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Re: The Worst Embarrassment You Have Received As A Result Of You Not Having Money by Bamzyriches451: 9:54am On Jan 13, 2022
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Re: The Worst Embarrassment You Have Received As A Result Of You Not Having Money by Juicethekid: 10:36am On Jan 13, 2022
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Re: The Worst Embarrassment You Have Received As A Result Of You Not Having Money by preciousose(m): 10:47am On Jan 13, 2022
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Re: The Worst Embarrassment You Have Received As A Result Of You Not Having Money by ogub(m): 10:56am On Jan 13, 2022
oazeez1991:
A man is not dead, even if he stop breathing; he is dead, when his dignity is snatched away from him.

A man without money is a man without dignity.
Poverty is one of the worst things that can ever happen to man.

We should just keep fighting against poverty, and not against fellow men.


I beg to disagree with your thoughts that a man without money is without dignity, you can have money but you don't have dignity as much as we need money to solve a lot of things we shouldn't place money above every other things, In society today people disregard the word's of God, integrity, noble character, love for our neighbours and values that should make us distinct from other creatures just for the sake of money.

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Re: The Worst Embarrassment You Have Received As A Result Of You Not Having Money by Livi2020(m): 11:01am On Jan 13, 2022
Please can you introduce me to this your online business? I can source a laptop for you.my number is 07032338178.
Nobody wants to be a friend to a poor man. Poverty isn't a place to be in for my people. I have seen, I have cried, I have begged, I have prayed. Now I just do what I can and hope. I currently source gigs online now and work from home with my phone. The sad thing is most come with a requirement for a laptop. Just yesterday here, I lost another gig because I didn't have a laptop as it was a necessary part of the job requirement. It was so painful because kobo nor dey my life and yet I am losing out on jobs. Please if anyone can help me with a laptop even if it's 3rd or 4th hand, so far it's working I will be grateful.[/quote]
Re: The Worst Embarrassment You Have Received As A Result Of You Not Having Money by Livi2020(m): 11:02am On Jan 13, 2022
Please can you introduce me to this your online business? I can source a laptop for you.my number is 07032338178.
Nobody wants to be a friend to a poor man. Poverty isn't a place to be in for my people. I have seen, I have cried, I have begged, I have prayed. Now I just do what I can and hope. I currently source gigs online now and work from home with my phone. The sad thing is most come with a requirement for a laptop. Just yesterday here, I lost another gig because I didn't have a laptop as it was a necessary part of the job requirement. It was so painful because kobo nor dey my life and yet I am losing out on jobs. Please if anyone can help me with a laptop even if it's 3rd or 4th hand, so far it's working I will be grateful.[/quote]call me 07032338178
Re: The Worst Embarrassment You Have Received As A Result Of You Not Having Money by Munzy14(m): 11:03am On Jan 13, 2022
22o62021:



Amen bro
Don't just say Amen alone o, work towards it...And good luck.
Re: The Worst Embarrassment You Have Received As A Result Of You Not Having Money by Flyingngel(m): 11:39am On Jan 13, 2022
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Re: The Worst Embarrassment You Have Received As A Result Of You Not Having Money by kinglee007(m): 12:23pm On Jan 13, 2022
Hmmm. Where does one start now? Well, my case is not too different from many. I was working in an aviation Company some years ago and I got promoted from working at the tarmac to being an Admin in one of the offices. Barely six months into the office, I was diagnosed with Kidney infection. Like play like play, it started becoming severe and I was advised to resign based on health reasons. I did, and guess what, just three weeks after I resigned, I became fine. Went back to the hospital and was told that all was well with me. So, the hunt for another job started and with the little money I got from work after I resigned, I had planned to use it to pay for rent (cos it was due), pay my children's school fees (for two terms) and also give my wife some for he catering business.
Unfortunately, my then landlord increased the rent with 50% increment and the notice he gave was way below short for me to rally round for money. I just resigned. I and my wife talked about it and we decided to talk to my parents about the present predicament we are facing. I begged them to allow I and my family stay with them until I get myself a better job and we leave. They agreed with after much begging. So we moved to my parents place, sold some of our belongings that we didn't need to carry to their place. Used the money to add up to the one we had before which we had planned to use initially. I gave my wife some money to buy a bag of rice and provisions to support the house (because my late younger sisters daughter was staying with my parents and also my other sister and her two kids plus my three kids making a total of six children, and five adults in the house). Also gave my wife some money to start up her catering business of which she did and it did a lot in supporting the house as well. I paid my children school fees and put them in a school nearby, paid for Utilities in the house and eventually was left with nothing. When my parents go to know that "money don finish for my hand", I became a laughing stock.
I understood their grievances and all. I am a grown man with his family now depending on them for survival. The only saving grace I had was that my wife was getting orders by the minute from her catering business and this was helping to cover my shame. But, I didn't want this to continue for too long because I hate being a liability to people. The humiliations got much as the days passed. If I cough, my mum will take the phone and call my younger brothers that I have coughed o! They were the ones that my parents were now relying on for stipends. That being said, I continued and told my wife that from the little proceeds she gets, let her take some out of it and load up their phones every month for them of which she did. Whatever she will give me, I will still use it to buy the little I can for the house but, this was not even close to pleasing my parents. My younger brothers even stopped calling me as they used to and would only converse with my mum and my sister. My wife doesn't hear Ibo very well so she hardly hears the derogative words my dad would use on me. Sometimes, he would call my nephew and nieces to his room and if my kids enter, he would drive them away and tell them "go and meet your father and mother". I thought my kids how to bear pain and forgive easily so most times, they just laugh and ignore what their grand dad is doing and continue their way of life as kids that they are. I should have ignored this attitude portrayed by my dad but what made me react was when my nephew and his sister would tell my kids (their cousins) that they are visitors and would go away someday, and that they are not brothers or sisters.
This statements would bring sadness and sometimes tears to my kids and when I confront the little boy, he would tell me, "that's what Grandpa sad". That was when I confronted my Dad and asked him what I, my wife or my kids had done to him. My people, there was no curse on earth that my Dad did not pour on me. I was baffled and started renouncing and rejecting any curse he laid. After all, Proverbs 26:6 says,"As the bird by wandering, as the Swallow by flying; so the Curse causeless shall not come". After all the shout that night, I went to apologize (which is the right thing to do even if you're right).
As God would have it, I got a Job to work in a Hotel in one of the States as one of the Heads of Department with good pay. I was so much filled with joy but little did I know.... Well, barely two weeks I started working there, the owner of the hotel ( a top shot in the state) disgraced some of our staff and the disgrace was so bad that it went viral. Most of the other staffs ran away but innocent me and some others waited and hoped that since it was almost few days to the end of the month, I go collect small thing from the salary (even if na half sef), send to my family and discharge then seek for another job there in that state. On the 25th of September to be precise, some set of police squad stormed the hotel and asked for the chairman of the hotel (like as if they didn't know where he was). I said I didn't know and so did some other staffs. The next thing you know we were arrested and taking to the state CID and from there, taking to court and remanded to prison for something we had no idea about. See as frustration make me come find job for another state come enter wahala wey no concern me. I was later released after much effort made by my wife. She left her business in Lag and came down to ensure that I got out and proved my innocence. After getting out, my lawyer advised that I leave the scene and probably go to another state and stay. After much dialogue with my wife and my in-laws (it was their place I put up before and after the prison incident), regrettably, we had to go back to Lagos, the family house again. Thanks to God, with the support from family and friends, I had enough money on me that could sustain us at least until something comes up again. I tried as much as I can to be prudent but, seeing the state of things at home, I always supported. I guess that is my weakness. There are some friends which I will run to for help but will see me as a liability and block me on all social media platforms and mobile contacts. Summary of the story, lack of money makes you miserable in the eyes of those you least expected.

