NovesaTillie:
Please I need only matured minds on this.
It's a serious matter.

My elder sister and her husband were married for 5 years and separated November last year but not divorced yet, though the families have been trying to reconcile them to come back together but my sister's husband has been adamant about it.

I noticed that ever since his separation from my sister he started visiting my place and now it has become frequent. I allowed it because I see him as a brother but now I am starting to really enjoy his company. He has been helping me out with stuffs and still maintains his kindness towards my parents.

He proposed marriage to me yesterday and I have been confused. I will be 30 by February 2nd.
Should I accept his proposal?

Instead you will bring such disgrace to your family,its better one of your sibling gives you poison so you can rest once and for all...I hate rubbish.

FERNANDEZISBACK:

For sure that's his truth..I am only against the insult..

You saw insult. I saw possible fact. The fact that the man finds solace in his sister in law after his marriage with his estranged wife went South speaks volumes about the possible advances by the said sister in law that may have confused the man. You must have read where the op revealed that the said man was adamant to reconciliatory moves but he jumps onto the sister in law with two legs, supporting her personally not even the family. Then she boldly admitted that she has been attracted to the said man. Besides the fact that the op is conscious of the fact that there is no mouch time on her side, you understand the desperation. Oga you need to understand a woman's mind inorder to understand exactly the unspoken side of this story. I come in peace.

NovesaTillie:
Please I need only matured minds on this.
It's a serious matter.

My elder sister and her husband were married for 5 years and separated November last year but not divorced yet, though the families have been trying to reconcile them to come back together but my sister's husband has been adamant about it.

I noticed that ever since his separation from my sister he started visiting my place and now it has become frequent. I allowed it because I see him as a brother but now I am starting to really enjoy his company. He has been helping me out with stuffs and still maintains his kindness towards my parents.

He proposed marriage to me yesterday and I have been confused. I will be 30 by February 2nd.
Should I accept his proposal?

You already betrayed your sister.

That's bad

Same thing that happened to your sister will happen to you.

Why didn't you bother ask your sister before allowing him so close to you.

Children of nowadays!

Why on earth would you even give attention to such proposal. Something is seriously wrong with that your sis husband. Or maybe you are already interested in him. Everything about this is wrong

NovesaTillie:
Please I need only matured minds on this.
It's a serious matter.

My elder sister and her husband were married for 5 years and separated November last year but not divorced yet, though the families have been trying to reconcile them to come back together but my sister's husband has been adamant about it.

I noticed that ever since his separation from my sister he started visiting my place and now it has become frequent. I allowed it because I see him as a brother but now I am starting to really enjoy his company. He has been helping me out with stuffs and still maintains his kindness towards my parents.

He proposed marriage to me yesterday and I have been confused. I will be 30 by February 2nd.
Should I accept his proposal?

Do you believe that Curses are real

FERNANDEZISBACK:

Really..that was why I said she should follow her instincts..

No dear, there are moments you give such advice, not this one. We don't pray for such circumstances but can you give such advice to your siblings?

What you are about to do is an abomination. Don't put yourself in the line of fire please. Go and look for another husband elsewhere and let your sister's marriage be. Enough for the wise.

Something is smelling.

Sister please tell truth. To my own analysis of the matter, its clear to me that it seems like you and your sister's husband has being doing secret love before. Am a man no man can boldly marry his wife sister with support of their parent. Only thing he can tell you is to run out of the town and go and settle in another state or country. Pls don't enter his trap your marriage won't last with him. He is not a serious man. But if you like his di*k then you can follow him. But if you love your family and you want respect yourself leave him alone and make sure you inform your family about what happen between you and him

FERNANDEZISBACK:

She ain't snatching no one..she only seek advice..

"She ain't snatching no one"....You see the reason the other guy said you are immature?

For her to bring such irritating topic up,means she has been going out with him and have accepted his proposal,but don't know how to convince her family over it.

