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Re: You Adopted A Boy And Later Gave Birth To A Boy. Who Is Your First Son? by grandstar(m): 6:36pm On Feb 20, 2022

InTheCloudySky:
When you adopt a child, you're to love + accept him/her as your own child. They become YOUR child. If you later bear a biological child, your adopted child remains your first child, while your biological child will be your second.

The adopted child may have greater love and loyalty to you because he realizes it's an act of undeserved kindness to raise a child that's not biologically yours.

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Re: You Adopted A Boy And Later Gave Birth To A Boy. Who Is Your First Son? by Nobody: 7:13pm On Feb 20, 2022

MrBrownJay1:
adopted son will be the 1st child, biological son will fully understand....all chldren will be loved equally (whether male female biological or otherwise), and receive equal share in my will.

only foolish people die without a will,

This is the best solution

Re: You Adopted A Boy And Later Gave Birth To A Boy. Who Is Your First Son? by Monday60655(m): 9:02am On Feb 21, 2022

jasmine2013:
Step bawo?!

I don't understand the meaning of "bawo"

Re: You Adopted A Boy And Later Gave Birth To A Boy. Who Is Your First Son? by Iamlakexide(m): 7:49pm On Feb 21, 2022

Grgton:
you are just being emotional on the adopted!!

Biological issue of the man is his son ! Infact his first sperm haha

In this world no Son or daughter is a bastard. He or she is a vessel given to a person who have no idea of its worth.
Children are rare gem either your sperm or not.

Re: You Adopted A Boy And Later Gave Birth To A Boy. Who Is Your First Son? by Nobody: 6:53am On Feb 22, 2022

Iamlakexide:
In this world no Son or daughter is a bastard. He or she is a vessel given to a person who have no idea of its worth.
Children are rare gem either your sperm or not.

I understand your point sir! I'm not calling the adopted child a bastard never!! God won't be happy with me!!! What I'm saying in essence is that biologically he's not the first child, he's not the first issue coming out of the man!! Understand my point!!

If obviously! There should be a quest to find out the real biological father of the adopted child. . . But as of now legally he's still the man's son ! No dispute on that

Re: You Adopted A Boy And Later Gave Birth To A Boy. Who Is Your First Son? by Iamlakexide(m): 9:34pm On Feb 23, 2022

Grgton:
I understand your point sir! I'm not calling the adopted child a bastard never!! God won't be happy with me!!! What I'm saying in essence is that biologically he's not the first child, he's not the first issue coming out of the man!! Understand my point!!

If obviously! There should be a quest to find out the real biological father of the adopted child. . . But as of now legally he's still the man's son ! No dispute on that

Actually. I have not objection to your views on this matter. But to me i would rather give the first position to who came to my life first no matter which way.

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Re: You Adopted A Boy And Later Gave Birth To A Boy. Who Is Your First Son? by Ndipe(m): 6:21pm On May 08, 2024

The adopted child is th first son.

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