Nonexisting:
My brother, those that haven't experienced their wickedness and betrayal first hand will not understand you. I am a living witness to that. I loved a woman to the extent that people around us kept saying that she could be my sister in our previous world but what did I get out of it? She is alive today and still begging me for her evils but I've kept telling her that forgiveness is of God. Nemesis has somehow caught up with her now but I told her it must be from another evil she did elsewhere because I have no grudges against her.

Rubyjade:
Marriage scared me

MadamVanessa:



So that vow ",for better and for worst and till death do us apart" is actually a lie. People lied in front of the priest, parents, family and friends.

If actually we hold that vow to our heart, there's no sacrifice too much for us to make for our spouses. But no, it's all lies, we say it with our lips not with our heart.

This action has clearly shown that there's nothing like love even among married people, we only deceived ourselves. The day you'll realized that your wife or husband that pretend to love you never really loved you as you think,is the day you find yourself in a greater mess.


The few ones that love genuinely and are ready to make any sacrifice even if it means for them to lay down their lives for their wife/husband are always taken for granted . They're not always appreciated by the people they sacrificed to. So sad, sad indeed.

MrHyde:
We overate the expectations of marriage, you cannot force your partner to donate or give to you that which they do not want to give for reasons best know to them. She didn't force her husband to partly train her in school. People need to understand that giving without expectation is bliss. The family of the man should try to get him a donor and treat his disease, if he decides to continue with the marriage afterwards, that's fine otherwise he moves on. There is no guarantee that he wouldn't cheat on her or even divorce her in the future if she donates her kidney to him.
Reduce your expectations from your partner and build yourself, that's marriage.

kapelvej:
you said it all. People that truly love are most of the time not appreciated. Ioved my spouse with all my heart. Been married for 10 years, she has been treating me like toilet paper. Just waiting for my first child to hit 18. Even my children are tired of their mother

Hamachi:
My cousin who got married last year July is actually thinking of leaving the marriage because the husband was diagnosed of kidney failure and needs a transplant. The summary of the story is that the family of the man is expecting the newly married wife to donate one of her kidney to the man because my cousin is biological match to the husband, she and her family has said LAI LIA O, that his their child and they should find a way to go about it. After dragging this issues for some months, my cousin family are pushing her to file for a divorce

A. Would it be considered wickedness on her part considering, his not only the husband but PARTLY trained her in school too?

B. The marriage is less than a year no much money to even look for a seller, Aunty want to japa and leave the man

What do you think?

Shoodboi:
You say your cousin is a "biological match", so what kind of match is the man's family?

This looks too sudden. I suspect they may have known about it and pushed her into the marriage for her kidney. It's best she leaves.

The marriage is too young for this nonsense.

God1000:
maybe he doesn't take care of them, his wife separated him from his family

ValCon888:
Nigerian girls don't marry for love. Know this and have rest of mind.

For better for worse don jam road block.

dominique:
How come the wife's kidneys are a biological match but none of his family members are? Not even one? None of his family wants to sacrifice their kidneys they now wants to force the wife to do it. Would they allow their own son to surrender one of his kidneys for his wife?

ehay:
After donating that kidney and she is unable to have children/sons for her husband, will the family remember her sacrifice and force their son to stick with her? If the case were reversed will they force their son to donate kidney for the lady?

Rugaria:
But why are Nigerian gals like this?

Beebah2000:
Una way dey make noise, una gree make them remove one of your kidney, give your wife or husband??
Noise makers na e full this forum.

ehay:
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Because no Nigerian man will do same for his wife.

futurism:


If you like make you no learn from this. Any man who thinks a woman can really love him is fooling himself.

Women will only love you for what you bring to the table... they don't love carelessly as men do. Men are the foolish ones in this dating pool and the only person that can genuinely love a man is his mother, no one else.

futurism:


If you like make you no learn from this. Any man who thinks a woman can really love him is fooling himself.

Women will only love you for what you bring to the table... they don't love carelessly as men do. Men are the foolish ones in this dating pool and the only person that can genuinely love a man is his mother, no one else.

MadamVanessa:



So that vow ",for better and for worst and till death do us apart" is actually a lie. People lied in front of the priest, parents, family and friends.

If actually we hold that vow to our heart, there's no sacrifice too much for us to make for our spouses. But no, it's all lies, we say it with our lips not with our heart.

This action has clearly shown that there's nothing like love even among married people, we only deceived ourselves. The day you'll realized that your wife or husband that pretend to love you never really loved you as you think,is the day you find yourself in a greater mess.


The few ones that love genuinely and are ready to make any sacrifice even if it means for them to lay down their lives for their wife/husband are always taken for granted . They're not always appreciated by the people they sacrificed to. So sad, sad indeed.

Biglittlelois:



And you know the bolded how? Are you part of his family or your figment of imagination makes you type trash most times?

Slynation:
it's not by typing grammar and epistle, if you are the one, you go donate abi you no-go donate..?? I bet after critical thinking, you won't donate

Omo...e no easy oO, at this point you be like, what if something goes wrong with the surgery, that's how you will just die because you want to prove love...Truly it's not an easy choice to make by mere reading