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Pussy is now cheap. With coke and gala you can get it. So you have to show what else you bring na

rickleye:
I'll be frank and not coy. You must be the dumbest woman on this forum.
However, my senses are also telling me that the nonsense you dropped is just to seek out attention.

You have no idea what feminist means - equal opportunity for male and female. To them there are no male only roles and female only roles in society. What a man can do , I can do better - My response - You CAN"T.

" we are not created to provide but to process " No feminist says this. This is where you lose your diatribe.
Then you quote the bible and mention Eve. Like she is the best example out there. Her husband gave her detailed instructions of what to do and not to do. Yet she couldn't keep and relay simple instructions.

You not subscribing women to bring anything is what makes women, illiterates - not being sent to school. if all they do is sit down at home waiting to be impregnated , or given money to make food , turn a house to a home.

I do not and will not be involved with a lady who doesn't think she can do more with her life than what you mentioned. She is to be a "helpmate" an assistant. Both contributing with their skills to the success of the union.

I can buy groceries and cook so why do I need you to process.
I can adopt a child or get one through surrogacy, so why do I need you to process.
I can stage a house and buy homely stuff, so why do I need you to process .
When I get frustrated, I will go see a therapist, so lady why do i need you to process?

I do more than " bring the money" and when I decide to settle down - She better do more than "process"

Anyways, If you want to escalate your backward thinking to a voice call , I may be available.

typical olosho mentality

Can you imagine. See them the wizards destiny destroyers on the beat again. This is why those heartless yahoo demon used them and waste them because all they know is take, take and take they have brain to use but dead on their skulls only goes around seeking who to solve their lazy a s s problems.

Princess80:
Most times I see men asking the question of what ladies bring to the table.

Seriously, we aren't created to bring, we are to process, the man is the provider, he will bring everything for us to process.

If u give us bring sperm, we give u babies
If u give us groceries, we have to give u food
If u give a house, we give u a home
Give us frustration, and trust me, i will surely multiply it and give u hell.

In the bible, Adam had everything and had dominions over it, the woman only came to help him harvest his raw materials.

When it comes to finance, Oga it is 100% ur responsibility, I could only assist when my husband isn't making much and he had future plans or if I earn better than he does.
U can't share financial burden with me and still expect me to cater for the children, wash, cook, clean all alone and still gather enough strength for ur wahala at night.
Bringing money is the only thing a man does, why on earth will u share that very one with me? When I object, u will call me a feminist, Oga masculnist, I will not share.
Every other responsibility in a home belongs to me, while financial responsibilities must be shared abi.
Note: sharing financial burden and helping are two different things.

Oya let the insults pour 123 go.

Wisdom is profitable to direct. While there are stingy men. Women are more stingy even to themselves. So, if you have a project that could benefit you both as family, you won't support to make it reality. Also there are homes, you don't need to do house cleaning and cooking. But, need to provide mental and financial support to build your home.

rickleye:
I'll be frank and not coy. You must be the dumbest woman on this forum.
However, my senses are also telling me that the nonsense you dropped is just to seek out attention.

You have no idea what feminist means - equal opportunity for male and female. To them there are no male only roles and female only roles in society. What a man can do , I can do better - My response - You CAN"T.

" we are not created to provide but to process " No feminist says this. This is where you lose your diatribe.
Then you quote the bible and mention Eve. Like she is the best example out there. Her husband gave her detailed instructions of what to do and not to do. Yet she couldn't keep and relay simple instructions.

You not subscribing women to bring anything is what makes women, illiterates - not being sent to school. if all they do is sit down at home waiting to be impregnated , or given money to make food , turn a house to a home.

I do not and will not be involved with a lady who doesn't think she can do more with her life than what you mentioned. She is to be a "helpmate" an assistant. Both contributing with their skills to the success of the union.

I can buy groceries and cook so why do I need you to process.
I can adopt a child or get one through surrogacy, so why do I need you to process.
I can stage a house and buy homely stuff, so why do I need you to process .
When I get frustrated, I will go see a therapist, so lady why do i need you to process?

