Munamoqel:
With the high level of prostitution, runs hookup, how do guys cope when getting married to avoid marrying a run girl. Some sites have increased the tempo of transactional sex by ladies. This has increased the probability of marrying a woman that has slept with hundreds of men.

Lagos men how do cope?

Nuh be men dey hookup with those runs girls abi na goat?
I wonder how women Will marry with the plenty men following runs girls

Munamoqel:
men married woman and burn out all major expense .so they have choice.

Of course they have a choice. They are choosing from the same pool of women that they’ve been sampling from. There’s no extraterrestrial source of women

michael1508:

The society is morally bankrupt already,but for a debate sake,the market and customer analogy is not a perfect example of what is happening at the moment. Biologically,it's normal for every man to have an urge for sex which means there are needs for sex every now and then[b],then again,an average man be it rich or poor is fine having a girl who can satisfy his sexual urge [/b] and other emotional needs and so on which they some times term being in a relationship,on the other hand,only few women can be in such entanglement without expecting a reward for the sex she is bringing to the table,more like a poor man can't get satisfying sex in the long run cos most women will want to be rewarded financially from time to time,reason why most ladies are opting for sex for money these days in the name of why should I be working for a 30k job in a month while I can get that in a week while all I need to do is spread my legs,or why should I stay with a man that can't foot my bills and I will be giving him sex for free,they assume such men doesn't deserve sex.
The bone of contention here now is that most ladies of this era are willing to go into prostitution for easy cash against the biological need of every man for sex

The only bone of contention here is that men now have to pay instead of hiding behind relationship.

I think this era is better,let's all be mad,make everything kuku scatter.

So you are just angry that more women are willing to offer services?what is it they say again? ,the more the merrier,lol.


A man once said ,if you can sleep with your boyfriend who doesn't know the road to your father's house why cant you sleep to get a job. This is the mindset of the average Nigerian man ,same way they have created an environment for hookups to thrive . They are the enablers.

As for your worry that the number of girls willing to offer themselves has increased over the years, we can also say same for the guys. The moral decadence is on both sides. But I made that statement because the ultimate power to put a stop to it lies in the exchange "money". If men stop patronizing, then we will see a decline.Its simple economics.

Acidosis:




Do you think girlfriends and women in general are responsible for the high rate of internet fraud and rituals amongst men?

No they are not. Men don’t require female partners in order to become fraudsters

However men and women require each other to participate in sexual activity. So one side increases directly causes an increase in the other. Wonder how this is not simple to see.

Unless you think the men are sleeping with themselves. Nothing wrong with that either. They just need to be upfront and honest to themselves

They are just fighting hard in other not to admit this. But it’s clear as day.

Ladycewhy:
The only bone of contention hers is that men now have to pay instead of hiding behind relationship.

I think this era is better,let's all be mad,make everything kuku scatter.

So you are just angry that more women are willing to offer services?what is it they say again? ,the more the merrier,lol.


A man once said ,if you can sleep with yoii boyfriend who doesn't know the road to your father's house why can you sleep to get a job. This is the mindset of the average Nigerian man ,same way they have created an environment for hookups to thrive . They are the enablers.

As for your worry that the number of girls willing to offer themselves has increased over the years, we can also say same for the guys. The moral decadence is on both sides. But I made that statement because the ultimate power to put a stop to it lies in the exchange "money". If men stop patronizing, then we will see a decline.Its simple economics.

Adex2442:



Those ones nor dey do runs?

Who tell you? Dem dey very conservative like all these afghanistan women our hausa girls even tear eye pass dem. These girls dem fine like craze, especially the ones from ethiopia, eritrea and south sudan... Omo I no dey look una girls face I don already plan myself as soon as I ready to marry na to go pick one girl there na confusion of who to choose sef go worry you, cos most of the women there fine like mad, na just expo wey I don tell una
Infact go google go check na ur eye go turn you

Kajaard:


Coco that will be tough O

I want BRAND NEW, I don't need TOKUNBO or NIGERIAN USED

Well good luck to you

At this rate some of you might have to come together and share one virgin wife

Munamoqel:
With the high level of prostitution, runs hookup, how do guys cope when getting married to avoid marrying a run girl. Some sites have increased the tempo of transactional sex by ladies. This has increased the probability of marrying a woman that has slept with hundreds of men.

