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Re: Being In Love With Your Boyfriend's Friend, How Do You Kill The Feelings? by Nobody: 12:25pm On Jan 07, 2022
wiloy2k8:
This one no suppose get bf . Na Ashawo fit her

.....there are no words.
Re: Being In Love With Your Boyfriend's Friend, How Do You Kill The Feelings? by everythinggirly(f): 12:25pm On Jan 07, 2022
Stupid love triangle!
Re: Being In Love With Your Boyfriend's Friend, How Do You Kill The Feelings? by usah4(m): 12:27pm On Jan 07, 2022
Is the relationship with this her boyfriend defined? if it is not then she should also do the needful.
My friend can't be treating a lady bad that I have feelings for and knowing fully well that he's only using her and I have genuine feelings for and you'll expect me to kill it.
Call it whatever you like but I won't let that be period.

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Re: Being In Love With Your Boyfriend's Friend, How Do You Kill The Feelings? by Nobody: 12:28pm On Jan 07, 2022
jimakeabi:
It happens to me. My girlfriend which is in love with my best friend to the extent she received his kongi....but las las she lost both of us...tell that your friend not to try it all, she should find a way to kill the feelings.

Oh my gosh. They did it?
Damn. It must have been really hard for you when you found out. I'm sorry cry
Re: Being In Love With Your Boyfriend's Friend, How Do You Kill The Feelings? by larrypappyy(m): 12:28pm On Jan 07, 2022
How would that your friend felt if you told her you are in love with her boyfriend

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Re: Being In Love With Your Boyfriend's Friend, How Do You Kill The Feelings? by AlphaT1(m): 12:31pm On Jan 07, 2022
Jaylynn:
Okay, I know I'm gonna get a whole lot from you guys. But y'all take it easy. embarassed My best friend's the one in this situation. And I can't even answer her question cx I know how much she loves them.
She is in "lust" not love. She wan test both of them..kwantinue.

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Re: Being In Love With Your Boyfriend's Friend, How Do You Kill The Feelings? by Nobody: 12:32pm On Jan 07, 2022
usah4:
Is the relationship with this her boyfriend defined? if it is not then she should also do the needful.
My friend can't be treating a lady bad that I have feelings for and knowing fully well that he's only using her and I have genuine feelings for and you'll expect me to kill it.
Call it whatever you like but I won't let that be period.


Defined? Errgh. Everyone knows about them. Like they're pretty popular.

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But the bad treatment... it's not like he beats her and leaves bruises all over her... he just makes her feel not like the woman she is, invisible, and all that. Ibut hang on, what if you dating that your friend's girl cause a huge crack between you guys? Would you ever forgive yourself?
Re: Being In Love With Your Boyfriend's Friend, How Do You Kill The Feelings? by Nobody: 12:34pm On Jan 07, 2022
larrypappyy:
How would that your friend felt if you told her you are in love with her boyfriend

Lol. I swear, I know it'd cause a huge prob. Can't even think of it, cause I love her ❤
Re: Being In Love With Your Boyfriend's Friend, How Do You Kill The Feelings? by Nobody: 12:34pm On Jan 07, 2022
Jaylynn:


Lol. I swear, I know it'd cause a huge prob. Can't even think of it, cause I love her ❤

Not that kind of ‘love’ biko. Make una no reason am grin
Re: Being In Love With Your Boyfriend's Friend, How Do You Kill The Feelings? by Nobody: 12:37pm On Jan 07, 2022
AlphaT1:

She is in "lust" not love. She wan test both of them..kwantinue.

People lust. It's something the devil has made to exist. It's only left for you to get ahold of yourself and overcome temptation wink

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Re: Being In Love With Your Boyfriend's Friend, How Do You Kill The Feelings? by exposition: 12:37pm On Jan 07, 2022
Two of us go arrange you keep u for one corner!
I trust my guys!
Re: Being In Love With Your Boyfriend's Friend, How Do You Kill The Feelings? by Nobody: 12:37pm On Jan 07, 2022
exposition:
Two of us go arrange you keep u for one corner!
I trust my guys!

