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She left you when she should have insisted despite pressure from family members when things weren't going well, but now wants you back because she has your child. If I were you, I will man up and ask the husband why she actually chased her. Is the boy the only son she has?
Is the husband impotent?



Well, tell her you want to marry a virgin, let's see how she'll deal with it.

Who art this film?

But wait o, you advice her to marry another man, close to her wedding you both Bleep massively and you pour all your hatred inside her?
Bros you ugly....

Child support is your duty and you must.

Most ladies get tiny sense.
Na few dey use their head.

You never marry the man, but you allow am to dey pour yeye spermm inside you.

After the spermm enter, you no even bother to take pills.

You destroy your own Future by yourself.

Weldone.

OGBEREIJEBU:
Stright to point

I am 36years old. Many years ago after NYSC, I have no Juicy paying Job that can enable me to marry. I was in a relationship with Ugochi from when she was 20 until 28.
Age was not on her side so I being a nobleman advised her to go ahead and marry one wealthy middle-aged man 41, that was asking for her hand in marriage.

The pressure to marry him was too much from her friends and family. I had no juicy Job, could barely eat, pay bills and have a chance to even drink and buy clothing.

I had to make sacrifices for her, so 5 days to her wedding, we agreed in unison to meet for farewell and farewell F@@k.With frustration and Heavy heart I ca..me deep inside her Four times. Gave her money for drugs (White quinine or postinor 2), she rejected it and promised to take care of it herself. I went to her wedding, eat, wished her well and left. Cried all night and moved on.

Her hubby took her to Abuja.

Now I have a good job. I am building my house and I have a car. I am extremely comfortable now.

I got a call earlier this year and it was Ugochi. She was desperate to see me.
she travelled down to Lagos to see me.
I wasn't comfortable so I talked her out of coming to my house. We met at an eatery and she came with one handsome little boy.
I ordered Food for them and then my biggest fear came.
She said her husband found out the baby is not his and sent her packing.
She informed me the baby is mine.

I was shocked and I had to tell her I am squatting with someone, She and xxxxxxxx left for Imo State but before then, I denied and I argued, I went defensive.

The problem I have now is that I am planning my traditional wedding in August 2022 I have a presentable fiancee I love way too much.

Now, I can lie to the world but I can't lie to myself. That Little boy looks like me and has my pointed nose. Facially, it is glaring He is mine but I don't love Ugochi again, I have moved on. I love my fiancee so much.

How can I handle this situation?

Go and tell her husband and Apologize to him

I had to make sacrifices for her, so 5 days to her wedding, we agreed in unison to meet for farewell and farewell F@@k.With frustration and Heavy heart I ca..me deep inside her Four times. Gave her money for drugs (White quinine or postinor 2), she rejected it and promised to take care of it herself. I went to her wedding, eat, wished her well and left. Cried all night and moved on.

This is where the your problem began

OGBEREIJEBU:
Stright to point

I am 36years old. Many years ago after NYSC, I have no Juicy paying Job that can enable me to marry. I was in a relationship with Ugochi from when she was 20 until 28.
Age was not on her side so I being a nobleman advised her to go ahead and marry one wealthy middle-aged man 41, that was asking for her hand in marriage.

The pressure to marry him was too much from her friends and family. I had no juicy Job, could barely eat, pay bills and have a chance to even drink and buy clothing.

I had to make sacrifices for her, so 5 days to her wedding, we agreed in unison to meet for farewell and farewell F@@k.With frustration and Heavy heart I ca..me deep inside her Four times. Gave her money for drugs (White quinine or postinor 2), she rejected it and promised to take care of it herself. I went to her wedding, eat, wished her well and left. Cried all night and moved on.

Her hubby took her to Abuja.

Now I have a good job. I am building my house and I have a car. I am extremely comfortable now.

