| Re: Help! My Wife Is Suddenly Too Violent by cutieBR(f): 4:28pm On Jan 18, 2022 |
Sure why not. Anyways, thanks for the compliment. HopeNeverDies:
Damnn!!! Yess it is so well when someone like you quotes me..
Hi Can we communicate as friends? Either way, but would like to let you know that You're Gorgeous. |
| Re: Help! My Wife Is Suddenly Too Violent by Hiq0: 4:34pm On Jan 18, 2022 |
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| Re: Help! My Wife Is Suddenly Too Violent by johhnnie(m): 4:37pm On Jan 18, 2022 |
[url][/url] MALIGNANTGuest:
Would you have have said so if a married lady had presented same issue concerning her husband to the Nairaland platform?
Here lies my problem with all these.
U don't change gloves when gender changes.
MEN have woken up to realise women can lie.
In Fact, if many married men should open up on the hidden lies their wives told them just to get them to the altar, 70% of marriages would collapse in 2hours.
Nice read!
MEN hate public shame, that's why they hardly take to the social media to reveal every rubbish they are faced.
I know Ladies who had undergone fibroid surgeries with removal of their wombs, yet they concealed such from their spouses even at courtship till they got married.
Some have kids yet they never disclosed such to the man they planned marrying, expecting to use pastors, family members & God to plead their way through such a disaster called union.
I know men whose wives have blocked fallopian tubes from previously poorly treated vaginal discharge, which they contracted during several relationships. They can't conceive now.
Yet you see such Ladies running their mouths at their husbands.
Most resort to using their Traditional Rulers & God to plead.
Meanwhile, see the way TonTo Dike went straight to the social media to reveal how Churchill lasted for 45secs. What if Churchill decides to reveal the ugly side of that useless girl?
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| Re: Help! My Wife Is Suddenly Too Violent by johhnnie(m): 4:38pm On Jan 18, 2022 |
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| Re: Help! My Wife Is Suddenly Too Violent by Blackdisciple(m): 4:41pm On Jan 18, 2022 |
Continue keeping calm till she sliced ya throat while u are asleep , I think she needs space , go to work and don't come back early or even till the next day because this one wey she dey go carry knife from kitchen , the next thing would I don't know what came over me , it's the devil work . she's becoming ajah boys gradually |
| Re: Help! My Wife Is Suddenly Too Violent by Blackdisciple(m): 4:43pm On Jan 18, 2022 |
[quote author=HopeNeverDies post=109440385]Damnnnn!!!! Can someone please get me a good song to mend a broken Heart?? Thanks
I'm fucking tired of the relationship I'm into currently...
Eyah.....
If u can just give yourself time try staying away from her , but normal una go talk for phone just ones in 3 days and see xup |
| Re: Help! My Wife Is Suddenly Too Violent by Blackdisciple(m): 4:45pm On Jan 18, 2022 |
Kobicove:
Are you waiting until she stabs you in your sleep? 
Tolerating a violent partner is an absolute no no...if I were you I would send her away without looking back! No not up to that for now, I advice he should stay away from her for sometime like weeks, by the time she do everything at home by herself she will look for u and plead with u. Chill bear straight no time |
| Re: Help! My Wife Is Suddenly Too Violent by Hassanmaye(m): 4:56pm On Jan 18, 2022 |
Kriss216:
Married men are truly suffering in this country 
My prayers are with them Haha  so you want to remain single abi |
| Re: Help! My Wife Is Suddenly Too Violent by Hassanmaye(m): 4:57pm On Jan 18, 2022 |
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| Re: Help! My Wife Is Suddenly Too Violent by Hassanmaye(m): 4:58pm On Jan 18, 2022 |
Kriss216:
OP, I have just one thing to tell you, as a Man(though you're half man) never take marital advice from a woman.
Women here will tell you to pray, fast, have one on one discussion with her, tell her parents, blah blah blah. Don't listen to them. That woman in your house will never change. You'll never have peace of mind with such woman..worst scenario, she will kill you.
This is the bitter truth |
| Re: Help! My Wife Is Suddenly Too Violent by MufasaLion: 5:00pm On Jan 18, 2022 |
tyup:
For every ment there's always a counter ment and that's why i tell married men who come to me for marriage counsel/ therapy that if you want peace in ur home, always be the trouble maker and a type your wife would want to avoid trouble with at any cost
The wife you spent money and resource to bring to ur home so you can bear her burden and cater for her needs free of charge is bringing out a knife on you?? Do you still need a prophet to tell you it's high time you have both of her hands on POP tied to her neck with a swollen mouth/eyes that would not make her speak for two weeks??
