| Re: I Suspect My Fianceé Is Cheating On Me With Her Bestie Banker by Funkyswagzz(m): 9:49pm On Mar 25, 2022 |
killmods:
Big fool Oga go and rest abeg.. u r too old for the shit |
| Re: I Suspect My Fianceé Is Cheating On Me With Her Bestie Banker by zoroby(m): 10:03pm On Mar 25, 2022 |
Funkyswagzz:
Listen any woman that love will do the right thing when u caution them.. no one is perfect. If she is stubborn that is when u discard her. So what do suggest? Does cheating on a guy that got her a job shows any sign of love? Is that what it mean to love in this generation? |
| Re: I Suspect My Fianceé Is Cheating On Me With Her Bestie Banker by Munzy14(m): 10:05pm On Mar 25, 2022 |
Uncle96:
Why would you allow another man to be dropping your woman off at work everyday ? As in eeh?  Na small thing dey hook women. |
| Re: I Suspect My Fianceé Is Cheating On Me With Her Bestie Banker by Funkyswagzz(m): 10:13pm On Mar 25, 2022 |
zoroby:
Does cheating on a guy that got her a job shows any sign of love? Is that what it mean to love in this generation? Listen if he dump her based on suspicion he will definitely regret it later cos he is not even sure about she is cheating |
| Re: I Suspect My Fianceé Is Cheating On Me With Her Bestie Banker by Munzy14(m): 10:16pm On Mar 25, 2022 |
Netmuch:
Hi fellow nairalanders,
I and my fiance were both bankers, I brought her in town and God used me for her to secure a job.
Where I used to stay was a bit further to our work place, so their is another banker guy who has a CR-V Honda car that usually drops her in the morning at her office whom she later became close friends with, although dey do call themselves whenever the guy is about leaving his house to pick up my fiancee, which I was aware of.
However, suddenly I realized that my fiancee WhatsApp chat is always cleared not to let me see their chats which I suspected a foul play, but the worst came last week when I was trying to get my car engine oil and I was approaching her, she was calling the guy, as I near her to eavesdrop on what she was talking with the guy, she quickly ends the call. I got angry that why will she not let me hear their conversations if truly she has nothing to do with the guy. I challenged her but she insisted nothing was going on between them that she had to end the call on my arrival which she has always call in my presence.
I don't want to be a fool as am about to end the relationship, but I guess I need your honest and positive response on this matter why she had to do what she did. I am a very simple guy and I believe every one should have their freedom. And I don't cheat.
I will love to hear your mature opinion on this.
Thanks. God used you to secure the job for her...  Most ladies have a way of disappointing the very guy that they use to climb the social ladder..Or anyother height. Just pray you don't find yourself in that situation..Very bad she is drifting..That's if romance is not happening already.. If chats are cleared, Sorry man...Just sorry. If Any thing happens, just accept she isn't yours..But if she is yours, nothing will happen. 1 Like |
| Re: I Suspect My Fianceé Is Cheating On Me With Her Bestie Banker by Besto(m): 10:30pm On Mar 25, 2022 |
Netmuch:
Hi fellow nairalanders,
I and my fiance were both bankers, I brought her in town and God used me for her to secure a job.
Where I used to stay was a bit further to our work place, so their is another banker guy who has a CR-V Honda car that usually drops her in the morning at her office whom she later became close friends with, although dey do call themselves whenever the guy is about leaving his house to pick up my fiancee, which I was aware of.
However, suddenly I realized that my fiancee WhatsApp chat is always cleared not to let me see their chats which I suspected a foul play, but the worst came last week when I was trying to get my car engine oil and I was approaching her, she was calling the guy, as I near her to eavesdrop on what she was talking with the guy, she quickly ends the call. I got angry that why will she not let me hear their conversations if truly she has nothing to do with the guy. I challenged her but she insisted nothing was going on between them that she had to end the call on my arrival which she has always call in my presence.
