Solutiontipsb5:
did u let her knw?

yes she know.

I ain't ready for that shit called relationship, this one wey my career Neva gel told her, she threatened to commit suicide but she didn't werey, cried for days. My friend told me she dey curse her papa.

Solutiontipsb5:



Every man have olosho spirit in them.

Sorry bro not me, I no dey live that kind life

Lordofalmajiri:

Sorry bro not me, I no dey live that kind life

say less

I left immediately i realize she was mentaly and financially broke ,but if you see her pride is something else..u no get shishi and not working to be better, you the do guy who you want impress madam.

chatinent:
When we went to Crunches and she said “do you have fowl?”

You should have utilize your position as an educator to teah her

Premiumwriter:
so what should we call love then?

The person you are quoting doesn't believe in Love

chatinent:
When we went to Crunches and she said “do you have fowl?”

RaisedByWolves:
She is short and has a demonic character. The bitch old as Bleep too... Old as Bleep 35 years old short demonic character..Lord have mercy

with this your mouth eeeh, Lord should indeed have mercy. my God.

Psalmy2cute:
She told me I’m not caring… and all I know how to do is send money

This is a long distance relationship I guess. she needed physical attention

CapitalBank:
Well, she was beginning to feel distant and somehow felt too important. The same girl that was once worried that I was withdrawn..., We didn't talk for most of December and so I messaged her a few days a new year and wished her Happy New Year. she never replied to the SMS.

I had to buzz her on whatsapp 4 hours later to make sure she is fine considering we hadn't talked for almost a month... the weyrey come reply say she see my sms and wished me happy new year ... when someone is feeling too important, the signs were there. Prior to that I had been getting the signal.

I was tired of her subtle attitude and boldly told her that I have gotten her message and it is time for me to move on. I even told her to delete my numbers from here phone... she begin tell me calm down blah blah..

2 days ago she buzzed me to ask how I am doing... I didn't reply her on time but did when I could. after replying and responded. I had to delete the chat afterwards cos I didn't want anything to remind me of her again. A girl that stopped initiating convos or chats 8 months ago suddenly buzzing because you complained and stopped initiating chat is not worth it. Let's not talk about the subtle and indirect insult she threw around October.

It is well. There are more ladies out there willing to have me... and I have moved on.

bosss, it's like you have been living in my life and I in your. this your narrated experience is very very close to the experiences I had with someone I cared for around October till mid December when I finally got tired with the attitudes and disregard I have been getting from her and made her to tell me if fed up with me which was actually the case.
the differences between ours experiences, with the way you narrated it is not up to 15%.
it was a terrible experience but what more can one do ? had to wish her well for life to move on because it dies without waiting for any body

adedehinbo:
when she calls again,ask her if she has reconsidered her decision?Bleep the hell out her for some time and dump her

I pray he doesn't follow your advice.

Solutiontipsb5:



What is L ??

my loss

olympianares:
your own get sense to block u sef...my own say she wan give person her phone to run something over the weekend...I ask her of her line ,she say na she go call me when she dey available(red flag)...Later in the day,I see her on line,she con tell me say na by 6pm the person dey com collect the phone..
I laff for my mind...the next day(Saturday) she dey online,I no chat her up I just dey watch and observe..same thing on Sunday..
I con call her mum say I wan talk to her junior one..junior one tell me say babe don travel since on Friday..
I lock up...but my mind was made up already
..I con send her msg "Welldone"
I block and delete her number 2sec..
this na 2yrs relationship oo..
this year I no get strength for rubbish

this happened this year?

CapitalBank:
lol drop ur own story and leave mine alone. If you get, read and waka pass.

My story; she was digging into my past life. Areas too dark that I didn't want to remember. I warned her about it, but rather she kept making reference to it at the slightest opportunity. I saw it as a danger sign, did the needful

Moji12:
Unrequited love, I just detached myself jeje n accepted my L in peace.

way to go

MrMacinterchi1:
I pray he doesn't follow your advice.

funny! You think all this girls deserve pity?treat them right and watch them take you as weakling, maltreat them and watch them being loyal

adedehinbo:
funny! You think all this girls deserve pity?treat them right and watch them take you as weakling, maltreat them and watch them being loyal

naaa waah o.
anyway, treating someone you care for too bad may not be ideal, you may lose them if it's not moderate.

