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Re: My Elder Brother's Wife Is So Rude. by Blessedassuranc(f): 10:06am On Jan 18, 2022 |
aboyaji: Pls go listen to THE GAMBLER by late Kenny Rogers |
Re: My Elder Brother's Wife Is So Rude. by Walkee: 10:08am On Jan 18, 2022 |
bigjackass:that's because it's boys that will responding and would put themselves in the op shoe but now it's girls that are responding and are rather comparing themselves to the wife because that's what they will also do. I once heard one of elder sisters saying she hope her future husband doesn't have a mother |
Re: My Elder Brother's Wife Is So Rude. by MartinsD12(m): 10:08am On Jan 18, 2022 |
Rachel98:You didn't tell us what your elder brother does you only told us he is a bread winner and the wife is an event planner , am just thinking maybe your elder brother wife is earning more than your brother that's why he doesn't seem to control that his wife |
Re: My Elder Brother's Wife Is So Rude. by Applelips: 10:09am On Jan 18, 2022 |
When a man unconditionally loves his wife, you people will call it jazz. But someday you also wish to be loved and supported by your husband. It's always women with the endless complaints. It is their marriage, and what your brother did is the best. If he has to correct the wife, he will do it on his own time and in private. He doesn't have to do it in your presence to prove a point. According to you, you are not a swallow person, and decided to make noodles. And you are angry she asked why you didn't eat the swallow. Do you know that you were meant to inform her before going to prepare noodles? Its her house, her kitchen, her rules. In as much as you have a choice to make, u cant just do whatever you like because it seats well with you. The semo you refused to eat, who is going to eat it? Semo is one meal I do not do leftovers. If you didn't want to eat, what stops you from informing them beforehand? You are also trying to interfere with how she runs her home or how she decides to treat her maid. I was beaten by my mum for flimsier reasons, no one saw it as maltreatment. If the maid was in fact her daughter, would you infare that she was being maltreated? It is people like you that cause issues in marriages. Has your brother complained about not being happy? Your tone, choice of words and actions shows you do not like the woman, and may have even recruited other people to join you. That one is not enough. You now want your brother to see her the way you see her. Get a life sis. 7 Likes |
Re: My Elder Brother's Wife Is So Rude. by isa6namo(m): 10:09am On Jan 18, 2022 |
Oga go bk to your house,every body get him problem.the woman is not using any jazz rather your brother is only using wisdom to protect his home from pple like you. 2 Likes |
Re: My Elder Brother's Wife Is So Rude. by EteBabaagba222(m): 10:09am On Jan 18, 2022 |
flington4550: This is serious. Our mothers stay in extended family house and correction comes in different direction. If your brother is suffering stand up for him, it is better they name u marriage destroyer than you personally regret not saving the life of your brother. PhD my foot. Humanity before anything |
Re: My Elder Brother's Wife Is So Rude. by pocohantas(f): 10:11am On Jan 18, 2022 |
Blessedassuranc: They won’t listen. They think they can handle the wife of a man who is still in love . Until the brother’s love for her dips, there is nothing you as a sibling would do that won’t burn you! If she isn’t fighting him or tearing his clothes in public, please leave them alone. Why do Nigerian in-laws even feel it is until they invade their brother’s home that they are close? Why don’t they keep this energy with their married sisters? What if the brother is abroad? What if they are the ones abroad? I haven’t been to my brother’s house in a year, but we do video calls. Why must I go there to start cooking indomie and listening to their petty family squabbles? 10 Likes |
Re: My Elder Brother's Wife Is So Rude. by aboyaji(m): 10:14am On Jan 18, 2022 |
