₦airaland Forum

Boogyman557:
Holly Gram I COMPRISUN ur CAPRISUN!


So SORRY MAN!


U have to hold tight and be strong..


E fit be sey God de TRY save u from something!


BETTER days ahead bro...


D PESIN u want might NOT really be for U!


I believe God is trying to SAVE u from something!


I have dat STRONG BELIEVE!


We humans don't really UNDERSTAND de ways of God or d wayz of d SPIRITUAL!


make I no too CAPRISUN MUCH..


just take HEART and be strong.. MAN wey deserve U, go JAZZ in ur Life..


LITE UP my WEED in peace


WTF MAN!

Is thus boogyman or somebody stole his phone.

AntiAPC2023:
6 months abi? Okay na I'll remind you this

Na you Sabi.

[quote author=masseratti post=111286242]this is not true, what works for Jack might not work for John even tho their names starts with JS... Some guys like trouble makers, some don't, some guys like fashionistas, some don't, some guys are sarpiosexuals some get intimidated by their presence,some guys like me like a wet loose pus.ss.y and a freak in the bed while she is still focus at work or in anything she does, most other guys claim they want virgin Mary with tight thing... I don't.. I want a prostitute on my bed so that I won't cheat and at the same time an independent focus lady with brain.. Cos that's who I am. my point is study your partner, different strokes for different folks.


You are right on this, everyone is wired differently.

FalseProphet1:
Let me use this opportunity to advice girls in general, but before I start, sorry for what he put you through.

You must know that any guy who isn't geninuely born again and is in a sexual relationship with you, definitely has other girls he's keeping.

As the time for him to settle down draws closer, he'll begin to narrow down his long list of girls until there's about 2 or 3 of you girls left.

Now he'll begin to check the characters of the 3 of you, he'll check the most generous, the one who doesn't get angry and forgives easily, the one who listens to him, the one who understands him better...etc..

If you're the type that's always quarreling with him him every now and then, or he suspects you are having contact with your ex, or agressive, or dominating, or stingy and demanding...you will be edited out of the list until it remains the last girl standing. Which will end up as his wife.

After marriage, he'll begin to contact you runners up one after the other, you'll become his auldtery partner while his wife will be his trophy.

This is the life cycle of the average worldly Nigerian male.

I see him contacting you before the end of this week to apologise and requesting to see you so as to make you his auldtery partner.

This I have seen.

Now I get @bold, so you lots are the same, lol

masseratti:
this is not true, what works for Jack might not work for John even tho their names starts with JS... Some guys like trouble makers, some don't, some guys like fashionistas, some don't, some guys are sarpiosexuals some get intimidated by their presence,some guys like me like a wet loose pus.ss.y and a freak in the bed while she is still focus at work or in anything she does, most other guys claim they want virgin Mary with tight thing... I don't.. I want a prostitute on my bed so that I won't cheat and at the same time an independent focus lady with brain.. Cos that's who I am. my point is study your partner, different strokes for different folks.

Hahahaha wahala be like Putin, him table long and e no de gree ceasefire

Graceihotu:
My question is "what do guys really want"
I am not saying I am perfect but I know I am surely the best girlfriend any guy could ever think of yet I am still experiencing heartbreak at 31���


Had issues with my boyfriend since last year April bkos of a particular girl he posted on Facebook addressing her as the mother of his house. I became angry and told him I was only going to continue the relationship if I spoke to the lady in question bkos same lady posted him too calling him her first love.


He told me the lady was his cousin sister and ofcourse I believed him bkos she bares same surname with his cousin brother whoose wedding we attended together, He addressed me as his wife to be throughout the occasion so I had everything to believe in him

Just five days ago I saw his wedding notification on Facebook with that same lady. My heart has never been this broken B4 in my life. I have cried out my soul to the extent that I barely see clearly this days. I tried not to cry but I just can't. I am seriously weeping as I am typing this.

I have tried to encourage myself but I just can't stop crying and WAILING.

Who have I ever offended and what exactly do guys want?

