Nacoss25:
My marriage of 10 months is gradually crashing.

I and my wife had some issues 2 weeks ago and she ran away from the house to her parents and now the parents are denying me from seeing her while from my investigation and information gathered she connived with her family to go into hiding.

Marriage is not for the faint hearted. At 10 months; you have not even started. However, weldone for successfully chasing your wife away. My advice for you is to manage the situation before it ends in regret.

If her parents hide her from you, just pretend you are serious searching for her.
Then, after a week or two, find a cheap willing girl and bring home.
Believe me, the rumour will get to your in-laws within minutes, and they will be the ones searching for you.

I went back through all your post about ur relationship and realised u never dated before you married your wife...

U were too all around her and treat her like she fell from heaven.. while growing up men ought to date serially and be dumped by women they love over the years. So they can be hardner on love matter.. u pamper her so much that she took it for granted . Again.. u were the only one dating her for the whole two years cuz from all I read you guyz are not compatible at all

Just go to court and enforce a divorce and stat again . Tht was was a mistake

Team Ï married my bestfriend "don end in 10 month

If I were u, I will ignore & 4get about her for 2months. Pretend as if u re not feeling the pain. U can talk with her friends and family normal as if nothing happens.
When anyone ask u about her, just say she is fine.
Then u will see the magic and thank me latter.

has anyone who graduated form Joint Professionals Training And Support International JPTS done NYSC?

You must have done something hidden for her !!!

BRATISLAVA:


Why wouldn't it "crach"?

This guy is one of the most stupid controlling red pill/macho men out there. He's the type that wants to spank his wife, or destroy her face with punches when things don't go his way.

Imagine him trying to control an adult, and when it's backfired he's here with a half story. It should teach him that his red pill bros will give him accolades for oppressing a lady, but they will not share the consequences of such actions with him. That he's back to share his failures at living with the girl shows that he's looking for the support he got then to feel good about his recent actions.

His face was too hard. Later they will tell you that they cannot marryy their age mates, age shame them, because they are looking for one little girl to own and control.

If she has any sense, she will leave him for good. He's not ready to be married. Reminds us of bejaprodint and her talkative "husband".

Stop labelling sadistss and narcissistic men as redpillers ... You won't like if we all label all misandrists as feminists would you,?
The op is no red Piller ,he is just a saddistic numb head

looks like marriage wasn't all cloud 9 for this op, him & this his wife ain't compatible at all...If u HAVEN'T GOR ANY KIFS, JUST END THIS THING JARE..

This ur wife how she take be? If u no wan mention her name just tell me where she from? because I sabi one young wife for here wey japa leave her man base on one or two

[quote author=Nacoss25 post=111019564]My marriage of 10 months is gradually crashing.

I and my wife had some issues 2 weeks ago and she ran away from the house to her parents and now the parents are denying me from seeing her while from my investigation and information gathered she connived with her family to go into hiding.
A responsible family will send their daughter back to her husband house immediately, She’s not the problem but her parent. Na why u go need do family check up before u marriage who so ever... Una still get a lot of fight and argument in future to handle that’s how marriage work bro. Reconciliation is key

You eventually stamped the authority you always wanted to stamp as head of the family. Stop being a roaring lion in your home, this country is hard enough.

Double0h7:
This is the guy who locked his wife out of their apartment and slept at a hotel while she spent the night on a bench lol! Your pettiness has finally paid. Don't forget it was you who paid her bride price and paid for the wedding so she has nothing to lose. I hope she teaches you a lesson you'll never forget! I hope she keeps the shop and bags herself a thug for protection

Lol! OP has serious issues. I'm surprised it took so long for her to leave him

A responsible family will send their daughter back to her husband house immediately, She’s not the problem but her parent. Na why u go need do family check up before u marriage who so ever... Una still get a lot of fight and argument in future to handle that’s how marriage work bro. Reconciliation is key

Crafteck1:


Oga, forget all this, go and make money

Gbam

@Romanoff warned you when u posted here , locking her out.

Well @teeste warned u when u posted here when about purchasing a SUV!

WELL marriage na SCAM. GOOD ONE MARRIES WRONG ONE!
I LEARNT IN HARD ways.
I paid all prices both cash n conscience.. now I am footing the DIVORCE FEE.... so I won't end up HERE as DEAD MAN from marriage. I married ma BEST FEMALE FRIEND... but I wished I MET her on TINDER!

malel1:


Same happened to me bro ,but be strong g

Did she return..?

