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Re: I Lose Confidence Whenever I'm Complimented About My Looks by bidexdo(m): 10:46pm On Feb 05, 2022
Descottes:
I felt I needed a break. I communicate with Nigerians offline and then coming online to still communicate with Nigerians became tiring and frustrating.
So I registered on Reddit, quora an d some other foreign sites.

Pls bros don't leave us here cry

We know how Nigerias are boring everywhere kiss

Let just managed this our forum undecided

But the girl is not trying to understand you, I will help you to talk to her, it's been while I see FERNANDEZISBACK, maybe is me not active always.
Re: I Lose Confidence Whenever I'm Complimented About My Looks by Nobody: 10:46pm On Feb 05, 2022
Descottes:
better you say?
it's actually getting worse.
I'm living with sick people who kill Their compatriots for money rituals, old corrupt incompetent men keep recycling themselves as leaders, Kidnapping is now the order of the day, no true love–everyone is just after their own self ish interests. I'm fed up Rose. Honestly.
Nigeria is a failed nation.
Well,its a complicated world,just do your best and live a clean life

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Re: I Lose Confidence Whenever I'm Complimented About My Looks by Nobody: 11:37pm On Feb 05, 2022
Senomii:

Ewwwwwww this mad bitch has infected you, gross bro u need to be seriously isolated, how can u be communicating with a methane addict?
Attention seeking mofo... Abeg, goan sleep... undecided

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Re: I Lose Confidence Whenever I'm Complimented About My Looks by udder: 11:53pm On Feb 05, 2022
Someone here is replying himself.

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Re: I Lose Confidence Whenever I'm Complimented About My Looks by Nobody: 11:57pm On Feb 05, 2022
Datboredberry:
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Ignored.
Re: I Lose Confidence Whenever I'm Complimented About My Looks by Legalese(m): 4:25am On Feb 06, 2022
Your good looks is a gift and nothing more. It shouldn'tget to your head, neither should it make you proud. It's just what it is.
As for your mind, it's ok to be different, that's thee beauty of the world. Don't be scared to express your uniquenessfor fear of rejection. You seem to have let people'sopinion of your physical looks get to you psychologicallysuch that you now put unnecessary pressure on yourself. Chill. It'snot about you.

Lastly, a chaotic mind is also a creative one. Do not be afraid of the chaos in your mind. Embrace it, subdue it and channel it.
That's how God works and we are gods.
henrybangs44:
I'm a natural confident guy because our mom taught us to be hard working and earn everything through the rice process. She never allowed us take advantage of situations or people and never look down on anybody.

We are naturally good looking in our family and people always talk about how we are all fine in the house. As a result, almost 70% of conversations we have with people will end up discussing what our parents are giving us that are making us fresh and fine.

But our mom did not like people talking to us that way. She did not teach us how to react to compliments and we are very uneasy whenever this topic comes up in our discussions. I don't even see my self that good looking as people are saying.

I work hard to earn everything the right way, and I'm highly productive but anytime a colleague or team mate talks about my appearance I just lose confidence. I have left a lot of groups and teams because of this. When people start talking to me about it I just don't feel comfortable.

I have a lot of girls and I know I worked hard to get them. But they keep telling me it's just my looks that's giving me their attention without stress but I don't believe that, I believe I work hard to get them.

This is beginning to affect my work. Some people don't believe I got to where I am because of hard work. I have worked so hard and I don't want to be throwing things away simply because of this.

For the fine boys and girls in the house, pls how do you handle compliments without appearing proud and egotistical? How do you handle it without being weird?

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Re: I Lose Confidence Whenever I'm Complimented About My Looks by Nobody: 7:20am On Feb 06, 2022
Legalese:
Your good looks is a gift and nothing more. It shouldn'tget to your head, neither should it make you proud. It's just what it is.
As for your mind, it's ok to be different, that's thee beauty of the world. Don't be scared to express your uniquenessfor fear of rejection. You seem to have let people'sopinion of your physical looks get to you psychologicallysuch that you now put unnecessary pressure on yourself. Chill. It'snot about you.

Lastly, a chaotic mind is also a creative one. Do not be afraid of the chaos in your mind. Embrace it, subdue it and channel it.
That's how God works and we are gods.
Thank you so much for this Sir
Re: I Lose Confidence Whenever I'm Complimented About My Looks by Nobody: 7:51am On Feb 06, 2022
I can relate Op, i get tired anytime my friends or random strangers call me handsome guy.

I get away with things easily that an average looking guy won't because of my looks,but mehn las las self dey fine boy fine boy don taya me.

Beautiful girls avoid me like a plague,they say I'm too proud cause of my looks, only average and below average girls flock around me..

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Re: I Lose Confidence Whenever I'm Complimented About My Looks by udomonday: 8:50am On Feb 06, 2022
how do you earn through the rice process? are you a farmer?