I do more than " bring the money" and when I decide to settle down - She better do more than "process"

Anyways, If you want to escalate your backward thinking to a voice call , I may be available.

Wherever you are, I hereby order you to take a bottle of chilled Origin! You nailed it!!

And truthfully, bringing money is actually the easiest job in a home.

Princess80:
Most times I see men asking the question of what ladies bring to the table.

Seriously, we aren't created to bring, we are to process, the man is the provider, he will bring everything for us to process.

If u give us bring sperm, we give u babies
If u give us groceries, we have to give u food
If u give a house, we give u a home
Give us frustration, and trust me, i will surely multiply it and give u hell.

In the bible, Adam had everything and had dominions over it, the woman only came to help him harvest his raw materials.

When it comes to finance, Oga it is 100% ur responsibility, I could only assist when my husband isn't making much and he had future plans or if I earn better than he does.
U can't share financial burden with me and still expect me to cater for the children, wash, cook, clean all alone and still gather enough strength for ur wahala at night.
Bringing money is the only thing a man does, why on earth will u share that very one with me? When I object, u will call me a feminist, Oga masculnist, I will not share.
Every other responsibility in a home belongs to me, while financial responsibilities must be shared abi.
Note: sharing financial burden and helping are two different things.

Oya let the insults pour 123 go.

Inasmuch as I'll like to attack u, I hv to admit your right..... Only if d woman can really do her own part (as u allocated it above). But when she can't do her part n still can't bring money, then she becomes "a burden"

Well, the lady is right. As a man, you ought to provide for your family. But, if you are not working or have anything doing at all... You're not or shouldn't even be thinking of having your own family or dating sef if you don't want to be frustrated.

To simply put, LADIES are processors while men are PROVIDERs. it's simple as that


NB: You may not this, but nobody cares sir

Princess80:
Most times I see men asking the question of what ladies bring to the table.

Seriously, we aren't created to bring, we are to process, the man is the provider, he will bring everything for us to process.

If u give us bring sperm, we give u babies
If u give us groceries, we have to give u food
If u give a house, we give u a home
Give us frustration, and trust me, i will surely multiply it and give u hell.

In the bible, Adam had everything and had dominions over it, the woman only came to help him harvest his raw materials.

When it comes to finance, Oga it is 100% ur responsibility, I could only assist when my husband isn't making much and he had future plans or if I earn better than he does.
U can't share financial burden with me and still expect me to cater for the children, wash, cook, clean all alone and still gather enough strength for ur wahala at night.
Bringing money is the only thing a man does, why on earth will u share that very one with me? When I object, u will call me a feminist, Oga masculnist, I will not share.
Every other responsibility in a home belongs to me, while financial responsibilities must be shared abi.
Note: sharing financial burden and helping are two different things.

Oya let the insults pour 123 go.

What do u mean by saying that Eve helped Adam multiply his raw materials. Can u please explain with references.

A further proof 98.7883% of Nigerian girls are suffering from Personal Mental Disorder.

Una wan turn yourselves to liabilities.
This is arrant nonsense
Go and marry first.
Learn from Okonjo Iweala. Stop learning from Bobrisky

Princess80:
Most times I see men asking the question of what ladies bring to the table.

Seriously, we aren't created to bring, we are to process, the man is the provider, he will bring everything for us to process.

If u give us bring sperm, we give u babies
If u give us groceries, we have to give u food
If u give a house, we give u a home
Give us frustration, and trust me, i will surely multiply it and give u hell.

In the bible, Adam had everything and had dominions over it, the woman only came to help him harvest his raw materials.

When it comes to finance, Oga it is 100% ur responsibility, I could only assist when my husband isn't making much and he had future plans or if I earn better than he does.
U can't share financial burden with me and still expect me to cater for the children, wash, cook, clean all alone and still gather enough strength for ur wahala at night.
Bringing money is the only thing a man does, why on earth will u share that very one with me? When I object, u will call me a feminist, Oga masculnist, I will not share.
Every other responsibility in a home belongs to me, while financial responsibilities must be shared abi.
Note: sharing financial burden and helping are two different things.

Oya let the insults pour 123 go.

K

That's cool.

