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Princess80:
Most times I see men asking the question of what ladies bring to the table.

JustforMen:
No insult intended here but how can someone who brings NOTHING TO THE TABLE still insist on being an equal patner in an enterprise?

Ybaby:
Gbam!!!!!!!!!!

Wise woman!! You have spoken well.

but the way poor men who are too lazy to work and want to eat of a woman's sweat will abuse you today ehhhhhh.... I mean men who only own I pass my generator will drag you as if they want to on that GEN....

Poor and lazy men over to you..... finish her ... she is the cause of your lazy bones

Just know that after abusing her.... a man who cannot provide for his own is worse than an infidel. Find something profitable to be doing o

Magnoliaa:
She's not a pest or whatever. She only said she ain't bringing anything FINANCIALLY. She didn't say she wasn't gonna contribute in other ways.

Where did she write that she's eating everything, jeez??
She literally wrote the word multiply! That is she makes bigger or triple whatever you give her. How she's going to do that is what I don't know sha. But she never mentioned anything about being useless.

Why is this money part paining you people?? Besides, is it not virginity, youthfulness, fertility guys want in a woman? So why are you mad when a woman says she's bringing no money?

Oga o.

Today, you're saying this is what you want, tomorrow, you're condemning what you said you want.

Magnoliaa:
Uhhh. E ma wo ele yiii. Ko kan miii. Woz my bizzznessss?

A traditional woman wants a providing (sole) man; a traditional man wants a submissive fertile virgin.

Make una too hold una sef naaaa. No be watin I dey tok since? Whether the scale balance or e no balance is not the concern of a dada on my head.

I only came here to play a devil's advocate ni ooo. Mo slippery baje. Don't try to pin me anywhere or in any corner.

I tell you say I dey find traditional man? LOLZZZZZ. And I've said everybody is a cherrypicker when it comes to these things. Oin.

So now, if you think you're not a cherrypicker, will you kindly tell me why some of your gender (or you sef) are getting mad at this post? Whyy?

Princess80:
Most times I see men asking the question of what ladies bring to the table.

Seriously, we aren't created to bring, we are to process, the man is the provider, he will bring everything for us to process.

If u give us bring sperm, we give u babies
If u give us groceries, we have to give u food
If u give a house, we give u a home
Give us frustration, and trust me, i will surely multiply it and give u hell.

In the bible, Adam had everything and had dominions over it, the woman only came to help him harvest his raw materials.

When it comes to finance, Oga it is 100% ur responsibility, I could only assist when my husband isn't making much and he had future plans or if I earn better than he does.
U can't share financial burden with me and still expect me to cater for the children, wash, cook, clean all alone and still gather enough strength for ur wahala at night.
Bringing money is the only thing a man does, why on earth will u share that very one with me? When I object, u will call me a feminist, Oga masculnist, I will not share.
Every other responsibility in a home belongs to me, while financial responsibilities must be shared abi.
Note: sharing financial burden and helping are two different things.

Oya let the insults pour 123 go.

Dybala11:
And who told you that I don't subscribe to feminism??
I'm just telling you that most of the ladies I've seen only believe in selective feminism when it suits their agenda/convenience. You're starting to sound like one of them sef.

Princess80:
Most times I see men asking the question of what ladies bring to the table.

Seriously, we aren't created to bring, we are to process, the man is the provider, he will bring everything for us to process.

If u give us bring sperm, we give u babies
If u give us groceries, we have to give u food
If u give a house, we give u a home
Give us frustration, and trust me, i will surely multiply it and give u hell.

In the bible, Adam had everything and had dominions over it, the woman only came to help him harvest his raw materials.

When it comes to finance, Oga it is 100% ur responsibility, I could only assist when my husband isn't making much and he had future plans or if I earn better than he does.
U can't share financial burden with me and still expect me to cater for the children, wash, cook, clean all alone and still gather enough strength for ur wahala at night.
Bringing money is the only thing a man does, why on earth will u share that very one with me? When I object, u will call me a feminist, Oga masculnist, I will not share.
Every other responsibility in a home belongs to me, while financial responsibilities must be shared abi.
Note: sharing financial burden and helping are two different things.

