sslcrypt:


That included also, because I naturally started readjusting the default setting my mind had operated with for a while. But majority of the work starts with you the individual, it's why I mentioned the aspect of work.. when you working, meeting your goals and developing yourself. Coming home from work to an empty house, paying bills and living life just not fulfilling or exciting. This is what gives birth to the desire to settle down.

I guess I'll eventually get to that point but it will take time. Keep enjoying married life

missimelda01:

For the last time, I am not short.

Even from your profile picture, it's crystal clear and obvious, own it girl.

dauntless15:
Lol why is everyone fixated on the sex, a guy has stuff to loose too you know?

Bro,maybe you are having psychological issues and need to see psychologist as soon as possible. Becomes if you don't, the problem would continuous to repeat itself.
Did you ever experience a very traumatic event in the past?

BigBashiru:


Wise words!

Na so e bi

missimelda01:

You're right but those girls lack real love and affection, if they've ever met a guy who treats them like a queen without sex involve, they won't be feeling that way about sex. Sadly, that's something some girls might never experience.

The guy would be friend zoned and the lady would take it outside to give some random hard guy

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iamDrRhymes:


You mean you don’t have WhatsApp on your phone?

I do but it is re directing me to download another WhatsApp

missimelda01:
Try not to have sex with the next girl you meet, find other non-sexual ways to build intimacy and you'll continue to find her interesting.

Intimacy? Actually I think it’s easy for you to say this cos you’re lady.
Most of this ladies are just bill bags disgusting as a human, the more you get close to them, the more you try to be more intimate with them, the more bills you pay. I’m not saying most guys are different either, but with this ur logic… he’s more prone to be used and cheated.

Tejumola856:
I’ve tried to be in relationship many times but it doesn’t work for me, I will just get tired all of the sudden within a couple of months, I can’t even point out a reason I get tired of it, I dated at least 6 girls last year which I later breakup with them without a reason.

What I discovered is that I always love them in the beginning to the extent that I will promise them heaven and earth, at the end of the day i will get tired of them.

The issue now is that, I met this girl last year December during the Christmas, I’m not going to lie, I truly love this girl, I asked her out and she agreed to be in relationship with me, this girl has been loyal to me, she’s always come to cook for me, she has once washed my clothes, I found happiness and joy in her but now, I’m having a feelings of breaking up with her, I stop calling or texting her, I don’t even know what’s going on in my life right now but my mind keep telling me to break up with her cus I need to be free.

Please over to you married men and those who are in relationship, how does it work out for you? I don’t understand my life again!

How many times did you engage in sexual activities with these ladies. If you did and if that is what you do then you never loved in the first place. You only wanted sex and you used promises to get it after which you dump them and seek another victim

NOTE: A lady cooking and washing your clothes does not equate loyalty.

Turn a new leave

Jman06:
Op, I can understand your plight.
The reason is that an average Nigerian girl is not interesting to be with and to make matters worse, they don't even make attempts to improve on themselves since they believe that only the guy has the responsibility to bring everything into the relationship---the fun, the funds, etc. Many of them can't even hold conversations.

So, after enduring a few months of boredom, it is only natural for you to lose interest.

This is obviously the most stupid words I have read this year.

apologies, just needed to let you know that you ain't speaking with sense

willian10:

Intimacy? Actually I think it’s easy for you to say this cos you’re lady.
Most of this ladies are just bill bags disgusting as a human, the more you get close to them, the more you try to be more intimate with them, the more bills you pay. I’m not saying most guys are different either, but with this ur logic… he’s more prone to be used and cheated.

lol so ladies don't get used? Or they deserve to be used?

missimelda01:
Try not to have sex with the next girl you meet, find other non-sexual ways to build intimacy and you'll continue to find her interesting.

Taaah, I've dated girls without having sex, yet I still got tired of them.

Onyiiobi7735:

Bro,maybe you are having psychological issues and need to see psychologist as soon as possible. Becomes if you don't, the problem would continuous to repeat itself.
Did you ever experience a very traumatic event in the past?

No traumatic experience whatsoever.

sageb:


This your love
Are you sure it is strong or it is just lust?

e strong pass dangote cement and very far from lust
Are you ijaw? Serido .....

missimelda01:

lol so ladies don't get used? Or they deserve to be used?

On this thread, we’re advising this particular guy

u daughters r also on de way, what u sow is what u must reap

TheManOfTheYear:
Taaah, I've dated girls without having sex, yet I still got tired of them.

Did you read what I wrote? Did you do exactly what I said?

willian10:

On this thread, we’re advising this particular guy

My point is that it goes both ways, choosing to be in a relationship means you're ready to be vulnerable to your partner. Nothing is guaranteed even in relationships, you take chances.

You are a beast in human nature. Wrought of God will come upon you if you refuse to repent

missimelda01:
Try not to have sex with the next girl you meet, find other non-sexual ways to build intimacy and you'll continue to find her interesting.

Exactly my thought

gees101:
e strong pass dangote cement and very far from lust
Are you ijaw? Serido .....

Good morning
Yes

Anniemae:
Maybe you're just gay...

sure, Let us shame him because he doesn't worship women.

Hwy95:
BRO,
You are GAY
Stop fighting it.
Talk to that guy wein you dey take the korner of ya eye dey look.
NO worries, God still loves You.
Can a creator hate what he created ?
Best of Luck

Stop shaming a man who doesn't conform with your way of doing things.

The reason is you have engaged in too many sexual relationship with the ladies and now you have nothing special to look forward to with them anymore. As the relationship progresses you become fed up without any reason. STOP ENGAGING IN TOO MANY SEXUAL ENCOUNTERS WITH THEM...

Jman06:
Op, I can understand your plight.
The reason is that an average Nigerian girl is not interesting to be with and to make matters worse, they don't even make attempts to improve on themselves since they believe that only the guy has the responsibility to bring everything into the relationship---the fun, the funds, etc. Many of them can't even hold conversations.

So, after enduring a few months of boredom, it is only natural for you to lose interest.

The average Nigerian man is downright so boring you want to tear out your hair.

missimelda01:
Try not to have sex with the next girl you meet, find other non-sexual ways to build intimacy and you'll continue to find her interesting.

Won't he eventually have sex with her one day?

U be wi*ch

lebete3000:


Won't he eventually have sex with her one day?

The point is, set a strong foundation of friendship first.

dauntless15:
No traumatic experience whatsoever.

Something is definitely wrong somewhere. Nothing happens in this world spontaneously. There must be a cause for it.

Ceska:
Your problem looks like it’s psychological. But I’m not qualified to advice you. Pls find a professional psychologist to treat and help you

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