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unyted:
You messed up comrade. You shouldn't have asked! Just invite her to go out with you - and go for the kiss! If she evades your kiss, she doesn't love you. That's the KISS test!

CatANDratTHEORY:
As the hot slap landed on you, shebi tears almost rolled down your cheeks?
Don't lie.

Senomii:
Guy leave me I still dey vex abeg

I been still dey the toasting stage and the girl just reject me, tell me say na lust I dey feel for am say no be love, like say she be jesus christ wey she go know about my feelings.....oya allow me make I show you say na really love wey I feel for you... the babe come dey yarn careless, she just twist all the talk come carry my personal matter put inside, something wey dey beyond my control
How you go drag my personal life inside another matter, like say na me wey create myself, the girl don make me vex abeg, she just open mouth wraaa dey make conclusions, I no dey like wen pesin dey claim say dem know me more than I know myself, even my papa no know me like that, so na she wey go claim knowledge of everything about me

I just die am abeg, I dey regret say I allow her disorient me..... already she dey claim say she dey with person.... e come be like say I too dey disturb am..... I just wish say I fit kill all feelings for her abeg..... I no go gree carry any woman matter for head again.... anytime wey I see woman even if dem no dey pursue me I go carry my slippers run

CatANDratTHEORY:
Happened to me in my teen years. Sometime in 2006, I followed my cousins to their church and there I saw this damsel, I tried rather vainly to woo her.

I kept following her up but it wasn't easy, I used everything at my disposal to woo her but to no avail. I even got a resounding slap on one of those occasions. Even when I was made a functionary in my school in 2009, she wouldn't still give in to my demands despite the fact that most girls were dying.


I had to let her be and moved on, I even forgot that she existed . Some years later (2011), my phone rang one early morning only for me to pick up and lo and behold she was the one. I couldn't even recognise her voice again cos it's been really long I heard from her.

She explained whom she was and believe me, I was genuinely happy to hear from her. She was like "you just forgot about me, you just stopped talking to me..."
I was like " I couldn't keep trying to woo you forever"

She explained that my cousins told her that I got an admission so she collected my number and called to congratulate me. I thanked her for her gesture...
We are still good friends now, in fact, apart from my fiancee she's got to be the best female friend I have.
She has matured a lot to be very calm, kind, attentive, and compassionate.

CatANDratTHEORY:
Happened to me in my teen years. Sometime in 2006, I followed my cousins to their church and there I saw this damsel, I tried rather vainly to woo her.

I kept following her up but it wasn't easy, I used everything at my disposal to woo her but to no avail. I even got a resounding slap on one of those occasions. Even when I was made a functionary in my school in 2009, she wouldn't still give in to my demands despite the fact that most girls were dying.


I had to let her be and moved on, I even forgot that she existed . Some years later (2011), my phone rang one early morning only for me to pick up and lo and behold she was the one. I couldn't even recognise her voice again cos it's been really long I heard from her.

She explained whom she was and believe me, I was genuinely happy to hear from her. She was like "you just forgot about me, you just stopped talking to me..."
I was like " I couldn't keep trying to woo you forever"

She explained that my cousins told her that I got an admission so she collected my number and called to congratulate me. I thanked her for her gesture...
We are still good friends now, in fact, apart from my fiancee she's got to be the best female friend I have.
She has matured a lot to be very calm, kind, attentive, and compassionate.

MadamVanessa:



For crying out loud what will even make a girl to land a guy slap for wooing her. Listen to him if you want to if he keeps pestering you, ignore him totally. Slapping him, obviously you're inviting a very big trouble to yourself.

A girl once did that to my elder brother, even me I was pitying the girl, because I Know how aggressive my brother is. I just knew that her own is finished. Of all the things to do, you went ahead to slap my brother? ah! aunty sorry o. The beating she received from my brother hand that day, even me, I wasn't pleased with my brother.

A lot of people started blaming my brother for going to that length of giving her bruises , forgetting that it was the girl that started the trouble first.

Before you land a guy a slap, make sure you have the power to withstand whatever will happen. If you're expecting the crowd to come to your defend because you're a woman, then you're a coward.

Udoskybest:
[b][/b]I went to toast a pretty girl in 2019 during an end of the year party. While talking, she stood there looking over my shoulder and landed me an end of the year slap.

Long story short, she sent me a written note containing her name, an apology and her contact. She stated that her dad was close and was watching her... We dated the next year and it was fun.