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Re: The Worst Embarrassment You Have Received As A Result Of You Not Having Money by Nobody: 12:24pm On Jan 13, 2022
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Re: The Worst Embarrassment You Have Received As A Result Of You Not Having Money by Nobody: 12:28pm On Jan 13, 2022
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Re: The Worst Embarrassment You Have Received As A Result Of You Not Having Money by Yungspitta: 12:40pm On Jan 13, 2022
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Re: The Worst Embarrassment You Have Received As A Result Of You Not Having Money by KiNg0G: 12:43pm On Jan 13, 2022
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Re: The Worst Embarrassment You Have Received As A Result Of You Not Having Money by Mideriks04(f): 1:48pm On Jan 13, 2022
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Re: The Worst Embarrassment You Have Received As A Result Of You Not Having Money by Ibbi039(m): 1:49pm On Jan 13, 2022
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Re: The Worst Embarrassment You Have Received As A Result Of You Not Having Money by Nobody: 1:50pm On Jan 13, 2022
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Re: The Worst Embarrassment You Have Received As A Result Of You Not Having Money by KiNg0G: 2:34pm On Jan 13, 2022
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Re: The Worst Embarrassment You Have Received As A Result Of You Not Having Money by dannyblings(m): 4:16pm On Jan 13, 2022
Mine was after my secondary school reunion party last December . A good friend of mine in secondary school then foot all the bills for all that was bought during the reunion at the cheer of everyone. He said if it’s by book dem take dem blow I suppose dom make am because I was very brilliant in school. He is into Yahoo now. I had to rebuke him that it’s not over yet because I am jobless currently. Las las I begged him for house rent cos am about being kicked out. He said he would send me 100k that I should remind him. 2 days later I called he picked and told me he will send me the next day. Since then I have been calling he hasn’t picked. I feel so bad and down cos my landlord will soon pack my load out.

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Re: The Worst Embarrassment You Have Received As A Result Of You Not Having Money by kingthreat(m): 4:58pm On Jan 13, 2022
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this is a very wrong notion, please reconsider.....

He must have been a helper before and has learnt his lessons. People in this part of the world are very selfish and cruel. Most especially the religious ones.
Re: The Worst Embarrassment You Have Received As A Result Of You Not Having Money by Solanaa: 5:48pm On Jan 13, 2022
TVTKOKO:
I don't know how God is doing this, but since i became adult I've never for once lacked money even though I came from a very very poor background


I'm very much interested Sir, Please Consider me.

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Re: The Worst Embarrassment You Have Received As A Result Of You Not Having Money by Solanaa: 5:49pm On Jan 13, 2022
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Re: The Worst Embarrassment You Have Received As A Result Of You Not Having Money by KiNg0G: 5:50pm On Jan 13, 2022
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Re: The Worst Embarrassment You Have Received As A Result Of You Not Having Money by TVTKOKO(m): 6:46pm On Jan 13, 2022
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Re: The Worst Embarrassment You Have Received As A Result Of You Not Having Money by Pnwokonna80: 7:14pm On Jan 13, 2022
TVTKOKO:
I don't know how God is doing this, but since i became adult I've never for once lacked money even though I came from a very very poor background
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Re: The Worst Embarrassment You Have Received As A Result Of You Not Having Money by Pnwokonna80: 7:24pm On Jan 13, 2022
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You're one in a million.
Pls I need help. I stay in sangotedo. Even if is a job, I'm readily available
Re: The Worst Embarrassment You Have Received As A Result Of You Not Having Money by Pnwokonna80: 7:26pm On Jan 13, 2022
Marxist001:
Even right now I just received one heavy embarrassment from my friend. He is my coursemate in the university but landed a good job after school. I currently have no job, so I squat with him, doing the house chores, cooking and washing his clothes, despite being far older than him. I feel so miserable at times. I have reached out to my good nairalanders In my previous post, but no one is willing to help me with a job. I am hoping and praying things will turn around for good. I feel so ashamed of myself sometimes, but I know the fight is not really against him but to poverty. Poverty is a curse, every minute that passes by I feel like I'm loosing my sense of identity. I pray I don't die before good comes my way. If sucide was an option I would have long been gone. But when I think about my family and all they have sacrificed for me I wave the thoughts away.

P. S
I am a graduate of Sociology, B. Sc, with four years working experience in the labour market. I will be utmost grateful if help can come my way. 09151775400.

I'm a graduate of Agribusiness and management. I'm currently looking for a job.
Re: The Worst Embarrassment You Have Received As A Result Of You Not Having Money by Pnwokonna80: 7:38pm On Jan 13, 2022
I just need money to buy food and I'm looking for a job.
I'm a graduate of Agribusiness and management. I stay live in sangotedo
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Re: The Worst Embarrassment You Have Received As A Result Of You Not Having Money by Lamanii22(f): 12:06am On Jan 14, 2022
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Amen, and you and I will enjoy the money


Ameeen

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