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Re: What Killed Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In Love With? by nedekid: 9:40am On Jan 26, 2022
Beautiful chick I met working at the bank many years ago ( she worked at the bank not me) . The complexion like oyinbo. Almost like a white chick. (I be sucker for light skined chicks).
Back then I stayed in a shared bungalow with my 2 bros. My room was ensuite.
First time this beauty came to visit me of which lamba was expected, as she entered my room, she relaxed on the bed, I said let me get some refreshments for her, the shocker happened.
I did not spend up to 5min, as I entered the room, the stink was unimaginable!
The smell in the Ac of shit! This lady had entered the loo and fired heavy shit and the smell was thick in the room in less than few munites I stepped out! There was one oriyomi sef still in the loo! As how naa? How possible?
Omo, that just killed my interest. Unfortunately that was the last time I saw her. She called a couple of times. Next I heard was she relocated. This gist na 20 years ago.

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Re: What Killed Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In Love With? by SeriouslySense(m): 9:40am On Jan 26, 2022
smiley smiley
BigDawsNet:
Shes was Un-diagnosed Bipolar patient...
Calm in 1min
Hell type in less than 30mins

I understood her problem and I wanna help her get Tru it + I love her...

But she kept making it difficult...
Not like she's d only gal out dere ...buv I'm willing to help her manage it...stay, marry her...but I realize it's beyond my energy
Re: What Killed Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In Love With? by FairlyUSEDpussy: 9:41am On Jan 26, 2022
Alexaonfleek:
He was too stingy for a guy

Okay.....
Did u at least spend on him to show him what was right??

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Re: What Killed Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In Love With? by SeriouslySense(m): 9:41am On Jan 26, 2022
smiley smiley
MadamExcellency:
Why do people refer to physio-bio-chemical confusion between two people as love?

I don't understand this phenomenon seriously.
Re: What Killed Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In Love With? by Akanoaaa(m): 9:42am On Jan 26, 2022
She was a terrible liar and chronicle cheater. No single honesty in her blood.

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Re: What Killed Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In Love With? by pocohantas(f): 9:42am On Jan 26, 2022
LaJoe2:
Gluttony: inconsiderately begging me for food all the time even when i haven't eaten and I'm busy. Her stomach was her god.

Hahahahahahaha. Food is bae abeg!

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Re: What Killed Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In Love With? by Pharaoh4rin(m): 9:42am On Jan 26, 2022
FairlyUSEDpussy:


Why did dat happened ?
R u sure u didn’t cuss seun’s parent??or maybe u murdered modder’s relative cheesy........

Well.......as for dming ladies and being insulting I can assure not all male nairalanders do that........infact best is to follow if I find anyone interest..........

You're one hell of a dude. I can't stop laughing grin grin

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Re: What Killed Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In Love With? by SeriouslySense(m): 9:43am On Jan 26, 2022
smiley smiley
iykofias:
Incessant callings and acting like a victim whenever I’m too busy to pick
Re: What Killed Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In Love With? by CapitalBank: 9:44am On Jan 26, 2022
Dliquidmetal:
The feelings weren't reciprocal,so I gradually detached myself. I don't care how strong the feeling is, once I figure she doesn't feel the same way I move the Bleep on.
na so e suppose to be o.
Re: What Killed Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In Love With? by Premiumwriter: 9:45am On Jan 26, 2022
MadamExcellency:


Can you define love as any form relationships?
love is lust + caring.

Erotic love which we are discussing here is comes when a partner lust after the opposite sex in the initial stage and then grow to actually care about the person mostly due to attachment which is due to time spent together.

When a man and woman meet, they first lust after each other. They are consumed with this passionate desire for each other.

As they spend more time together, they form attachment, start wanting to spend even more time together, forming more attachments.

It is this attachment stage that makes people want to stay through troubles or run away if the attachment is not strong enough.

The lust stage of love can easily be created in the lab by stimulating the right side of the brain. But building the attachment part takes time.

So, if a man is lusting after a woman, he's only in the first stage of love. Given sufficient time, they will start developing attachments as they find the qualities they like.

If the time and quality are not enough, the lust burns out and they fall out of the mirage.

Which bring us back to this topic: what made you fall out of the initial stage of love you had for someone before developing attachments?

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Re: What Killed Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In Love With? by Nonexisting: 9:47am On Jan 26, 2022
I have loved one woman all my life and she destroyed the love by stepping on my head to move ahead. After recovering from the financial mess she put me in, I realised that true and unconditional love does not exist in the heart of women. Now, I don't love any vaginarian and I don't even want any of them to love me.

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Re: What Killed Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In Love With? by SeriouslySense(m): 9:47am On Jan 26, 2022
summarily, well explained. wink wink Your internet server is heating up (nairaland cheesy)
Premiumwriter:
love is lust + caring.

Erotic love which we are discussing here is comes when a partner lust after the opposite sex in the initial stage and then grow to actually care about the person mostly due to attachment which is due to time spent together.