I don't want to be a fool as am about to end the relationship, but I guess I need your honest and positive response on this matter why she had to do what she did. I am a very simple guy and I believe every one should have their freedom. And I don't cheat.
I will love to hear your mature opinion on this.
Thanks. 1 Like 
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| Re: I Suspect My Fianceé Is Cheating On Me With Her Bestie Banker by obontami: 10:51pm On Mar 25, 2022 |
Latakia:
� Some people will just be giving themselves unnecessary pressure for what they don't have control over. So, the man is to be blame in this situation right? |
| Re: I Suspect My Fianceé Is Cheating On Me With Her Bestie Banker by obontami: 10:55pm On Mar 25, 2022 |
Funkyswagzz:
You killed that relationship the moment u let that guy pick ur fiance... Obviously theres something goin on between them.. u beta confronted that dude to leave ur fiance alone if not u might end up loosing her He's not to be blamed to her unfaithfulness. She's just being a bitch that she has always been. He has already lost her. He should move the fucck on! 2 Likes |
| Re: I Suspect My Fianceé Is Cheating On Me With Her Bestie Banker by Funkyswagzz(m): 10:58pm On Mar 25, 2022 |
obontami:
He's not to be blamed to her unfaithfulness. She's just being a bitch that she has always been.
He has already lost her. He should move the fucck on! Experience is the best teacher |
| Re: I Suspect My Fianceé Is Cheating On Me With Her Bestie Banker by obontami: 10:58pm On Mar 25, 2022 |
treatise:
She may not be cheating but not comfortable discussing with the guy while you're around her which is likely borne out of awe for you. On another note, why is she deleting the chats of they're not "harmful"? Forget that thing. She's fuccking the guy. Make we no dey take say dog na monkey. 2 Likes |
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| Re: I Suspect My Fianceé Is Cheating On Me With Her Bestie Banker by Coinwarrior: 11:22pm On Mar 25, 2022 |
zaksman1960:
Life is too short for one to be disturbed over cheating issues... The world is becoming advance with technology u could easily track her chats and calls . Op should try installing Whatsapp web for Whatsapp scan , u get to see all chat as it comes in . Without any barrier of distance . how do I do that |
| Re: I Suspect My Fianceé Is Cheating On Me With Her Bestie Banker by VicM6: 11:32pm On Mar 25, 2022 |
Netmuch:
Hi fellow nairalanders,
I and my fiance were both bankers, I brought her in town and God used me for her to secure a job.
Where I used to stay was a bit further to our work place, so their is another banker guy who has a CR-V Honda car that usually drops her in the morning at her office whom she later became close friends with, although dey do call themselves whenever the guy is about leaving his house to pick up my fiancee, which I was aware of.
However, suddenly I realized that my fiancee WhatsApp chat is always cleared not to let me see their chats which I suspected a foul play, but the worst came last week when I was trying to get my car engine oil and I was approaching her, she was calling the guy, as I near her to eavesdrop on what she was talking with the guy, she quickly ends the call. I got angry that why will she not let me hear their conversations if truly she has nothing to do with the guy. I challenged her but she insisted nothing was going on between them that she had to end the call on my arrival which she has always call in my presence.
I don't want to be a fool as am about to end the relationship, but I guess I need your honest and positive response on this matter why she had to do what she did. I am a very simple guy and I believe every one should have their freedom. And I don't cheat.
I will love to hear your mature opinion on this.
