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Re: My Cousin Who Got Married Last Year July Is Actually Thinking Of Leaving by seanwilliam(m): 10:47am On Mar 13, 2022
Beebah2000:
Una way dey make noise, una gree make them remove one of your kidney, give your wife or husband??
Noise makers na e full this forum.

so where is the love? Or does love have new definition again ?

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Re: My Cousin Who Got Married Last Year July Is Actually Thinking Of Leaving by omowolewa: 10:47am On Mar 13, 2022
No
Re: My Cousin Who Got Married Last Year July Is Actually Thinking Of Leaving by OreoPaschal(m): 10:47am On Mar 13, 2022
Well, nobody is worth dying for. 12years ago, my elder sister suffered the same faith. Her husband divorced her, and the marriage was nullified. Sadly, she died 2years after. And the husband remarried. This is someone she dated for over 7years before marrying him.

In as much as I am a lover of love and sacrifice, this is a risky venture. I would advise they seek alternative donor, and if they insist she must donate. She should divorce the husband, and move on with her life. The husband's family won't allow the son to donate if the reverse was her case.

Na Mumu, dey die because of love! grin grin grin

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Re: My Cousin Who Got Married Last Year July Is Actually Thinking Of Leaving by Tannhauser(m): 10:47am On Mar 13, 2022
cheesy

Nonsense.
This is why i laugh when i see people saying don't marry for love, marry for money, status, trophy wife/ husband etc. When the chips are down, its just you and your spouse.
I can happily say that the wife i am married to would've donated her kidney long before any other person (her family or even mine) heard about it.
Make una continue to dey marry for nonsense reasons.

I come in peace, selah.

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Re: My Cousin Who Got Married Last Year July Is Actually Thinking Of Leaving by tempex88(m): 10:48am On Mar 13, 2022
I Pity the man. He is not loved by both his nuclear and extended family. Make Dem raise money buy the kidney. Maybe go fund me

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Re: My Cousin Who Got Married Last Year July Is Actually Thinking Of Leaving by omoiyamayor(m): 10:48am On Mar 13, 2022
Getting married to a Nigerian lady is very tricky, for our ladies Marriage must be a win-win for them.

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Re: My Cousin Who Got Married Last Year July Is Actually Thinking Of Leaving by Biglittlelois(f): 10:48am On Mar 13, 2022
His family are not willing to volunteer to donate a kidney why?

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Re: My Cousin Who Got Married Last Year July Is Actually Thinking Of Leaving by Enemyofpeace: 10:48am On Mar 13, 2022
The title of the movie is “the big test”
Re: My Cousin Who Got Married Last Year July Is Actually Thinking Of Leaving by maak400: 10:48am On Mar 13, 2022
If the woman was the one diagnosed with kidney failure, she and her family would expect the man to donate his kidney, and feminists would have dragged the man like tiger generator for refusing to donate his precious kidney. Women and selfishness. undecided

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Re: My Cousin Who Got Married Last Year July Is Actually Thinking Of Leaving by Ofadaman(m): 10:49am On Mar 13, 2022
Well scripted
Re: My Cousin Who Got Married Last Year July Is Actually Thinking Of Leaving by God1000(m): 10:50am On Mar 13, 2022
I hope your cousin is not the type that doesn't take care of his parents, brothers and sisters because of some stupid love for wife, this is where his family will help him out if he's been good to them, but some women will push the man away from his family and still later abandon him

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Re: My Cousin Who Got Married Last Year July Is Actually Thinking Of Leaving by guru90: 10:50am On Mar 13, 2022
I was thinking all this leaving after marriage is just film to me....

One man I knew very well married last year .. got separated this January 2022.....

I mad oooh

I pray that I find better wife ....

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Re: My Cousin Who Got Married Last Year July Is Actually Thinking Of Leaving by AllKnowing: 10:50am On Mar 13, 2022
Is this a movie script?
Re: My Cousin Who Got Married Last Year July Is Actually Thinking Of Leaving by CaptMarvel(m): 10:50am On Mar 13, 2022
If the table turn, how will she feel!?

