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Re: My Elder Brother's Wife Is So Rude. by Mariangeles(f): 9:42pm On Jan 17, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: I don't answer twisted questions! 5 Likes |
Re: My Elder Brother's Wife Is So Rude. by pocohantas(f): 9:48pm On Jan 17, 2022 |
Ishi you better no go fight anybody. These new generation girls no too well o. Some of them dey Pink Ladies. Person wey get mind dey sweep her brother in-law away. You no reason say na mkpurummiri she dey take? The brother that married a werey should live with her. 14 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Elder Brother's Wife Is So Rude. by Kobojunkie: 10:04pm On Jan 17, 2022 |
Mariangeles:How is it twisted? 1 Like |
Re: My Elder Brother's Wife Is So Rude. by Mariangeles(f): 10:08pm On Jan 17, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: How is it not twisted? Read the below, then go back and read your questions. I don kukuma give my brothers heads up; make them no even dare carry any woman wey go bring separation among them. 3 Likes |
Re: My Elder Brother's Wife Is So Rude. by Ishilove: 10:15pm On Jan 17, 2022 |
Mariangeles:Kponkwem! Don't mind the ones saying 'mind your business'. I seriously doubt they will be able to take their own advice. 4 Likes |
Re: My Elder Brother's Wife Is So Rude. by sisisioge: 10:16pm On Jan 17, 2022 |
You went to cook indomie because you dont eat swallow like that 6 Likes |
Re: My Elder Brother's Wife Is So Rude. by ImaIma1(f): 10:18pm On Jan 17, 2022 |
aboyaji: I can relate. I have two siblings that have always been so close that we call them Taiwo and Kehinde (guy and girl). Fortunately, the guy got married to a sensible lady. When the "twin" visits them, it's the wife that begs her to stay longer. In fact when I visited my brother, my sister was there. My brother's wife threatened to put her clothes in water so that she would stay longer . They attend parties together even without my brother. People are fortunate to marry good people. But some like your brother are not that lucky. However, you'll have to let him deal with it himself. You can just try to advise him. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Elder Brother's Wife Is So Rude. by Kobojunkie: 10:20pm On Jan 17, 2022 |
Mariangeles:And i asked should your brother find love with someone you don't approve of,will you attack the woman in that case? Or maybe if you found true love with someone who your family does not approve of, will you be willing to abandon that person for their sake? 2 Likes |
Re: My Elder Brother's Wife Is So Rude. by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 10:23pm On Jan 17, 2022 |
I need to deactivate my NL account very soon. I am seriously tired of all these never-ending depressing news you people post here. "Help, my mother is running mad". "Help, I am tired of my marriage". "Help, my brother's wife did not give me food to eat". " Help, my wife doesn't give me sex". Omo, ona no dey tire? 3 Likes |
Re: My Elder Brother's Wife Is So Rude. by Ishilove: 10:27pm On Jan 17, 2022 |
pocohantas:Me, fight? There are many ways to kill a dog, Aunty Poco. 3 Likes |
Re: My Elder Brother's Wife Is So Rude. by Suzie1(f): 10:31pm On Jan 17, 2022 |
Rachel98: This is not the best way to present your brother's wife please. 2 Likes |
Re: My Elder Brother's Wife Is So Rude. by Acme45: 10:36pm On Jan 17, 2022 |
Rachel98:is the PhD food? 1 Like |
Re: My Elder Brother's Wife Is So Rude. by teeshet: 10:36pm On Jan 17, 2022 |
UyaiIncomparabl:You ve been saying this since. Get out and Leave. I dont want to ever see you on this forum again or else i will declare you wanted and i won't hesitate to lock you up for the rest of your life. Stupid girl 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Elder Brother's Wife Is So Rude. by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 10:39pm On Jan 17, 2022 |
teeshet:
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Re: My Elder Brother's Wife Is So Rude. by teeshet: 10:41pm On Jan 17, 2022 |
UyaiIncomparabl:i've always wanted to fùck you 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Elder Brother's Wife Is So Rude. by Ishilove: 10:41pm On Jan 17, 2022 |
Double |
Re: My Elder Brother's Wife Is So Rude. by Kennyliga112: 10:42pm On Jan 17, 2022 |
flington4550:This so touching,May his Gentle soul Rest In Peace 2 Likes |
Re: My Elder Brother's Wife Is So Rude. by pocohantas(f): 10:44pm On Jan 17, 2022 |
Ishilove: Drop tips for that guy. Because I did think you want to go fight her. |
Re: My Elder Brother's Wife Is So Rude. by teeshet: 10:44pm On Jan 17, 2022 |
Ishilove:i want to see you fight and break a leg |
Re: My Elder Brother's Wife Is So Rude. by Saintmary(f): 10:47pm On Jan 17, 2022 |