I got a call earlier this year and it was Ugochi. She was desperate to see me.
she travelled down to Lagos to see me.
I wasn't comfortable so I talked her out of coming to my house. We met at an eatery and she came with one handsome little boy.
I ordered Food for them and then my biggest fear came.
She said her husband found out the baby is not his and sent her packing.
She informed me the baby is mine.

I was shocked and I had to tell her I am squatting with someone, She and xxxxxxxx left for Imo State but before then, I denied and I argued, I went defensive.

The problem I have now is that I am planning my traditional wedding in August 2022 I have a presentable fiancee I love way too much.

Now, I can lie to the world but I can't lie to myself. That Little boy looks like me and has my pointed nose. Facially, it is glaring He is mine but I don't love Ugochi again, I have moved on. I love my fiancee so much.

How can I handle this situation?

Discuss with your new wife to be and let her understand that you can never take your ex back, that child with your ex was a product of send off and mistake sex and you already told her to get rid of the pregnancy but she ended up having the child and you can never take your ex again but you can still be providing for the welfare of the baby.

And I know many women and men are on this table.

Continue to dey collect and give am raw in the name of love.

Mumu people.

1. Why did u mention her name and didn't mention yours?

2. U said,if I quote u right,that u used 'frustration' and poured ur seed inside her juicy pussy 4times as farewell. Now the result of ur 'frustration' is out,her husband has seen that the baby isn't his and now u wanna settle down after ruining another girl's marriage? E no go work bro.

3. Tell ur fiancee the truth and and take responsibility of that child else he will grow to hate u forever. From what I see,ur ex will come back for revenge on ur TM or wedding day....good luck

OGBEREIJEBU:
Stright to point

I am 36years old. Many years ago after NYSC, I have no Juicy paying Job that can enable me to marry. I was in a relationship with Ugochi from when she was 20 until 28.
Age was not on her side so I being a nobleman advised her to go ahead and marry one wealthy middle-aged man 41, that was asking for her hand in marriage.

The pressure to marry him was too much from her friends and family. I had no juicy Job, could barely eat, pay bills and have a chance to even drink and buy clothing.

I had to make sacrifices for her, so 5 days to her wedding, we agreed in unison to meet for farewell and farewell F@@k.With frustration and Heavy heart I ca..me deep inside her Four times. Gave her money for drugs (White quinine or postinor 2), she rejected it and promised to take care of it herself. I went to her wedding, eat, wished her well and left. Cried all night and moved on.

Her hubby took her to Abuja.

Now I have a good job. I am building my house and I have a car. I am extremely comfortable now.

I got a call earlier this year and it was Ugochi. She was desperate to see me.
she travelled down to Lagos to see me.
I wasn't comfortable so I talked her out of coming to my house. We met at an eatery and she came with one handsome little boy.
I ordered Food for them and then my biggest fear came.
She said her husband found out the baby is not his and sent her packing.
She informed me the baby is mine.

I was shocked and I had to tell her I am squatting with someone, She and xxxxxxxx left for Imo State but before then, I denied and I argued, I went defensive.

The problem I have now is that I am planning my traditional wedding in August 2022 I have a presentable fiancee I love way too much.

Now, I can lie to the world but I can't lie to myself. That Little boy looks like me and has my pointed nose. Facially, it is glaring He is mine but I don't love Ugochi again, I have moved on. I love my fiancee so much.

How can I handle this situation?

DO A DNA TEST TEST TO ASCERTAIN THE TRUE FATHER,DO NOT BE EMOTIONAL ABOUT THIS.
ONCE IT IS ESTABLISHED YOU ARE THE FATHER,CALL YOUR ELDER AND OPEN UP .
TELL YOUR NEW WIFE THE SITUATION AT HAND,IF SHE IS READY TO ADOPT THE GUY ALL WELL AND GOOD BUT IF NOT JUST MOVE THE GUY TO YOUR MOTHER AND ENSURE YOU SEND HIM MONTHLY REMITTANCE AND DO PAY HIM VISIT TOO.
PLEASE AND PLEASE DO NOT TOIL WITH THE EMOTION OF THE INNOCENT GUY. HE KNOWS NOTHING ABOUT UNA SHIT AND SHOULD NOT BE PART OF YOUR MESS.