May I and my sons (in future) never come across a woman like you. Amen

This one doesn't understand what feminism is Jare.

Then go back to Adam...go marry ham

Princess80:
Most times I see men asking the question of what ladies bring to the table.

Seriously, we aren't created to bring, we are to process, the man is the provider, he will bring everything for us to process.

If u give us bring sperm, we give u babies
If u give us groceries, we have to give u food
If u give a house, we give u a home
Give us frustration, and trust me, i will surely multiply it and give u hell.

In the bible, Adam had everything and had dominions over it, the woman only came to help him harvest his raw materials.

When it comes to finance, Oga it is 100% ur responsibility, I could only assist when my husband isn't making much and he had future plans or if I earn better than he does.
U can't share financial burden with me and still expect me to cater for the children, wash, cook, clean all alone and still gather enough strength for ur wahala at night.
Bringing money is the only thing a man does, why on earth will u share that very one with me? When I object, u will call me a feminist, Oga masculnist, I will not share.
Every other responsibility in a home belongs to me, while financial responsibilities must be shared abi.
Note: sharing financial burden and helping are two different things.

Oya let the insults pour 123 go.

At least bring your brains!

Process spinsterhood and sour eggs.

Hmmm... So now u know u don't bring anything to the table..

Princess80:
Most times I see men asking the question of what ladies bring to the table.

Seriously, we aren't created to bring, we are to process, the man is the provider, he will bring everything for us to process.

If u give us bring sperm, we give u babies
If u give us groceries, we have to give u food
If u give a house, we give u a home
Give us frustration, and trust me, i will surely multiply it and give u hell.

In the bible, Adam had everything and had dominions over it, the woman only came to help him harvest his raw materials.

When it comes to finance, Oga it is 100% ur responsibility, I could only assist when my husband isn't making much and he had future plans or if I earn better than he does.
U can't share financial burden with me and still expect me to cater for the children, wash, cook, clean all alone and still gather enough strength for ur wahala at night.
Bringing money is the only thing a man does, why on earth will u share that very one with me? When I object, u will call me a feminist, Oga masculnist, I will not share.
Every other responsibility in a home belongs to me, while financial responsibilities must be shared abi.
Note: sharing financial burden and helping are two different things.

Oya let the insults pour 123 go.

You are 100% correct on the condition that you allow the man who pays the Piper to determine the tune. You ask a man to bring everything and at the same time you want to decide how the house is run, that is where the problems come from.

I keep telling any man that cares to listen, shine your eyes before entering into any relationship or marriage, e get why! Mentality is key in everything and when the woman feels that contributing towards the financial well being of the family is a favor to you rather than the right thing then God forbid such a man should lose his job, face illness for several months or years etc, that man would quickly pray for death because such a woman if she chose to stay would frustrate the life out of the man.

Another point, no matter how much you love your wife and kids, try to have some money set aside for yourself, e get why! See in this life, many people make the mistake of not thinking about old age, some make the mistake of believing the wife is dependable or that kids would support them when old age come. The way the world is heading, you're responsible for your own damn self!

Everyone is entitled to his or her opinion but if God gave you a brain, as a man why would you choose to marry a liability than an asset? All these talks about chores and reproducing are all good and cool but what happens when the man is physically or mentally unable to earn money, will you as a woman up and leave or will poverty be your closest friend? I repeat mentality is the key to most things in life, guys DO NOT BE DECEIVED!

Princess80:
Most times I see men asking the question of what ladies bring to the table.

Seriously, we aren't created to bring, we are to process, the man is the provider, he will bring everything for us to process.

If u give us bring sperm, we give u babies
If u give us groceries, we have to give u food
If u give a house, we give u a home
Give us frustration, and trust me, i will surely multiply it and give u hell.

In the bible, Adam had everything and had dominions over it, the woman only came to help him harvest his raw materials.

When it comes to finance, Oga it is 100% ur responsibility, I could only assist when my husband isn't making much and he had future plans or if I earn better than he does.
U can't share financial burden with me and still expect me to cater for the children, wash, cook, clean all alone and still gather enough strength for ur wahala at night.
Bringing money is the only thing a man does, why on earth will u share that very one with me? When I object, u will call me a feminist, Oga masculnist, I will not share.
Every other responsibility in a home belongs to me, while financial responsibilities must be shared abi.
Note: sharing financial burden and helping are two different things.