Wonderful cheesy
Re: Being In Love With Your Boyfriend's Friend, How Do You Kill The Feelings? by Nobody: 12:39pm On Jan 07, 2022
youmour:
She is evolving and manifesting the spirit of olosho, every girl have this spirit some manifest at an earlier age than others,but they all evolve. Sprinkle some salt at her windows and let her place a clove of garlic in her vagina each night for 3 months. It won't do anything but it may distract her for a little while.

Tell me something cheesy
Re: Being In Love With Your Boyfriend's Friend, How Do You Kill The Feelings? by Nobody: 12:40pm On Jan 07, 2022
tollyboy5:


You've seen different rods and not gotten a loyal rod lol check yourself grin

Cause you dey inside me nah cheesy
Re: Being In Love With Your Boyfriend's Friend, How Do You Kill The Feelings? by remitarich(f): 12:40pm On Jan 07, 2022
Jaylynn:


Lol. Well, where is that special knife? All these knives wey dey here just dey misbehave grin
okay other knives are misbehaving, u get a new sharp one before the feelings kills you.

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Re: Being In Love With Your Boyfriend's Friend, How Do You Kill The Feelings? by Nobody: 12:40pm On Jan 07, 2022
Arijude:
fvck whoever you want to fvck. Do as you like with your thing

Mummy G.O just read this grin
Re: Being In Love With Your Boyfriend's Friend, How Do You Kill The Feelings? by Nobody: 12:42pm On Jan 07, 2022
remitarich:
okay other knives are misbehaving, u get a new sharp one before the feelings kills you.

Yeah, feelings do consume one from the inside out wink Been there. Never going to make that mistake wink

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Re: Being In Love With Your Boyfriend's Friend, How Do You Kill The Feelings? by Nobody: 12:43pm On Jan 07, 2022
jaxxy:


It’s normal and happens and the solution is not so hard.

1. Why does she like each of them?? She needs to state this out properly to differentiate love from infatuation or anything else.

2. Who values her more?? The fact u have a bf doesn’t mean he’s automatically the one for u it cud be a mistake or a forced relationship or a relationship due to circumstances. So look at who values u, respects u and loves u. If u bf falls short why the fvck are u with him?

3. Ogu kokoro. This means everything is good and fine with ur bf bt cos uve seem a supposed better catch u want to be greedy and selfish and bail?

This isn’t a good trait and is a big character flaw as u will always meet Sm1 supposedly better than ur bf or finer than ur gf bt that is no reason to jump ship like an aimless prostitute. Have some dignity.

4. Guy/sister code: Now whole this is good it isn’t a definite law. U can find love with anybody bt then if u know u will be around both parties I don’t think u should date the friend cos when u 3 meet it will be very awkward.

So in this case ur boyfriend friend which u claim to like may still want to keep the friendship he has with ur boyfriend so how then can a relationship with him or both of them work? Ure setting urself up for Ridicule.

Have some Dignity and sense of direction. If u don’t like ur boyfriend leave him bt dating his friend while they are still friends and remaining friends is super awkward.

Mad!! This is shocked
Thanks for this wink
Re: Being In Love With Your Boyfriend's Friend, How Do You Kill The Feelings? by Indispensable85(m): 12:43pm On Jan 07, 2022
Jaylynn:
Okay, I know I'm gonna get a whole lot from you guys. But y'all take it easy. embarassed My best friend's the one in this situation. And I can't even answer her question cx I know how much she loves them.


Na u jooor......
Ashawo dey ur eye.
U better kill dat evil feelings anyhow.

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Re: Being In Love With Your Boyfriend's Friend, How Do You Kill The Feelings? by Nobody: 12:44pm On Jan 07, 2022
Indispensable85:



Na u jooor......
Ashawo dey ur eye.
U better kill dat evil feelings anyhow.

Comrade, no dey conclude nah grin
Re: Being In Love With Your Boyfriend's Friend, How Do You Kill The Feelings? by Nobody: 12:45pm On Jan 07, 2022
Farotimi72:
Cooperate Olosho!

cheesy

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Re: Being In Love With Your Boyfriend's Friend, How Do You Kill The Feelings? by Nobody: 12:46pm On Jan 07, 2022
jimmychang:


Aswear it is not the gifts ,there is this sexual tension between them grin.They will say it is love.Leave them together dem don Bleep grin grin grin..Nonsense.