The generation of men we're breeding these days makes me loose urge especially when my libido is high Ribs are cracking now, bro.  Anyways, I totally understand you but it's still wrong to go violent. I'd rather separate from her for the mean time till we sort out the differences, or in a case of irreconcilable differences, I'd divorce her. I hope the OP will wise up. |
| Re: Help! My Wife Is Suddenly Too Violent by Double0h7(f): 5:03pm On Jan 18, 2022 |
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| Re: Help! My Wife Is Suddenly Too Violent by smile4kenn(m): 5:10pm On Jan 18, 2022 |
Lucaslookers:
Please married folks in the house,
My lovely wife and I have been married for almost 2 years now. I know I am not a perfect person and she is not too but we have been managing.
Why I opened this thread is that I am very afraid of her new attitude of always carrying weapons anytime we have a misunderstanding.
It started when I found out she had an abortion without telling me and when I confronted her she flared up and started behaving like a tout jumping here and there.
On Friday last week we were discussing about how to go about the new business I want to set up for her and somehow we got into an argument and she ran into the kitchen and grabbed a knife.
Again, this morning I simply asked her to waybill some foodstuffs to her father as I wouldn't be able to do that before heading to my place of business and she grabbed my clothes and started calling me names, next thing she picked up the belt hanging on the wardrobe and started threatening to teach me a lesson.
I have never been a woman beater and honestly don't know what has gotten into her.
We have a pending issue we are yet to sort out but still I am keeping my calm why is she the one suddenly going violent??
Please what do I do? I don't want blood on my hands because if I touch her it will be very bad.
My marriage is still young. this is too sad to read. https://gist.am/question/help-i-have-been-married-for-almost-2-years-now-and-we-are-not-perfect-but-my-wife-is-now-suddenly-too-violentTrust me there are a lot of better women out there. Not all marriage must work. |
| Re: Help! My Wife Is Suddenly Too Violent by Aleora(f): 5:12pm On Jan 18, 2022 |
Sir her down and talk to her,guess she is blaming or regretting her action and she is taking it out on you… Read more online about it ..best of luck Lucaslookers:
Please married folks in the house,
My lovely wife and I have been married for almost 2 years now. I know I am not a perfect person and she is not too but we have been managing.
Why I opened this thread is that I am very afraid of her new attitude of always carrying weapons anytime we have a misunderstanding.
It started when I found out she had an abortion without telling me and when I confronted her she flared up and started behaving like a tout jumping here and there.
On Friday last week we were discussing about how to go about the new business I want to set up for her and somehow we got into an argument and she ran into the kitchen and grabbed a knife.
Again, this morning I simply asked her to waybill some foodstuffs to her father as I wouldn't be able to do that before heading to my place of business and she grabbed my clothes and started calling me names, next thing she picked up the belt hanging on the wardrobe and started threatening to teach me a lesson.
I have never been a woman beater and honestly don't know what has gotten into her.
We have a pending issue we are yet to sort out but still I am keeping my calm why is she the one suddenly going violent??
Please what do I do? I don't want blood on my hands because if I touch her it will be very bad.
My marriage is still young. |
| Re: Help! My Wife Is Suddenly Too Violent by Jollyjune(m): 5:19pm On Jan 18, 2022 |
@OP something is fundamentally wrong with your young marriage. My deductions; ** She aborted the baby to get back at you for cheating on her or discovering you have a baby somewhere. **The aborted baby wasn't yours **She's reacting to something you did to her in the past that still hurt her terribly  **This could be her true color My advice is; as fast as possible. Separate from her by either sending her back to her parents or leaving the house for her for now, pending when the root cause of the matter is found and uprooted or treated. To avoid making terrible news headlines like "wife stabbed husband to death after aborting a baby" |
| Re: Help! My Wife Is Suddenly Too Violent by blazepascal(m): 5:38pm On Jan 18, 2022 |
eneazi:
wYour is wife is suffering from a mental health disorder it could stem from a wide range of condition that affects the way she is behaving now, and this could have been hidden away from you, seek help or try and avoid anything that will trigger her. worst advice ever |
| Re: Help! My Wife Is Suddenly Too Violent by Solatium(m): 5:55pm On Jan 18, 2022 |
Lucaslookers:
Please married folks in the house,
My lovely wife and I have been married for almost 2 years now. I know I am not a perfect person and she is not too but we have been managing.
Why I opened this thread is that I am very afraid of her new attitude of always carrying weapons anytime we have a misunderstanding.
It started when I found out she had an abortion without telling me and when I confronted her she flared up and started behaving like a tout jumping here and there.
On Friday last week we were discussing about how to go about the new business I want to set up for her and somehow we got into an argument and she ran into the kitchen and grabbed a knife.