Oya let the insults pour 123 go.

This is done by the house help. The only thing you can do is open your legs wide at night… Shame!

Personally, I know your type! Those ladies who do the aforementioned stuff are not petty to come on social media and brag!

Men who marry your kind by mistake, will live the rest of their days in pain and anguish!

If you can take care of everything else, I’ll provide the money.

If you can make the home heaven on earth
Raise my kids in the way of the Lord
If you can manage well the finances for the family
If you can be my prayer warrior
If you can look after all my family members and make plans for their well-being by calling to know what they need and caring for them
If you can be my kids home tutor
If you can understand my dream and give me good counsel while I execute them
Etc. I’ll provide the funds God helping me

Princess80:
Most times I see men asking the question of what ladies bring to the table.

Seriously, we aren't created to bring, we are to process, the man is the provider, he will bring everything for us to process.

If u give us bring sperm, we give u babies
If u give us groceries, we have to give u food
If u give a house, we give u a home
Give us frustration, and trust me, i will surely multiply it and give u hell.

In the bible, Adam had everything and had dominions over it, the woman only came to help him harvest his raw materials.

When it comes to finance, Oga it is 100% ur responsibility, I could only assist when my husband isn't making much and he had future plans or if I earn better than he does.
U can't share financial burden with me and still expect me to cater for the children, wash, cook, clean all alone and still gather enough strength for ur wahala at night.
Bringing money is the only thing a man does, why on earth will u share that very one with me? When I object, u will call me a feminist, Oga masculnist, I will not share.
Every other responsibility in a home belongs to me, while financial responsibilities must be shared abi.
Note: sharing financial burden and helping are two different things.

Oya let the insults pour 123 go.

This one head no correct

Proverbs 31:10-31 King James Version

10 Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above rubies.

11 The heart of her husband doth safely trust in her, so that he shall have no need of spoil.

12 She will do him good and not evil all the days of her life.

13 She seeketh wool, and flax, and worketh willingly with her hands.

14 She is like the merchants' ships; she bringeth her food from afar.

15 She riseth also while it is yet night, and giveth meat to her household, and a portion to her maidens.

16 She considereth a field, and buyeth it: with the fruit of her hands she planteth a vineyard.

17 She girdeth her loins with strength, and strengtheneth her arms.

18 She perceiveth that her merchandise is good: her candle goeth not out by night.

19 She layeth her hands to the spindle, and her hands hold the distaff.

20 She stretcheth out her hand to the poor; yea, she reacheth forth her hands to the needy.

21 She is not afraid of the snow for her household: for all her household are clothed with scarlet.

22 She maketh herself coverings of tapestry; her clothing is silk and purple.

23 Her husband is known in the gates, when he sitteth among the elders of the land.

24 She maketh fine linen, and selleth it; and delivereth girdles unto the merchant.

25 Strength and honour are her clothing; and she shall rejoice in time to come.

26 She openeth her mouth with wisdom; and in her tongue is the law of kindness.

27[b] She looketh well to the ways of her household, and eateth not the bread of idleness.[/b]

28 Her children arise up, and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praiseth her.

29 Many daughters have done virtuously, but thou excellest them all.

30 Favour is deceitful, and beauty is vain: but a woman that feareth the Lord, she shall be praised.

31 Give her of the fruit of her hands; and let her own works praise her in the gates.

Lmao.

Sharing financial burden and helping are the same thing. It is already your obligation at this point, month in month out . Many Nigerian men aren't rich enough to cater for the home comfortably alone. Unless you like poverty, it is every much your responsibility as well like it had always been.

It's lies from hell

Justice4Toto:
One thing I know that is very clear to me is that any man that marry a woman with this mentality is bound to suffer.
Oh yes ! How can one have this type of mentality in this modern age.

During an interview section a lady was asked why should we hire u
She answered ....because I am a woman.

