....You are almost 30 yrs but it seems like your brain is not moving at per with your age.

You reason like one without a functional Brain.

Smh.

NovesaTillie:
Please I need only matured minds on this.
It's a serious matter.

My elder sister and her husband were married for 5 years and separated November last year but not divorced yet, though the families have been trying to reconcile them to come back together but my sister's husband has been adamant about it.

I noticed that ever since his separation from my sister he started visiting my place and now it has become frequent. I allowed it because I see him as a brother but now I am starting to really enjoy his company. He has been helping me out with stuffs and still maintains his kindness towards my parents.

He proposed marriage to me yesterday and I have been confused. I will be 30 by February 2nd.
Should I accept his proposal?

Once I hear he has been helping me with stuffs.
.it simply means ur have been leaching off him..
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FERNANDEZISBACK:

Then that shows you ain't sensible tho..
Grow up married man and stop coming here to show the world how half witted you are..

No vex grownup unmarried woman with plenty sense.
A man cannot be separated from his words.
Ur senseless posts tells me how Immature and senseless u are.

Work on urself to add value and stop trolling people on this forum with ur senseless posts.

And as an advice, don't post on threads that have got to do with real relationship or marriage issues as u are not knowledgeable in these areas.
U will only sound stupid if u do

infogenius:


No vex grownup unmarried woman with plenty sense.
A man cannot be separated from his words.
Ur senseless posts tells me how Immature and senseless u are.

Work on urself to add value and stop trolling people on this forum with ur senseless posts.

And as an advice, don't post on threads that have got to do with real relationship or marriage issues as u are not knowledgeable in these areas.
U will only sound stupid if u do

Just as you sounded self acclaimed married boy..face your marriage and stop acting buffed up on here..
Now get out of my mention baby boy..

NovesaTillie:
Please I need only matured minds on this.
It's a serious matter.

My elder sister and her husband were married for 5 years and separated November last year but not divorced yet, though the families have been trying to reconcile them to come back together but my sister's husband has been adamant about it.

I noticed that ever since his separation from my sister he started visiting my place and now it has become frequent. I allowed it because I see him as a brother but now I am starting to really enjoy his company. He has been helping me out with stuffs and still maintains his kindness towards my parents.

He proposed marriage to me yesterday and I have been confused. I will be 30 by February 2nd.
Should I accept his proposal?

Supper story to make front page.

If they start attacking ur gender now.....

If at all the story is true
I suggest you meet your sister and rub mind with her and also tell your family members about the man's intention.
There response will determine your next move.
Handle it with wisdom so dat ur sister won't see you as a betrayal
Wishing you all the best

I know u guys are already fucking! Pls stop every affair u have with that man and look elsewhere 4 your man. Except u wanna become an everlasting foe to your sis.

u stated they only got seperated and not officialy divorce. There is every tendency that they might come back together.

Op are u that heartless, why should u consider such in the first place, reject the proposal and send the idiot far away from you, if u accord him, you will forever be hated by friends , relative and you become mortal enemy with your immediate family especially your sister, he ain't the only man in this world, for your own sanity, banish him from visiting you

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Do what's great for you..if you are comfortable and know him and the reason for the separation good for you..

Follow your instincts..

Advise tha will later make you wretched in Life.
OP remember nothing can replace Family, nothing.

PoliteActivist:
Consult your sister and listen carefully as to the reason why the relationship had to end, why she couldn't stay. Such things tend to repeat

I love your comment!

marsman:

Advise tha will later make you wretched in Life.
OP remember nothing can replace Family, nothing.

Your opinion..

Lamanii22:



I love your comment!

Thanks dear. Just clicked like on your DP

Op, for the sanity of ur sister even if she agrees, ur family, his family and the society at large, pls don't do it. Mba, let's be realistic. U are about to cause everyone involved and yes, the larger society that will eventually hear this emotional stress and pain. infact, u don dey stress me already. Save ur immediate families all the pain, and the society chuchu gossips. We'd love to concentrate our gossips on other areas.

And I am wondering like how shamelessly quick it was for ur ex in-law to move from sister, now to u. Were u two testing ur green lights while ur sister's marriage lasted?

This story can't be real, no 30 year old can be this stupid

No.
You want ppl to insult you for the rest of your life?
"Hey see that lady that stole her sister's husband" you wouldn't like that.
Go out meet new ppl. I'm sure husband would come.

PoliteActivist:


What if her sister says he's a very good man and it was
all her fault they broke up??

Still not a good reason to marry your sister's ex. Let's not throw away morals please

NovesaTillie:
Please I need only matured minds on this.
It's a serious matter.

My elder sister and her husband were married for 5 years and separated November last year but not divorced yet, though the families have been trying to reconcile them to come back together but my sister's husband has been adamant about it.

I noticed that ever since his separation from my sister he started visiting my place and now it has become frequent. I allowed it because I see him as a brother but now I am starting to really enjoy his company. He has been helping me out with stuffs and still maintains his kindness towards my parents.

He proposed marriage to me yesterday and I have been confused. I will be 30 by February 2nd.
Should I accept his proposal?

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NovesaTillie:
Please I need only matured minds on this.
It's a serious matter.

My elder sister and her husband were married for 5 years and separated November last year but not divorced yet, though the families have been trying to reconcile them to come back together but my sister's husband has been adamant about it.

I noticed that ever since his separation from my sister he started visiting my place and now it has become frequent. I allowed it because I see him as a brother but now I am starting to really enjoy his company. He has been helping me out with stuffs and still maintains his kindness towards my parents.

He proposed marriage to me yesterday and I have been confused. I will be 30 by February 2nd.
Should I accept his proposal?

An honest and simple answer from me to You is, DON"T accept it; You might possibly make an enemy out of Your sister.

FERNANDEZISBACK:

If I humiliate your head now you will start crying on the mods..did you not read where she said matured minds..?

Looks like you ain't ok huh? respect yourself and stop concluding in a brainless manner..

All this children in nairaland

FERNANDEZISBACK:

If I humiliate your head now you will start crying on the mods..did you not read where she said matured minds..?

Looks like you ain't ok huh? respect yourself and stop concluding in a brainless manner..

defender of women, rest!

Speechless. Sister not friend o sister. Make I just sigh and believe this is just another one of those stories .

NovesaTillie:
Please I need only matured minds on this.
It's a serious matter.

My elder sister and her husband were married for 5 years and separated November last year but not divorced yet, though the families have been trying to reconcile them to come back together but my sister's husband has been adamant about it.

I noticed that ever since his separation from my sister he started visiting my place and now it has become frequent. I allowed it because I see him as a brother but now I am starting to really enjoy his company. He has been helping me out with stuffs and still maintains his kindness towards my parents.

He proposed marriage to me yesterday and I have been confused. I will be 30 by February 2nd.
Should I accept his proposal?

are you alright?

Sttrntion-seeking thread. Wonderment

When he's done with you after another 5 years, he moves to your younger sister. That man na OG

This op with her uncommon topics

PoliteActivist:


What if her sister says he's a very good man and it was
all her fault they broke up??

It's an 'if' matter...
Even with the 'if' it's so wrong to jump on your sister's husband. If he's a good man, let him go and find another woman to marry and not from the same family. It's all wrong..
Unless if una no get Shame for una family �

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Do what's great for you..if you are comfortable and know him and the reason for the separation good for you..

Follow your instincts..

see ur reply,why this gender selfish and heartless like this...her sister husband fa!

Abort mission.
So why did you write that you are 30? Is it so you'll convince yourself that age is not on your side so you'll get married to your sister's husband, abi ex-husband?
Haba. Use your brain now.