| Re: I Suspect My Fianceé Is Cheating On Me With Her Bestie Banker by brosom(m): 8:14am On Mar 25, 2022 |
Bro there's nothing to tell u here other than the obvious. There's this psychological believe that said and I quote:- WHENEVER AN OPOSITE SEX MEET FREQUENTLY, EVEN WITHOUT BEEN ATTACHED DIRECTLY BUT WITH TIME THEIR CHEMICAL BOND WOULD BEGIN TO MATCH ONE ANOTHER. AND THROUGH THIS MATCH FEELINGS AND EMOTIONS BEGINS TO GROW FOR ONE ANOTHER DIRECTLY OR INDIRECTLY. Op make I bring it down to a lay man understanding. U remember that time wey we dey use Bluetooth to transfer music, films, pictures, etc? U and and must have noticed that some phones finds it hard to pair with another, but with constant pairing of the phones everyday you'll notice that both phones will adjust to match one another and won't be difficult anymore whenever they're paired together. Op this exactly what's happening to ur babe, her chemical had adjusted to accept the guy's own, thus creating erotic feelings that would definitely result in hot vocano banging  . U have to play smart here because she aware now that u re suspecting her, and if u can't go all through this stress then I'd suggest u find another alternative to be taking her to work, if not not, or if she refuses or perhaps sees the guy in secrets, then call it off. MODIFIED:- Op I'm talking from experience, years back there was this girl that hates me so much, it appears that we find our selves same place of work and same depertment, in fact long story short we ended on the bed. 19 Likes 2 Shares |
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| Re: I Suspect My Fianceé Is Cheating On Me With Her Bestie Banker by Remman(m): 8:21am On Mar 25, 2022 |
Netmuch:
Hi fellow nairalanders,
I and my fiance were both bankers,I brought her in town and God used me for her to secure a job,where I used to stay was a bit further to our work place ,so their is another banker guy who has a crv Honda car that usually drop her in the morning at her office whom she later became close friends with,although dey do call them selves whenever the guy is about leaving his house to pick up my fiancee, which I was aware of.however suddenly I realized that my fiancee what's app chat is always cleared not to let me see their chats which I suspected a foul play,but the worst came last week when I was trying to get my car engine oil and I was approaching her ,she was calling the guy ,as I near her to eavesdrop on what she was talking with the guy ,she quickly ends the call. i got angry that why will she not let me hear their conversation if truly she has nothing to do with the guy ,I challenged her but she insisted nothing was going on between them that she had to end the call on my arrival which she has always call in my presence .I don't want to be a fool as am about to end the relationship ,but I guess I need your honest and positive response on this matter why she had to do what she did. I am a very simple guy and I believe every one should have their freedom. And I don't cheat .
I will love to hear your mature opinion on this.
Thanks . Well, just so you know... Women denies cheating until caught RED HANDED. Just use a paid spy app on her, get your evidence straight before you end it. 14 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: I Suspect My Fianceé Is Cheating On Me With Her Bestie Banker by Nobody: 8:30am On Mar 25, 2022 |
Netmuch:
Hi fellow nairalanders,
I and my fiance were both bankers,I brought her in town and God used me for her to secure a job,where I used to stay was a bit further to our work place ,so their is another banker guy who has a crv Honda car that usually drop her in the morning at her office whom she later became close friends with,although dey do call them selves whenever the guy is about leaving his house to pick up my fiancee, which I was aware of.however suddenly I realized that my fiancee what's app chat is always cleared not to let me see their chats which I suspected a foul play,but the worst came last week when I was trying to get my car engine oil and I was approaching her ,she was calling the guy ,as I near her to eavesdrop on what she was talking with the guy ,she quickly ends the call. i got angry that why will she not let me hear their conversation if truly she has nothing to do with the guy ,I challenged her but she insisted nothing was going on between them that she had to end the call on my arrival which she has always call in my presence .I don't want to be a fool as am about to end the relationship ,but I guess I need your honest and positive response on this matter why she had to do what she did. I am a very simple guy and I believe every one should have their freedom. And I don't cheat .
I will love to hear your mature opinion on this.
Thanks . She Is Being Banged On A Steady Bro That Pusssay Is Being Grilled Take It Or Leave It Nah Your Wahala Not Mine 6 Likes |
| Re: I Suspect My Fianceé Is Cheating On Me With Her Bestie Banker by Michelle55: 8:35am On Mar 25, 2022 |
At this point, count your loss and move on boss. Hurriedly ending the call with the other guy says it all but if you're cool sharing the punna with your deputy you can go ahead with the relationship and hope she doesn't pin someone's kid on you.