I have searched all through the 5 yrs of relationship and aswear with my life that I never stressed him but I only requested Love not Money from him

My heart is bleeding.
I only sent him his pre-wedding pics and congratulated him then he replied "thanks''

He feels I don't deserve an explanation �����

He is not the man for you , move on , imagine what could have happened to you if he had married you and 2 children down the line Left you and married another woman , Thank God and move on, Be Good you will find your man

Mercychen:
All of them are the same.

Op, stop crying. Embrace Jesus and serve God with your whole heart. Don't kill yourself because of a mere man who doesn't care about you. Not worth it!

Marriage doesn't even bring happiness or fulfillment. So, enjoy your singlehood while it last because you'll soon find your rightful man.

With the exception of me.


So how are you doing this morning?

FalseProphet1:
Let me use this opportunity to advice girls in general, but before I start, sorry for what he put you through.

You must know that any guy who isn't geninuely born again and is in a sexual relationship with you, definitely has other girls he's keeping.

As the time for him to settle down draws closer, he'll begin to narrow down his long list of girls until there's about 2 or 3 of you girls left.

Now he'll begin to check the characters of the 3 of you, he'll check the most generous, the one who doesn't get angry and forgives easily, the one who listens to him, the one who understands him better...etc..

If you're the type that's always quarreling with him him every now and then, or he suspects you are having contact with your ex, or agressive, or dominating, or stingy and demanding...you will be edited out of the list until it remains the last girl standing. Which will end up as his wife.

After marriage, he'll begin to contact you runners up one after the other, you'll become his auldtery partner while his wife will be his trophy.

This is the life cycle of the average worldly Nigerian male.

I see him contacting you before the end of this week to apologise and requesting to see you so as to make you his auldtery partner.

This I have seen.

hahahahahaha FalseProphet please tell us about Putin , will he die this year?

Ishilove:
You mean your own point of view, because I know several men who prefer ladies in their 30s.

What does 'market value' even mean sef? I am truly speechless

Brings out toto meter, breast sag guage, libido tester.
Applies to Ishi.
Result - You have 0 market value

At least to small boys who are obsessed over pristine 20 year old porn star bods

Dunno what older guys would want with small girls anyway. Just looking for trouble for themselves. After knacks what will you be about? Will I be talking about Davidos TV? Or hush puppy's cars? I have these same issues with youths.

[quote author=Jmarjr post=111280541]Some guys are just heartless. Haba d Lord is ur strength.
For those of you quoting me, i have this to say, i dont knw what she might have done to the guy in the past, but atleast forgiveness is divine. If he was not able to forgive he should have let her go a long time ago instead of wasting her time like dat. A child of 5yrs should b in primary 1 i think.
Time wait 4 no one, a time lost is irredeemable, time is priceless, i will never encourage a guy of female 2 waste someones time, hence my stance.
FTC dedicated to my loving family
[/quote

The real problem is... Some guys cannot chop same Kpekus outside marriage and during marital life.. Believe or not. Lady should learn to keep their Kpekus well guarded until he pay bride price and marry you

Graceihotu:
My question is "what do guys really want"
I am not saying I am perfect but I know I am surely the best girlfriend any guy could ever think of yet I am still experiencing heartbreak at 31���


Had issues with my boyfriend since last year April bkos of a particular girl he posted on Facebook addressing her as the mother of his house. I became angry and told him I was only going to continue the relationship if I spoke to the lady in question bkos same lady posted him too calling him her first love.


He told me the lady was his cousin sister and ofcourse I believed him bkos she bares same surname with his cousin brother whoose wedding we attended together, He addressed me as his wife to be throughout the occasion so I had everything to believe in him

Just five days ago I saw his wedding notification on Facebook with that same lady. My heart has never been this broken B4 in my life. I have cried out my soul to the extent that I barely see clearly this days. I tried not to cry but I just can't. I am seriously weeping as I am typing this.

I have tried to encourage myself but I just can't stop crying and WAILING.

Who have I ever offended and what exactly do guys want?

I have searched all through the 5 yrs of relationship and aswear with my life that I never stressed him but I only requested Love not Money from him

My heart is bleeding.
I only sent him his pre-wedding pics and congratulated him then he replied "thanks''

He feels I don't deserve an explanation �����

Sorry sister! I am seriously feeling your pains. May the Lord reward the guy for his actions.