Rachel98: Try not to criticize people who are ahead of you. Once you get your Ph.D, and you're properly married, you'll understand why she's feeling herself. However, she's a little tough in my opinion but give her space. Obviously she's way ahead of you so if you show a little respect, she'll soften towards you. Selecting food in your brother's house may seem rude to her. Watch her well, if she avoids doing what she complains about to other people, then maybe she's asking for the respect she is giving you. Please reduce entitlement mentality this new year and focus on your personal achievements. Good luck. 12 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Elder Brother's Wife Is So Rude. by teeshet: 10:48pm On Jan 17, 2022 |
pocohantas:you no dey sleep. You'll be late for coven meeting 1 Like |
Re: My Elder Brother's Wife Is So Rude. by teeshet: 10:51pm On Jan 17, 2022 |
Ishilove and mariaangeles, your coven members are waiting for you 1 Like |
Re: My Elder Brother's Wife Is So Rude. by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 10:51pm On Jan 17, 2022 |
pocohantas: You have said it how I wanted to say it I just wanted to be discreet about it You know say the average Nigerian nor dey quick see the log of wood wey dey their own eye but dem dey quick to see the one from far distance . That is why he cannot see through his brother's fault but is instead blaming the women 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Elder Brother's Wife Is So Rude. by WoundedLamb: 10:58pm On Jan 17, 2022 |
Lol... nice thread. Nothing much to say here. Op, I feel your pains. There's some kind of tension between y'all and your brother's wife. There is nothing like jazz here. Your brother loves his wife and your goal is not to change that. For his sake and that of his children, you don't want to cause any issues for the couple especially if he is happy. But then again, you don't want to be enemies with your sister-in-law. I believe you can be friendly with her without necessarily being friends with her. Friendship is not forced. The truth is, she's not just being rude to you and your family but also to people around her. So it's more about her than about you. Yet, your brother chose her to be his one and only. There's little you can do at this point. In-laws are forced family members. Sometimes, we're lucky to get those we like, but in many cases, we compromise (just the way we gradually do with our annoying siblings over the years). We learn thier boundaries and let them learn ours. Like someone suggested, start all over with her. Get close to her one step at a time. Stop at the point where she's about to display those traits that encroach into your own boundaries. You'd be surprised just how your own warm approach could melt hers. But even if just sending her season's greetings is the furthest you can go, stop there and remain friendly with her. Greetings to the two users above helping us put the subject into perspective, pocohantas and Kobojunkie. You guys rock! 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Elder Brother's Wife Is So Rude. by Saintmary(f): 10:59pm On Jan 17, 2022 |
Danjikanbauchi: This is so true. Money stops nonsense 1 Like |
Re: My Elder Brother's Wife Is So Rude. by EdmundDantes(m): 11:05pm On Jan 17, 2022 |
aboyaji: Abeg, don't mind that kobo guy. His responses were actually sounding hollow to me as well. But this your bros sabi pick the wrong ones sha.... I wish him the best... 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Elder Brother's Wife Is So Rude. by Saintmary(f): 11:06pm On Jan 17, 2022 |
aboyaji: Anything to bash a female. kobojunkie and I are not best buddies but since she responded based on the limited information you posted, don't turn this on her head. From your posts, it looks like your brother has a pattern going on here. Seems like he has two kids now, outside wedlock, and he has a penchant for women on the fast lane. Your focus should be on him, not on the women. He should be the one to refine his taste in women. Good luck. 2 Likes |
Re: My Elder Brother's Wife Is So Rude. by EdmundDantes(m): 11:09pm On Jan 17, 2022 |
aboyaji: Take it easy.... |
Re: My Elder Brother's Wife Is So Rude. by EdmundDantes(m): 11:11pm On Jan 17, 2022 |
Yorkedwight: Wise decision... |
Re: My Elder Brother's Wife Is So Rude. by EdmundDantes(m): 11:20pm On Jan 17, 2022 |
Ishilove: Freudian slip.... He just revealed his personality and the foundation upon which his advices are based... 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Elder Brother's Wife Is So Rude. by Kollins11: 11:27pm On Jan 17, 2022 |
UyaiIncomparabl:You look so beautiful and sweet @ your profile, can I fvck you?? Please Help me cure my konji. Please Help!!! 5 Likes 2 Shares
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Re: My Elder Brother's Wife Is So Rude. by Mariangeles(f): 11:39pm On Jan 17, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: Where you see attack for my words Kobo? We no dey fight for my family. Na why I go make sure e remain that way. Or maybe if you found true love with someone who your family does not approve of, will you be willing to abandon that person for their sake? Either my family approves or nothing! I no dey do Telemundo for real life. I nukwa'm! 1 Like |
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