FERNANDEZISBACK:

Thanks for your comment..

so get a guy like me and enjoy ur life as you wish lol

Cheating is a western construct aimed at depopulating Africa. Africa glorifies wealth acquisition with a large family setting.
As long as an African man is wealthy enough to spread his wealth among as many women as he could possibly afford.

-Viper

tollyboy5:

so get a guy like me and enjoy ur life as you wish lol

Let me keep smiling..

Stargurl20:
There's something I've noticed about men. They can be so unforgiving when it comes to their wives or gf's unfaithfulness. I'm not justifying this. Trust me, I'm not. But I've seen lot of cases where women would forgive the husband and forget. Why is it hard for men to forgive?

I mean, if God uses all our sins to judge or punish us in this life, I believe no one will remain in existence. Why can't a mere mortal man also develop this forgiving spirit?

Sex is different things to men and women and the hurt is different too.

For a man, it's just a conquest or nature. A cheating man can get over the attraction or act within a minute which will not affect his emotional state.

For a woman, it can't be a conquest but will be a natural thing which is only exhibited by few women with a high libido, love for money and life or just low morality.

The problem with a cheating wife is that, a larger percentage of the women get emotionally dependent on the cheating partner which will affect her matrimonial home. This hurts the pride of a man which is nearly impossible to forgive. But for a woman, a woman's pride is her husbands pocket, so if his pocket is deep enough and always open to her, she will have to put her hurt aside. This is true even when a woman is the bread winner, the man will have limited pride and the tendance that he will forgive is high.

Carchoice:


I nor Dey spend for women again. I look for someone’s posh girlfriend instead.

Once I approach a lady and She tells me she’s single, I lose interest. You must be in a serious relationship for me to have interest in you. Your oga will be doing the spending while I do the bending.

Funny.

All of a sudden you figured it's cheaper and better to just be the dude whom she cheats on her boyfriend with.

ViperAda:
Cheating is a western construct aimed at depopulating Africa. Africa glorifies wealth acquisition with a large family setting.
As long as an African man is wealthy enough to spread his wealth among as many women as he could possibly afford.

-Viper

Your mumu too much. Did white man ask you to copy them?
Did white man came down to the street of agege and started teaching cheating?

Born2Breed:



They always use the silly excuse that "men are born polygamist" make dem kuku turn dog.

Women cheating is always a mistake and they always find it difficult to forgive themselves,but men will cheat and be caught then cheat again and again and again and again...no remorse.

The dumbest thing I have read this year. Women would make the most stupid excuses after caught sleeping with a dog.

Stargurl20:
There's something I've noticed about men. They can be so unforgiving when it comes to their wives or gf's unfaithfulness. I'm not justifying this. Trust me, I'm not. But I've seen lot of cases where women would forgive the husband and forget. Why is it hard for men to forgive?

I mean, if God uses all our sins to judge or punish us in this life, I believe no one will remain in existence. Why can't a mere mortal man also develop this forgiving spirit?

When a man cheats he can easily confess but a woman can take it to the grave
Men if a woman cheats on you can never know unless your lucky to find out..

Stargurl20:
There's something I've noticed about men. They can be so unforgiving when it comes to their wives or gf's unfaithfulness. I'm not justifying this. Trust me, I'm not. But I've seen lot of cases where women would forgive the husband and forget. Why is it hard for men to forgive?

I mean, if God uses all our sins to judge or punish us in this life, I believe no one will remain in existence. Why can't a mere mortal man also develop this forgiving spirit?

My view on this is men are jealous yeah they always want to protect their woman and if the woman goes out and be sleeping with other men it break the man's heart yeah deeply, and it is hard for a man to forgive even when he does say that he has already forgive her, he will be having doubt.

Ladies, do not put all your eggs in one basket till you are married.. even after marriage, be wise.

In my own case .... there’s no way I won’t cheat sooner or later but if you cheat on me that’s the end of us

Carchoice:
Investments. Men invest heavily on their women. Commitment, finances, etc. spending all that money on your woman to look good and posh and then She goes to open her legs for another man that only gives her N1500 to buy postinor.

I nor Dey spend for women again. I look for someone’s posh girlfriend instead.

Once I approach a lady and She tells me she’s single, I lose interest. You must be in a serious relationship for me to have interest in you. Your oga will be doing the spending while I do the bending.

E go hook you one day

Misterone:
they say if you want to understand a man, study animals. man is just a civilized animal. a lion that wants to have a relationship with a lioness that has babies will first try to kill the cubs. nature made man to hate other men offsprings. when you sleep with a man's wife, his instinct of self preservation through his seeds is shaken. he starts have doubts whether his offsprings are his. man does not want to take care of another man's offsprings.

U are not an animal neither are u a civiled animal. U have a body, soul and spirit.

GoodHardDick:
OP, are you okay?

You expect a man who's taking care of you, taking you outing, providing your needs, giving you money and doing everything for you to forgive you when you cheat on him?

What exactly have you offered him in that relationship that'll warrant him to Forgive you?

If you want to cheat and been forgiven, then provide your needs yourself, take care of yourself by yourself. make your own money and pay your bills yourself. In that way, a man will easily forgive you once you cheat because you're not his responsibility.

No sane guy will who's taking care of you will forgive you once you cheat on him, of course expect he is a SIMP.