Blessedassuranc: Wait let me address you properly based on your opinion. It is only a fool that doesn't heed to GOOD advise from a younger person just because of age difference. I have 2 younger ones. Out of us 6, they prefer talking with me most. My younger sister talks to me as though I was her twin. Her twin is there but she chose me. I ALWAYS seek counsel from her. When she speaks, I listen. Then, I make decision on case by case basis. She's the only woman in the world that calls me for 2hr each time we talk. We talk over the phone too well. We could talk today, tomorrow, next. And we must exhaust at least 1hr 45 mins. When I'm less busy, we talk for 4hrs. She does the calling. That's how humble I can be. I listen to my younger ones very well, because, they need me in their life. 3 Likes |
Re: My Elder Brother's Wife Is So Rude. by plenitude(m): 10:15am On Jan 18, 2022 |
Same leg my younger brother’s girlfriend was bringing... well I talked sense into both of them... now she calm and respectful... truth is you don’t have to fold your hands and watch things go wrong in the disguise of minding your business... 4 Likes |
Re: My Elder Brother's Wife Is So Rude. by BobbieZion(m): 10:15am On Jan 18, 2022 |
My own bro,runs from his house like a plague. Wife and Mother want give am High blood pressure. Don't be over nice to women,it is weakness. As a Man from day one,let the Woman know where she stands. Because after then.... All u can do is damage control. 3 Likes |
Re: My Elder Brother's Wife Is So Rude. by MT: 10:15am On Jan 18, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: I have a question. You said he "is no longer his responsibility". Take a scenario where this man is poisoned or he commits a suicide due to frustration, whose responsibility does he become ?. The woman will take a walk, but the family will always stick around no matter how bad. There has to be a fine balance. The woman's strategy is to make every other family members stay away while she has him to herself to do as she pleases. 3 Likes |
Re: My Elder Brother's Wife Is So Rude. by Lashist(m): 10:15am On Jan 18, 2022 |
Rachel98:Lol...this is what you'll likely do when you marry your own husband...you wont see it until you marry your husband and start fighting his relatives she also likely complained like you about her own brother's wife |
Re: My Elder Brother's Wife Is So Rude. by dettolgel: 10:16am On Jan 18, 2022 |
Rachel98: You don't need to go there or be rude to her to humble her. Set trap and wait one dey she go use her hand fall her own hand. Lol. Pompous prick thinking she is better than everyone. I pity her maid sha dey slap person pikin any how. |
Re: My Elder Brother's Wife Is So Rude. by Josephamstrong1(m): 10:17am On Jan 18, 2022 |
aboyaji: Bro, you are right! Guy doesn't sound learned. You're your brother's keeper. What if you heard that your brother is being beaten to death by his wife? Won't you run and rescue him? 1 Like |
Re: My Elder Brother's Wife Is So Rude. by Darkmode64: 10:18am On Jan 18, 2022 |
Rachel98:PhD wow. That one loud gan |
Re: My Elder Brother's Wife Is So Rude. by vickydevoka(m): 10:18am On Jan 18, 2022 |
Yinkakolawole:Thank you. Very very right. Any over Sabi woman like de o .p will end u like dat. Na Woman way tear eye like o.p de do all dis things. Ask o.p of she has de fear of God in her |
Re: My Elder Brother's Wife Is So Rude. by Blessedassuranc(f): 10:18am On Jan 18, 2022 |
aboyaji: Oga pls enough of this your emotional epistle. People are nt same and i bet you, you re about to start up something you ll regret of you continue this way You ve advised him . Let him be now amd if you kust continue, make sure you go line your pocket with hood monies cos he wld soon be drained and uou ll be his next shell pipe and you ll most likely get drained if not worse off than he is.. 1 Like |
Re: My Elder Brother's Wife Is So Rude. by mukthar2000(m): 10:19am On Jan 18, 2022 |
What God has join together let no one put assunder, stay away from them if u can't withstand her behavior, nothing like juju here Op, that is her just natural behavior and she was not a pretender type, they are very kind , talkative, they don't care what anybody said about them ,very hardworking ,but hardly to take to correction ,but they are very kindly .Thake ur time to understand her better u would be her best friend and enjoy her for life as best in law.
