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ChyOmaa:
Yes

wow I remember this girl in the nysc section back then before I travelled out.
Just saw you responding to the lady's question so I had to also reply you.
I think I had your Glo number then that started with 0805.
Are you still using it on WhatsApp?
I don't have it again could you be gracious enough to give me your digits maybe in an inactive thread or maybe here then edit it off as soon as I get it..
Thanks a lot

TechSpecialist:
wow I remember this girl in the nysc section back then before I travelled out.
Just saw you responding to the lady's question so I had to also reply you.
I think I had your Glo number then that started with 0805.
Are you still using it on WhatsApp?
I don't have it again could you be gracious enough to give me your digits maybe in an inactive thread or maybe here then edit it off as soon as I get it..
Thanks a lot

Okay, here

ChyOmaa:
Okay

thanks dear.
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UyaiIncomparabl:
What sort of bickering is this? Look, I don't care what you say but I support that girl's movement that's if she hasn't moved already. This is why marriage will forever become unpalatable.

As a man, you are a provider. And curse shall be on any man who decides not to take care of his family efficiently. Who even splits bill with a woman? A sensible woman knows what and what to do. You never enforce it on her. That's the hallmark of stinginess and irresponsibility on the part of the man. A man should be able to provide for his family 100% and if he cannot, then he's not ready for marriage.

Only provider men are fit to be called men.

Entitled bitc.h...i see how pained you're with the OP comment, don't worry we men don wise up, if you're jobless, we won't marry you, if you have nothing to offer except your pussy, we'll still overlook you. However we'll pursue you and your likes rigorously to have as our own if y'all can provide value and add quality to a man's life. You say man is 100% responsible for providing, can you say the same when it comes to a man being in charge of your life or you're part of the feminist crew. Y'all keep deceiving yourselves. We'll see how it all ends

RomanGreen:
Entitled bitc.h...i see how pained you're with the OP comment, don't worry we men don wise up, if you're jobless, we won't marry you, if you have nothing to offer except your pussy, we'll still overlook you. However we'll pursue you and your likes rigorously to have as our own if y'all can provide value and add quality to a man's life. You say man is 100% responsible for providing, can you say the same when it comes to a man being in charge of your life or you're part of the feminist crew. Y'all keep deceiving yourselves. We'll see how it all ends

Stop misusing the word feminist. A feminist is an independent woman, she takes care of her bills. She brings a lot to the table and demands respect in retrospect. These ones are rather entitled or lazy with nothing to offer except ass n boobs women.

bigpicture001:
My girlfriend whom I have planned to settle down with simply started acting cold and eventually stylishly slide out of our relationship because I sat her down and made a family financial support proposal to her in which she will be financially committed to running the proposed family we intend to raise...

These are the proposal...

1. She earns about 80k wile I earn about 300k.. I asked that we jointly contribute for all the children's Career funding starting from when we get married even before any of their birth.. I proposed 10k monthly from her and 40k from me to a trust account. From it we plan to fund all the children's Career from kiddagatten to varsity or which ever path they choose..

2. That sh choose between Nepa bill or DStv or gotv sub monthly..just one for her

3. I will be responsible for rents

4. We pay into another joint account for vacation once in two years..like sh puts in 20k I put in 50k monthly..

5. I provide all the heavy food stuffs required in the house in large quantities including gas ND change of electronics, but sh provide all the daily food supplements to mk mine complete.

6. She buys her clothes ND I buy mine but we can both surprise ourselfs with gift to the other..

7. I will buy the family car ND maintain it. If she buys no p.

8. I didn't rule out surprise gifts once a while and outting which I bankroll ND expect her to do same occasionally..

Plz oo nairalanders are these responsibilities to a wife too much for her, I mean one who works and earn over 50k...?

Sir,I just sent you an emali,kindly reply me sir
I need a particular issue to talk about and it has to do with your recent post on how your ex gf left you when u still earned 25k monthly and she earns 15daily


I'm in exact same situation now and I'd like to talk to you on how to handle it... I'm more concerned about increasing my income tho,just wanna know how your experience was and how u turned it all around

BigBashiru:
a woman can negotiate zero financial contribution from ages 19 - 25 based on their attractiveness alone which will lure men to pay it all (men are ready and will do anything to have thoose girls).... but they dont want to commit at that age. so tell me why i should be paying the bills of a fully grown 32 year old woman in the name of wife.... it aint happening.... when you get married at 28:

1. you must bring money in contribution to the household.
2. the guy is free to have younger girlfriends... shikena!

Marry one put for house first you will see life......

By then this your 1 and 2 will turn to 0 when she holds your clothes for food money early in the morning......