a person can be polygamous without offending God if its practiced right e.g. all polygamous partners must be born again Christians.... Solomon and so many Kings had so many wives and concubines....
Re: My Girlfriend Ran Away Because Of My Proposed Family Financial Plan by bigpicture001(op): 4:11pm On Jan 05, 2022
descarado:
What a hot topic kiss
Though fictitious but very entertaining.
How am I to read almost 40 pages?

But the ones I managed to read so far so good.
Either u suport or don't with reasons.
That's how forums supposed be.
Kudos to everybody.

This generation of Nigerians ain't smiling I tell you kiss kiss kiss
It is not fiction... My said gf works with a federal University and earns 87k..... She actually changed after our very well detailed financial involvement date/meeting.... Doesn't pick my call anymore...

If she had agreed we will hit the alter this Easter..though I read through all the pages..I saw arears where I erred and places where I am right...sh is not on this forum to see these

I really thank everyone on their hard thought responses...
Re: My Girlfriend Ran Away Because Of My Proposed Family Financial Plan by ParpahSeventy: 4:12pm On Jan 05, 2022
NigeriaIsGreat:
Lol
I thought you are done having a discuss with me sir? Bros this one wey u get money to buy me like this wink shey u no go prove am here before i DM you like this bros?
I don't have to prove to you that I have money, whether you agree to it or not, it doesn't change anything.
Am not even freaked with money, I had to talk about money because to girls like you, any guy who doesn't support lavish spending on lazy asses like you is broke.
I have what I want to spend, but I won't spend it, you get it?
This talk is enough for now
Re: My Girlfriend Ran Away Because Of My Proposed Family Financial Plan by ParpahSeventy: 4:29pm On Jan 05, 2022
LagosInter:
You are an adult and hate microwaved food in the guise of I don't just like it.

This sounds like crass nonsense.

I wonder if you did that while single and if your parents raised you like that too.

Again, I wonder if you did same in the university.



Well, if you have money you can decide to be eating meals not more than 2 hours after they are made.
Your reply got me laughing hard, seems microwaved food is a sort of enjoyment to we Nigerians, you are d second person replying me on this, I was with my uncle for holidays some years years ago, he had two microwaves in the house, one in the kitchen and another in the dining, both functioning well, guess what the family is made up parents and a son, no other child in the family, my aunty was so kind to prepare meals for me to avoid me and microwave she knows I hate it, I do most of my cooking while in the University, I never microwaved food, I have never done it, am not willing to do it, it's a common practice that if I cook in excess it goes to waste, unless somebody bails me out, this may sound so unfortunate but I have thrown alot of food away because I cooked in excess quantity expecting a visitor and they don't show up, keep anything in the freezer called stew or soup, you eat it alone am not a party to that.
It's a choice, I have alot of choices when it comes to eating even my siblings and mom feel I make alot of choices, it's not bad, another thing, I don't eat hot food.. These are personal choices, it's not a standard that people must enjoy microwaved food.
The food must not necessarily be two hours, it be within 5-6 hours, not too long to lose it's heat content, and you should come to a point where people's choices won't sound like "crass nonsense" to you.
I don't eat cold or hot food.
Re: My Girlfriend Ran Away Because Of My Proposed Family Financial Plan by plat0: 4:47pm On Jan 05, 2022
UyaiIncomparabl:
You're not serious. Never split bills with a woman. Let her decide to pick up bills that she can afford. You seem very irresponsible.
Why? Are women not humans? Don't they have brains, legs and hands like men? grin
Re: My Girlfriend Ran Away Because Of My Proposed Family Financial Plan by plat0:
I pity single Nigerian ladies, the red pill movement is gaining a lot of traction grin
Re: My Girlfriend Ran Away Because Of My Proposed Family Financial Plan by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 5:08pm On Jan 05, 2022
plat0:
Why? Are women not humans? Don't they have brains, legs and hands like men? grin
God cursed you guys to work, till the ground and be full-time providers. Ours is just to support IF needed. Do you understand?
Re: My Girlfriend Ran Away Because Of My Proposed Family Financial Plan by BigBashiru: 5:08pm On Jan 05, 2022
bigpicture001:
It is not fiction... My said gf works with a federal University and earns 87k..... She actually changed after our very well detailed financial involvement date/meeting.... Doesn't pick my call anymore...

If she had agreed we will hit the alter this Easter..though I read through all the pages..I saw arears where I erred and places where I am right...sh is not on this forum to see these

I really thank everyone on their hard thought responses...
It's cases like urs that made me adjust my belief system a bit.... if you had been chasing 5 girls at once or entered relationships with 5 different girls at once and this happened you would simply shift to the remaining....

Women do this all the time I.e. backing out last minute...

The problem is men are threatened with hell for having multiple girlfriends (risk management).... my reason for having multiple gfs is for risk management but Christianity scares ppl out of reason by threatening them with lake of fire/hell etc

Hence I had to revise my beliefs to include a polygamist approach done in fear of God (I.e. the girls in my concubine must be born again christians so as not to defile the temple of God which we are)....