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Re: I Lose Confidence Whenever I'm Complimented About My Looks by Uyi168: 9:14am On Feb 06, 2022
Iyaebe:
same here,but you acted so strange and mysterious and you disappeared all of a sudden. You too like trouble sha
.
you and your lover boy should carry your discussion else where..
Don't derail this thread.

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Re: I Lose Confidence Whenever I'm Complimented About My Looks by Ayojideonline(m): 11:25am On Feb 06, 2022
Descottes:
so many things my dear. I'm a weirdo and a loner– I don't have much friends and I don't wish to.
I see life very differently from how other people see it, which makes me question whether I was supposed to be born here in this God forsaken shithole at all.
I hate everything about here. And I'll definitely leave to find a life somewhere else.. with you probably kiss


You are not alone. But there are better ways to handle this.......Buzz your motivation, continue to strive towards changing your status quo for good and forever!...The only thing that is constant is change ...make it in the right direction!


For O.P.: Confidence is a thing of the mind ......no one can take it from you, whether you have something to show for it or not....But EXPERIENCE BUILDS IT! Your hard work is already confidence, stay with it. You don't need the approval of anyone whether they believe you or NOT!

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Re: I Lose Confidence Whenever I'm Complimented About My Looks by Datboredberrry(f): 11:32am On Feb 06, 2022
Descottes:
Who looks epp? As I handsome reach I'm still depressed.
People see me and assume I live a very happy and sweet life, when in truth, my world is dark and gloomy
bro I'm with you

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Re: I Lose Confidence Whenever I'm Complimented About My Looks by gnss(m): 12:55pm On Feb 10, 2022
Legalcriminal:
Post your picture make we confirm before we know the solution to your confidence
. Naija with Request grin
Re: I Lose Confidence Whenever I'm Complimented About My Looks by Blissbath(f): 12:58pm On Feb 10, 2022
Pics or I don't believe it...
Re: I Lose Confidence Whenever I'm Complimented About My Looks by coolfredo(m): 12:59pm On Feb 10, 2022
U said u work very hard to get girls, oga abeg how u de take work hard to get girls, n how hard u de work?
Re: I Lose Confidence Whenever I'm Complimented About My Looks by Kobojunkie: 1:01pm On Feb 10, 2022
henrybangs44:
I have a lot of girls and I know I worked hard to get them. But they keep telling me it's just my looks that's giving me their attention without stress but I don't believe that, I believe I work hard to get them.

This is beginning to affect my work. Some people don't believe I got to where I am because of hard work. I have worked so hard and I don't want to be throwing things away simply because of this.

For the fine boys and girls in the house, pls how do you handle compliments without appearing proud and egotistical? How do you handle it without being weird?
You claim you have strong confidence but your own words betray you. People who have strong confidence levels care very little about the opinions of others. You, however, seem to care an awful lot. I am afraid that you have need to work on your self esteem. undecided

Me, I recommend you engage the aide of a mental Health counselor for help in understanding where the problem stems from and how to go about tackling them. Using girls and work to cover is obviously not working at all. undecided

As for you caring so much about what others think? Well, once you tackle the real issue, all of that will work itself out. Having an ego is not same as having confidence. undecided

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Re: I Lose Confidence Whenever I'm Complimented About My Looks by EmperorHarry: 1:02pm On Feb 10, 2022
Descottes:
Who looks epp? As I handsome reach I'm still depressed.
People see me and assume I live a very happy and sweet life, when in truth, my world is dark and gloomy
Ain't no right way, just the wrong way I know
I problem-solve with Styrofoam
My world revolves around a black hole
The same black hole that's in place of my soul, uh
Empty, I feel so goddamn empty
I may go rogue
Don't tempt me, big bullet holes
Tote semi-autos
Re: I Lose Confidence Whenever I'm Complimented About My Looks by samwheel(m): 1:03pm On Feb 10, 2022
Descottes:
Who looks epp? As I handsome reach I'm still depressed.
People see me and assume I live a very happy and sweet life, when in truth, my world is dark and gloomy

Can relate boss.
Re: I Lose Confidence Whenever I'm Complimented About My Looks by Biggiefela(m): 1:03pm On Feb 10, 2022
Legalcriminal:
Post your picture make we confirm before we know the solution to your confidence
Walahi you no go die young sir make we see the fine boy... he never know say na money be fine boy
Re: I Lose Confidence Whenever I'm Complimented About My Looks by Salihusaliheen(m): 1:03pm On Feb 10, 2022
Descottes:
so many things my dear. I'm a weirdo and a loner– I don't have much friends and I don't wish to.
I see life very differently from how other people see it, which makes me question whether I was supposed to be born here in this God forsaken shithole at all.
I hate everything about here. And I'll definitely leave to find a life somewhere else.. with you probably kiss
same here and am feeling so bad,no male or female friend
Re: I Lose Confidence Whenever I'm Complimented About My Looks by Aidejay(m): 1:04pm On Feb 10, 2022
Descottes:
so many things my dear. I'm a weirdo and a loner– I don't have much friends and I don't wish to.
I see life very differently from how other people see it, which makes me question whether I was supposed to be born here in this God forsaken shithole at all.
I hate everything about here. And I'll definitely leave to find a life somewhere else.. with you probably kiss
airhead.
Re: I Lose Confidence Whenever I'm Complimented About My Looks by Pootle: 1:05pm On Feb 10, 2022
contest for Mr nigeria cool