Graceihotu:
My question is "what do guys really want"
I am not saying I am perfect but I know I am surely the best girlfriend any guy could ever think of yet I am still experiencing heartbreak at 31���


Had issues with my boyfriend since last year April bkos of a particular girl he posted on Facebook addressing her as the mother of his house. I became angry and told him I was only going to continue the relationship if I spoke to the lady in question bkos same lady posted him too calling him her first love.


He told me the lady was his cousin sister and ofcourse I believed him bkos she bares same surname with his cousin brother whoose wedding we attended together, He addressed me as his wife to be throughout the occasion so I had everything to believe in him

Just five days ago I saw his wedding notification on Facebook with that same lady. My heart has never been this broken B4 in my life. I have cried out my soul to the extent that I barely see clearly this days. I tried not to cry but I just can't. I am seriously weeping as I am typing this.

I have tried to encourage myself but I just can't stop crying and WAILING.

Who have I ever offended and what exactly do guys want?

I have searched all through the 5 yrs of relationship and aswear with my life that I never stressed him but I only requested Love not Money from him

My heart is bleeding.
I only sent him his pre-wedding pics and congratulated him then he replied "thanks''

He feels I don't deserve an explanation �����

Sorry dear. Seems we are in the same boat.

greypencils:
You don't toy with a girl for 5 years, if you know you don't want her cut her lose early. Which kain madness be that one na?

Sex always impairs the judgement of both the player and playee....the player doesn’t want to let go of enjoyment, the playee also doesn’t not see the signs....

[quote author=DryMouth post=111283651]Exactly bro. My own cheated on me and broke up with me. Bow she is back to me and hoping i would marry her. I will graciously waste her time cos am obviously not in love with her anymore and marry another person.[/qulote]
Correct man... I've always believed that if a girl Bleep up once and come back she go still Bleep up again...it's in they blood...one idiot just came back begging she was sorry I told her it's okay and we on again...but to me I wan waste her time and Bleep her well cos I don't forgive those that wronged me while I was being a good person to them

My dear take heart.If I open my mouth and tell u mine u ll shed tears.
All Am telling u is to clean ur eyes and move on,he does not worth ur tears.
Believe me he does not deserve u,jst bear it, God ll provide the right person.

WOMEN are busy dumping men after Financial obligations, yet men don't resort to such.
They move on.
My NEIGHBOR hates women passionately just because of what his wife did to him despite being a wealthy man.
This man singlehandedly trained this lady all through secondary & University.
Went ahead and married her.
Still got her a Job.
This Lady fell in Love with another man at her new workplace simply because he's a rich university graduate while her husband is an uneducated wealthy man.
Play play this LADY walked out of her marriage despite having 3 kids.

TODAY that man sees every woman as a VIPER.
yet he never went to FACEBOOK to weep, neither did he post his on WhatsApp group.

He’s definitely not yours , God will send your own man to you when it’s time . Sorry for the bad experience. Your own better half will locate you one day

Graceihotu:
My question is "what do guys really want"
I am not saying I am perfect but I know I am surely the best girlfriend any guy could ever think of yet I am still experiencing heartbreak at 31���


Had issues with my boyfriend since last year April bkos of a particular girl he posted on Facebook addressing her as the mother of his house. I became angry and told him I was only going to continue the relationship if I spoke to the lady in question bkos same lady posted him too calling him her first love.


He told me the lady was his cousin sister and ofcourse I believed him bkos she bares same surname with his cousin brother whoose wedding we attended together, He addressed me as his wife to be throughout the occasion so I had everything to believe in him

Just five days ago I saw his wedding notification on Facebook with that same lady. My heart has never been this broken B4 in my life. I have cried out my soul to the extent that I barely see clearly this days. I tried not to cry but I just can't. I am seriously weeping as I am typing this.

I have tried to encourage myself but I just can't stop crying and WAILING.

Who have I ever offended and what exactly do guys want?