Again, this morning I simply asked her to waybill some foodstuffs to her father as I wouldn't be able to do that before heading to my place of business and she grabbed my clothes and started calling me names, next thing she picked up the belt hanging on the wardrobe and started threatening to teach me a lesson.
I have never been a woman beater and honestly don't know what has gotten into her.
We have a pending issue we are yet to sort out but still I am keeping my calm why is she the one suddenly going violent??
Please what do I do? I don't want blood on my hands because if I touch her it will be very bad.
My marriage is still young. You are talking about young marriage when you are not even sure of living up to next month.
keep patching sotigbọ,i pray not to see your obituary |
| Re: Help! My Wife Is Suddenly Too Violent by Paretomaster1(m): 5:59pm On Jan 18, 2022 |
Lucaslookers:
Please married folks in the house,
My lovely wife and I have been married for almost 2 years now. I know I am not a perfect person and she is not too but we have been managing.
Why I opened this thread is that I am very afraid of her new attitude of always carrying weapons anytime we have a misunderstanding.
It started when I found out she had an abortion without telling me and when I confronted her she flared up and started behaving like a tout jumping here and there.
On Friday last week we were discussing about how to go about the new business I want to set up for her and somehow we got into an argument and she ran into the kitchen and grabbed a knife.
Again, this morning I simply asked her to waybill some foodstuffs to her father as I wouldn't be able to do that before heading to my place of business and she grabbed my clothes and started calling me names, next thing she picked up the belt hanging on the wardrobe and started threatening to teach me a lesson.
I have never been a woman beater and honestly don't know what has gotten into her.
We have a pending issue we are yet to sort out but still I am keeping my calm why is she the one suddenly going violent??
Please what do I do? I don't want blood on my hands because if I touch her it will be very bad.
My marriage is still young. She is grabbing knife �  Send her to her parents house before she send you to your grave.. |
| Re: Help! My Wife Is Suddenly Too Violent by HopeNeverDies: 6:03pm On Jan 18, 2022 |
cutieBR:
Sure why not. Anyways, thanks for the compliment. I sent you an email already. Could you please try check that?  |
| Re: Help! My Wife Is Suddenly Too Violent by streetzdreamz(m): 6:27pm On Jan 18, 2022 |
Richy4:
Blame the moderators.. they feel that bad news is the real deal
Oh! That's too bad then, if true. |
| Re: Help! My Wife Is Suddenly Too Violent by Speaklove: 6:28pm On Jan 18, 2022 |
Do you and you wife pray together?
Any family where there is no time to commune together before God
There will be time to commune before Satan
In rancour,in strife,bloodshed,hatred,and divorce.
Many of these things happening in marriages
Are manifestations of demonic pollution through witchcraft and other satanic mediums
In various territories.
Satan knows that for the body if Christ to be united ,then that unity must began from the homes of the members before they will ever be unity in the general body of 'Christ.
Strike the sheperd and the sheep will scatter.
God led me to tell you to start praying with your family together.
Study the word together,and have good times
Together before the lord.
Follow this steps and your family will be fine again.
Open up to your wife ,ask her for forgiveness
And let her do likewise to you
For the sake of your children's destiny and for your own relationship with God. 1 Like |
| Re: Help! My Wife Is Suddenly Too Violent by sfinkzslot(m): 6:28pm On Jan 18, 2022 |
Lucaslookers:
found out she had an abortion without telling me . When my wife asked for an abortion and subsequently miscarried the pregnancy, I knew the marriage has entered another dimension, I have not been the same again since then, I even cried because I never thought my life would come to that. I don't know what you may have done to her but note , your marriage and that woman you married is not the same again, your life too |
| Re: Help! My Wife Is Suddenly Too Violent by osato45: 6:58pm On Jan 18, 2022 |
Lucaslookers:
Please married folks in the house,
My lovely wife and I have been married for almost 2 years now. I know I am not a perfect person and she is not too but we have been managing.
Why I opened this thread is that I am very afraid of her new attitude of always carrying weapons anytime we have a misunderstanding.
It started when I found out she had an abortion without telling me and when I confronted her she flared up and started behaving like a tout jumping here and there.
On Friday last week we were discussing about how to go about the new business I want to set up for her and somehow we got into an argument and she ran into the kitchen and grabbed a knife.
Again, this morning I simply asked her to waybill some foodstuffs to her father as I wouldn't be able to do that before heading to my place of business and she grabbed my clothes and started calling me names, next thing she picked up the belt hanging on the wardrobe and started threatening to teach me a lesson.
I have never been a woman beater and honestly don't know what has gotten into her.
We have a pending issue we are yet to sort out but still I am keeping my calm why is she the one suddenly going violent??