Good luck bro! 20 Likes |
| Re: I Suspect My Fianceé Is Cheating On Me With Her Bestie Banker by Blackmind: 8:43am On Mar 25, 2022 |
Netmuch:
Hi fellow nairalanders,
I and my fiance were both bankers,I brought her in town and God used me for her to secure a job,where I used to stay was a bit further to our work place ,so their is another banker guy who has a crv Honda car that usually drop her in the morning at her office whom she later became close friends with,although dey do call them selves whenever the guy is about leaving his house to pick up my fiancee, which I was aware of.however suddenly I realized that my fiancee what's app chat is always cleared not to let me see their chats which I suspected a foul play,but the worst came last week when I was trying to get my car engine oil and I was approaching her ,she was calling the guy ,as I near her to eavesdrop on what she was talking with the guy ,she quickly ends the call. i got angry that why will she not let me hear their conversation if truly she has nothing to do with the guy ,I challenged her but she insisted nothing was going on between them that she had to end the call on my arrival which she has always call in my presence .I don't want to be a fool as am about to end the relationship ,but I guess I need your honest and positive response on this matter why she had to do what she did. I am a very simple guy and I believe every one should have their freedom. And I don't cheat .
I will love to hear your mature opinion on this.
Thanks . You caused it at the beginning, 'cause why would you allow a man to drop your woman from work  . Obviously, she's hiding something from you. 1 Like |
| Re: I Suspect My Fianceé Is Cheating On Me With Her Bestie Banker by Enbrain21(m): 9:01am On Mar 25, 2022 |
Remman:
Well, just so you know... Women denies cheating until caught RED HANDED. Just use a paid spy app on her, get your evidence straight before you end it. Please which spy app would you suggest? |
| Re: I Suspect My Fianceé Is Cheating On Me With Her Bestie Banker by OyeofIkoTuN(m): 9:32am On Mar 25, 2022 |
Loud it...after you na you biko Microwhy:
Downgrade the relationship to the lowest level in your heart, smash her like a side chic which i bet will last longer and more enjoyable.
Stop fiancé/fiancee stuff right from your heart and treat her like an object without attaching anything to the relationship.
I bet, if she truly loves you, the truth will come out.
Use a mind game on yourself by telling your mind that she's nothing but a cheap girl in your neighbourhood.
Don't quarrel,don't argue and don't bother yourself about it. Turn her to side chic and continue your normal doings with her.
Don't hurry for main chic but you already know that she's a side chic awaiting main chic.
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| Re: I Suspect My Fianceé Is Cheating On Me With Her Bestie Banker by abokikhalifa: 9:36am On Mar 25, 2022 |
Netmuch:
Hi fellow nairalanders,
I and my fiance were both bankers,I brought her in town and God used me for her to secure a job,where I used to stay was a bit further to our work place ,so their is another banker guy who has a crv Honda car that usually drop her in the morning at her office whom she later became close friends with,although dey do call them selves whenever the guy is about leaving his house to pick up my fiancee, which I was aware of.however suddenly I realized that my fiancee what's app chat is always cleared not to let me see their chats which I suspected a foul play,but the worst came last week when I was trying to get my car engine oil and I was approaching her ,she was calling the guy ,as I near her to eavesdrop on what she was talking with the guy ,she quickly ends the call. i got angry that why will she not let me hear their conversation if truly she has nothing to do with the guy ,I challenged her but she insisted nothing was going on between them that she had to end the call on my arrival which she has always call in my presence .I don't want to be a fool as am about to end the relationship ,but I guess I need your honest and positive response on this matter why she had to do what she did. I am a very simple guy and I believe every one should have their freedom. And I don't cheat .
I will love to hear your mature opinion on this.