Nacoss25:
My marriage of 10 months is gradually crashing.

I and my wife had some issues 2 weeks ago and she ran away from the house to her parents and now the parents are denying me from seeing her while from my investigation and information gathered she connived with her family to go into hiding.

Na one we dey try solve, any small thing she don run go house. If you laid a finger on her she can go home before you kill her but if you didn’t wtf is wrong with her parents

Nacoss25:
My marriage of 10 months is gradually crashing.

I and my wife had some issues 2 weeks ago and she ran away from the house to her parents and now the parents are denying me from seeing her while from my investigation and information gathered she connived with her family to go into hiding.

You really need to grow up. Your life history is on social media, starting from your marriage to your everyday dealings with your wife. You are not matured enough to be married. Always seeking validation from faceless people on the internet.

Carry your cross. I really don't know the kind of men we have these days. Pathetic.

Kobicove:


You have still not told us the real reason why she left home and is hiding from you

Guy man marriage started on Nairaland n still ended on Nairaland land.

Check his previous thread

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pocohantas:


No mind am. Shebi they were encouraging him to keep locking his wife out. If you lock me out, when no be say I cheat or fight you, I will stay out!

I don’t know who taught Nigerian men that nonsense. How do you lock a human being out? Even animal sef no suppose collect that kind treatment.

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Pls hush

How can you say anyone supported a man to lick his wife or girlfriend out .. don't be senseless

Kingpin1000:
Why did you marry at the first place?
Compare when you were a bachelor and now.
The stress in relationship is too much. Talk more of having a bad day at work only to come home and meet someone frowning her face.
I no fit marry abeg

No lies oooo

NoFucksToGive:
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Pls hush

How can you say anyone supported a man to lick his wife or girlfriend out .. don't be senseless

Is your head okay? The thread is right here on Nairaland and redpillers told him he did the right thing. Shebi they have left him?

What exactly goes on in your heads when you lock your wife out? Once you lock a woman out, she stops seeing that place as a home!

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Simran94:
These are the traits of the so-called “redpills”.
Serves you right and I pray she never comes back.
God will give her someone better

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Shut up , these are not redpillers ..

Kajaard:


You really need to grow up. Your life history is on social media, starting from your marriage to your everyday dealings with your wife. You are not matured enough to be married. Always seeking validation from faceless people on the internet.

Carry your cross. I really don't know the kind of men we have these days. Pathetic.

As in
The dude is so annoying with that his opolo face

Nacoss25:
My marriage of 10 months is gradually crashing.

I and my wife had some issues 2 weeks ago and she ran away from the house to her parents and now the parents are denying me from seeing her while from my investigation and information gathered she connived with her family to go into hiding.

Oh you again! Did you buy her the car?? Be a man for once!!

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Hush

NoFucksToGive:
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Shut up , these are not redpillers ..

Lol, someone who locked his wife out of the house and she slept on the bench in the cold overnight without thinking she could be kidnapped or raped or killed is not a redpiller?

Just be watching and see what they are up to.

Nigeria now people no dey worry dem selves over things that will make someone get depressed...

Na so friend of mine , her elder brother's wife ran back to the village with their 4 kids one is still breastfeeding with the help of her sis and her husband from Abuja. Before baba will come back from work nothing remain for house just one mattress oo, 3bed room flat oo this woman and her sis emptied the house and no one around the area called baba say are you parking out...

Nacoss25:
My marriage of 10 months is gradually crashing.

I and my wife had some issues 2 weeks ago and she ran away from the house to her parents and now the parents are denying me from seeing her while from my investigation and information gathered she connived with her family to go into hiding.

Make money they will use cane beat her back come meet you

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pocohantas:


Is your head okay? The thread is right here on Nairaland and redpillers told him he did the right thing. Shebi they have left him?

What exactly goes on in your heads when you lock your wife out? Once you lock a woman out, she stops seeing that place as a home!

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Don't be stupid... Stop calling narcissistic people and anyone who talks crazy a redpilller. What do you know about the red pill ideology? You are a misandrist so I can't confuse you with a feminist ..
Get educated and learn the difference between narcissism and redpilling

I don't know what they allow every old arse has been, Martha Stewart wanna be on this forum ...