Upload proof .

WhatsApp chats etc before we go give advice.

OGBEREIJEBU:
Stright to point

I am 36years old. Many years ago after NYSC, I have no Juicy paying Job that can enable me to marry. I was in a relationship with Ugochi from when she was 20 until 28.
Age was not on her side so I being a nobleman advised her to go ahead and marry one wealthy middle-aged man 41, that was asking for her hand in marriage.

The pressure to marry him was too much from her friends and family. I had no juicy Job, could barely eat, pay bills and have a chance to even drink and buy clothing.

I had to make sacrifices for her, so 5 days to her wedding, we agreed in unison to meet for farewell and farewell F@@k.With frustration and Heavy heart I ca..me deep inside her Four times. Gave her money for drugs (White quinine or postinor 2), she rejected it and promised to take care of it herself. I went to her wedding, eat, wished her well and left. Cried all night and moved on.

Her hubby took her to Abuja.

Now I have a good job. I am building my house and I have a car. I am extremely comfortable now.

I got a call earlier this year and it was Ugochi. She was desperate to see me.
she travelled down to Lagos to see me.
I wasn't comfortable so I talked her out of coming to my house. We met at an eatery and she came with one handsome little boy.
I ordered Food for them and then my biggest fear came.
She said her husband found out the baby is not his and sent her packing.
She informed me the baby is mine.

I was shocked and I had to tell her I am squatting with someone, She and xxxxxxxx left for Imo State but before then, I denied and I argued, I went defensive.

The problem I have now is that I am planning my traditional wedding in August 2022 I have a presentable fiancee I love way too much.

Now, I can lie to the world but I can't lie to myself. That Little boy looks like me and has my pointed nose. Facially, it is glaring He is mine but I don't love Ugochi again, I have moved on. I love my fiancee so much.

How can I handle this situation?

Why do you people look for trouble then deny the responsibility?

Be a man.

Carry your cross.

Na you fvck her.

It's a mutual agreement.

Don't be shameless.

Don't be greedy and foolish at the same time.

Stop denying your responsibility.

Sorry for the insult.....

And sorry if I said sorry way too much.....

Please hold a honest conversation with your wife to be, let her know the truth as u have shared here. Let her know you were not aware of this situation on until now.

Let the mother of ur son understand you have moved on but you will be responsible for the boy.

What I would have done in your shoe though.

Deborah98:
I have a family friend who still sleeps with his married female friends. This guy was so shameless telling me this and I can't try recall what led to the conversation. The one that broke me was the last girlfriend who bleeped him on her wedding eve. Chim ooooooooooooooo e reach to cry. Why are some guys and ladies like this. Guys this story is real believe me,it is happening and will keep on happening because some people have maggot infested brains. @op take the child to your new found lover, explain things to her and then continue with your wedding preparations but trust me you and that girl Bleep up big big big time. E be things ooooh

Distance yourself from him otherwise you will be the next victim

Ara21:
See why it's not good to date broke guys in the first place, when they become rich they avoid you. Why did you still have to sleep with her few days to her wedding.

How old are you?

So the girl decided to get pregnant and take the child to her new home hoping to fool the man, now it's backfired. I'd advise you to stay clear of her. Destroy your SIM card and move on, after you're done with ur marriage and traditional . And have a new child with ur wife you can open up to her cause doing so now will just ruin everything , but once you're married you can explain it all and take responsibility for the child. But timing is key

Pascopele:
Distance yourself from him otherwise you will be the next victim

I already did,for a year now I haven't been in touch with him. The guy na monster.