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Re: My Elder Brother's Wife Is So Rude. by FILEBE(m): 10:19am On Jan 18, 2022 |
Rachel98: Just tell your brother ther reason na. |
Re: My Elder Brother's Wife Is So Rude. by KingOfTheDamned: 10:19am On Jan 18, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: Exactly , he sounds so entitled that his opinion must count That guy needs to see a shrink 2 Likes |
Re: My Elder Brother's Wife Is So Rude. by pocohantas(f): 10:20am On Jan 18, 2022 |
vickydevoka: Lmao. You guys are cracking me up. Which one is fear of God? |
Re: My Elder Brother's Wife Is So Rude. by KingOfTheDamned: 10:20am On Jan 18, 2022 |
[s] aboyaji:[/s] Be silent and go and marry your own. You seem to pock nose into things that don't concern you. You are a man not a woman! Learn to mind your business 3 Likes |
Re: My Elder Brother's Wife Is So Rude. by AmazingELixir: 10:21am On Jan 18, 2022 |
Op una dey try oo....I can't even imagine myself going to live with a married relative no matter how close under thesame roof. Way back When my elder brother completed his house and moved in with his wife and two kids then the wife's sisters visits regularly they spend some days atimes weeks ....there was nothing my brother did not beg me with to come and stay with him....Omo I refused oo, I'd rather stay in my father's house and receive insults than have anybody look down on me...the wife even joined him to ask me to come...I blunt told them No. Before you know it...you'll be hearing can't you clean this house...please gaan wash the plates, you're just lazy and all that crap...make I dey my papa house dey wash my mama pot, I'm not about pleasing anybody to be addressed a good boy. 2 Likes |
Re: My Elder Brother's Wife Is So Rude. by vickydevoka(m): 10:21am On Jan 18, 2022 |
Hammyaladin:Good point. |
Re: My Elder Brother's Wife Is So Rude. by KingOfTheDamned: 10:22am On Jan 18, 2022 |
[s] aboyaji:[/s] No you are not. You sound like a village busy body Mind your own damn business 1 Like |
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Re: My Elder Brother's Wife Is So Rude. by KingOfTheDamned: 10:23am On Jan 18, 2022 |
[s] aboyaji:[/s] No disrespect sir but you may need to see a doctor 1 Like |
Re: My Elder Brother's Wife Is So Rude. by hahn(m): 10:23am On Jan 18, 2022 |
Rachel98: Your brother is a victim of emotional abuse and like every man his ego will not allow him seek help or speak up. You will need to talk sense into him and get him to open up. 2 Likes |
Re: My Elder Brother's Wife Is So Rude. by gbolswag(m): 10:24am On Jan 18, 2022 |
its your brothers family...his wife and business....he is not complaining you should leave their house and don't be stupid 2 Likes |
Re: My Elder Brother's Wife Is So Rude. by famousguy01(m): 10:24am On Jan 18, 2022 |
aboyaji: Why do you sound like some1 I would love to be friends with? These days, very few can differentiate between right and wrong. Kudos to you 2 Likes |
Re: My Elder Brother's Wife Is So Rude. by Whitelion07(m): 10:24am On Jan 18, 2022 |
[Chief adviser, so marriage to you is suppose to stop siblings from visiting each other abi? If any woman called my wife is not comfortable seeing my siblings and family members visit home, no member of her family should dare come close to my street not to talk of my house.quote author=dollytino4repost=109442503]Let her be! Stay ur lane to avoid bashing and biting,,call ur brother on phone incstead of going there, [/quote] |
Re: My Elder Brother's Wife Is So Rude. by Mustiboy(m): 10:24am On Jan 18, 2022 |
aboyaji: Bro don't mind that kid mind you're quoting. You've done the right thing by calling your brother to order. Na all this "mind your business", "nobody owes you anything", and " it's his choice" spoil our society today. What we breed today are irresponsible with no sense of responsibility and belonging. 1 Like |
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