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| Re: Sex With My Co-Worker. I'm In Big Trouble by Zaheertyler(m): 7:16am On Jan 16, 2022 |
ChizzyBuna:Make she expose you na Who no Dey Bleep |
| Re: Sex With My Co-Worker. I'm In Big Trouble by Powersurge: 7:18am On Jan 16, 2022 |
ChizzyBuna:because u be HR, u think the world revolves around your dick abi? See your life now. Anyways, first it is a stupid thing to sack a staff because she "challenged" senior colleague's ideas. What kind of shit country be this. I hope she has attorney that can push this case in court. WTF! On the flip side, let her know that if u remain working, you will be able to provide some financial assistance for her during her job search so dt the effects of the sack will not be too much on her. PS: One of my colleagues has been on my neck to b*ng me and I have been avoiding it. We have physically discussed about it. And I let her know dt sexually relationship among colleagues often times ends up badly. She still on the matter. Na ur case go make me seal dt option totally now. |
| Re: Sex With My Co-Worker. I'm In Big Trouble by rolams(m): 7:19am On Jan 16, 2022 |
ChizzyBuna:Do your job to avoid lost of job. She can't do you anything. But talk to her, let her realize her mistakes and explain the situation of things. Take her C.V and tell her to be of assistance in getting another job. If she's a good girl marry her to settle the issue. |
| Re: Sex With My Co-Worker. I'm In Big Trouble by Zealous2710(m): 7:21am On Jan 16, 2022 |
ChizzyBuna:I feel the babe is the one using you here cus she knows you are close to the M.D. now, she wanna scatter everything. Bro, arrange guys for street make dem steal) collect her phone. If she den expose anything, deny it. Na were we dey use cure were. |
| Re: Sex With My Co-Worker. I'm In Big Trouble by Onyiiobi7735(m): 7:21am On Jan 16, 2022 |
ChizzyBuna:Hmmm,your uncle sees you as an angel? I pity the poor man.If only he knew his "angel" is a walking catalogue of lust. Oftentimes I don't blame people who refused to put family members in high positions in their company,because such people knew the privileges would be abused,and so they prefer strangers. Familiarity they say,breeds contempt. |
| Re: Sex With My Co-Worker. I'm In Big Trouble by Raph3177(m): 7:22am On Jan 16, 2022 |
ChizzyBuna:I guess after she is been handed her sack letter she will now say sir me and your nephew have been having sex for over 1 year in the office and outside lol how does that sound? Let her she will do nothing unless she is shameless and wants to ridicule herself. |
| Re: Sex With My Co-Worker. I'm In Big Trouble by Bayok(m): 7:23am On Jan 16, 2022 |
Kriss216:This advice is not nice |
| Re: Sex With My Co-Worker. I'm In Big Trouble by Onyiiobi7735(m): 7:25am On Jan 16, 2022 |
ChizzyBuna:Wow! But he doesn't know you are lust in human form.Lol! |
| Re: Sex With My Co-Worker. I'm In Big Trouble by sammirano: 7:28am On Jan 16, 2022 |
MrBrownJay1:You are a smart man |
| Re: Sex With My Co-Worker. I'm In Big Trouble by JuanDeDios: 7:35am On Jan 16, 2022 |
ChizzyBuna:No need to go to Ebonyi then. You could make her your housewife. Problem solved. |
| Re: Sex With My Co-Worker. I'm In Big Trouble by Marimart: 7:38am On Jan 16, 2022 |
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| Re: Sex With My Co-Worker. I'm In Big Trouble by badliman: 7:44am On Jan 16, 2022 |
To me what I will advice is that you have to take the bolder step by writing your own resignation letter, give it to your uncle directly and tell him all the mistake you have made with the girl. Tell him your flings and make sure you has well defend her as well. Let your uncle realise why you are resigning and let him decide if you will be forgiven or punished. You can't eat your cake and have it. The mistake we all make in life is when nemesis trying to catch up with us and we are cutting corners, it might not end well. Submit your self to be reprimanded and let the girl know you have no hand in her sacking and dont ever point an accusing finger again to any of the senior staff that they are involve in the girl sacking. If she leave the company you still have to face them and work together. My humble advice. Face your fear and be a man at least your uncle is your uncle. The family can still sit down and beg for you. Henceforth, be a good staff and obey the rules. |
| Re: Sex With My Co-Worker. I'm In Big Trouble by lomprico(m): 7:46am On Jan 16, 2022 |
ChizzyBuna:Is this company a church? Or is there a rule against having an affair with a colleague? Because I no understand your fear. |
| Re: Sex With My Co-Worker. I'm In Big Trouble by zicoraads: 7:54am On Jan 16, 2022 |
The truth will set you free. |
| Re: Sex With My Co-Worker. I'm In Big Trouble by omobacyprus(m): 7:55am On Jan 16, 2022 |
Explain everything to your uncle. Pull the first trigger. Apologize to him, as long as you did not have sex in your work place it’s fine.. it’s an outside fling. I believe she’s just trying to blackmail you, just be on the safer side. It’ll be better for your uncle to hear it from you than from her |
| Re: Sex With My Co-Worker. I'm In Big Trouble by Gkemz: 7:59am On Jan 16, 2022 |
@op You are in a very difficult condition. Nigerian girls are so vindictive and I trust she will fulfill her promise if her sack letter is handed to her. The only solution here is to help her secure a job outside your company. But in the meantime you'd be paying her a little compensation from your salary. Make her understand that life doesn't end here, there's more to life than getting sacked. |