Lagos men how do cope?

The matter tire me too o.

ProphetofOdin:
No be men dey patronize them?

Let's cut our ladies some slack abeg, even the the men that patronize them are also culprit. what is good/bad for bala is also good/bad for bulus.
We need to start teaching all our kids good morals whether they are boys or girls, I am afraid this generation has lost it.

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There is a difference here, a man must always have a sexual urge,it's the prostitutes that are taking advantage of that need.
The so called relationships have always been a give and take scenario,sex for money and other subtle benefits,stop giving your girl money for a while and lets see if she won't start giving you attitude,all she needs is someone better should come along and you are done and dusted.
Ask an easy virtuous woman to take an offer of farm work of 120k and whoring of similar pay monthly,your guess is as right as mine.

You're asking the same people doing the hookup how they cope? You guys are just funny.

Emperor88:


Runs girls are patronize by guys so they will get married to a guy who once patronize runs girls.

100

And they should both be fine with that

Carot:
most girls are greedy and materialistic. They want to buy the latest phones, clothes, bags etc. Hence they see hoeing as the best means of affording these things

Your opinion is an oversimplification of an extremely complex problem. Its not black and white.

cococandy:


Well good luck to you

At this rate some of you might have to come together and share one virgin wife

Lol

cococandy:

No they are not. Men don’t require female partners in order to become fraudsters

However men and women require each other to participate in sexual activity. So one side increases directly causes an increase in the other. Wonder how this is not simple to see.

Unless you think the men are sleeping with themselves. Nothing wrong with that either. They just need to be upfront and honest to themselves

LMAO

On a serious note, you're missing the point. It is not about the act, i.e., sex or killing but the motivation behind these acts. If you think it is okay to blame men (the major beneficiary) for the high rate of prostitution then you should be able to blame women for the high rate of internet fraud.

cococandy:
They are just fighting hard in other not to admit this. But it’s clear as day.

Lol me I like this era o . Women have been from time made to be chaste while these men have the freedom to fvck around.

From female circumcision to reduce libido,to traditions put in place to make sure women "hold their body", just name it.

But now these boys want to wail and cry? Lol let everything kuku scatter .

Even the little girls wey dey come up ,these pedophiles nor dey let dem see road.This double standard go break their neck .

nony43:








Which apps bro?

Tinder, InMessage, MiChat etc

Chuvin22:
Very good question.

My parent dey surprise say I still de single. I dey look dem dey laugh. Lol.

I watched both of them living together when I was growing and I have told myself I'm not settling for anything less. No way! I'll rather die single.

Always quarrelling and yelling at each other.

Most men in Nigeria die early because of this type of mental torture while the women live longer. Psychologist say the women can cope adequately with this type of stress

We are not even talking about other issues in marriage and 'wahala' of family members

michael1508:
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There is a difference here, a man must always have a sexual urge,it's the prostitutes that are taking advantage of that need.
The so called relationships have always been a give and take scenario,sex for money and other subtle benefits,stop giving your girl money for a while and lets see if she won't start giving you attitude,all she needs is someone better should come along and you are done and dusted.
Ask an easy virtuous woman to take an offer of farm work of 120k and whoring of similar pay monthly,your guess is as right as mine.

The guy you quoted is right. Lagos men "hoe" around with Lagos women. All this trying to justify men while still complaining about prostitution is hypocrisy laced with stupidity. If men will always have sexual urge that must be satisfied, then why blame the women who satisfy them? You don't think they also have needs that must be met too? No matter how long y'all keep calling out women, if you keep shying away from acknowledging the fact men are equally culpable, nothing will change. Two people are messing up but you're bent on heaping the responsibility of stopping it on one party as if the other party is one brainless toy all because you just don't want to place any form of restriction on your own gender? Are men animals? Dude, you either leave the prostitutes alone or you call out all involved.

Carot:
who are the people patronising male prostitutes

Who are the people? Well people like you of course. Just look at your posts in this thread if you have any doubts.