Oya let the insults pour 123 go.

Enny2013:
D generation of d 'BROKEs' are coming for u. Broke guys won't lyk a thread lyk dis. BROKE guys are d most insultive n venomous on dis forum.Their BROKE states come wt angers,frustrations n transfer of aggressions.

Princess80:
Most times I see men asking the question of what ladies bring to the table.

Seriously, we aren't created to bring, we are to process, the man is the provider, he will bring everything for us to process.

If u give us bring sperm, we give u babies
If u give us groceries, we have to give u food
If u give a house, we give u a home
Give us frustration, and trust me, i will surely multiply it and give u hell.

In the bible, Adam had everything and had dominions over it, the woman only came to help him harvest his raw materials.

When it comes to finance, Oga it is 100% ur responsibility, I could only assist when my husband isn't making much and he had future plans or if I earn better than he does.
U can't share financial burden with me and still expect me to cater for the children, wash, cook, clean all alone and still gather enough strength for ur wahala at night.
Bringing money is the only thing a man does, why on earth will u share that very one with me? When I object, u will call me a feminist, Oga masculnist, I will not share.
Every other responsibility in a home belongs to me, while financial responsibilities must be shared abi.
Note: sharing financial burden and helping are two different things.

Oya let the insults pour 123 go.

maynia:
Everybody is a cherry picker including you.

And all this epistle because of what?
You are lonely.

GoodHardDick:
With this entitlement mentality of yours, I pity your boyfriend and the simp man that'll marry you.

Apart from your over used pussy, What exactly will you offer a man in a relationship?

The rate of entitlement mentalities among these Nigerian girls nowadays is alarming. It's your types those guys always use for rituals

Magnoliaa:
Yeah, no offense taken on behalf of the coven. SHE HASN'T SAID SHE IS A FEMINIST. Therefore, she doesn't think herself equal to a man.

Understood?

Magnoliaa:
So o le shingum s'oju abi o k'oju s'apo when I said I do it too? . I said everybody and you're still reiterating.

Oga, goan drink engine oil joor. Lonely ko.

UnusualEmissary:
People ask what a woman is bringing in terms of finance; as if finance is all that is needed to run a successful union

A woman does bring her share to the table. What she does in the home, the efforts she takes, the sacrifices she makes to ensure the well-being and happiness of the husband and the children is worth as much or maybe even more than finance.

My Lady, the future of women who think like you do is bright in The New Era. Keep it up.

Princess80:
Most times I see men asking the question of what ladies bring to the table.

Seriously, we aren't created to bring, we are to process, the man is the provider, he will bring everything for us to process.

If u give us bring sperm, we give u babies
If u give us groceries, we have to give u food
If u give a house, we give u a home
Give us frustration, and trust me, i will surely multiply it and give u hell.

In the bible, Adam had everything and had dominions over it, the woman only came to help him harvest his raw materials.

When it comes to finance, Oga it is 100% ur responsibility, I could only assist when my husband isn't making much and he had future plans or if I earn better than he does.
U can't share financial burden with me and still expect me to cater for the children, wash, cook, clean all alone and still gather enough strength for ur wahala at night.
Bringing money is the only thing a man does, why on earth will u share that very one with me? When I object, u will call me a feminist, Oga masculnist, I will not share.
Every other responsibility in a home belongs to me, while financial responsibilities must be shared abi.
Note: sharing financial burden and helping are two different things.

Oya let the insults pour 123 go.

Magnoliaa:
This is purely a traditional discussion and it is for you people to discuss. Those of you that subscribe (fully) to the ideals. I don't have a problem with it 'long as you're not trying to set is as a standard for every woman/man.

Actually, feminists believe in sharing (that is not along gender lines).
'Masculinists' believe in being the heads and providers.

So, it is not feminist to say a man is the provider and it is not 'masculinist' to say a woman must co-provide/'bring something to the table'.

Masculinists are your allies- or they are supposed to be. Y'all believe the same thing. So why are you attacking masculinists in your main OP; why are you attacking men who wants to provide??