When a man and woman meet, they first lust after each other. They are consumed with this passionate desire for each other.

As they spend more time together, they form attachment, start wanting to spend even more time together, forming more attachments.

It is this attachment stage that makes people want to stay through troubles or run away if the attachment is not strong enough.

The lust stage of love can easily be created in the lab by stimulating the right side of the brain. But building the attachment part takes time.

So, if a man is lusting after a woman, he's only in the first stage of love. Given sufficient time, they will start developing attachments as they find the qualities they like.

If the time and quality are not enough, the lust burns out and they fall out of the mirage

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Re: What Killed Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In Love With? by BigDawsNet: 9:48am On Jan 26, 2022
SeriouslySense:
smiley smiley

I must confess...she's very pretty and a wonderful ladyy buv it's gonna be difficult to live with her type...

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Re: What Killed Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In Love With? by Emjace(m): 9:50am On Jan 26, 2022
cry

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Re: What Killed Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In Love With? by Salt06(m): 9:52am On Jan 26, 2022
RaisedByWolves:
She is short and has a demonic character. The bitch old as Bleep too... Old as Bleep 35 years old short demonic character..Lord have mercy
No joy here o. Lolz cheesy grin
Re: What Killed Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In Love With? by Premiumwriter: 9:55am On Jan 26, 2022
Emjace:
She told me about a guy who got her an Iphone sometime ago. The guy asked her to be his girlfriend, she didn't give a reply yet, but she was gonna say yes anyway

The guy stopped calling and texting her... She tried reaching him, wasn't possible...

After some months she was told that the guy was robbed and all that...

Then I asked her if the guy calls her and gives her a genuine and justifiable explanation of his reason for not being available, then requests to get her back, what will be your reply? Then she replied to me "I don't know"... Asked again yet she gave the same reply

I walked out angrily... Never answered her calls since then...

The above happened yesterday... And she's my girlfriend.... Infact I need advice
you don't need advice except you want to be a part time boyfriend waiting until the main boyfriend arrives..

If that's the case then go and be with her

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Re: What Killed Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In Love With? by Premiumwriter: 9:56am On Jan 26, 2022
pryme:


A name is not the same thing as a definition, anyone with average cognitive ability will know what am driving at,

This is not a writing gig or an essay competition.
I guess I'm above average reason why I can't tell what you're driving at

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Re: What Killed Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In Love With? by Pharaoh4rin(m): 9:56am On Jan 26, 2022
LARRYOBRAIN:
I love her, just a little argument, she said i would not see her for a month, i called her, she will pick and we did notsee after like three weeks or month she came back and was asking about the wedding arrangements, i told her i don't have feelings for her again.
She pressured me, so i gave a month to make my decision.
She came back after a month, i told her, i had no feelings for her again, till now she is still single while i am married with two children.

Nice one
Re: What Killed Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In Love With? by SeriouslySense(m): 9:57am On Jan 26, 2022
What about gassing out excessively and snoring like a toadcheesy cheesy cheesy

Other traits are needed to keep loving someone, for me, it could be mutual respect, gentleness, kindness, friendly, thoughtful and good intentions, good hygiene and good healthy (encompassing eating habits and others)

I think we can appreciate our partners by considering these things or asking our partners what they love or would love.

Having a balanced relationship takes some consistent effort, lo, but understanding helps.

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Re: What Killed Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In Love With? by smogup: 9:57am On Jan 26, 2022
Emjace:
She told me about a guy who got her an Iphone sometime ago. The guy asked her to be his girlfriend, she didn't give a reply yet, but she was gonna say yes anyway

The guy stopped calling and texting her... She tried reaching him, wasn't possible...

After some months she was told that the guy was robbed and all that...

Then I asked her if the guy calls her and gives her a genuine and justifiable explanation of his reason for not being available, then requests to get her back, what will be your reply? Then she replied to me "I don't know"... Asked again yet she gave the same reply

I walked out angrily... Never answered her calls since then...

The above happened yesterday... And she's my girlfriend.... Infact I need advice

You don't need any advice! You did the right thing.
Just block her off immediately. She is just using you to pass time

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Re: What Killed Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In Love With? by michresakidjo(m): 9:58am On Jan 26, 2022
I was told we are not spiritually compatible embarassed embarassed embarassed
Like three different cry crypeople

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Re: What Killed Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In Love With? by zeyt: 9:59am On Jan 26, 2022
Indifference and materialism
Re: What Killed Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In Love With? by Justice4Toto: 10:03am On Jan 26, 2022
nedekid:
Beautiful chick I met working at the bank many years ago. The complexion like oyinbo. Almost like a white chick. (I be sucker for light skined chicks).
Back then I stayed in a shared bungalow with my 2 Bros. My room was ensuite.
First time this beauty came to visit me of which lamba was expected, as she entered my room, she relaxed on the bed, I said let me get some refreshments for her, the shocker happened.
I did not spend up to 5min, as I entered the room, the stink was unimaginable!
The smell in the Ac of shit! This lady had entered the loo and fired heavy shit and the smell was thick in the room in less than few munites I stepped out! There was one oriyomi sef still in the loo! As how naa? How possible?
Omo, that just killed my interest. Unfortunately that was the last time I saw her. She called a couple of times. Next I heard was she relocated. This gist na 20 years ago.



