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Re: Why Do The Uneducated Ladies Get Married Before The Educated Ones? by Gkemz: 12:57am On Jan 22, 2022
Because the educated ones tend to be unsubmissive, unteachable and over exposed to the the ills of modernization.
Re: Why Do The Uneducated Ladies Get Married Before The Educated Ones? by Judybash93(m): 12:58am On Jan 22, 2022
A lot of men don't give a f about women's money because they won't spend it on him, her educational level or things like that aren't important to men. They just want to return to a peaceful home where they can be happy after all the hustle and bustle of the world. So, things that are important to men are probably the woman's youth, her health, her temperament (submissiveness), her homemaking skills, her ability to support her man when things go south and not be a nagging b**ch and her loyalty. If a woman has these qualities, she would get married within a short period.

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Re: Why Do The Uneducated Ladies Get Married Before The Educated Ones? by Cousin9999: 1:04am On Jan 22, 2022
Some people marry for ego and control. This includes men and women. Some people want to marry someone they perceive as "less" than them in terms of education, socioeconomic status, or intellect. They want someone they can talk down to and/or easily impress. They want to be able to psychologically or financially manipulate the other person. This desire often stems from low self-esteem, unhealthy attitudes about relationships, and/or fear around relationships.

Some people may be educated, but they find that they're more compatible with less educated people. They may not find socializing with peers to be enjoyable or engaging. Maybe they grew up in a rural area and loved it, and prefer small town people. Maybe they grew up in a gritty area, and more easily relate to people there.

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Re: Why Do The Uneducated Ladies Get Married Before The Educated Ones? by Dybala11(m): 1:12am On Jan 22, 2022
Animegirl:
grin I know poverty stricken Redpillers will condemn educated and successful women soon.

Well, they could marry because of love, others no money to afford successful and independent women(Redpillers frustration), while some men marry to control illiterate women.
Afford ke, are educated women commodities to be priced??
Re: Why Do The Uneducated Ladies Get Married Before The Educated Ones? by opribo(m): 1:18am On Jan 22, 2022
.......'because the educated ones know to much and they are having onething or the other they want to accomplish forgetting that the Lord buildeth the house and not by our power.
Re: Why Do The Uneducated Ladies Get Married Before The Educated Ones? by Devil1Messenger: 1:26am On Jan 22, 2022
GoodHardDick:
Educated ladies are arrogant, disrespectful and full of pride. They hardly submit to a man unlike an uneducated lady who's just the opposite. angry
Fact. They feel u are their equals or even greater than u
Re: Why Do The Uneducated Ladies Get Married Before The Educated Ones? by Tayorshd2(m): 1:30am On Jan 22, 2022
MemoriesAndMe:


I actually don't think the features you mentioned have anything to do with education, I think it's more of a personality thing. Many educated people still have same qualities you mentioned.

Let's say it's more of how a person is raised - a lady raised by an arrogant mother and living around arrogant people is bound to be arrogant, educated or not.

Correct you got it.. it's not really abt education but the environment the person grew up and d likes

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Re: Why Do The Uneducated Ladies Get Married Before The Educated Ones? by Devil1Messenger: 1:35am On Jan 22, 2022
FERNANDEZISBACK:
Boys on here are scared of an educated woman cos they know she wouldn't tolerate nonsense from you.. grin grin

They hate women power..you are looking for a woman you can use as you want huh.. una go cry tire.. cheesy
Not necessarily use but someone that can respect u
Re: Why Do The Uneducated Ladies Get Married Before The Educated Ones? by Devil1Messenger: 1:44am On Jan 22, 2022
Fafesot:
My uncle, who is well learned and financially bouyant got married to a lady who barely finished secondary school. At first, our family members felt indignited toward this, but when they saw he was insistence on getting married to her, they let them be. They've been married for ten years now and we do visit them.. One thing I observe about them is; they are happy and also play like small children.

Aside this, I've seen many well-educated men who decided to take less educated or non educated ladies as wife and has always yielded a happy Union. I do say this; is there something about learned men going for less educated ladies.
As for me, I can marry an illiterate. You must be educated as I am..

Let's hear your opinion and experience..