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Re: I Lose Confidence Whenever I'm Complimented About My Looks by Nobody: 1:05pm On Feb 10, 2022
EmperorHarry:

Ain't no right way, just the wrong way I know
I problem-solve with Styrofoam
My world revolves around a black hole
The same black hole that's in place of my soul, uh
Empty, I feel so goddamn empty
I may go rogue
Don't tempt me, big bullet holes
Tote semi-autos
juice wrld- empty. Literally my daily anthem grin

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Re: I Lose Confidence Whenever I'm Complimented About My Looks by sukkot: 1:06pm On Feb 10, 2022
Kobojunkie:
You claim you have strong confidence but your own words betray you. People who have strong confidence levels care very little about the opinions of others. You, however, seem to care an awful lot. I am afraid that you have need to work on your self esteem. undecided

Me, I recommend you engage the aide of a mental Health counselor for help in understanding where the problem stems from and how to go about tackling them. Using girls and work to cover is obviously not working at all. undecided

As for you caring so much about what others think? Well, once you tackle the real issue, all of that will work itself out. Having an ego is not same as having confidence. undecided
you finally made sense cheesy cheesy
Re: I Lose Confidence Whenever I'm Complimented About My Looks by modsfucker: 1:06pm On Feb 10, 2022
henrybangs44:
I'm a natural confident guy because our mom taught us to be hard working and earn everything through the rice process. She never allowed us take advantage of situations or people and never look down on anybody.

We are naturally good looking in our family and people always talk about how we are all fine in the house. As a result, almost 70% of conversations we have with people will end up discussing what our parents are giving us that are making us fresh and fine.

But our mom did not like people talking to us that way. She did not teach us how to react to compliments and we are very uneasy whenever this topic comes up in our discussions. I don't even see my self that good looking as people are saying.

I work hard to earn everything the right way, and I'm highly productive but anytime a colleague or team mate talks about my appearance I just lose confidence. I have left a lot of groups and teams because of this. When people start talking to me about it I just don't feel comfortable.

I have a lot of girls and I know I worked hard to get them. But they keep telling me it's just my looks that's giving me their attention without stress but I don't believe that, I believe I work hard to get them.

This is beginning to affect my work. Some people don't believe I got to where I am because of hard work. I have worked so hard and I don't want to be throwing things away simply because of this.

For the fine boys and girls in the house, pls how do you handle compliments without appearing proud and egotistical? How do you handle it without being weird?

Pictures or I don't believe it.

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Re: I Lose Confidence Whenever I'm Complimented About My Looks by RPG2020(m): 1:06pm On Feb 10, 2022
Person dey find meat inside pot of soup Crayfish dey rise hand

Re: I Lose Confidence Whenever I'm Complimented About My Looks by bigpicture001: 1:07pm On Feb 10, 2022
This issue sef na problem..?
Re: I Lose Confidence Whenever I'm Complimented About My Looks by agabaI23(m): 1:07pm On Feb 10, 2022
Iyaebe:
same here,but you acted so strange and mysterious and you disappeared all of a sudden. You too like trouble sha
With the phrase "you too like trouble sha" case has been settled.
Re: I Lose Confidence Whenever I'm Complimented About My Looks by Angelfrost(m): 1:07pm On Feb 10, 2022
Good looks mean nothing much these days tbh...

Gone are the days when society had more class and distinction; where looks and brains truly mattered.

These days, if your pockets and accounts are not spilling with dough, just forget it!

I'm talking to you guys spending more time in front of the mirror than in your hustle. tongue

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Re: I Lose Confidence Whenever I'm Complimented About My Looks by bigjackass: 1:08pm On Feb 10, 2022
Na your own wahala be dis undecided
Re: I Lose Confidence Whenever I'm Complimented About My Looks by Kobojunkie: 1:08pm On Feb 10, 2022
sukkot:
you finally made sense cheesy cheesy
Nah! Instead what this means is you finally made a breakthrough, comprehension-wise, as far as my posts are concerned. undecided

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Re: I Lose Confidence Whenever I'm Complimented About My Looks by sukkot: 1:09pm On Feb 10, 2022
Kobojunkie:
Nah! Instead what this means is you finally made a breakthrough, comprehension-wise, as far as my posts are concerned. undecided
touche grin grin

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