Nigeria girls (most) are damaged not beyond repair
NOLLYWOOD esp in the days of simp Ramsey Noah and the rest really did a thorough job on our girls pysche

If u call Ramsey Noah simp, wetin u go call Tony umeze

Princess80:
I really do not answer these kinda comments filled with indults but I'll answer urs.
First, I work and get paid, I have my own dreams, goals and aspirations. I dont need a man to give me food before I eat

Women like u are the reason some rich guys treat ladies like bitches and scum
U can't share with a man but u only want to collect.
My wife is not like this,infact from the day one we meet I studied her critically,there where times she even paid for me when I made some purchases without asking.after critical assessment we got married.

Any woman that can't share burden with a man Is nothing but a gold digger because from what u are saying,if your hubby gets into a difficult situation that requires perseverance and patience from you,u will dump him and run away.

To all young unmarried guys out there becareful of women like this that say I can't share problems with a man,I can't carter for a man and he will disturb me at night.this women will run away and leave you miserable when u need them the most.

Ladies like you are better of for baby mamas not marriage.

Continue with this mentality. The world is filled with single mum and baby mamas for a reason.

Princess80:
I really do not answer these kinda comments filled with indults but I'll answer urs.
First, I work and get paid, I have my own dreams, goals and aspirations. I dont need a man to give me food before I eat

"I have my own dreams, goals and aspirations" and u think the man don't have his? Anyway different strokes for different folks. Guys provide want u can don't try to prove a point doing that and never tryna make them happy unless they appreciate even the smallest sacrifice u make.

You are doing far more talking than the OP!

You asked her some tough questions. She didn't reply now you are going after THE MALES who commented.

You're sounding triggered.

Take it easy.

This is Nairaland.

It's not as real as you think.

If the OP gets to 40 without a husband or a child she will sing a different song.

Magnoliaa:
She's not a feminist and doesn't believe in equality and all that. She said it. She obviously thinks men and women have different roles. What's your point?


Oga, she's not a feminist. And she's just one person. Which ladies? What baseless assumptions? Are you saying that you disagree with her premise - that is a man is the provider and a woman is the helper?


I see. So when it comes to responsiblities, you like sharing 50/50, not so? If divorce happens now, assuming you're married to this lady, and based on the contributions you've said you made, if the court divides YOUR EQUAL properties 50/50, shey you will not cry?

So despite you claiming to have a partner that equally shares things with you, you're still bitter about Nigerian girls? How do they even correlate?

'Sides, you strike me as a redpiller. So in your white man's country, you share duties with your gf, she earns 3x more than you do, you were a baby daddy before you met her, and she has invested in you. Would you call yourself a simp or an alpha, kind sir, based on the conditions above?

Princess80:
a woman will be glad to change roles with a man, can we say same for a man?

Which woman??
You mean the same set of individuals that are often too stingy to give to their lovers but only knows how to collect and tax them like tax collectors?? Don't be a hypocrite o, what a man can do...
Whatever happened to feminism sef. I'm a staunch supporter of feminism o.

Princess80:
Most times I see men asking the question of what ladies bring to the table.

Seriously, we aren't created to bring, we are to process, the man is the provider, he will bring everything for us to process.

If u give us bring sperm, we give u babies
If u give us groceries, we have to give u food
If u give a house, we give u a home
Give us frustration, and trust me, i will surely multiply it and give u hell.

In the bible, Adam had everything and had dominions over it, the woman only came to help him harvest his raw materials.

When it comes to finance, Oga it is 100% ur responsibility, I could only assist when my husband isn't making much and he had future plans or if I earn better than he does.
U can't share financial burden with me and still expect me to cater for the children, wash, cook, clean all alone and still gather enough strength for ur wahala at night.
Bringing money is the only thing a man does, why on earth will u share that very one with me? When I object, u will call me a feminist, Oga masculnist, I will not share.
Every other responsibility in a home belongs to me, while financial responsibilities must be shared abi.
Note: sharing financial burden and helping are two different things.

Oya let the insults pour 123 go.

hmmm sis from your write up, you already know what you are bringing to the table o, some wannabe feminist won't understand your write up