I have searched all through the 5 yrs of relationship and aswear with my life that I never stressed him but I only requested Love not Money from him

My heart is bleeding.
I only sent him his pre-wedding pics and congratulated him then he replied "thanks''

He feels I don't deserve an explanation �����

That's why every girl i date and keep talking about marriage with me knowing that i'm not ready for marriage, i normally tell them should incase they see a marriage ready man or guy asking them out, they are free to go


chikenaa

i no dey hold girls destiny or wast their time on uncertainties

Graceihotu:
My question is "what do guys really want"
I am not saying I am perfect but I know I am surely the best girlfriend any guy could ever think of yet I am still experiencing heartbreak at 31���


Had issues with my boyfriend since last year April bkos of a particular girl he posted on Facebook addressing her as the mother of his house. I became angry and told him I was only going to continue the relationship if I spoke to the lady in question bkos same lady posted him too calling him her first love.


He told me the lady was his cousin sister and ofcourse I believed him bkos she bares same surname with his cousin brother whoose wedding we attended together, He addressed me as his wife to be throughout the occasion so I had everything to believe in him

Just five days ago I saw his wedding notification on Facebook with that same lady. My heart has never been this broken B4 in my life. I have cried out my soul to the extent that I barely see clearly this days. I tried not to cry but I just can't. I am seriously weeping as I am typing this.

I have tried to encourage myself but I just can't stop crying and WAILING.

Who have I ever offended and what exactly do guys want?

I have searched all through the 5 yrs of relationship and aswear with my life that I never stressed him but I only requested Love not Money from him

My heart is bleeding.
I only sent him his pre-wedding pics and congratulated him then he replied "thanks''

He feels I don't deserve an explanation �����

I'm really sorry about that and pray that God blesses you with a good guy. I have been through several heartbreaks myself and recently, I called my mum to inform her that I'm not longer interested in marriage. I don't double date, so breakups use to hit me like a rocket. The last babe cheated, though she confessed, but I don't think I can forgive her. Cheating is highly prohibited.

Graceihotu:
My question is "what do guys really want"
I am not saying I am perfect but I know I am surely the best girlfriend any guy could ever think of yet I am still experiencing heartbreak at 31���


Had issues with my boyfriend since last year April bkos of a particular girl he posted on Facebook addressing her as the mother of his house. I became angry and told him I was only going to continue the relationship if I spoke to the lady in question bkos same lady posted him too calling him her first love.


He told me the lady was his cousin sister and ofcourse I believed him bkos she bares same surname with his cousin brother whoose wedding we attended together, He addressed me as his wife to be throughout the occasion so I had everything to believe in him

Just five days ago I saw his wedding notification on Facebook with that same lady. My heart has never been this broken B4 in my life. I have cried out my soul to the extent that I barely see clearly this days. I tried not to cry but I just can't. I am seriously weeping as I am typing this.

I have tried to encourage myself but I just can't stop crying and WAILING.

Who have I ever offended and what exactly do guys want?

I have searched all through the 5 yrs of relationship and aswear with my life that I never stressed him but I only requested Love not Money from him

My heart is bleeding.
I only sent him his pre-wedding pics and congratulated him then he replied "thanks''

He feels I don't deserve an explanation �����

Until we hear his own side of the story. Women are quick to play the victim card when the relationship is broken

GloriousGbola:
Brings out toto meter, breast sag guage, libido tester.
Applies to Ishi.
Result - You have 0 market value

At least to small boys who are obsessed over pristine 20 year old porn star bods

Dunno what older guys would want with small girls anyway. Just looking for trouble for themselves. After knacks what will you be about? Will I be talking about Davidos TV? Or hush puppy's cars? I have these same issues with youths.

Lmaaaaaaaaoooo. Glorious gbola, mind yourself o!!!

Cococandy see what you have caused

This is just too much to bear.
Op, be consoled and be rest assured that karma is waiting ahead for him.
He isn't worth your tears, brace up and engage yourself in activities that makes you happy. If you can, take a trip out from your comfort zone for a while.
You'll be fine, but it will take time.
You'll look back and smile that it happened like this.