Thanks. See brother wey mumu....you got angry nd challenge her that why would she drop the call when she saw you...chia....This Show's how weak you are..The first stupid step in life is to challenge a lady over a man. Who does that this 2022....instead of u to use ur big coconut brain nd think of the further steps to take, you went ahead nd challenge her without evidence.....chia, God bless my guy @ GP. He would act as if he knows nothing but deep down, he is planning something big but see this op, dey jump under woman skirt..... abeg shit o, no allow me shoot u. |
| Re: I Suspect My Fianceé Is Cheating On Me With Her Bestie Banker by obontami: 11:44pm On Mar 25, 2022 |
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| Re: I Suspect My Fianceé Is Cheating On Me With Her Bestie Banker by dynigoche: 11:48pm On Mar 25, 2022 |
it is simple, just set ur phone on record close to her, and leave the room for like 15minutes... you will get the gist 1 Like |
| Re: I Suspect My Fianceé Is Cheating On Me With Her Bestie Banker by Mypeople2(m): 11:54pm On Mar 25, 2022 |
Netmuch:
Hi fellow nairalanders,
I and my fiance were both bankers, I brought her in town and God used me for her to secure a job.
Where I used to stay was a bit further to our work place, so their is another banker guy who has a CR-V Honda car that usually drops her in the morning at her office whom she later became close friends with, although dey do call themselves whenever the guy is about leaving his house to pick up my fiancee, which I was aware of.
However, suddenly I realized that my fiancee WhatsApp chat is always cleared not to let me see their chats which I suspected a foul play, but the worst came last week when I was trying to get my car engine oil and I was approaching her, she was calling the guy, as I near her to eavesdrop on what she was talking with the guy, she quickly ends the call. I got angry that why will she not let me hear their conversations if truly she has nothing to do with the guy. I challenged her but she insisted nothing was going on between them that she had to end the call on my arrival which she has always call in my presence.
I don't want to be a fool as am about to end the relationship, but I guess I need your honest and positive response on this matter why she had to do what she did. I am a very simple guy and I believe every one should have their freedom. And I don't cheat.
I will love to hear your mature opinion on this.
Thanks. My guy na so my babe say marry her colleague in the office o in 2018.Don't worry he go soon clear for your eye 1 Like |
| Re: I Suspect My Fianceé Is Cheating On Me With Her Bestie Banker by Friend22(m): 12:25am On Mar 26, 2022 |
Netmuch:
Hi fellow nairalanders,
I and my fiance were both bankers, I brought her in town and God used me for her to secure a job.
Where I used to stay was a bit further to our work place, so their is another banker guy who has a CR-V Honda car that usually drops her in the morning at her office whom she later became close friends with, although dey do call themselves whenever the guy is about leaving his house to pick up my fiancee, which I was aware of.
However, suddenly I realized that my fiancee WhatsApp chat is always cleared not to let me see their chats which I suspected a foul play, but the worst came last week when I was trying to get my car engine oil and I was approaching her, she was calling the guy, as I near her to eavesdrop on what she was talking with the guy, she quickly ends the call. I got angry that why will she not let me hear their conversations if truly she has nothing to do with the guy. I challenged her but she insisted nothing was going on between them that she had to end the call on my arrival which she has always call in my presence.
I don't want to be a fool as am about to end the relationship, but I guess I need your honest and positive response on this matter why she had to do what she did. I am a very simple guy and I believe every one should have their freedom. And I don't cheat.
I will love to hear your mature opinion on this.
Thanks. Why are people always quick to come online and solicut for advhce from total strangers beats me. You don't have trusted people offline. Why are some of us behaving like babies. 1 Like |
| Re: I Suspect My Fianceé Is Cheating On Me With Her Bestie Banker by tunde1200(m): 3:01am On Mar 26, 2022 |
My belle want burst with laugh � Bigredmachine:
No mind am... You carry yam give goat make he keep for you... |
| Re: I Suspect My Fianceé Is Cheating On Me With Her Bestie Banker by BenlO(m): 3:08am On Mar 26, 2022 |
Uncle96:
Why would you allow another man to be dropping your woman off at work everyday ? Hahahaahaha |
| Re: I Suspect My Fianceé Is Cheating On Me With Her Bestie Banker by BenlO(m): 3:25am On Mar 26, 2022 |
[quote author=HitSong post=111344202]
She's CHEATING on you with that guy 99.9999% but it'll be difficult to catch her now because you already showed that you're suspecting her.
