Kooldon:
True, but don't be surprised if you notice her sudden change in attitude as she experience city life We will all be here to advice you when that time arises

My advice too. Nobody will remain naive forever, we always want more. I hope he can handle when the time comes. However, it is better to marry an inexperience girl because, an experience woman is already damaged.

Edyice:




Men will help this dude out by the time she enter city and see correct dudes

Talk of a failure


U wey dey city since ur birth, how many correct dudes do u have


No let gelousy kill u ooh

Look at another confused dude.

Who told you she is a queen? In two years time I bet you you will come here to tell us the story.

Not only queen na queenie.

Imagine on Monday morning a young man still living in delusion of woman world.

Very interesting!!!

Simran94:

And you think the tear rubber you marry will be faithful to you after marriage?
You can’t eat your cake and have it. LOL

why are you always defensive of immorality. are you a virgin

TkhGuy:
I will advice you to go back to your village if you are looking for a girl to marry, look for the one that doesn't have social network handle,

Look for the one that doesn't have flashy expensive phone,

Look for the one that will listen to your advice & ready to implement it,

I traveled home to get a girl to get laid to, I got two, one have social media handles, she can't cook, she can't take of her environment, & worst she is rude and arrogant, she is beautiful but no character

The other one have phone, not smartphone, she doesn't have social network handle, she is so respectful, cooks and she is beautiful, lastly I broke il into tears when she told me she is still a virgin, the night were kissing for hours, I thought her how to kiss, & this time there is a lot we are learning together.

I guess you already know my choice,

Our wedding will be coming up by October 2022,

Don't force yourself on any girl, don't knee to propose to any girl in public, follow my instructions & get the best that will stick with you,

You are making the greatest mistake of your life, you think a girl being a virgin is a criteria for a good wife?

Ask people who are dating these so called virgin girls and learn from them, virgins don't really worth it.

After marrying her, she will continue to use that palasa phone abi? And she will not be on social media in this digital age when businesses and lives are thriving on social media for all the positive reasons abi?

This post says a lot about the kind of man you are.
You went to the village to knack girls and you are bragging about virginity when you are not a virgin. E be like you never hear stories of men wey go village go bring wives some later tear eyes. What you should be praying for is a God-fearing partner not that you brought her from the village and phone she uses or her family pedigree. Haven't you seen people from good family pedigree who are into morally wrong vices?

Danisaint112:
Op your state of Origin I wan confirm something first?

Why bothering yourself? You supposed to know where he will definitely come from.

Na my own region you go see young man from nowhere just bumped to another man house with kola and palm wine for girl he never met in his life boom to engagement, boom to marriage 3 months later the delilah or the Judas will unleash domestic horror.

TkhGuy:
I will advice you to go back to your village if you are looking for a girl to marry, look for the one that doesn't have social network handle,

Look for the one that doesn't have flashy expensive phone,

Look for the one that will listen to your advice & ready to implement it,

I traveled home to get a girl to get laid to, I got two, one have social media handles, she can't cook, she can't take of her environment, & worst she is rude and arrogant, she is beautiful but no character

The other one have phone, not smartphone, she doesn't have social network handle, she is so respectful, cooks and she is beautiful, lastly I broke il into tears when she told me she is still a virgin, the night were kissing for hours, I thought her how to kiss, & this time there is a lot we are learning together.

I guess you already know my choice,

Our wedding will be coming up by October 2022,

Don't force yourself on any girl, don't knee to propose to any girl in public, follow my instructions & get the best that will stick with you,

The same you will be complaining later that your wife is backward and unpresentable in public.

Wish you the best sha

beejay85:

You said you won't chase her away because of the kids....that where the inflicted pain comes from .. An unfaithful lady without children can easily be asked to step aside..not so easy with one with children because A lot of factors LL be considered bf reaching your conclusion..so bros the pain isn't the same.. may we never experience it..amen

Amen to us not experiencing it.

The clause of not chasing her away starts and stop at if the cheating is a one time thing or ends after being caught, if not, then I am sorry we are surely parting ways.

People handle cheating experience differently. Some brood longer than others. Again considering the fact that the marriage has gone on for a while Love might have withered a bit unlike a newly or fresh marriage so the level of hurt might not be same.

In all. We pray for a good home.

TkhGuy:

Follow my instructions & get the best that will stick with you,

People should follow "your" instruction as per you be john the Baptist wey make wey for Jesus Christ ...

Op, come off that.

When that girl gets to Lagos and she starts seeing things herself. He eyes go tear and if you're not careful, she go change to opposite of what you bring.

Seek God's direction about it oooo

Beebah2000:
U cry because she tell u say she be virgin
This one off me completely. But, I was touched a bit.
Redpillers go travel to their village tomorrow

jrusky:


Why bothering yourself? You supposed to know where he will definitely come from.

Na my own region you go see young man from nowhere just bumped to another man house with kola and palm wine for girl he never met in his life boom to engagement, boom to marriage 3 months later the delilah or the Judas will unleash domestic horror.

boom to marriage 3 months later the delilah or the Judas will unleash domestic horror.

The last line off me. There are actually good women but getting one is by the grace of God.

TkhGuy:
I will advice you to go back to your village if you are looking for a girl to marry, look for the one that doesn't have social network handle,

Look for the one that doesn't have flashy expensive phone,

Look for the one that will listen to your advice & ready to implement it,

I traveled home to get a girl to get laid to, I got two, one have social media handles, she can't cook, she can't take of her environment, & worst she is rude and arrogant, she is beautiful but no character

The other one have phone, not smartphone, she doesn't have social network handle, she is so respectful, cooks and she is beautiful, lastly I broke il into tears when she told me she is still a virgin, the night were kissing for hours, I thought her how to kiss, & this time there is a lot we are learning together.