I have dated both graduates and not graduates. As things be now e b like say n.a. the non graduate me go marry o. Wahala too much from d graduates

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Re: Why Do The Uneducated Ladies Get Married Before The Educated Ones? by FERNANDEZISBACK: 1:54am On Jan 22, 2022
Devil1Messenger:

Not necessarily use but someone that can respect u
Thanks..
Re: Why Do The Uneducated Ladies Get Married Before The Educated Ones? by FERNANDEZISBACK: 1:56am On Jan 22, 2022
Hassanmaye:

Why are you like this?
Nothing really..just that guy's attitude towards women..

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Re: Why Do The Uneducated Ladies Get Married Before The Educated Ones? by FERNANDEZISBACK: 1:58am On Jan 22, 2022
Myexdisturbs:

Always immature and mentioning people's parents , what it means the other way is that your pops in the fooll here by marrying your olosho Moda who gave birth to an ashawoo like u grin grin
Keep crying..you and I have no words to trade..my issue is with that guy and I spoke out already..

He asked the question and I took it to him directly.. simple..you can rant as much as you want baby boy.. grin
Re: Why Do The Uneducated Ladies Get Married Before The Educated Ones? by FERNANDEZISBACK: 2:01am On Jan 22, 2022
Klass99:


21 kisses kiss from me to you, for calling out a real simp and putting him in his place.

One of my definitions of a simp, is men who insult Nigerian women upandan this forum.

But, the moment a Nigerian woman/female user announces a giveaway, you find these same men all over her thread, begging to be selected as a beneficiary of her goodwill.

If that isn't real simping, then I don't know what else it is.
You just leave that clueless one.. wink

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Re: Why Do The Uneducated Ladies Get Married Before The Educated Ones? by ekaette1621: 2:03am On Jan 22, 2022
FERNANDEZISBACK:

They are just too confused..I almost forgot that the oldest among them will be 18 in some few months..
What's the point in arguing with a kid tho.. grin grin



Oh Aunty SARAH,
Your menopause will soon arrive next month.
Re: Why Do The Uneducated Ladies Get Married Before The Educated Ones? by FERNANDEZISBACK: 2:03am On Jan 22, 2022
omoharry:
They are looking for slave and not a wife .
wink Exactly..hope you are doing great..

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Re: Why Do The Uneducated Ladies Get Married Before The Educated Ones? by FERNANDEZISBACK: 2:04am On Jan 22, 2022
ekaette1621:




Oh Aunty SARAH,
Your menopause will soon arrive next month.
Thanks for letting me know.. wink
Re: Why Do The Uneducated Ladies Get Married Before The Educated Ones? by Nobody: 2:04am On Jan 22, 2022
Because educated women don’t “settle” as easy as uneducated ones. You have to be on a certain level. Many uneducated women end up in horrible, unfulfilled and even abusing marriages because they settle for anything. People forget that getting married is one thing. Being in a happy an fulfilled marriage is something completely different.

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Re: Why Do The Uneducated Ladies Get Married Before The Educated Ones? by FERNANDEZISBACK: 2:16am On Jan 22, 2022
HellVictorinho3:




Boys... right?


Not men....

....I ain't scared of anyone just because he or she is financially rich......

...If I get attracted to a financially rich woman....,is it to show I'm a failure



If she's also attracted to me even when I ain't as financially rich as she is...., the rest is for us to discuss.,.....we should be able to define the relationship such that we won't have to deceive ourselves.
Boys..
Re: Why Do The Uneducated Ladies Get Married Before The Educated Ones? by Julietekekwe1: 2:17am On Jan 22, 2022
The smarter you are the more likely you will spend time I your parent house.
Re: Why Do The Uneducated Ladies Get Married Before The Educated Ones? by Rhozabeth(m): 2:21am On Jan 22, 2022
Fafesot:
My uncle, who is well learned and financially bouyant got married to a lady who barely finished secondary school. At first, our family members felt indignited toward this, but when they saw he was insistence on getting married to her, they let them be. They've been married for ten years now and we do visit them.. One thing I observe about them is; they are happy and also play like small children.

Aside this, I've seen many well-educated men who decided to take less educated or non educated ladies as wife and has always yielded a happy Union. I do say this; is there something about learned men going for less educated ladies.
As for me, I can marry an illiterate. You must be educated as I am..