MrMacinterchi1:

naaa waah o.
anyway, treating someone you care for too bad may not be ideal, you may lose them if it's not moderate.

fear to loose them and loose them all,treat them like you don't care and watch them loyal, Nigeria girls doesn't know what love is

adedehinbo:
fear to loose them and loose them all,treat them like you don't care and watch them loyal, Nigeria girls doesn't know what love is

yourself.

SmartPolician:


Who's this long epistle for?

Please point out where I said it's her fault.

Sorry, I didn't mean to sound that way.

pocohantas:


They always do this once they get to that point where they don’t want games anymore. Try to reconnect with an EX or old female friend. I think it saves everyone time. Win win for both parties if they are single.

I don't deal.

MrMacinterchi1:
this happened this year?

ya...1st weekend of the year

There's one girl I really love that time, we date for 2 years, the love I have for her that time since have been dating, I have not love a any lady like dat, she was even the first lady I date for 2 years, all my life have not date a lady like more that 3 to 4 months, she was my evethin that times, but what makes the love die a natural death, is that babe always lie,

First year of the relationship I enjoyed it after that rest na story

thought she is beautiful , the beauty confused her

Babe always give her number to any guy that approach her, she have a lot of guy calling her

We fight many times I forgive her even cheat on me some time, but her brain too small I know when she cheat, if I ask her with code she will tell me

But I got feed up I just dump her reason all her family know me, her mum and dad really like me ,it's only me that there parents know that is dating her but babe got a lot of other guy in street

Am not safe something babe tell her parents she is coming to my side but she will go to another place

So if there parents did not see her in time they will start calling my number, if her number is not going.

So if anything happens to her am not safe.

Reason I dumped her is that she is not loyal at all, always lieing to me. I dump her last year since then she have been begging till now, I delete her no she refused to delete my no, she still love me but I can't marry a cheating wife

Entitlement mentality plus ungrateful attitude

olympianares:
ya...1st weekend of the year

okay

Solutiontipsb5:
So what kil*ed your feelings for someone you were madly in love with?

Stubbornness.

you can drum logic into some people's hear from now till tomorrow, they will still be adamant.

I hate people who stick to odds.

Mistake can happen no shee, but don't dwell in shi.ts talkless of forming king Kong on it that Nobody fit change you.

The relationship will end immediately I see Unreasonableness/Irresponsibleness. No time for sheeeeeee...

Solutiontipsb5:
So what kil*ed your feelings for someone you were madly in love with?

she was like "I like u infact am also crushing on you but u never asked me out and another guy asked me so I agreed".. oh my that one weak my life o

Edusouls:
Left me stranded and traveled to Lagos to help her newly married sister cuddle her baby, I was the one doing the calls and trying to stay in contact for 5 solid years, of course I got tired at a point, women are one kind of humans not the type men are...

5years .. You are a SIMPle dude

Westchester:
She had nothing to offer me only being a leech to me, imagine her telling me she doesn't want sex until marriage but has the guts to tell me that as her boyfriend am supposed to be taking care of her needs
Came one morning and told me she wants to travel to another state to help in making up a new bride and she needs some money for upkeep, I asked her if she has reconsidered the no sex until marriage stuff, she said no and that if that's what I want she can't continue the relationship. I just told her to go and think about it cuz I can't accept that condition from someone that's not a virgin
She left my house and blocked me on Whatsapp, I just deleted all her pictures and phone numbers immediately,
That happened last year November and she just called me last week saying it's been long she saw me and just wanted to know how I'm doing
She's one entitled mf, she couldn't even remember the stuffs I did for her and the money I've spent on her, just blocked me on Whatsapp and I didn't give a fck about it, didn't even call her up till today

I gat no time for entitled broke btches

She was just trying to Simplified You but You Hold Up and Simplified her.

adedehinbo:
when she calls again,ask her if she has reconsidered her decision?Bleep the hell out her for some time and dump her

This is Stupidity not Maturity. And God catch you STD hooked You

DonroxyII:
This is Stupidity not Maturity. And God catch you STD hooked You

what is STD?since i was born i have never experienced any