Please what do I do? I don't want blood on my hands because if I touch her it will be very bad.
My marriage is still young. 1. It's either she doesn't love you and there is an ex or a guy in the picture 2. Or, She is paying you back for some bad things you did to her, revenge Hence the abortion and resulting to violence anytime there is disagreement, call her family and inform them, they must be present for you all to talk and caution their daughter. |
| Re: Help! My Wife Is Suddenly Too Violent by capnies: 7:19pm On Jan 18, 2022 |
REPORT HER TO HER PARENTS IMMEDIATELY BEFORE SHE KILLS YOU. THEN BE VERY VERY CAREFUL FROM NOW ON, DON'T MINCE WORDS WITH HER AVOID HER TOTALLY. SHE WANTS TO KILL YOU ALL SHE WANTS IS ALIBI |
| Re: Help! My Wife Is Suddenly Too Violent by eejo(m): 7:26pm On Jan 18, 2022 |
Brother she is having a mental break down and your life is at risk. Please seek help before you wake up in Heaven from your sleep. |
| Re: Help! My Wife Is Suddenly Too Violent by iamL(f): 7:40pm On Jan 18, 2022 |
Lucaslookers:
Please married folks in the house,
I know I am not a perfect person and she is not too but we have been managing.
What do u mean by this? What did u do to her prior to her violent behavior? Have u beaten her before? U have refused to open up abt this. |
| Re: Help! My Wife Is Suddenly Too Violent by Dbrawllm0098(f): 8:27pm On Jan 18, 2022 |
Save yourself from untimely death and your sanity.
This are the very early signs you shouldn't ignore,becareful with partners with anger issues especially those who are fast to pick weapon at slight provocation. |
| Re: Help! My Wife Is Suddenly Too Violent by FORWARDEVERLY: 9:20pm On Jan 18, 2022 |
Lucaslookers:
Please married folks in the house,
My lovely wife and I have been married for almost 2 years now. I know I am not a perfect person and she is not too but we have been managing.
Why I opened this thread is that I am very afraid of her new attitude of always carrying weapons anytime we have a misunderstanding.
It started when I found out she had an abortion without telling me and when I confronted her she flared up and started behaving like a tout jumping here and there.
On Friday last week we were discussing about how to go about the new business I want to set up for her and somehow we got into an argument and she ran into the kitchen and grabbed a knife.
Again, this morning I simply asked her to waybill some foodstuffs to her father as I wouldn't be able to do that before heading to my place of business and she grabbed my clothes and started calling me names, next thing she picked up the belt hanging on the wardrobe and started threatening to teach me a lesson.
I have never been a woman beater and honestly don't know what has gotten into her.
We have a pending issue we are yet to sort out but still I am keeping my calm why is she the one suddenly going violent??
Please what do I do? I don't want blood on my hands because if I touch her it will be very bad.
My marriage is still young. Pls pet her and allow her Stab you deep in your Chest.. that is how to show that you are a Real Man.. Onye eririeri.. |
| Re: Help! My Wife Is Suddenly Too Violent by FORWARDEVERLY: 9:21pm On Jan 18, 2022 |
tyup:
For every ment there's always a counter ment and that's why i tell married men who come to me for marriage counsel/ therapy that if you want peace in ur home, always be the trouble maker and a type your wife would want to avoid trouble with at any cost
The wife you spent money and resource to bring to ur home so you can bear her burden and cater for her needs free of charge is bringing out a knife on you?? Do you still need a prophet to tell you it's high time you have both of her hands on POP tied to her neck with a swollen mouth/eyes that would not make her speak for two weeks??
The generation of men we're breeding these days makes me loose urge especially when my libido is high Na this SIMPs women dey call Real men.. leemao.. |
| Re: Help! My Wife Is Suddenly Too Violent by FORWARDEVERLY: 9:22pm On Jan 18, 2022 |
Kriss216:
Another one .
E shock you ?? SIMPs full everywhere nah. |
| Re: Help! My Wife Is Suddenly Too Violent by chaloskyx: 2:50am On Jan 19, 2022 |
She uses that tactic to avoid you from getting answers to your questions. when she acts violent its to scare you away from nagging her and getting answers and it seems to be working |
| Re: Help! My Wife Is Suddenly Too Violent by Thebig4: 9:43am On Jan 19, 2022 |
Women dont like weak men, sometimes be tough and trouble some she will always avoid you, and dnt smile too much wen you around her. But dnt raise ur hand on her and always act like a man a real man if u want to enjoy ur marriage else she will turn you to boy boy inside ur own house speaking from a married man perspective. I get ur type but nah like this i take reset her brain she don dey loyal now no time for nonsense. 1 Like |
