FERNANDEZISBACK:

Cos most men are insecured..and won't get satisfied if they don't pay you back..

It's never about payback. That's a woman thing..Lol payback what
Let me break it down for u.. I got myself a babe all sweet and soft and each time we are apart i really hope she aint doing things she does with me with another nigga. This ain't no fling thing. This is the real deal like my dream woman and i'm her dream man (so i thought). We connect on all levels, mental, physical and spiritual...Although i know it's very possible for her to stray but I still hope above all she doesn't. And then one day my worst nightmare becomes reality. She did give it to another nigga casually. The thought of another body on her with her consent giving him the same thing she gives me out of the level of our deep connection is close to murder. Why? I know u probably heard this before but women who fùck the other nigga are mostly always sold out. You no longer occupy that special place in her body and soul. But u see us men. We are wired superbly to separate all other feelings from physical hence our abilities to sex a random girl but never ever trade that spot for our wives or true babe. And knowing someone else has replaced u is not something to celebrate so we can't forgive that knowing u will never look at us the same way, touch us same way, kiss us the same way like it used to be when it was just us and no man else in between. There really isn't any need to forgive or try to make it work because most women have already moved on before they decide to cheat but most times they try to make it work to save face and look good for the society. When in reality it will never be the same from that point onwards

Stargurl20:
There's something I've noticed about men. They can be so unforgiving when it comes to their wives or gf's unfaithfulness. I'm not justifying this. Trust me, I'm not. But I've seen lot of cases where women would forgive the husband and forget. Why is it hard for men to forgive?
I mean, if God uses all our sins to judge or punish us in this life, I believe no one will remain in existence. Why can't a mere mortal man also develop this forgiving spirit?

Except you've both agreed to a open relationship where you can sleep with other people with your spouse knowing.. If not don't even attempt it cos it's a big insult to the male ego which is very hard to forgive.

We can liken it to key (male) and lock (female). Only one key should open a lock ideally, when another key starts gaining access then problem go dey.

killmods:

It's never about payback. That's a woman thing..Lol payback what
Let me break it down for u.. I got myself a babe all sweet and soft and each time we are apart i really hope she aint doing things she does with me with another nigga. This ain't no fling thing. This is the real deal like my dream woman and i'm her dream man (so i thought). We connect on all levels, mental, physical and spiritual...Although i know it's very possible for her to stray but I still hope above all she doesn't. And then one day my worst nightmare becomes reality. She did give it to another nigga casually. The thought of another body on her with her consent giving him the same thing she gives me out of the level of our deep connection is close to murder. Why? I know u probably heard this before but women who fùck the other nigga are mostly always sold out. You no longer occupy that special place in her body and soul. But u see us men. We are wired superbly to separate all other feelings from physical hence our abilities to sex a random girl but never ever trade that spot for our wives or true babe. And knowing someone else has replaced u is not something to celebrate so we can't forgive that knowing u will never look at us the same way, touch us same way, kiss us the same way like it used to be when it was just us and no man else in between. There really isn't any need to forgive or try to make it work because most women have already moved on before they decide to cheat but most times they try to make it work to save face and look good for the society. When in reality it will never be the same from that point onwards

Thanks for your contribution..

FERNANDEZISBACK:

Thanks for your contribution..

Welcome

Very true

GoodHardDick:
OP, are you okay?

You expect a man who's taking care of you, taking you outing, providing your needs, giving you money and doing everything for you to forgive you when you cheat on him?

What exactly have you offered him in that relationship that'll warrant him to Forgive you?

If you want to cheat and been forgiven, then provide your needs yourself, take care of yourself by yourself. make your own money and pay your bills yourself. In that way, a man will easily forgive you once you cheat because you're not his responsibility.

No sane guy will who's taking care of you will forgive you once you cheat on him, of course expect he is a SIMP.

FERNANDEZISBACK:

You sound so insecured.. thanks for proving my point right..

Insecure on what? You're even more dump as i thought

Qatar2022:

Insecure on what? You're even more dump as i thought

You see what I am talking about?
Thanks for still proving me right again..

FERNANDEZISBACK:

Cos most men are insecured..and won't get satisfied if they don't pay you back..

You are boring

Every single one who commented has commented well, and I've learnt a lot. Thanks. However, men should pls, develop forgiving spirit. Some women have casual sex with no string and does not mean u mean less to her.
Forgiving is Divine

Stargurl20:
Every single one who commented has commented well, and I've learnt a lot. Thanks. However, men should pls, develop forgiving spirit. Some women have casual sex with no string and does not mean u mean less to her.
Forgiving is Divine

Aunty u still don't get it do y'all??
Men! Follow this advice at your own peril

Stargurl20:



Same thing I've been thinking.

Money is the cause ma...if a rich woman marries a broke man and she is the one caring and housing him, in such relationships the woman becomes the power, because she has the money...the woman in this case might cheat on the man, abuse the man, use the man for errands and yet the said man would not leave that woman..he would be the one asking for forgiveness even..lol...in this part of the world we just rarely see a woman be the power...the men are mostly the power and thus the woman has to endure all the bad behaviors of her man so she doesn't lose whatever the man gives....trust me if a woman has her own money and pays her own bills...you find out they are mostly single that is because they are not compared to be enslaved in any relationship..they have their own power and once they sense unfaithfulness from the man..it is easy for them to walk out and not condole his nonsense...Money rules the world

Stargurl20:
I haven't cheated on any guy, neither am I married. Moreover, I can never put my egg I a basket. That doesn't me I'm cheating. I'm just trying to safe my self from being disappointed

lol cheater don drop quote. Lol
Put it in many baskets

Stargurl20:


Not all men pay bills. Not all ladies are dependent. Get that straight, uncle.

swear that you are not sleeping with all the eggs wey you say u no fit put for one basket. My dear gather more eggs

shege45:
swear that you are not sleeping with all the eggs wey you say u no fit put for one basket. My dear gather more eggs

I do not swear, and whether u believe it or not, I'm not sleeping with any of them.