Let's hear yours

She lied to you and you believed it! You're a jerk to her

Senomii:
Guy leave me I still dey vex abeg

I been still dey the toasting stage and the girl just reject me, tell me say na lust I dey feel for am say no be love, like say she be jesus christ wey she go know about my feelings.....oya allow me make I show you say na really love wey I feel for you... the babe come dey yarn careless, she just twist all the talk come carry my personal matter put inside, something wey dey beyond my control
How you go drag my personal life inside another matter, like say na me wey create myself, the girl don make me vex abeg, she just open mouth wraaa dey make conclusions, I no dey like wen pesin dey claim say dem know me more than I know myself, even my papa no know me like that, so na she wey go claim knowledge of everything about me

I just die am abeg, I dey regret say I allow her disorient me..... already she dey claim say she dey with person.... e come be like say I too dey disturb am..... I just wish say I fit kill all feelings for her abeg..... I no go gree carry any woman matter for head again.... anytime wey I see woman even if dem no dey pursue me I go carry my slippers run

Udoskybest:
[b][/b]I went to toast a pretty girl in 2019 during an end of the year party. While talking, she stood there looking over my shoulder and landed me an end of the year slap.

Long story short, she sent me a written note containing her name, an apology and her contact. She stated that her dad was close and was watching her... We dated the next year and it was fun.

Let's hear yours

Zeel007:
Lolz very funny. But the truth is such girl is very childish.even if you will say no to a guy, say it without making the person feel bad about themselves.

Most girls don't have a proper orientation though. But you shouldn't allow rejection get to your heart.

This is the way I handle mine, I was like you before. The way I handle asking girl out is before going to meet her, I would have imagine the worst outcome that could happen, by so doing, even if it turns out negative, I wouldn't be much heartbroken cos I haven't made my expectation about her to be only positive.


Even till now, even when dating a girl, I will assume she might do any how anytime by quitting. Nah human being. So I don't place too much expectation on her. Although I will love her and care for her o, but I just have that one side of a thought so that I won't loose myself totally by being shattered if she eventually quits.

MadamVanessa:



For crying out loud what will even make a girl to land a guy slap for wooing her. Listen to him if you want to if he keeps pestering you, ignore him totally. Slapping him, obviously you're inviting a very big trouble to yourself.

A girl once did that to my elder brother, even me I was pitying the girl, because I Know how aggressive my brother is. I just knew that her own is finished. Of all the things to do, you went ahead to slap my brother? ah! aunty sorry o. The beating she received from my brother hand that day, even me, I wasn't pleased with my brother.

A lot of people started blaming my brother for going to that length of giving her bruises , forgetting that it was the girl that started the trouble first.

Before you land a guy a slap, make sure you have the power to withstand whatever that will happen. If you're expecting the crowd to come to your defend because you're a woman, then you're a coward.

Sha na girls were get power de slap guys not girls like us were no get Shishi power

Senomii:
What's really fuelling my anger is, I know she loves me, I overheard her wen she told her friend......so y is she saying weird things, telling me I'm a bad boy, I won't know how to love her properly, I won't be able to understand her as much as she wants me to, I'm too spoiled the guy she's dating she can relate with him, he understands life and he understands her bla bla bullshit talks..... You never even try give me one millisecond of a chance and you don dey talk like say you don already see the future

Zeel007:
is very simple, if you really like her, ignore her totally like she doesn't exist. Whenever you see her, greet her with cheerfulness and never raise the discussion or tried calling her on phone when you get home. Is a reversed psychology.


She will get to a point start feeling unease cos you are no longer showing and pursuing her like the way you really were into her. By doing so, you've weaken her Ego, if she feel an atom of likeness for you though, she will be looking for an avenue to talk to you, then this time you don't rush but give it a time and talk about it again.

Asking a lady out is more of self confidence and ability to communicate your heart.

CatANDratTHEORY:
Your brother has anger issues and should work on it.
Handling family issues will be very difficult for him if he doesn't work on his temperament.

CatANDratTHEORY:
[s]Your brother has anger issues and should work on it.
Handling family issues will be very difficult for him if he doesn't work on his temperament. [/s]

HiideaConsole:
[s]The girl nur get anger issue ba?

All of dem dey crase nih

Them wan die?
I follow you yarn, you no reply na to tear me slap??

You're a SIMPle man sir[/s]

HenryDion:
She no dey look face? She go collect woto woto without wasting time. That's exactly what I want to do to one NDler here but he's afraid to show face. He will quote me in a few seconds. Watch!

Boogyman557:
Holly Gram Na u Sabi waiting u de CAPRISUN..



The weather is Cold bcus e RAIN small today..