Forget the OP, most likely a single lady, that think Manhood nah there mate.

Abovebest:
For me

I can never cheat on my woman(assuming I have)

So it's a no no for my woman to cheat

na so dem dey talk

Stargurl20:


Of course! I've given him a lot of reasons to trust me.

you have given him or you meant, you have given them a lot of reasons to trust you??


Can somebody help me out please,/

WHERE DOES SHE BELONG?

Stargurl20:
TTrust me,

We don't trust you

Who told u they have forgiven and forgotten?

tollyboy5:

Your mumu too much. Did white man ask you to copy them?
Did white man came down to the street of agege and started teaching cheating?

You possess a western fabricated mentality. When I say "western construct", it was intended for intelligent adults not some kids with shallow understanding making infantile noise on the internet. Abeg shift


-Viper

Myexdisturbs:

Let me tell u naw, I had an ex I paid a new house for to secure a job offer in Abuja,got her international passport and was preparing to register her for IELTS so we can both move to Canada. Can you imagine this stupid gal was having sexxx in that same house severally with another guy I later found out was the NYSC papa(all these Christain unions) and it made me flash back to the story she did tell me of how the guy use to go fvck one gal like that during their NYSC,not knowing she too is banging the guy.

How did I find out? A cheating girlfriend or wife is easy to catch if you as the man is observant . She came over to my house and started acting funny,denying me sexx and acting I don't care. The few times we had sexxx I discovered her pvssy was quite more widened than it used to be ,I couldn't feel anything. I quickly discovered something was wrong and had to target when she unlocks her phone. I learnt the pattern and opened it at midnight when she was fast asleep and saw the messages and pics of the guy giving her head,lol

I quickly gave her transport back to her base to make sure she's safe first . Then called off the yeye rship. She begged tire I no gree. If it's you Stargurl20 how would you forgive this kind person ?

the body count of the one I am currently dating is very high, and she still have a way of connecting with her exes while keeping me as a fiance, not knowing my own plan, caught her cheating with an ex and many other people, my own plan is to keep her while she think she is fooling me, then the next thing she will see will be my wedding invitation if possible wedding pictures.

I think it has something to do with financial capability,,
Same goes for A woman who is the A-Z bread winner of the family will also not forgive her spouse when he cheats

COS WOMEN TO EVERY MAN IS A TROPHY I DO NOT MEAN LIKE A SLAVE OR HOUSE GIRL KIND OF WAY BUT SOMETHING THEY FIGHT TOOTH AND NAIL WITH OTHER COMPETITORS AND PUT IN THEIR HOUSE GIVING HER HIS NAME. NOW WHAT COMES WITH THAT IS BRAGGING RIGHTS MY WIFE IS THE PREETIEST, SHES THE BEST COOK, SHES SEXY, SHES HOMLY, SHE CAN NEVER CHEAT AND SO ON SO THEY ARE DEEMED TROPHIES BY MEN WHO CHERISH THEM. ONCE THEY CHEAT THAT TROPHY LOOSES ITS VALUE AND IS TAINTED AS SUCH ITS HARD TO RESTORE ITS PAST GLORY HENCE THE DIFFICULTY IN FORGIVING HER.

cloud:
na so dem dey talk

You're always found of counter attacking people's comments

Why can't you state your own opinion

I stand by what I said

I can't and won't never cheat on my woman and I expect same from my woman

The reason is because when a man will cheat I because he doesn't get emotional with it and some men see it as cruise but when a woman cheats it is not good because women cheats with emotion attached.
A man can love is wife so dearly and still cheat on him but a woman that loves her husband would never do that.
So if a woman cheats on you,then just forget about it because she can kill at night or put poison on your food just to have her way.
A woman heart very dangerous when it comes to emotions forget about the beautiful looks
It's very dangerous to accept a cheating woman back no matter how gentle or beautiful she may look because she is emotional

Sometimes I don't want anything doing with most of you women because you laugh and smile at each other but your mind is filled with evil, jealousy etc

What ever you do as a woman,never step on any man's ego..there is no forgiveness for that, if he forgives you my dear run for your life....

nigeriagospel:
the body count of the one I am currently dating is very high, and she still have a way of connecting with her exes while keeping me as a fiance, not knowing my own plan, caught her cheating with an ex and many other people, my own plan is to keep her while she think she is fooling me, then the next thing she will see will be my wedding invitation if possible wedding pictures.

Seriously they act all wise and shit . Damn Nasty

Biglittlelois:
They cry like babies in their closet when their gf/wife cheat on them, like their soul has been taken from them, yet they claim to be the logical one

When a man cries, another heart breaker is born.
A cheating girlfriend makes a hundred innocent girls pay. Men always win.

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Thanks Queen..

oh, Kobojunkie is a female. Little wonder

Juoflife1:
Ladies, do not put all your eggs in one basket till you are married.. even after marriage, be wise.

Be wise kwa even after marriage? Then why not stay single . Everyone mustn't marry

Stargurl20:


I am not married, sir. If I were, they wouldn't be need of me not putting my eggs in a basket or not.

and you think any guy want to marry every body's girl friend?

It's about the ego.
The man wants to own all of the woman's love and attention and body.
Allowing another body into her body is a sacrilege.
It is like someone sticking his key into your own padlock. That's painful.

If you are feeding a hen and it goes to lay it's for another man to eat, will you forgive and forget?