Thanks . Fucking simp, you have helped her climb the ladder and it's just a matter of time before she dumps you. She uses you to get to a point and it's time to move o. Ladies are smarter than you think. 19 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: I Suspect My Fianceé Is Cheating On Me With Her Bestie Banker by Rickmann: 10:19am On Mar 25, 2022 |
Netmuch:
Hi fellow nairalanders,
I and my fiance were both bankers,I brought her in town and God used me for her to secure a job,where I used to stay was a bit further to our work place ,so their is another banker guy who has a crv Honda car that usually drop her in the morning at her office whom she later became close friends with,although dey do call them selves whenever the guy is about leaving his house to pick up my fiancee, which I was aware of.however suddenly I realized that my fiancee what's app chat is always cleared not to let me see their chats which I suspected a foul play,but the worst came last week when I was trying to get my car engine oil and I was approaching her ,she was calling the guy ,as I near her to eavesdrop on what she was talking with the guy ,she quickly ends the call. i got angry that why will she not let me hear their conversation if truly she has nothing to do with the guy ,I challenged her but she insisted nothing was going on between them that she had to end the call on my arrival which she has always call in my presence .I don't want to be a fool as am about to end the relationship ,but I guess I need your honest and positive response on this matter why she had to do what she did. I am a very simple guy and I believe every one should have their freedom. And I don't cheat .
I will love to hear your mature opinion on this.
Thanks . What advice do you need? Isn't the red flag bold enough for you to see? Mtchewww! 1 Like |
| Re: I Suspect My Fianceé Is Cheating On Me With Her Bestie Banker by Shadysen: 10:27am On Mar 25, 2022 |
U shoot urself |
| Re: I Suspect My Fianceé Is Cheating On Me With Her Bestie Banker by cuba62(m): 10:48am On Mar 25, 2022 |
otipoju:
Exactly. Unless you have hard undeniable proof, she will deny and be more careful.
A marrief woman recently contacted my married friend that she wants to start sleeping with him because the were old lovers as teenagers. That she will get a second phone dedicated to them and it will be always in her desk at work so the husband will never ever find out.
Mad o 
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| Re: I Suspect My Fianceé Is Cheating On Me With Her Bestie Banker by FuckDModz: 10:50am On Mar 25, 2022 |
Netmuch:
Hi fellow nairalanders,
I and my fiance were both bankers, I brought her in town and God used me for her to secure a job.
Where I used to stay was a bit further to our work place, so their is another banker guy who has a CR-V Honda car that usually drops her in the morning at her office whom she later became close friends with, although dey do call themselves whenever the guy is about leaving his house to pick up my fiancee, which I was aware of.
However, suddenly I realized that my fiancee WhatsApp chat is always cleared not to let me see their chats which I suspected a foul play, but the worst came last week when I was trying to get my car engine oil and I was approaching her, she was calling the guy, as I near her to eavesdrop on what she was talking with the guy, she quickly ends the call. I got angry that why will she not let me hear their conversations if truly she has nothing to do with the guy. I challenged her but she insisted nothing was going on between them that she had to end the call on my arrival which she has always call in my presence.
I don't want to be a fool as am about to end the relationship, but I guess I need your honest and positive response on this matter why she had to do what she did. I am a very simple guy and I believe every one should have their freedom. And I don't cheat.
I will love to hear your mature opinion on this.
Thanks. This is how they will fvck your wife later today. If you like don’t confront the guyman. 5 Likes 1 Share 
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| Re: I Suspect My Fianceé Is Cheating On Me With Her Bestie Banker by Toma2: 10:51am On Mar 25, 2022 |
Netmuch:
Hi fellow nairalanders,
I and my fiance were both bankers, I brought her in town and God used me for her to secure a job.
Where I used to stay was a bit further to our work place, so their is another banker guy who has a CR-V Honda car that usually drops her in the morning at her office whom she later became close friends with, although dey do call themselves whenever the guy is about leaving his house to pick up my fiancee, which I was aware of.
However, suddenly I realized that my fiancee WhatsApp chat is always cleared not to let me see their chats which I suspected a foul play, but the worst came last week when I was trying to get my car engine oil and I was approaching her, she was calling the guy, as I near her to eavesdrop on what she was talking with the guy, she quickly ends the call. I got angry that why will she not let me hear their conversations if truly she has nothing to do with the guy. I challenged her but she insisted nothing was going on between them that she had to end the call on my arrival which she has always call in my presence.
I don't want to be a fool as am about to end the relationship, but I guess I need your honest and positive response on this matter why she had to do what she did. I am a very simple guy and I believe every one should have their freedom. And I don't cheat.
I will love to hear your mature opinion on this.