Monogamy isn't the best for a man yet its instilled in ppl from youth....
Re: My Girlfriend Ran Away Because Of My Proposed Family Financial Plan by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 5:08pm On Jan 05, 2022
plat0:
I pity single Nigerian ladies, the red pill movement is gaining a lot of traction grin

Had a discussion with a close pal netting $15k monthly, bro said his future is too bright for a broke girl to have him grin
Na for una pocket. It doesn't exist in the real world.
Re: My Girlfriend Ran Away Because Of My Proposed Family Financial Plan by plat0: 5:09pm On Jan 05, 2022
UyaiIncomparabl:
Na for una pocket. It doesn't exist in the real world.
ok o. LMAO grin
Re: My Girlfriend Ran Away Because Of My Proposed Family Financial Plan by plat0: 5:11pm On Jan 05, 2022
UyaiIncomparabl:
God cursed you guys to work, till the ground and be full-time providers. Ours is just to support IF needed. Do you understand?
off course, you will cite biblical references to support your cause, hope you know that women were regarded as sub humans in the old testament too? grin
Re: My Girlfriend Ran Away Because Of My Proposed Family Financial Plan by BigBashiru: 5:13pm On Jan 05, 2022
UyaiIncomparabl:
Na for una pocket. It doesn't exist in the real world.
Reality is dawning on you lot lolz! I built alone and no leech ("wife" )who holds a degree, has hands legs and brain can steal my sweat from me using her body or some ridiculous bible verses and judeo christian threats!
Re: My Girlfriend Ran Away Because Of My Proposed Family Financial Plan by BigBashiru: 5:14pm On Jan 05, 2022
UyaiIncomparabl:
God cursed you guys to work, till the ground and be full-time providers. Ours is just to support IF needed. Do you understand?
There's where u get it wrong. Adam fends for himself and eve fends for herself...
Re: My Girlfriend Ran Away Because Of My Proposed Family Financial Plan by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 5:16pm On Jan 05, 2022
plat0:
off course, you will cite biblical references to support your cause, hope you know that women were regarded as sub-humans in the old testament too? grin
Sub-humans my ass.

Just carry your responsibilities as a man and don't complain. I'm tired of you men always nagging. Abeg.
Re: My Girlfriend Ran Away Because Of My Proposed Family Financial Plan by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 5:17pm On Jan 05, 2022
BigBashiru:
There's where u get it wrong. Adam fends for himself and eve fends for herself...
After God sent them out of the garden of Eden, what commands did he give them specifically? That's if you even read the Bible.
Re: My Girlfriend Ran Away Because Of My Proposed Family Financial Plan by plat0: 5:18pm On Jan 05, 2022
UyaiIncomparabl:
Sub-humans my ass.

Just carry your responsibilities as a man and don't complain. I'm tired you men always nagging. Abeg.
You want the man to be solely responsible for running the family

Hope you wouldn't object if he decides to marry 2 more wives grin undecided
Re: My Girlfriend Ran Away Because Of My Proposed Family Financial Plan by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 5:19pm On Jan 05, 2022
BigBashiru:
Reality is dawning on you lot lolz! I built alone and no leech ("wife" )who holds a degree, has hands legs and brain can steal my sweat from me using her body or some ridiculous bible verses and judeo christian threats!
You should even be happy you'll find a woman to share in your imaginary wealth. Otherwise, cheers to a lonely life. You all need us after all.
Re: My Girlfriend Ran Away Because Of My Proposed Family Financial Plan by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 5:20pm On Jan 05, 2022
plat0:
You want the man to be solely responsible for running the family

Hope you wouldn't object if he decides to marry 2 more wives grin undecided
I'll only accept polygamy if he's rich like Dangote and the likes. You can't be useless, broke and still want polygamy.
Re: My Girlfriend Ran Away Because Of My Proposed Family Financial Plan by plat0: 5:24pm On Jan 05, 2022
UyaiIncomparabl:
I'll only accept polygamy if he's rich like Dangote and the likes. You can't be useless, broke and still want polygamy.
Thank you. You just lended credence to the fact that most women marry for financial security grin

Love is truly a farce.
Re: My Girlfriend Ran Away Because Of My Proposed Family Financial Plan by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 5:28pm On Jan 05, 2022
plat0:
Thank you. You just lended credence to the fact that most women marry for financial security grin
Of course, and that exception is for me. Other women's choices may be different. Love is usually not the first thing on my list when considering a spouse. At least, not anymore. Been there, done that.
Re: My Girlfriend Ran Away Because Of My Proposed Family Financial Plan by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 5:29pm On Jan 05, 2022
plat0:
Love is truly a farce.
I concur.
Re: My Girlfriend Ran Away Because Of My Proposed Family Financial Plan by BigBashiru: 5:31pm On Jan 05, 2022
UyaiIncomparabl:
You should even be happy you'll find a woman to share in your imaginary wealth. Otherwise, cheers to a lonely life. You all need us after all.
1. Woke men use sexxx toys in lieu of chasing gals up and dan.

2. I have about 150 girlfriends as I speak and I share my money among them... so they are sharing in my wealth already.

3. I don't need a woman biko..... women need men more than men need women because you desire financial security....
Re: My Girlfriend Ran Away Because Of My Proposed Family Financial Plan by BigBashiru: 5:35pm On Jan 05, 2022
UyaiIncomparabl:
Of course, and that exception is for me. Other women's choices may be different. Love is usually not the first thing on my list when considering a spouse. At least, not anymore. Been there, done that.
It never was... marriage for a woman is a calculated decision...
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