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Re: My Cousin Who Got Married Last Year July Is Actually Thinking Of Leaving by sukkot: 10:50am On Mar 13, 2022
cheesy married geng
Re: My Cousin Who Got Married Last Year July Is Actually Thinking Of Leaving by Acidbath: 10:50am On Mar 13, 2022
So nobody for the man family be match abi? Abi dem adopt am? grin

You need maximum of 10 years to decide whether or not you can give nizoorian male spouse your kidney. One year too short.

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Re: My Cousin Who Got Married Last Year July Is Actually Thinking Of Leaving by Enemyofpeace: 10:50am On Mar 13, 2022
seanwilliam:
so where is the love? Or does love have new definition again ?
what stupid love? The man’s family were just being selfish too jo. Love ko, kayamata ni

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Re: My Cousin Who Got Married Last Year July Is Actually Thinking Of Leaving by tipec: 10:50am On Mar 13, 2022
Sad
Re: My Cousin Who Got Married Last Year July Is Actually Thinking Of Leaving by Nonexisting: 10:51am On Mar 13, 2022
GooodHardDick:
After enjoying the man's money, now she wants to japa? The man even trained her in school?

Nigeria girls are useless. All of them. Nigeria girls are so broke and brainless for my liking. Na why dem dey always use dem do rituals.

My brother, those that haven't experienced their wickedness and betrayal first hand will not understand you. I am a living witness to that. I loved a woman to the extent that people around us kept saying that she could be my sister in our previous world but what did I get out of it? She is alive today and still begging me for her evils but I've kept telling her that forgiveness is of God. Nemesis has somehow caught up with her now but I told her it must be from another evil she did elsewhere because I have no grudges against her.

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Re: My Cousin Who Got Married Last Year July Is Actually Thinking Of Leaving by Biglittlelois(f): 10:51am On Mar 13, 2022
tempex88:
I Pity the man. He is not loved by both his nuclear and extended family. Make Dem raise money buy the kidney. Maybe go fund me


Especially his extended family, why are they all pushing it to the wife? What of his brothers and sisters? They obviously don't love him.

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Re: My Cousin Who Got Married Last Year July Is Actually Thinking Of Leaving by Enemyofpeace: 10:51am On Mar 13, 2022
CaptMarvel:
If the table turn, how will she feel!?
face the fact the guy too will do same and start warming up to marry another wife

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Re: My Cousin Who Got Married Last Year July Is Actually Thinking Of Leaving by finishmatter: 10:52am On Mar 13, 2022
I always know women are selfish and gold diggers.

But you surprise me with your words.
Thanks for sharing

MadamVanessa:
shocked


So that vow ",for better and for worst and till death do us apart" is actually a lie. People lied in front of the priest, parents, family and friends.

If actually we hold that vow to our heart, there's no sacrifice too much for us to make for our spouses. But no, it's all lies, we say it with our lips not with our heart.

This action has clearly shown that there's nothing like love even among married people, we only deceived ourselves. The day you'll realized that your wife or husband that pretend to love you never really loved you as you think,is the day you find yourself in a greater mess.


Those ones that love genuinely and are ready to make any sacrifice to their spouses are always taken for granted . They're not always appreciated by the people they sacrificed to.



Re: My Cousin Who Got Married Last Year July Is Actually Thinking Of Leaving by Jeezuzpick(m): 10:52am On Mar 13, 2022
MadamVanessa:
shocked


So that vow ",for better and for worst and till death do us apart" is actually a lie. People lied in front of the priest, parents, family and friends.

If actually we hold that vow to our heart, there's no sacrifice too much for us to make for our spouses. But no, it's all lies, we say it with our lips not with our heart.

This action has clearly shown that there's nothing like love even among married people, we only deceived ourselves. The day you'll realized that your wife or husband that pretend to love you never really loved you as you think,is the day you find yourself in a greater mess.