Nigeria is a failed state, which has made something like sex a cheap commodity in the open market. However while some customers like yourself have female preferences, some have male preferences. Ask yourself why Bobrisky isn't currently in chains.

You don't like that? Push for change in your country.

Otherwise, If you're looking for a male partner yourself, just scroll through Twitter, which many up and coming Nigerian prostitutes use as their base of operations.

Just make sure you're discrete or you may find yourself in a cell for 14 years.

illicit:
Not only in Lagos

It's everywhere these days


How shopping malls became their HQ still baffles me

not only you,it baffles me a lot,you see them standing shamelessly on road side

I’m not blaming folks for benefiting from either. I’m blaming them for participating and then acting like they don’t know they are participating in the problem they are condemning.
If women participate in rituals and internet fraud, then they deserve blame as well.

This is a false equivalency

Acidosis:


LMAO

On a serious note, you're missing the point. It is not about the act, i.e., sex or killing but the motivation behind these acts. If you think it is okay to blame men (the major beneficiary) for the high rate of prostitution then you should be able to blame women for the high rate of internet fraud.

nony43:







They do coded? Or via online?

code na

10 to 15k for an HR hook up, multiply by at least 4 in a day. Fix your economy and provide jobs with livable wages not slave wage jobs and see prostitution go down not eradicated, because even in America women do prostitution talkless of poverty stricken Nigeria.

sandra50:
They can marry mother harlot for all I care..as if they value the ones that sleep in their houses every night..if you are not into dating multiple men at a time..I mean if you don't make their blood pressure to go up and down they never value you..they will still leave and then come back later to ask if you can both get married..Oga go and marry those people.

Hmmn, you might be right though..

Munamoqel:
With the high level of prostitution, runs hookup, how do guys cope when getting married to avoid marrying a run girl. Some sites have increased the tempo of transactional sex by ladies. This has increased the probability of marrying a woman that has slept with hundreds of men.

Lagos men how do cope?

My brother I can NEVER EVER MARRY ANY GIRL IN LAGOS..the good ones no reach 6 and I no think say infer that Kind mad luck to find one amounts the 6 for Lagos..na just to fucccck them dazall

Kajaard:


Lol

It's so easy to get them in Owerri. It seems every girl above the age of 15 is into runs over there. I cannot tell you the amount of IMSU and Futo girls I slept with while on official assignment there last year. You just cannot compare the level of decay in Lagos to that of owerri. Oloshos everywhere

You cannot count the number of girls you've slept with. Lol. See public toilet calling someone else olosho hilarious

Munamoqel:
With the high level of prostitution, runs hookup, how do guys cope when getting married to avoid marrying a run girl. Some sites have increased the tempo of transactional sex by ladies. This has increased the probability of marrying a woman that has slept with hundreds of men.

Lagos men how do cope?

Level of prostitution is on the rise in nigeria, people future wives. These girls are literally everywhere, most started from school even after graduating with good results they still can’t stop prostitution.

Every one saying is the men that patronize them dont know shi bout this life…if the woman is the gate keeper of sex and she decides to open wont u patronize …abeg forget most of dese women are bad luck not jus in nija around the world ..unless you as a man dont know who are going to commit to …then your life is useless if she is useless dont be useless with her instead useless her!!!

Lagos still dey learn beside some eastern parts of the country...

Btw,

Na who wan marry go fit answer ur question.

IdreamOfUnicorn:
You cannot count the number of girls you've slept with. Lol. See public toilet calling someone else olosho hilarious

Continue dreaming of unicorns, Ode

cococandy:


Well good luck to you

At this rate some of you might have to come together and share one virgin wife

cococandy - happy valentines day shugar -- kisses.

sandra50:
They can marry mother harlot for all I care..as if they value the ones that sleep in their houses every night..if you are not into dating multiple men at a time..I mean if you don't make their blood pressure to go up and down they never value you..they will still leave and then come back later to ask if you can both get married..Oga go and marry those people.

Exactly what is happening at the moment. He is back begging after the girl he was dating left him for a richer guy.