If only we can interview all your ex's, we will hear some terrible tales

RoyalBlu:
This is really so painful . Real definition of betrayal.

My heart goes out to you sis. Just hang in there okay. It's only time it'll take but you'll surely heal.

He doesn't deserve you at all. And he'll get served in greater measures.

Graceihotu:
My question is "what do guys really want"
I am not saying I am perfect but I know I am surely the best girlfriend any guy could ever think of yet I am still experiencing heartbreak at 31���


Had issues with my boyfriend since last year April bkos of a particular girl he posted on Facebook addressing her as the mother of his house. I became angry and told him I was only going to continue the relationship if I spoke to the lady in question bkos same lady posted him too calling him her first love.


He told me the lady was his cousin sister and ofcourse I believed him bkos she bares same surname with his cousin brother whoose wedding we attended together, He addressed me as his wife to be throughout the occasion so I had everything to believe in him

Just five days ago I saw his wedding notification on Facebook with that same lady. My heart has never been this broken B4 in my life. I have cried out my soul to the extent that I barely see clearly this days. I tried not to cry but I just can't. I am seriously weeping as I am typing this.

I have tried to encourage myself but I just can't stop crying and WAILING.

Who have I ever offended and what exactly do guys want?

I have searched all through the 5 yrs of relationship and aswear with my life that I never stressed him but I only requested Love not Money from him

My heart is bleeding.
I only sent him his pre-wedding pics and congratulated him then he replied "thanks''

He feels I don't deserve an explanation �����

Nothing special here . My ex did the same to me even in a worst way . Brace yourself . Time heals

The mistake we make most of the time is that before embarking on any journey we don't ask from God if the journey will end well, I can't just understand why on earth he choose to treat you in that manner, but had did been you commit ur ways to the Lord it wouldn't have happened like this, may God give you a man that deserves you.... Do sorry sister.

Not true..

Mercychen:
All of them are the same.

Op, stop crying. Embrace Jesus and serve God with your whole heart. Don't kill yourself because of a mere man who doesn't care about you. Not worth it!

Marriage doesn't even bring happiness or fulfillment. So, enjoy your singlehood while it last because you'll soon find your rightful man.

No matter what don't. Pity women.. my ex did same to Mee...

[quote author=Prowriter1 post=111287107][/quote]weather the kpekus is padlocked or not, someone that will not you, won't take it from me.

Do you have the boldness to post the so called ex on various social media, attach his photos and everything.

Mark my words, from those who will drag him, your husband is there.

VULCAN:
If only we can interview all your ex's, we will hear some terrible tales

I got no exes. Legit married to my first man.

You want love? Story......I know you gave him sex too....Now you are crying....you sold yourself easily......A guy dont even know what he wants thats why even if he is married, there is still a tendency that he will still cheat....sorry

Graceihotu:
My question is "what do guys really want"
I am not saying I am perfect but I know I am surely the best girlfriend any guy could ever think of yet I am still experiencing heartbreak at 31���


Had issues with my boyfriend since last year April bkos of a particular girl he posted on Facebook addressing her as the mother of his house. I became angry and told him I was only going to continue the relationship if I spoke to the lady in question bkos same lady posted him too calling him her first love.


He told me the lady was his cousin sister and ofcourse I believed him bkos she bares same surname with his cousin brother whoose wedding we attended together, He addressed me as his wife to be throughout the occasion so I had everything to believe in him

Just five days ago I saw his wedding notification on Facebook with that same lady. My heart has never been this broken B4 in my life. I have cried out my soul to the extent that I barely see clearly this days. I tried not to cry but I just can't. I am seriously weeping as I am typing this.

I have tried to encourage myself but I just can't stop crying and WAILING.

Who have I ever offended and what exactly do guys want?

I have searched all through the 5 yrs of relationship and aswear with my life that I never stressed him but I only requested Love not Money from him

My heart is bleeding.
I only sent him his pre-wedding pics and congratulated him then he replied "thanks''

He feels I don't deserve an explanation �����

author=MARS1 post=111287070]

With the exception of me.

**Yinmu**

So how are you doing this morning?

I'm good. Hope you're good too.
Thank you.