Those ones that love genuinely and are ready to make any sacrifice to their spouses are always taken for granted . They're not always appreciated by the people they sacrificed to.

A renowned Sci-fi writer Iain M. Banks was terminally ill.

He proposed to his wife with the words: "Will you be my widow?"

Maybe when the sick man was asking for the lady's hand in marriage, he already knew he would need a kidney, and was actually asking: "will you be my donor?"

Anyways, we may never know.

The lady has the right to decide to donate her kidney or not.

Maybe there are already cracks in the marriage and she doesn't think so well of her husband anymore, or there was no real love in the first place.

Still, we've heard at least a case of a girl dumped after donating a kidney.

Hmmmmm......

De matter be as e get, jare.

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Re: My Cousin Who Got Married Last Year July Is Actually Thinking Of Leaving by Enemyofpeace: 10:52am On Mar 13, 2022
Biglittlelois:



Especially his extended family, why are they all pushing it to the wife? What of his brothers and sisters? They obviously don't love him.
no mind them
Re: My Cousin Who Got Married Last Year July Is Actually Thinking Of Leaving by backnbeta(f): 10:53am On Mar 13, 2022
Fake story, can't waste my words
Re: My Cousin Who Got Married Last Year July Is Actually Thinking Of Leaving by Olam09(m): 10:53am On Mar 13, 2022
Hamachi:
My cousin who got married last year July is actually thinking of leaving the marriage because the husband was diagnosed of kidney failure and needs a transplant. The summary of the story is that the family of the man is expecting the newly married wife to donate one of her kidney to the man because my cousin is biological match to the husband, she and her family has said LAI LIA O, that his their child and they should find a way to go about it. After dragging this issues for some months, my cousin family are pushing her to file for a divorce

A. Would it be considered wickedness on her part considering, his not only the husband but PARTLY trained her in school too?

B. The marriage is less than a year no much money to even look for a seller, Aunty want to japa and leave the man

What do you think?

Your cousin and her family are evil.. she took the oath in church on their wedding day that through thick and thin she'll be there. Your cousin is darn evil!
Re: My Cousin Who Got Married Last Year July Is Actually Thinking Of Leaving by Biglittlelois(f): 10:54am On Mar 13, 2022
GooodHardDick:
After enjoying the man's money, now she wants to japa? The man even trained her in school?

My Nigerian mother and sisters are useless. All of them. My Nigerian mother and sisters are so broke and brainless for my liking. Na why dem dey always use dem do rituals.



Fixed.

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Re: My Cousin Who Got Married Last Year July Is Actually Thinking Of Leaving by FashionCookie(f): 10:54am On Mar 13, 2022
MadamVanessa:
shocked


So that vow ",for better and for worst and till death do us apart" is actually a lie. People lied in front of the priest, parents, family and friends.

If actually we hold that vow to our heart, there's no sacrifice too much for us to make for our spouses. But no, it's all lies, we say it with our lips not with our heart.

This action has clearly shown that there's nothing like love even among married people, we only deceived ourselves. The day you'll realized that your wife or husband that pretend to love you never really loved you as you think,is the day you find yourself in a greater mess.


Those ones that love genuinely and are ready to make any sacrifice to their spouses are always taken for granted . They're not always appreciated by the people they sacrificed to.



You see this last part? God bless you for it...couldn't have said it better.

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Re: My Cousin Who Got Married Last Year July Is Actually Thinking Of Leaving by Biglittlelois(f): 10:55am On Mar 13, 2022
Olam09:


Your cousin and her family are evil.. she took the oath in church on their wedding day that through thick and thin she'll be there. Your cousin is darn evil!


What of the the man's family? Why can't they give a kidney? Aren't they also evil?

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Re: My Cousin Who Got Married Last Year July Is Actually Thinking Of Leaving by Nobody: 10:55am On Mar 13, 2022
You say your cousin is a "biological match", so what kind of match is the man's family?

This looks too sudden. I suspect they may have known about it and pushed her into the marriage for her kidney. It's best she leaves.

The marriage is too young for this nonsense.

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