Thanks. No time for stories, Quit so she can move on with the other guy. She dey use you 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: I Suspect My Fianceé Is Cheating On Me With Her Bestie Banker by kokomilala(m): 10:51am On Mar 25, 2022 |
There is a greater likely hood they they are shagging.See,there is nothing like besties. These guys have sex with each other ,and that's putting it midly. I don't know what brings a man and a woman closer together than sex. 11 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: I Suspect My Fianceé Is Cheating On Me With Her Bestie Banker by Justinlean02(m): 10:52am On Mar 25, 2022 |
Ladies, men treat love the way y'all treat sex. It takes a woman time before she decides whether she'll allow a man to have sex with her. She'll calculate and assess and think and doubt and convince herself and doubt again, until she finally agrees. That's if she even agrees. That's exactly the same way men treat love. A woman can meet a man and fall in love with him in 2 hours time. Then she'll expect the man to fall in love with her that quickly too. Oh, no, it doesn't work that way. The way a woman calculates with sex is the way a man calculates with love. He'll have to do a lot of calculation and try to convince himself to embark on that journey. That's because men love systematically. 28 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: I Suspect My Fianceé Is Cheating On Me With Her Bestie Banker by bigdammyj: 10:52am On Mar 25, 2022 |
Noted |
| Re: I Suspect My Fianceé Is Cheating On Me With Her Bestie Banker by Winters23: 10:52am On Mar 25, 2022 |
[s] Netmuch:
Hi fellow nairalanders,
I and my fiance were both bankers, I brought her in town and God used me for her to secure a job.
Where I used to stay was a bit further to our work place, so their is another banker guy who has a CR-V Honda car that usually drops her in the morning at her office whom she later became close friends with, although dey do call themselves whenever the guy is about leaving his house to pick up my fiancee, which I was aware of.
However, suddenly I realized that my fiancee WhatsApp chat is always cleared not to let me see their chats which I suspected a foul play, but the worst came last week when I was trying to get my car engine oil and I was approaching her, she was calling the guy, as I near her to eavesdrop on what she was talking with the guy, she quickly ends the call. I got angry that why will she not let me hear their conversations if truly she has nothing to do with the guy. I challenged her but she insisted nothing was going on between them that she had to end the call on my arrival which she has always call in my presence.
I don't want to be a fool as am about to end the relationship, but I guess I need your honest and positive response on this matter why she had to do what she did. I am a very simple guy and I believe every one should have their freedom. And I don't cheat.
I will love to hear your mature opinion on this.
Thanks. [/s] Religious fanatics always have a way of bringing God into their immorality. You helped her secure a job just for pusssy and you say God used you. Lols Well, not your wife, not your woman. Legally speaking 8 Likes |
| Re: I Suspect My Fianceé Is Cheating On Me With Her Bestie Banker by ExtremeDot: 10:53am On Mar 25, 2022 |
If you suspect, then, she's cheating. 1 Like |
| Re: I Suspect My Fianceé Is Cheating On Me With Her Bestie Banker by TOPCRUISE(m): 10:53am On Mar 25, 2022 |
Uncle96:
Why would you allow another man to be dropping your woman off at work everyday ? His fiancee for that matter. And not wife o |
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| Re: I Suspect My Fianceé Is Cheating On Me With Her Bestie Banker by Shukusheka(m): 10:54am On Mar 25, 2022 |
Why do sane people still come to Nairaland to ask for relationship advice? I just browsed through the first page, all the comments there are completely stupid and not one was addressing the Op's problem. Such a waste of time. 5 Likes |
| Re: I Suspect My Fianceé Is Cheating On Me With Her Bestie Banker by Justinlean02(m): 10:54am On Mar 25, 2022 |
To a woman, love is all about "butterflies in her stomach" and emotions here and there. To a man, love is logic. A lot of sense needs to go into that shit. That's why it takes time to enter and believe me, it also takes time to leave. Because of how easily a woman can fall for a man, a woman can fall in love 26 times in her lifetime. But a man will fall in love just once. The rest is just management. Love determines how a woman will treat a man. A woman can move mountains for a man because she's in love. A man can do the same too but most times, a man can be doing things for a woman he's not even in love with. He doesn't even need to like her that much. 20 Likes 1 Share |
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| Re: I Suspect My Fianceé Is Cheating On Me With Her Bestie Banker by iLegendd(m): 10:54am On Mar 25, 2022 |
I didn't read, but with the title, I already know she is cheating. Sex with that bestie is even sweeter. She reveals more info to him than to you. Infact, two of them gossip you a lot. They're like partners-in-crime. The funny thing is, no matter how many million times you accuse her, she'll deny, starts crying and says, "Don't you trust me? I can't believe you don't trust me." My brother, it's part of the game. Speaking as an insider. Read this post and thank me 20 times later: https://www.nairaland.com/6894605/18-sex-4-lives-secret 23 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: I Suspect My Fianceé Is Cheating On Me With Her Bestie Banker by jude33084(m): 10:54am On Mar 25, 2022 |
Netmuch:
Hi fellow nairalanders,
I and my fiance were both bankers, I brought her in town and God used me for her to secure a job.