I am very angry reading this

Ask Wale Adenuga........

you see why dna is very important in this our 21st century? we have a lot of shameless idiots that called themselves ladies. you know you are getting married to another man in some days time and you still have the guts to allow another man release his semen into your vagina. that lady is the real definition of a devil. nonsense

Gave her money for drugs (White quinine or postinor 2), she rejected it and promised to take care of it herself..

That exactly what they will say, and when ever they say that bros it will not end well because she will come back with a bad news.

Since she's just telling you I think you should let your fiancee know about the child ,I don't think that will stop her from marrying you at least the child can come stay with you but I doubt if your fiancee will take care of the child because women hates another person's child ....

Lol. Since when did a 41 year old become a middle aged person. Lol!

Deborah98:
I already did,for a year now I haven't been in touch with him. The guy na monster.

Good

OGBEREIJEBU:
Stright to point

I am 36years old. Many years ago after NYSC, I have no Juicy paying Job that can enable me to marry. I was in a relationship with Ugochi from when she was 20 until 28.
Age was not on her side so I being a nobleman advised her to go ahead and marry one wealthy middle-aged man 41, that was asking for her hand in marriage.

The pressure to marry him was too much from her friends and family. I had no juicy Job, could barely eat, pay bills and have a chance to even drink and buy clothing.

I had to make sacrifices for her, so 5 days to her wedding, we agreed in unison to meet for farewell and farewell F@@k.With frustration and Heavy heart I ca..me deep inside her Four times. Gave her money for drugs (White quinine or postinor 2), she rejected it and promised to take care of it herself. I went to her wedding, eat, wished her well and left. Cried all night and moved on.

Her hubby took her to Abuja.

Now I have a good job. I am building my house and I have a car. I am extremely comfortable now.

I got a call earlier this year and it was Ugochi. She was desperate to see me.
she travelled down to Lagos to see me.
I wasn't comfortable so I talked her out of coming to my house. We met at an eatery and she came with one handsome little boy.
I ordered Food for them and then my biggest fear came.
She said her husband found out the baby is not his and sent her packing.
She informed me the baby is mine.

I was shocked and I had to tell her I am squatting with someone, She and xxxxxxxx left for Imo State but before then, I denied and I argued, I went defensive.

The problem I have now is that I am planning my traditional wedding in August 2022 I have a presentable fiancee I love way too much.

Now, I can lie to the world but I can't lie to myself. That Little boy looks like me and has my pointed nose. Facially, it is glaring He is mine but I don't love Ugochi again, I have moved on. I love my fiancee so much.

How can I handle this situation?

Oga your real wife is Oguchi I will advice you call off that ur wedding plan with that ur fiance and marry Oguchi. She stands with u when u are nothing, and am sure she will love you forever.

Look at the possibilities of these ur new found wife. Don't allow that to push u to marry the wrong woman because u will regret it all the days of ur life.

Oguchi and your son should be ur final bus stop. A word is enough for the wise.

Zaheertyler:
Super story

Hmmmm

The Ugochi girl and other women like her are the biggest fools.

Many of them are currently ripping the fruits of their foolishness. Or how else can one describe having unprotected sex with an ex 5 days to her assured marriage that held so much potentials for her and her lineage.

Now she’s gonna be on the streets getting tossed all over the place by randy men and small small boys. Definitely a well deserved karma!

I see most men doing dna tests for their children and booting out women like ugochi.

From your story, it is so glaring you are a wicked and selfish human being.

1. You f**ked her prior to her traditional marriage
2. U cum four different times without conscience, haba , sperm Na lucosade boost?3. u didn't consider the guy she was marrying to
4. You exposed her name in your story without yours and your kid

The truth is dat you know the right thing to do but you are just looking selfish people like you to encourage you ignore the right thing ni.

For the sake of humanity, accept your baby and take care of him.
Sit your fiance down and tell her everything without hiding anything....heart to heart talk.
She might see you as being wicked ,. Yes.