Lance7621:


No dear, there are moments you give such advice, not this one. We don't pray for such circumstances but can you give such advice to your siblings?

Why not?

Dshocker:


"She ain't snatching no one"....You see the reason the other guy said you are immature?

For her to bring such irritating topic up,means she has been going out with him and have accepted his proposal,but don't know how to convince her family over it.

Ok then..

MrSly:

You saw insult. I saw possible fact. The fact that the man finds solace in his sister in law after his marriage his wife went South speaks volumes about the possible advances by the said sister in law that may have confused the man. You must have read where the op revealed that the said man was adamant to reconciliatory moves but he jumps onto the sister in law with two legs, supporting her personally not even the family. Then she boldly admitted that she has been attracted to the said man. Besides the fact that the op is conscious of the fact that there is no mouch time on her side, you understand the desperation. Oga you need to understand a woman's mind inorder to understand exactly the unspoken side of this story. I come in peace.

I repeat I was only against the insult simple..

Really put your self in your sister shoes.

When your sister never die

Aunty na WA oh

NovesaTillie


post=109582111:
Please I need only matured minds on this.
It's a serious matter.

My elder sister and her husband were married for 5 years and separated November last year but not divorced yet, though the families have been trying to reconcile them to come back together but my sister's husband has been adamant about it.

I noticed that ever since his separation from my sister he started visiting my place and now it has become frequent. I allowed it because I see him as a brother but now I am starting to really enjoy his company. He has been helping me out with stuffs and still maintains his kindness towards my parents.

He proposed marriage to me yesterday and I have been confused. I will be 30 by February 2nd.
Should I accept his proposal?

NovesaTillie:
Please I need only matured minds on this.
It's a serious matter.

My elder sister and her husband were married for 5 years and separated November last year but not divorced yet, though the families have been trying to reconcile them to come back together but my sister's husband has been adamant about it.

I noticed that ever since his separation from my sister he started visiting my place and now it has become frequent. I allowed it because I see him as a brother but now I am starting to really enjoy his company. He has been helping me out with stuffs and still maintains his kindness towards my parents.

He proposed marriage to me yesterday and I have been confused. I will be 30 by February 2nd.
Should I accept his proposal?

Don't try that nonsense. Your sister & your parent will not be happy with you if you do so.

FERNANDEZISBACK:

I repeat I was only against the insult simple..

I was merely telling you that there was no insult at all.

only

FERNANDEZISBACK:

If I humiliate your head now you will start crying on the mods..did you not read where she said matured minds..?

Looks like you ain't ok huh? respect yourself and stop concluding in a brainless manner..

you are about to marry your sisters husband and you here saying matured minds only. seeing evil n doing nothing about it, is itself evil

How am I not even so sure you are the one that use jazz to separate your sister and her husband so that you can take her place.

I believe this matter is not ordinary.

Not proposal if I may say

What a world we live in.. I hope you both have not been sharking?? Your blood sister husband.. Musa sef don blind from seeing so many things for gate.


uote author=NovesaTillie post=109582111]Please I need only matured minds on this.
It's a serious matter.

My elder sister and her husband were married for 5 years and separated November last year but not divorced yet, though the families have been trying to reconcile them to come back together but my sister's husband has been adamant about it.

I noticed that ever since his separation from my sister he started visiting my place and now it has become frequent. I allowed it because I see him as a brother but now I am starting to really enjoy his company. He has been helping me out with stuffs and still maintains his kindness towards my parents.

He proposed marriage to me yesterday and I have been confused. I will be 30 by February 2nd.
Should I accept his proposal? [/quote]

What is this life turning to sef, both you and the husband are not serious. Someone like you can kill your sister. Don't let getting old make you desperate to settle for anything or do abominable things. Look elsewhere, God will provide you your own husband.

FERNANDEZISBACK:

If I humiliate your head now you will start crying on the mods..did you not read where she said matured minds..?