You people should be getting your terms and conditions clear o. I don't know what feminism has to do with this.

You people are sha confusing everything and want to straddle all sides.

lookingfly:
same women will be clamouring for house help when there man provides everything. That's when all they do bus watch Africa magic, paint nails and still want the man to wash he's own singlet. Night reach now, na to be lie down open leg de moan and shout harder..... nonsense!

Princess80:
Most times I see men asking the question of what ladies bring to the table.

Seriously, we aren't created to bring, we are to process, the man is the provider, he will bring everything for us to process.

If u give us bring sperm, we give u babies
If u give us groceries, we have to give u food
If u give a house, we give u a home
Give us frustration, and trust me, i will surely multiply it and give u hell.

In the bible, Adam had everything and had dominions over it, the woman only came to help him harvest his raw materials.

When it comes to finance, Oga it is 100% ur responsibility, I could only assist when my husband isn't making much and he had future plans or if I earn better than he does.
U can't share financial burden with me and still expect me to cater for the children, wash, cook, clean all alone and still gather enough strength for ur wahala at night.
Bringing money is the only thing a man does, why on earth will u share that very one with me? When I object, u will call me a feminist, Oga masculnist, I will not share.
Every other responsibility in a home belongs to me, while financial responsibilities must be shared abi.
Note: sharing financial burden and helping are two different things.

Oya let the insults pour 123 go.

Princess80:
Most times I see men asking the question of what ladies bring to the table.

Seriously, we aren't created to bring, we are to process, the man is the provider, he will bring everything for us to process.

If u give us bring sperm, we give u babies
If u give us groceries, we have to give u food
If u give a house, we give u a home
Give us frustration, and trust me, i will surely multiply it and give u hell.

In the bible, Adam had everything and had dominions over it, the woman only came to help him harvest his raw materials.

When it comes to finance, Oga it is 100% ur responsibility, I could only assist when my husband isn't making much and he had future plans or if I earn better than he does.
U can't share financial burden with me and still expect me to cater for the children, wash, cook, clean all alone and still gather enough strength for ur wahala at night.
Bringing money is the only thing a man does, why on earth will u share that very one with me? When I object, u will call me a feminist, Oga masculnist, I will not share.
Every other responsibility in a home belongs to me, while financial responsibilities must be shared abi.
Note: sharing financial burden and helping are two different things.

Oya let the insults pour 123 go.

rickleye:
I'll be frank and not coy. You must be the dumbest woman on this forum.

However, my senses are also telling me that the nonsense you dropped is just to seek out attention.

You have no idea what feminist means - equal opportunity for male and female. To them there are no male only roles and female only roles in society. What a man can do , I can do better - My response - You CAN"T.

" we are not created to provide but to process " No feminist says this. This is where you lose your diatribe.
Then you quote the bible and mention Eve. Like she is the best example out there. Her husband gave her detailed instructions of what to do and not to do. Yet she couldn't keep and relay simple instructions.

You not subscribing women to bring anything is what makes women, illiterates - not being sent to school. if all they do is sit down at home waiting to be impregnated , or given money to make food , turn a house to a home.

I do not and will not be involved with a lady who doesn't think she can do more with her life than what you mentioned. She is to be a "helpmate" an assistant. Both contributing with their skills to the success of the union.

I can buy groceries and cook so why do I need you to process.
I can adopt a child or get one through surrogacy, so why do I need you to process.
I can stage a house and buy homely stuff, so why do I need you to process .
When I get frustrated, I will go see a therapist, so lady why do i need you to process?

I do more than " bring the money" and when I decide to settle down - She better do more than "process"

Anyways, If you want to escalate your backward thinking to a voice call , I may be available.

Princess80:
I didn't say I won't bring, I said I won't share financial responsibilities as u people keep saying.

Both men and women have roles to play, helping is a thing but to share ur responsibilities while I carry my own burden all by myself? Hell no.
Even in govt, there is division of power.
Most men feel as long as they bring money, thats the ultimate but they forgot that there are other roles to play and they turn blind and deaf and allows the woman to bear all the burden.