The friend dey make her pussy wet .

And you can tell from here? grin
Re: Being In Love With Your Boyfriend's Friend, How Do You Kill The Feelings? by MrMacinterchi1: 12:46pm On Jan 07, 2022
Jaylynn:


And there was one time I told her to break up with him, it caused a big quarrel to the extent she started thinking I was into her man and I wanted him for myself.
she's mad.

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Re: Being In Love With Your Boyfriend's Friend, How Do You Kill The Feelings? by ekitimanalways(m): 12:46pm On Jan 07, 2022
Jaylynn:
Okay, I know I'm gonna get a whole lot from you guys. But y'all take it easy. embarassed My best friend's the one in this situation. And I can't even answer her question cx I know how much she loves them.
Let your friend consider who she is most compatible with and be honest with them-both of them.

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Re: Being In Love With Your Boyfriend's Friend, How Do You Kill The Feelings? by Nobody: 12:47pm On Jan 07, 2022
tollyboy5:

I dislike attention seeking ladies with passion. I have a lot to do, i also need attention and affection.

Dumbass ladies everywhere sad

Really? Why are you in a relationship then if you can never give the girl attention and make her wanting you?

Now, you see why I've got a problem with guys. Y'all just the same [quote][/quote]
Re: Being In Love With Your Boyfriend's Friend, How Do You Kill The Feelings? by usah4(m): 12:47pm On Jan 07, 2022
Jaylynn:



Defined? Errgh. Everyone knows about them. Like they're pretty popular.

.
.
.

But the bad treatment... it's not like he beats her and leaves bruises all over her... he just makes her feel not like the woman she is, invisible, and all that. Ibut hang on, what if you dating that your friend's girl cause a huge crack between you guys? Would you ever forgive yourself?

Of course YES, he'll only regret it later on if the girl is good and he chose to treat her badly and as a true friend he'll understand (but again I know it will not be easy even if I am the one) but if I don't have genuine intention for her it'll be nothing to me.
My advice to him is that he should make out time for her and treat her well cos women need attention, make a lady feel like a baby and see how much trust she'll put in you. You'll be like her King; her everything, she'll always ask you for permission in anything she wants to do in her life even though you two are not married.

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Re: Being In Love With Your Boyfriend's Friend, How Do You Kill The Feelings? by Nobody: 12:48pm On Jan 07, 2022
MrMacinterchi1:
she's mad.

Nah, she's just the emotional type. Even I can relate.
Re: Being In Love With Your Boyfriend's Friend, How Do You Kill The Feelings? by Nobody: 12:50pm On Jan 07, 2022
usah4:


Of course YES, he'll only regret it later on if the girl is good and he chose to treat her badly and as a true friend he'll understand (but again I know it will not be easy even if I am the one) but if I don't have genuine intention for her it'll be nothing to me.
My advice to him is that he should make out time for her and treat her well cos women need attention, make a lady feel like a baby and see how much trust she'll put in you. You'll be like her King; her everything, she'll always ask you for permission in anything she wants to do in her life even though you two are not married.

Exactly what I'm talking about. If you don't want to be there for the one you said you love, then don't go tying her and keeping her in one place.

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Re: Being In Love With Your Boyfriend's Friend, How Do You Kill The Feelings? by larrypappyy(m): 12:50pm On Jan 07, 2022
Jaylynn:


Lol. I swear, I know it'd cause a huge prob. Can't even think of it, cause I love her ❤
Another friend of mine caught my best friend kiss my girlfriend or maybe caught my girlfriend kiss him and he didn't refrain her. I ended the relationship with both and at the end they even couldn't date because she later realized that the grass is not always greener on the other side.

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Re: Being In Love With Your Boyfriend's Friend, How Do You Kill The Feelings? by Nobody: 12:50pm On Jan 07, 2022
ekitimanalways:

Let your friend consider who she is most compatible with and be honest with them-both of them.

Yeah, thanks for this smiley
Re: Being In Love With Your Boyfriend's Friend, How Do You Kill The Feelings? by Indispensable85(m): 12:51pm On Jan 07, 2022
Jaylynn:


Oh, I have a whole lot of problem with guys. But that's a story for another day grin

U might just be the problem after all.

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