Where I used to stay was a bit further to our work place, so their is another banker guy who has a CR-V Honda car that usually drops her in the morning at her office whom she later became close friends with, although dey do call themselves whenever the guy is about leaving his house to pick up my fiancee, which I was aware of.
However, suddenly I realized that my fiancee WhatsApp chat is always cleared not to let me see their chats which I suspected a foul play, but the worst came last week when I was trying to get my car engine oil and I was approaching her, she was calling the guy, as I near her to eavesdrop on what she was talking with the guy, she quickly ends the call. I got angry that why will she not let me hear their conversations if truly she has nothing to do with the guy. I challenged her but she insisted nothing was going on between them that she had to end the call on my arrival which she has always call in my presence.
I don't want to be a fool as am about to end the relationship, but I guess I need your honest and positive response on this matter why she had to do what she did. I am a very simple guy and I believe every one should have their freedom. And I don't cheat.
I will love to hear your mature opinion on this.
Thanks. 1 Like 
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| Re: I Suspect My Fianceé Is Cheating On Me With Her Bestie Banker by TUTU147: 10:55am On Mar 25, 2022 |
You have already settle her by giving her a job, look for another girl and give another job while your fellow men are in need of job but you prefer women.enjoy your reward bro. 7 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: I Suspect My Fianceé Is Cheating On Me With Her Bestie Banker by Ofadaman(m): 10:55am On Mar 25, 2022 |
I hate to break it to you, but he's fvking her in that car. I used to drop off a lady at work as well, it didn't take time for those late night and early morning commute, conversations and stop by to get food/drinks to turn into something else, even though I know she has a bf who calls every morning and evening. One Friday night while I was driving , she move her hands over to my dick and was stroking it, I had to drive to a dark corner park the car and give her what she wanted. Soon it became a normal thing till I left the job. If she's clearing off chats , making hiding calls etc, she's hiding something and obviously fvking the guy.
Good luck trying to keep a naija girl without money. 37 Likes 4 Shares |
| Re: I Suspect My Fianceé Is Cheating On Me With Her Bestie Banker by ChristineC: 10:55am On Mar 25, 2022 |
if your heart tells you she's cheating, then she is.
finish! 2 Likes |
| Re: I Suspect My Fianceé Is Cheating On Me With Her Bestie Banker by Berankis: 10:55am On Mar 25, 2022 |
Netmuch:
Hi fellow nairalanders,
I and my fiance were both bankers, I brought her in town and God used me for her to secure a job.
Where I used to stay was a bit further to our work place, so their is another banker guy who has a CR-V Honda car that usually drops her in the morning at her office whom she later became close friends with, although dey do call themselves whenever the guy is about leaving his house to pick up my fiancee, which I was aware of.
However, suddenly I realized that my fiancee WhatsApp chat is always cleared not to let me see their chats which I suspected a foul play, but the worst came last week when I was trying to get my car engine oil and I was approaching her, she was calling the guy, as I near her to eavesdrop on what she was talking with the guy, she quickly ends the call. I got angry that why will she not let me hear their conversations if truly she has nothing to do with the guy. I challenged her but she insisted nothing was going on between them that she had to end the call on my arrival which she has always call in my presence.
I don't want to be a fool as am about to end the relationship, but I guess I need your honest and positive response on this matter why she had to do what she did. I am a very simple guy and I believe every one should have their freedom. And I don't cheat.
I will love to hear your mature opinion on this.
Thanks. It's most likely what you are afraid of. They are getting involved with each other. So this is what I will suggest you do. Cut her off from going with the guy and watch her reaction. She would object and mostly will lead to a misunderstanding. Well... I believe that's your confirmation. I don't know how you want to do it, but don't accept a cheating fiancee. It would get worse in marriage. Marriage is full of challenges by default, don't let anyone add cheating to it please. 18 Likes 1 Share |