Looks like you ain't ok huh? respect yourself and stop concluding in a brainless manner..

So you follow for mature mind??

dominique:
This story can't be real, no 30 year old can be this stupid

Hahahahahaha

You failed to mention that you have been sleeping with him already. Proposal or no proposal, carry on madam. Accept him and come here later to tell us how it all turned out awry.
But is this really how some women think? Well... We have also heard of some men sleep with their wives' sisters.

NovesaTillie:
Please I need only matured minds on this.
It's a serious matter.

My elder sister and her husband were married for 5 years and separated November last year but not divorced yet, though the families have been trying to reconcile them to come back together but my sister's husband has been adamant about it.

I noticed that ever since his separation from my sister he started visiting my place and now it has become frequent. I allowed it because I see him as a brother but now I am starting to really enjoy his company. He has been helping me out with stuffs and still maintains his kindness towards my parents.

He proposed marriage to me yesterday and I have been confused. I will be 30 by February 2nd.
Should I accept his proposal?

You shouldn't be accepting proposal from your sister's husband, even though they are divorced.

In your own case they are separated and by the time you choose to marry you become his second wife. Apart from the it doesn't make any reasonable sense. I'm not asking you to hate him or whatever, but giving him the privilege of getting very close you to the extent of catching feelings for him is absolutely wrong.

What were you even thinking?

Place yourself in your sister's shoes...if it happened the other way round how would you feel?

FERNANDEZISBACK:

If I humiliate your head now you will start crying on the mods..did you not read where she said matured minds..?

Looks like you ain't ok huh? respect yourself and stop concluding in a brainless manner..

Why would you humiliate her. How mature are you to think that it is proper for a sibling to marry her sister's divorced husband. Does it mean that even if the man want to remary it must be from that very household. Why can he go elsewhere and you that is involved why on earth must you
accept such proposal. Does it mean that there is no other man apart from your sisters husband?

First of all una don dey fvck sinceeee,no man go just wake up and wan marry just like that, you should be ashamed of yourself for ruining your sister marriage. Infact everything doesn't add up, how will you a sister in law accommodate your sister husband who is even older than you, let it not be that the guy is fvcking all of you to gain favors.

NovesaTillie:
Please I need only matured minds on this.
It's a serious matter.

My elder sister and her husband were married for 5 years and separated November last year but not divorced yet, though the families have been trying to reconcile them to come back together but my sister's husband has been adamant about it.

I noticed that ever since his separation from my sister he started visiting my place and now it has become frequent. I allowed it because I see him as a brother but now I am starting to really enjoy his company. He has been helping me out with stuffs and still maintains his kindness towards my parents.

He proposed marriage to me yesterday and I have been confused. I will be 30 by February 2nd.
Should I accept his proposal?

prophecy gradually been fulfilled
Isaiah 4 :: NIV . In that day
seven women will take hold of one man and
say, "We will eat our own food and provide
our own clothes; only let us be called by your
name. Take away our disgrace!"

NovesaTillie:

He proposed marriage to me yesterday and I have been confused. I will be 30 by February 2nd.
Should I accept his proposal?

put yourself in your sisters shoes, will you be happy if same happens to you?

mummymum:

Why would you humiliate her. How mature are you to think that it is proper for a sibling to marry her sister's divorced husband. Does it mean that even if the man want to remary it must be from that very household. Why can he go elsewhere and you that is involved why on earth must you
accept such proposal. Does it mean that there is no other man apart from your sisters husband?

My statement was against his insult so all your long talk ain't necessary..

Out of all the men in the whole wide world, na your sister ex husband you want. Na wa o.

infogenius:


U're 30 and surprisingly with lack of sense. Accept his proposal at ur own risk. It's obvious u're the most likely reason y his marriage to ur sister failed.
Better look for ur own husband and leave ur sister's husband alone.

You can never TELL, that maybe her husband in disguise......

Solsix:

So you follow for mature mind??

Ok?