That's an average Nigerian girl for you.
Someone you're seriously dating for two years could have at least 5 bodycount within those two years and they'll still be saying that they're not prostitutes, yet they get "favour" from the people they're having affairs with.
I just tire for that gender...
The best thing you can do now is to find a way of hacking her phone. There's lots of premium apps that can do that....
When you catch her, make sure you don't forgive her. The mistake we always make is forgiving them. They believe that in the end they'll be forgiven and everyone would move on. That's why they continue to do it even when they know that what they're doing is wrong. The irony is that, 90% of girls that cheat can not tolerate cheating. They will frustrate you, manipulate and guilt-trip you until you give up...
When you catch them, don't forgive them.
If I were in your shoes, I'll waste her time more, turn her into my sex slave, impregnate her and make her keep the pregnancy for like 4 months before I dump her after by showing her proofs of her cheating spree...[/quote
Omor you no get Joy o... � 2 Likes |
| Re: I Suspect My Fianceé Is Cheating On Me With Her Bestie Banker by BenlO(m): 3:29am On Mar 26, 2022 |
Remman:
Well, just so you know... Women denies cheating until caught RED HANDED. Just use a paid spy app on her, get your evidence straight before you end it. [color=#000000][/color] Exactly, Dem too smart. |
| Re: I Suspect My Fianceé Is Cheating On Me With Her Bestie Banker by BenlO(m): 3:35am On Mar 26, 2022 |
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| Re: I Suspect My Fianceé Is Cheating On Me With Her Bestie Banker by jimcaddy(m): 4:49am On Mar 26, 2022 |
Well dont jump into conclusions yet. Still give her the benefit of the doubt and observe her well. If there is something fishy, she will make a mistake and you'll find out. But just dey observe for now. |
| Re: I Suspect My Fianceé Is Cheating On Me With Her Bestie Banker by Netmuch(m): 6:48am On Mar 26, 2022 |
How do I get a spy app,suggest for me abeg Remman:
Well, just so you know... Women denies cheating until caught RED HANDED. Just use a paid spy app on her, get your evidence straight before you end it. |
| Re: I Suspect My Fianceé Is Cheating On Me With Her Bestie Banker by dimejalex(m): 6:57am On Mar 26, 2022 |
HitSong:
Trash
90% of most of (average Nigerian girl) can only offer sex in a relationship.
That's like the only thing you people can bring to the table. For this reason, men have more excuse to cheat than you people. HOW DARE YOU OFFER THE ONLY THING YOU'RE OFFERING ME TO OTHER MEN AND STILL CONTINUE TO MANIPULATE ME TO STAY LOYAL AND COMMITTED TO YOU?
Any girl I catch will be a dead meat.� bruh what app can I use to hack my girl WhatsApp I’m suspecting
Besides, do you spread your legs for free? Don't you get "favour" from other men you have affairs with? |
| Re: I Suspect My Fianceé Is Cheating On Me With Her Bestie Banker by dimejalex(m): 6:57am On Mar 26, 2022 |
HitSong:
Trash
90% of most of (average Nigerian girl) can only offer sex in a relationship.
That's like the only thing you people can bring to the table. For this reason, men have more excuse to cheat than you people. HOW DARE YOU OFFER THE ONLY THING YOU'RE OFFERING ME TO OTHER MEN AND STILL CONTINUE TO MANIPULATE ME TO STAY LOYAL AND COMMITTED TO YOU?
Any girl I catch will be a dead meat.� bruh what app can I use to hack my girl WhatsApp I’m suspecting
Besides, do you spread your legs for free? Don't you get "favour" from other men you have affairs with? � bruh what app can I use to hack my girl WhatsApp I’m suspecting |
| Re: I Suspect My Fianceé Is Cheating On Me With Her Bestie Banker by Netmuch(m): 6:58am On Mar 26, 2022 |
You are right,I used to pick up a lady when we both got a car ,just for two days we start picking her up ,my girl said she doesn't like the way the lady looked at me sexually,which I am sure the lady didn't . Why will she do that ? Focusmind:
There is no need worrying yourself. You will just develop HBP for nothing.
