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They are probably scared of the expenses that comes with it

porthouse7:
wait until u are 40 and lonely, u will have rethink

Women emotional mind games with being alone

Why are you people so scared of being alone?

You are mostly alone in this life. You will even be buried in that coffin alone so what’s the fuss and anxiety?

Even some people I know in that s*it stake institution called Marriage are alone.

Fear of being alone (which is utter nonsense) shouldn’t even be a criteria for marriage.

If you said having children in a union then that’s a good point.

Nasri100:
Women emotional mind games with being alone

Why are you people so scared of being alone?

You are mostly alone in this life. You will even be buried in that coffin alone so what’s the fuss and anxiety?

Even some people I know in that s*it stake institution called Marriage are alone.

Fear of being alone (which is utter nonsense) shouldn’t even be a criteria for marriage.

If you said having children in a union then that’s a good point.

am not woman, children alone can not make a home, u will realize this fact when u are in ur 40s

tayepop:
I have realised so many of my friends and colleagues at over 30 years are still single, this doesn't use to be the case.

Because marriageable women are hard to find.

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Not necessarily Stingy. @30+ there is a high chance that Family will stop supporting you or if you have any honor & Pride, you will stop expecting any support from family.

Ink4Hope:
Omoh I'm not yet 30 but I can see myself in that shoes Man

I'm so scared of commitment, the fear scares me

Work harder , leave a responsible life and open ur eyes wide when u re choosing.

porthouse7:
wait until u are 40 and lonely, u will have rethink

taa..scam..rubbish. na una line wey una dey use for men to make them have a rethink, it will not work..

Any lady that tells me wait until you are 40 and lonely, na to carrry bucket stone am..she dey mad

Minime10:
Marriage is no achievement and besides, it is not even any criterier for making heaven if there is a place like that.
The word marriage doesn't even make any sense to me.
So marry ya marry and stop hyping the nonsense

when u Marry right u ll realize it's an achievement...

falcon01:
Because men have realised that;
1. They have alot of time from 20 to 50 years they can still marry
2. Marriage is a waste of time money and effort
3. Getting married early is a waste of your youthful age
4. The man is Mostly on the giving end in Marriage
5. Marriage favours women more than it favours men
6. They want to break the loop

A man cannot get married anytime he wants. Max age limit is 40....

But he can add to his concubine up to any age... be God fearing tho

Marriage? Hmmn

When guys start to know that they are men, when they start to reasoning, why they called "married man responsible man". When they realize that they are respective leaders in that small units called nuclear family, not only leaders but role models.

By then, marriage will be more stable and enjoyable,...for, they will work harder to fend for their family and leave responsible life as role models and above all they will open their eyes wide when choosing life partners, they would not only take consideration of today wen choosing life partners but future as well

because we are looking for money

The only reason so that is simply because Nigeria is trash many male in 30s are not married because they can’t even feed there self and the cost of things in Nigeria is not friendly most of the guys in 30s have one or two child somewhere if the system is not corrrupt as this many guy go don marry tai tai many deh fear even girls now if you don’t have money or source of income which girl go marry you

It's better they should be single jare

Single guys especially the rich ones are having the time of their lives unlike married men

Married men are being denied sex by their wife

Married men spend most of the money

Married men now have wife who don't want to cook, clean, wash etc all in the name of equality

So what are men now benefiting?

The present times aren't making things easier

tayepop:
I have realised so many of my friends and colleagues at over 30 years are still single, this doesn't use to be the case.

Marriage is overrated...Lagos girls are full of shit...I need peace and growth in my life abeg.

That's because they want women like their mothers.

There are so many reasons to that question, but I think that one of the reasons is the financial difficulty it takes for one to get prepared for marriage.

You can't just get married without having something financially stable, in our present economic situation it's very difficult. That's why you can still see someone at the age of 35 living and fully dependant on his parents.

While in some European countries people at the age of 18, 19, 20 are already in their own apartment.

The economy is bad. People can barely feed themselves to talk of raising a family.

The fear of daughters of Eve is the beginning of wisdom

illicit:
Olosho don plenty pass b4

....My brother na olosho dey wake me up with her call by 5am telling me that she is coming to my place...what then is the need of marriage

In the old days, the goal was marriage but these days, men are driven by other goals and sometimes marriage could be a distraction. Again we have seen enough broken marriages. These days, everyone is careful about entering into a marriage.

porthouse7:
wait until u are 40 and lonely, u will have rethink

I'm 42 years old, I have a fantastic career and I live very comfortably. Although I have a 13 year old daughter already. I am very happy and fulfilled. What you said up there makes no sense.

MrBrownJay1:
...because marriage is overrated and many dont need/want to get married until much later.

also, we have the sad deluded ones that are waiting to hit it big before getting married, not knowing they probably will never "hit it big"

and finally we have men who dont believe in marriage and therefore will just chop and clean mouth until they get to 80yrs old, then find one Regina something to marry, just to flaunt it in the face of all the young boys in town, lol.

It's overrated and you want to have it much later.
You need a knock on your block head

The only gain available to a man in marriage is his offspring. The rest is trash.

tayepop:
I have realised so many of my friends and colleagues at over 30 years are still single, this doesn't use to be the case.

the day you realize that marriage only benefit that vagina entity, that's the very day you know peace

I date you, I take you out
I buy you things
I visited your parents with gift
I arrange for traditional marriage
I arrange for white marriage
The only thing that vagina entity do is open her community hoe and give birth to probably a bastard

I feed the the child
I pay school fee
I take care of hospital bill
I buy the female baboons clothes and other expenses
I pay house rent.
The only thing that vagina entity do is to nag the hell out of the man, watch those foolish Nigeria movie, paint her useless face and open her hoe for more children to come into this world, and if so lucky the child belong to you


Ask any marriage men and you will see that there are full of regret and even considering divorce if not for the child they have to those vagina entity.

Marriage favour not we men and there is no any benefit in marrying

Even the bible said is better to be single than to marry

Unsimp yourself and know this simple truth

tayepop:
I'm also single, I asked because these same guys still believe in the concept of marriage but are still single. For me, I don't believe in the concept of marriage.

You will later