Carchoice:
Investments. Men invest heavily on their women. Commitment, finances, etc. spending all that money on your woman to look good and posh and then She goes to open her legs for another man that only gives her N1500 to buy postinor.

I nor Dey spend for women again. I look for someone’s posh girlfriend to lash instead.

Once I approach a lady and She tells me she’s single, I lose interest. You must be in a serious relationship for me to have interest in you. Your oga will be doing the spending while I do the bending.

u re clever Indeed

u cum use rhyme take close ur sentence

Stargurl20:
I haven't cheated on any guy, neither am I married. Moreover, I can never put my egg I a basket. That doesn't me I'm cheating. I'm just trying to safe my self from being disappointed

What are you saying

Do women rely forgive or they returned because they want to stay married?

There are women who have left cheating men. I read about Klint da Drunk sometime ago.

Stargurl20:
There's something I've noticed about men. They can be so unforgiving when it comes to their wives or gf's unfaithfulness. I'm not justifying this. Trust me, I'm not. But I've seen lot of cases where women would forgive the husband and forget. Why is it hard for men to forgive?

I mean, if God uses all our sins to judge or punish us in this life, I believe no one will remain in existence. Why can't a mere mortal man also develop this forgiving spirit?

One word: Ego.

How you go take dey okay when you hear, dem smashed your girl

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WilsonBright935:


All

We just pretend to be nonchalant sometimes, whereas we are so concerned about Jealousy as far as relationship is concerned

[/s] All

Quit simping homie

Carchoice:
Investments. Men invest heavily on their women. Commitment, finances, etc. spending all that money on your woman to look good and posh and then She goes to open her legs for another man that only gives her N1500 to buy postinor.

I nor Dey spend for women again. I look for someone’s posh girlfriend to lash instead.

Once I approach a lady and She tells me she’s single, I lose interest. You must be in a serious relationship for me to have interest in you. Your oga will be doing the spending while I do the bending.

Lol.....Oga oooo

U no get joy again

Stargurl20:
I haven't cheated on any guy, neither am I married. Moreover, I can never put my egg I a basket. That doesn't me I'm cheating. I'm just trying to safe my self from being disappointed

Hear yourself.

Stargurl20:
I haven't cheated on any guy, neither am I married. Moreover, I can never put my egg I a basket. That doesn't me I'm cheating. I'm just trying to safe my self from being disappointed

so you will put your egg in five baskets, when the baskets left, na who go lose?



anyway your future husband should expect Atlantic ocean size door

Women may forgive, but they will never never forget!

GoodHardDick:
OP, are you okay?

You expect a man who's taking care of you, taking you outing, providing your needs, giving you money and doing everything for you to forgive you when you cheat on him?

What exactly have you offered him in that relationship that'll warrant him to Forgive you?

If you want to cheat and been forgiven, then provide your needs yourself, take care of yourself by yourself. make your own money and pay your bills yourself. In that way, a man will easily forgive you once you cheat because you're not his responsibility.

No sane guy will who's taking care of you will forgive you once you cheat on him, of course expect he is a SIMP.

Brother God bless you for this. You have said it all. Just look at the kind of question human being is asking

Carchoice:
Investments. Men invest heavily on their women. Commitment, finances, etc. spending all that money on your woman to look good and posh and then She goes to open her legs for another man that only gives her N1500 to buy postinor.

I nor Dey spend for women again. I look for someone’s posh girlfriend to lash instead.

Once I approach a lady and She tells me she’s single, I lose interest. You must be in a serious relationship for me to have interest in you. Your oga will be doing the spending while I do the bending.

@stargurl20 ... here is your response...

most people normally feel its just the fact that african men are the head of a house and wont take what they can dish out to women but NO...

the response above is the real reason... its just the same way in a relationship where a woman is the one lavishing money on the man ... she will cheat on the man and the man will forgive her easily but when such man cheats, she will send the man out of the house and break up with him

Man cheating is not the same as woman cheating.
A man can have sex with another woman and it's purely transactional, to satisfy an urge. Women have sex and get attached emotionally to the new man and that's disaster.

Stargurl20:
I mean, if God uses all our sins to judge or punish us in this life, I believe no one will remain in existence. Why can't a mere mortal man also develop this forgiving spirit?

You ruined this when you pulled God down into the mess of mortals.

WilsonBright935:


All

We just pretend to be nonchalant sometimes, whereas we are so concerned about Jealousy as far as relationship is concerned

Fallacy of generalisation __ it reflects your level intelligence ...

You don't speak for me boy

shalomm:


Hear yourself.

lol very dumb girl, a brainless girl have her pussy suffered for her dumbness


she won't put her egg in one basket, that means more than two guys go dey fúck her because she didn't want disappointment



how will she get to know the good one when she's getting same affection from the same men, at the same time. some ladies no dey use their God given brain

FERNANDEZISBACK:

Cos most men are insecured..and won't get satisfied if they don't pay you back..

You nailed it....

Shsjj