Let's hear your opinion and experience..

Haven't u noticed that the high rate of education amongst women is responsible for the high rate of divorce in our society?
Pls fo and chexk statistics!
Am not saying it is not good to educate women but our educated women have turned out really badly because they equate themselves to the men in the home and we all know that there can't be two captains in a ship!
Kudos to ur uncle for taking the right decision, he is enjoying the sisvidends of marriage right now!
Re: Why Do The Uneducated Ladies Get Married Before The Educated Ones? by Holluwhakemmy(f): 2:23am On Jan 22, 2022
Based on time zone
Re: Why Do The Uneducated Ladies Get Married Before The Educated Ones? by Lugianostar(m): 2:25am On Jan 22, 2022
The shoulder pads of the educated ones is classy that they can't be bend to be controlled by their husbands.
Re: Why Do The Uneducated Ladies Get Married Before The Educated Ones? by braine(m): 2:35am On Jan 22, 2022
Judybash93:
A lot of men don't give a f about women's money because they won't spend it on him, her educational level or things like that aren't important to men. They just want to return to a peaceful home where they can be happy after all the hustle and bustle of the world. So, things that are important to men are probably the woman's youth, her health, her temperament (submissiveness), her homemaking skills, her ability to support her man when things go south and not be a nagging b**ch and her loyalty. If a woman has these qualities, she would get married within a short period.

You have given the answer. I totally agree!

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Re: Why Do The Uneducated Ladies Get Married Before The Educated Ones? by braine(m): 2:40am On Jan 22, 2022
Julietekekwe1:
The smarter you are the more likely you will spend time I your parent house.

100%.

I know a babe like that. She's so smart, there's nothing you want to say to her or trip her. She has her own money, job and everything but she's single to stupor.

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Re: Why Do The Uneducated Ladies Get Married Before The Educated Ones? by Tobichuks08: 2:47am On Jan 22, 2022
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Re: Why Do The Uneducated Ladies Get Married Before The Educated Ones? by SaturnNick(m): 2:47am On Jan 22, 2022
sad
thesicilian:


Yeah, focus on the top ten who got their wealth not because of their university degrees, but because of their business acumen, while you conveniently ignore the almost 200 million others who are not so fortunate...

According to the Nigerian Bureau of Statistics, 22.5 million of the 35.5 million in the labor force did not receive a tertiary education, while 6.29 million never attended school. Not just that, they also found out that SSCE holders are the most employed in the country, with an impressive 13.2 million gainfully employed.
angry sad shocked : embarassed

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Re: Why Do The Uneducated Ladies Get Married Before The Educated Ones? by vickydevoka(m): 2:49am On Jan 22, 2022
thesicilian:
The same reason many people who did not attend university are more successful than many graduates.
Focus

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Re: Why Do The Uneducated Ladies Get Married Before The Educated Ones? by vickydevoka(m): 2:52am On Jan 22, 2022
killmods:
Truth is it's not just the women. Uneducated people tend to marry earlier.
Yes, bcus their hustle n earnings comes fast n direct. No Time for application, msc, PhD wahala
Re: Why Do The Uneducated Ladies Get Married Before The Educated Ones? by Nobody: 2:55am On Jan 22, 2022
FERNANDEZISBACK:

Stop being a weakling grin..
When he was insulting women and mothers on here you didn't call the mods but now I asked a simple question you are crying on the mods for help..
I don't think the mods support the insults you kids dish at women here.. grin grin
Keep crying on them..they are laughing at your weirdness.. cheesy

His mom is part of Nigerian women he likes to insults.
Re: Why Do The Uneducated Ladies Get Married Before The Educated Ones? by FERNANDEZISBACK: 2:56am On Jan 22, 2022
Skyview01:


His mom is part of Nigerian women he likes to insults.
That was why I asked him the direct question..

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Re: Why Do The Uneducated Ladies Get Married Before The Educated Ones? by Nobody: 2:57am On Jan 22, 2022
FERNANDEZISBACK:

That was why I asked him the direct question..

1000 likes to your question my friend.
Re: Why Do The Uneducated Ladies Get Married Before The Educated Ones? by Nobody: 2:58am On Jan 22, 2022
Marry an uneducated mgbeke and give birth to dumb children.

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