If you can sleep with a woman prior to her wedding, then you can sleep with a married woman

Restitute your ways so you can have a blissful future.

Just a piece of advise
Take it or leave it

My advice is that any male human being that sees his own child, flesh and blood and denies him for any reason whatsoever is an animal. That's my advice.

OGBEREIJEBU:
Stright to point

I am 36years old. Many years ago after NYSC, I have no Juicy paying Job that can enable me to marry. I was in a relationship with Ugochi from when she was 20 until 28.
Age was not on her side so I being a nobleman advised her to go ahead and marry one wealthy middle-aged man 41, that was asking for her hand in marriage.

The pressure to marry him was too much from her friends and family. I had no juicy Job, could barely eat, pay bills and have a chance to even drink and buy clothing.

I had to make sacrifices for her, so 5 days to her wedding, we agreed in unison to meet for farewell and farewell F@@k.With frustration and Heavy heart I ca..me deep inside her Four times. Gave her money for drugs (White quinine or postinor 2), she rejected it and promised to take care of it herself. I went to her wedding, eat, wished her well and left. Cried all night and moved on.

Her hubby took her to Abuja.

Now I have a good job. I am building my house and I have a car. I am extremely comfortable now.

I got a call earlier this year and it was Ugochi. She was desperate to see me.
she travelled down to Lagos to see me.
I wasn't comfortable so I talked her out of coming to my house. We met at an eatery and she came with one handsome little boy.
I ordered Food for them and then my biggest fear came.
She said her husband found out the baby is not his and sent her packing.
She informed me the baby is mine.

I was shocked and I had to tell her I am squatting with someone, She and xxxxxxxx left for Imo State but before then, I denied and I argued, I went defensive.

The problem I have now is that I am planning my traditional wedding in August 2022 I have a presentable fiancee I love way too much.

Now, I can lie to the world but I can't lie to myself. That Little boy looks like me and has my pointed nose. Facially, it is glaring He is mine but I don't love Ugochi again, I have moved on. I love my fiancee so much.

How can I handle this situation?

Marry ugochi. Afterall you dated her for 8 years. The love you saw then will wake up again.
Better to have one family than to have 2.
Meanwhile on a lighter note, you can show your pic and the babies own, someone wants to compare.

Francisanointed:
I don't why people think they can eat their cake and have it?
If the child is yours,pls take care of the child. But to be sincere with you, you did something terrible by having an affair with someone whose wedding was 5 days away. If someone did that to that lady u are about to marry now, would u be happy? Treat others the way you want to be treated. Konji can not kill anybody. I have never seen or heard someone that konji killed.
Go to church,ask for forgiveness from God and amend your ways.

Though, I believe this story is fictional.

But, he didn’t have an affair……They had an affair, it was a mutual agreement and must have been mutually beneficial!

Francisanointed:
I don't why people think they can eat their cake and have it?
If the child is yours,pls take care of the child. But to be sincere with you, you did something terrible by having an affair with someone whose wedding was 5 days away. If someone did that to that lady u are about to marry now, would u be happy? Treat others the way you want to be treated. Konji can not kill anybody. I have never seen or heard someone that konji killed.
Go to church,ask for forgiveness from God and amend your ways.

It’s really beyond preposterous. How could he sleep with someone whose wedding was five days away? See the way he is even saying he ejaculated into her four times. Some people are really mean and soulless. Thank you for asking him to tell us how he would feel if someone had sex with his fiancé days to their wedding.

I want to puke. A vengeful man could get him assassinated for this sort of conscienceless act.

Whether you take care of the child or not, Mr Op, your peace is gone for good, believe me. You think your ex will just accept taking care of the child and walk away. The real mess is hasn’t started. Brace up, dude!

You are such a lucky man it came at this time. It is the right time to tell your wife to be, and let her decide either to continue with the marriage or not.

That will help you make further decisions.