I guess you already know my choice,

Our wedding will be coming up by October 2022,

Don't force yourself on any girl, don't knee to propose to any girl in public, follow my instructions & get the best that will stick with you,

Congratulations I took a gamble at my old age marrying one of those nonsense, I live in UK almost all my life, I thought the idea of having a British baby, having two house in London one under construction in Lekki will make her sit tight, nonetheless when she was introduced to me she was homeless living in uncomplicated building shitting on black bad to throw over the compound fence. She had only secondary school level of education but esteemly beautiful. I rented a place for her near my construction site in Lekki asy mother fell-out with her quickly, I sent 150k every month furnished her place including solar system so she don't lack anything Whist I prepared and perfected her documents to join. I was always in Nigeria every two months except in the of acute COVID 19 lockdown when it took 7 months. To cut story short I went to her WhatsApp messages on this my visit find out she has been putting pressure on her married ex to come to her house, she souch put pressure on another ex that that one was asking her if she was honey, that one gave her condition of coming when she said they will meet outside the house he said if that is the case he is not coming, then she gave in and asked he come inside. I didn't know what she did with him ooo, am hoping to get my baby off her and show her the door. She even had a blocked Fallopia tube so am paying 2m for IVF, Nigerian women are something else, lack morality never take them seriously.

Odeh. So soon. Nor worry,hurry marry am. U go hail. Ekpa

Nicepoker:
By Nov 2022 you will create another thread with your alternate Monika for advice.

You are mean!

Baitullah:
Have you asked your home boys?

idea

Kooldon:
True, but don't be surprised if you notice her sudden change in attitude as she experience city life We will all be here to advice you when that time arises

u no well

October is far boss

Now i know that girls hate each other. Instead of these girls to be happy for their fellow girl that will be getting married soonest. They are here discouraging the man from marrying her. nawa

4words:


Which youth? Someone that would have like 3 children to worry about woul have little time to consider youthfulness.

By the time she is done with children, she will be in her mid or late 30s

It's not too late to want to explore at mid 30.

nedekid:

Lolz, oga, I don't know you or your life experiences. But from mine, I can assure you that the village ladies are not any better.
All the reasons the op gave is all wack. Lolz, op is teaching village girl how to kiss, village girl is virgin. I laugh.
Na by virgin?
A lady my bro was nacking, and nacking skin to skin because he disvirgined her (sic). Or so he thought. Apparently she did the alum stuff for him.
When he came from the US few years ago and spoke of that young lady again of how nice and good she was (now married), that was when I had to finally break the ice out of being piss off.
I told him leave matter! That girl, I had being nacking her steady 6 months before my bro met her and during when my bro was nacking her!
I even mention 3 other guys that were firing her steady too. Twice I gave her as entertainment to my visitors.
She was even a lesbian and will bring her lesbian friends to me for party, 4some! Meanwhile my bro thinks say him catch virgin.
Anyway this was many years ago. She don marry now with kids. Some time back she call me make I come nack as she de miss my gbola. As howww?
Married woman??

She's not a village girl,Na city girl wey dey disguise as village girl imo

Parizz:
why are you always defensive of immorality. are you a virgin

Hope you can see what immorality has done to and is still doing to marriages? Divorce here and there because people now see immorality as a norm.

theamazonguru:


Yes ooh, let's tell him he made a good choice and don't forget to follow his advice, you too go back home and make a choice.

Laughing

NaijaOlosho:


So you want your wife to be a Bush woman, uncivilized??

You are very wicked.

You she will remain Luke that for ever

He married from village NOT me..

Laughing

nedekid:

Let's just be looking at him like this.

You garrit

zuraking:
tell him that when girls like that open eyes for city, they will fvck all the street boys including their gateman

There's no village girl again o..

He no know..

LoL..


And you garrit there too

Marrying a lady without social life experiences might b dangerous because by the time she have access to social media, she might become something else entirely.

That is when you will see her glue to phone all time online chatting.

You can marry a virgin from village but make sure she is social enough to avoid story that touches

If you got her as a virgin then you got her in a platter of gold� they are lots of nice village girls but go for one that knows how to read and write oo

bepositive11:


Very well said! Men like him think they've found a treasure. Truth is he doesn't really know who she is. In fact, even that girl doesn't know herself yet.

You can only know who a person really is when they don't need you for anything and when they've had all the freedom to explore what they want

She has not seen beyond the village streams and farmlands. When she now comes to the city and sees "better" guys and exotic places, her head will scatter and she will not be able to control it.

That's one big disadvantage of marrying a village girl.

TkhGuy:
I will advice you to go back to your village if you are looking for a girl to marry, look for the one that doesn't have social network handle,

Look for the one that doesn't have flashy expensive phone,

Look for the one that will listen to your advice & ready to implement it,

I traveled home to get a girl to get laid to, I got two, one have social media handles, she can't cook, she can't take of her environment, & worst she is rude and arrogant, she is beautiful but no character

The other one have phone, not smartphone, she doesn't have social network handle, she is so respectful, cooks and she is beautiful, lastly I broke il into tears when she told me she is still a virgin, the night were kissing for hours, I thought her how to kiss, & this time there is a lot we are learning together.

I guess you already know my choice,

Our wedding will be coming up by October 2022,

Don't force yourself on any girl, don't knee to propose to any girl in public, follow my instructions & get the best that will stick with you,

We don pass that route before. Na so she come las las tear eye reach ear. Happy married life in advance