Ur room is not well ventilated
Not her fault bro

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Re: What Killed Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In Love With? by Bamzyriches451: 10:05am On Jan 26, 2022
Damn!!
No story to tell, don't love, don't catch feelings



Where's that moniker let him come give us that his anthem


Guys wey no get girlfriend get peace of mind

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Re: What Killed Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In Love With? by ken6488(m): 10:07am On Jan 26, 2022
Tired of waiting
Re: What Killed Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In Love With? by playapayaski: 10:08am On Jan 26, 2022
Exactly bro even the life is not REAL/CONSTANT, my own opinion tho. Everything including life itself is temporal.. reason you do things you can't explain sometimes and kick yourself later, reasons no living thing can prove they are self aware.!!!

Let's talk about the famed universal unconditional love( mother's love ), think bro, is it really unconditional?
If you think it is, then why can't same mother's love other women's children like theirs, why the disparity? Like I said my own opinion.
She was conditioned to carry a sperm till it turned a child n went through the most painful experience known to mankind to deliver a child and you expect that not to last till her last breath, the thoughts? Why do you think it's easier for Father's to scold n punish kids and disown a child but mother's NEVER DO? YOU think it's love? Hell nah, it's what's at stake it's the sacrifices and pain she's gone thru, so nothing on Earth as long as she's alive will ever mask away that experience, hence the things she does n affection towards her kid/kids to soothe herself n have a sense of "I did the right thing, he/she was worth my pain".
When a child is swapped at birth without the mother knowing, she loves n adores the child like hers, WHAT HAPPENS WHEN THE TRUTH COMES OUT SIR, WHEN SHE FINDS OUT? let's not even talk about father's.. no feeling is permanent, even the dead are forgotten with time, MEMORIES are the realest feeling ever, but they too like others are not constant.
Peace bro

Kenturkey048:


Oyaaaaaaa...As usual...Buhari don drop him on...

Love is not real but is a temporary feeling. Is life itself not temporary?? Does that make life not real?? Doesn't sex give temporary pleasure? Does that make sex not real?

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Re: What Killed Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In Love With? by jimtemi1: 10:08am On Jan 26, 2022
CHEATING !!!!!, and still putting me under pressure that am not still doing enough.her attitude makes me sick

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Re: What Killed Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In Love With? by folake4u(f): 10:09am On Jan 26, 2022
Nasty attitude and foul language everywhere on social media.
Re: What Killed Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In Love With? by faoogoke(m): 10:10am On Jan 26, 2022
Solutiontipsb5:
So what kil*ed your feelings for someone you were madly in love with?

The feeling you had is not Love but infatuation. Its a love feeling that last for some time and then stops.
Re: What Killed Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In Love With? by CapitalBank: 10:10am On Jan 26, 2022
Well, she was beginning to feel distant and somehow felt too important. The same girl that was once worried that I was withdrawn..., We didn't talk for most of December and so I messaged her a few days a new year and wished her Happy New Year. she never replied to the SMS.

I had to buzz her on whatsapp 4 hours later to make sure she is fine considering we hadn't talked for almost a month... the weyrey come reply say she see my sms and wished me happy new year ... when someone is feeling too important, the signs were there. Prior to that I had been getting the signal.

I was tired of her subtle attitude and boldly told her that I have gotten her message and it is time for me to move on. I even told her to delete my numbers from here phone... she begin tell me calm down blah blah..

2 days ago she buzzed me to ask how I am doing... I didn't reply her on time but did when I could. after replying and responded. I had to delete the chat afterwards cos I didn't want anything to remind me of her again. A girl that stopped initiating convos or chats 8 months ago suddenly buzzing because you complained and stopped initiating chat is not worth it. Let's not talk about the subtle and indirect insult she threw around October.

It is well. There are more ladies out there willing to have me... and I have moved on.

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Re: What Killed Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In Love With? by Nobody: 10:12am On Jan 26, 2022
How you said you love someone then your feeling dies baffles me.

Truly, humans have a loose touch with nature and most are dead.

What you called love is nothing but confusion, and hypnotism, you don't love a thing.

I can't even trust people like that with my heart, they will betray you in a jiffy.

Looking back, everything I love, I still love them, because what is true to me will forever remain true except I was forced to accept falsehood as true which I will later hate, but how can I love you today and said I don't any longer when I am not mad.

Evaluate yourself, you shouldn't love someone today, then said you don't any longer. It's wrong, you are the most confused human on earth.

You shouldn't place value on external motivation, but try connecting with the inner beings of others.

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Re: What Killed Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In Love With? by Nobody: 10:12am On Jan 26, 2022
Over familiarity

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