So I de ASHAWOO house now...


I JUST de BLA some cigarette bcus u no FIT BLA WEED here...


I also de use EYES find better ASHAWOO BANI wey get standing BOBZ to NACK...



LITE UP my CIGARETTE in peace



WTF MAN!

CatANDratTHEORY:

The girl was a teen and clearly had no full understanding of how life was.
Youthful ebullience and exuberance can trigger such.

No where in OP's write-up did you see that the other gender was a teen

Even as at that, women are a bunch of problems.

No bring that problem near me then!

Make sure you beat your wife to coma if she slaps you (anger can make one mad)

When she nur smoke Igbo

How she go slap me? I don date idiots. How you go see normal way of resolving conflict and you'll slap me?

Is this guy endorsing violence on the part of the female gender and condemning it from a guy?

Which kind hypocrisy is that?

I don't support violence of any kind...
There are ways of resolving issues in a cool manner not hitting of any kind

My wife no go slap me na... Where that one wan come from??

What of conflict management?

CatANDratTHEORY:
Happened to me in my teen years. Sometime in 2006, I followed my cousins to their church and there I saw this damsel, I tried rather vainly to woo her.

I kept following her up but it wasn't easy, I used everything at my disposal to woo her but to no avail. I even got a resounding slap on one of those occasions. Even when I was made a functionary in my school in 2009, she wouldn't still give in to my demands despite the fact that most girls were dying.


I had to let her be and moved on, I even forgot that she existed . Some years later (2011), my phone rang one early morning only for me to pick up and lo and behold she was the one. I couldn't even recognise her voice again cos it's been really long I heard from her.

She explained whom she was and believe me, I was genuinely happy to hear from her. She was like "you just forgot about me, you just stopped talking to me..."
I was like " I couldn't keep trying to woo you forever"

She explained that my cousins told her that I got an admission so she collected my number and called to congratulate me. I thanked her for her gesture...
We are still good friends now, in fact, apart from my fiancee she's got to be the best female friend I have.
She has matured a lot to be very calm, kind, attentive, and compassionate.

CatANDratTHEORY:
Happened to me in my teen years. Sometime in 2006, I followed my cousins to their church and there I saw this damsel, I tried rather vainly to woo her.

I kept following her up but it wasn't easy, I used everything at my disposal to woo her but to no avail. I even got a resounding slap on one of those occasions. Even when I was made a functionary in my school in 2009, she wouldn't still give in to my demands despite the fact that most girls were dying.


I had to let her be and moved on, I even forgot that she existed . Some years later (2011), my phone rang one early morning only for me to pick up and lo and behold she was the one. I couldn't even recognise her voice again cos it's been really long I heard from her.

She explained whom she was and believe me, I was genuinely happy to hear from her. She was like "you just forgot about me, you just stopped talking to me..."
I was like " I couldn't keep trying to woo you forever"

She explained that my cousins told her that I got an admission so she collected my number and called to congratulate me. I thanked her for her gesture...
We are still good friends now, in fact, apart from my fiancee she's got to be the best female friend I have.
She has matured a lot to be very calm, kind, attentive, and compassionate.

Udoskybest:
[b][/b]I went to toast a pretty girl in 2019 during an end of the year party. While talking, she stood there looking over my shoulder and landed me an end of the year slap.

Long story short, she sent me a written note containing her name, an apology and her contact. She stated that her dad was close and was watching her... We dated the next year and it was fun.

Let's hear yours

MadamVanessa:



For crying out loud what will even make a girl to land a guy slap for wooing her. Listen to him if you want to if he keeps pestering you, ignore him totally. Slapping him, obviously you're inviting a very big trouble to yourself.

A girl once did that to my elder brother, even me I was pitying the girl, because I Know how aggressive my brother is. I just knew that her own is finished. Of all the things to do, you went ahead to slap my brother? ah! aunty sorry o. The beating she received from my brother hand that day, even me, I wasn't pleased with my brother.

A lot of people started blaming my brother for going to that length of giving her bruises , forgetting that it was the girl that started the trouble first.

Before you land a guy a slap, make sure you have the power to withstand whatever that will happen. If you're expecting the crowd to come to your defend because you're a woman, then you're a coward.

Sha na girls were get power de slap guys not girls like us were no get Shishi power

Oshodipikin:
Forget the woman beater thing oh...

That gal no go to home with her complete teeth that day.

Dem go think say na trailer jam am....

Kinzo0917:
. Too much sex dey make man dey emanciate ooo. Wen u come on any woman , it takes 3 weeks to regain ur health back