| Re: Sex With My Co-Worker. I'm In Big Trouble by Maximus85(m): 8:03am On Jan 16, 2022 |
ChizzyBuna:You can't eat your cake and have it. |
| Re: Sex With My Co-Worker. I'm In Big Trouble by MASTERMIND04(m): 8:07am On Jan 16, 2022 |
Threaten you ke? You be mummy's boy? ![]() Is there any evidence that you guys are having an affair? If she comes up with silly talks after sacking her, deny it! Deny the fucking thing. Shey you dey whyne me ni? Abegi rest! |
| Re: Sex With My Co-Worker. I'm In Big Trouble by Bigchristo: 8:08am On Jan 16, 2022 |
ChizzyBuna:save yourself before saving anybody, she should be ashamed of herself to even come out and talk about office sex, she is not only doing you bad but herself for being a cheap slot to be bleeped at work, you can as well defend yourself by telling your uncle she is trying to drag you down with her simply because you didn’t defend her this time like you did last year, so long there’s no evidence of you both making out in the office there’s no cause for alarm.... in this life always learn to defend yourself in a difficult situation |
| Re: Sex With My Co-Worker. I'm In Big Trouble by supereagle(m): 8:09am On Jan 16, 2022 |
MrBrownJay1:Take him down is just a threat for him to protect her. |
| Re: Sex With My Co-Worker. I'm In Big Trouble by Uwajoesing: 8:11am On Jan 16, 2022 |
This your office is a filling station work if I'm not mistaken..... Stop having sexual doings with ur colleagues at work place, some of ur boss knows what is going on in there office, and they will use it against you at any time both physically and spiritually. I love Jesus Christ. |
| Re: Sex With My Co-Worker. I'm In Big Trouble by VMpi744: 8:13am On Jan 16, 2022 |
1 year of sex, a fling? How na? Now you no fit drink water drop cup. Just marry her fam ![]() |
| Re: Sex With My Co-Worker. I'm In Big Trouble by Johel(m): 8:14am On Jan 16, 2022 |
ChizzyBuna:Truth will always set u free....your uncle is a man and u can never be a saint so he should stop seeing you as one,u a grown up and can sex a lady if u like her...no crime...that girl is evil,..they are mostly like that,reason being I never involve myself with female colleagues...just open up to your uncle about all u and her had,open up in all sincerity,don't hide nothing...also u can accumulate proves to show him incase the girl tries to blackmail you....be strong in this so u won't loose your job ..the year is early,we must stay winning without allowing bad belle pple bring is down....my friend lost his good job because of similar issue,most Igbo girls are fund of such, desperate things. |
| Re: Sex With My Co-Worker. I'm In Big Trouble by Benzemma(m): 8:15am On Jan 16, 2022 |
Two fucking contractors, fucking themselves for a year, without any move for legalization of their fucking contract. They have been aimlessly fucking themselves for a year now, without any intention to marry each other. Tomorrow now they will look for innocent virgin to get entangled. Tufiakwa! If na like this everybody dey do, am not going to reason that thing called marry. |
| Re: Sex With My Co-Worker. I'm In Big Trouble by MASTERMIND04(m): 8:15am On Jan 16, 2022 |
Bigchristo:Exactly! |
| Re: Sex With My Co-Worker. I'm In Big Trouble by mormoney85(m): 8:18am On Jan 16, 2022 |
ChizzyBuna:if she is truly gonna carry out her threats then first do it ur self b4 she does what u have to do is to make ur uncle believe that u really love and want to marry her then after everything is settled u dump the fool |
| Re: Sex With My Co-Worker. I'm In Big Trouble by evil1: 8:19am On Jan 16, 2022 |
ChizzyBuna:Don't bloody listen to her blackmail. If she's incompetent let her be sacked. No one is irreplaceable |
| Re: Sex With My Co-Worker. I'm In Big Trouble by tbibuzz(m): 8:20am On Jan 16, 2022 |
ChizzyBuna:I think you should walk up to ur uncle and open up about the fling ur having with the girl so she doesn't have leverage again ,it's better u report urself than the girl reporting u and adding salt and pepper to the story |
| Re: Sex With My Co-Worker. I'm In Big Trouble by Jimasun: 8:26am On Jan 16, 2022 |
oke2018:The woman is behind it. |
| Re: Sex With My Co-Worker. I'm In Big Trouble by VMpi744: 8:26am On Jan 16, 2022 |
Or is the OP married? You didn't seem to mention that bit. Cos I see no reason why a single folk would be scared of having a relationship with another adult. Forget the babe and your uncle for a minute. Do your job - send her the sack letter. If she decides to go public with your tiny little secret... so be it. Own up and admit you were in a "relationship" (not a fling ffs). If your uncle/boss fires you. Take your L and enter market. Go shop for a new job. Might be better for your career and mental health in the long run. Except you two did some really dirty shit you don't want out there. But still... wetin person never hear for this world. Whatever rubbish you think you don't want your uncle to hear. Na them go still settle am. Who knows maybe your uncle and his wife already knows sef. Probably why they decided to sack her this time. Just saying. |
| Re: Sex With My Co-Worker. I'm In Big Trouble by josephevergreen(m): 8:26am On Jan 16, 2022 |
Those gender re always manipulative..pls sack her and fine a way to report yourself to your uncle, before she have the chance to talk to him. |
| Re: Sex With My Co-Worker. I'm In Big Trouble by Socialsunny14(m): 8:28am On Jan 16, 2022 |
ChizzyBuna:Well you shouldn't have told her yet |
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