If your instinct tells you so, bro, call it quit. There is no need wasting time. Once I start having trust issues on someone, my brother, I don move be that. There is no need waiting for any explanation. For the trust issues to have even arisen, then something must be wrong somewhere. People in relationship should never give the other party any concern to worry. Once there is a concern, trust is already broken.
Alternatively, if you could and is within your moral tolerance level, befriend another girl and be carrying and dropping the lady, with the full knowledge of your fiance. Before you knew it, your fiance will start getting interested in your affairs with the lady. No time please. |
| Re: I Suspect My Fianceé Is Cheating On Me With Her Bestie Banker by Netmuch(m): 7:10am On Mar 26, 2022 |
I don't have a car then, now I got mine be and I have relocated to another place. MansoryMX:
You created the room for another man to take away your woman from you. First of all allowing her to be picked every morning when you sef get car! Wtf dude!! That guy don collect your woman from you. Secondly! Them nor dey teach woman you wan marry how to fish! She will definitely leave the boat!! Person wey you for open shop for! If you truly wants to marry her. My wife wanted a bank job after we got married I refused and opened a shop for her. Today she is doing well in her shop and we have no issues. Especially trust issues like this because it is bound to happen the moment you allowed your wife work in a bank! Let alone a fiancée. NEXT TIME! DONT ALLOW YOUR NEXT WOMAN BE FRIENDS WITH FELLOW MAN |
| Re: I Suspect My Fianceé Is Cheating On Me With Her Bestie Banker by Came4amo: 7:11am On Mar 26, 2022 |
Netmuch:
I allow her because then I don't have a car, and like I said ,our residence is very far away to our workplace,I once follow the guy too in his car as he drop both of us at work but most of the time my fiancee follow the guy because the guy always left home very early and the guys place of work is along the same route with my fiancee .it is very difficult to get a bike at our street then that's why I tuned to relax to allow my fiancee to follow her every morning Bro I know how you feel Please firstly she cannot be living withyou anymore.. let her carry her own weight ... that's why u haven't bought a car yet .. its car first before woman .. always |
| Re: I Suspect My Fianceé Is Cheating On Me With Her Bestie Banker by Came4amo: 7:13am On Mar 26, 2022 |
Netmuch:
I don't have a car then, now I got mine be and I have relocated to another place. It's not his fault it's the woman who is disloyal .. if you stay in someone's house .. and you claim to love him .. even if you see someone better than your man .. loyalty says you stay with him and grow with him .. |
| Re: I Suspect My Fianceé Is Cheating On Me With Her Bestie Banker by Netmuch(m): 7:27am On Mar 26, 2022 |
Lol...vexer no vex o.i already relocated from the area,I have my car now and we both go to work together now. Oyiboman69:
reverse the situation, let her wait for bike or other means of transport or now that you have a car,she should Wait for you. Narrow out the possibility of you getting hold of her,put it in a direct warning that she should never go close to that car again and make sure she delete his contact and anything that will connect them .take charge and behave like a mad man just to set things straight. I don't know men will be behaving like sissy,do you want him to take your girl and then come back here and complain to us?. abeg I dey vex for you.... |
| Re: I Suspect My Fianceé Is Cheating On Me With Her Bestie Banker by zoroby(m): 7:35am On Mar 26, 2022 |
Funkyswagzz:
Listen if he dump her based on suspicion he will definitely regret it later cos he is not even sure about she is cheating I don't think there's anything to regret. Enough good minds have given him advise on what to do. He should first confirm his suspicion and then discard her. Life is hard already abeg |
