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LIVINGICON:
For the sake of your sanity, don't even think of anything long term with that girl. It is even good you got to know about her past on time. Just keep her aside as sex partner and be very careful of STDs.
Humans hardly change an ingrained behavior most especially a promiscuous lifestyle.

Be wise.

MadamVanessa:




Is there anyone both male and female that doesn't have a reckless past? personally, if I love , I love, I don't believe in the philosophy of digging one's past before settling down with the person; because to be very candid, there's nobody past that's is palatable.

Na sex she had no be say she kill person, or no be say she give you disease. Na knack she knack, u been de knack too before u even meet am. The abortion she committed, even house wives of today , commit abortion too. It's an old story.

Meeting you , means starting afresh with a new chapter. people with trust issue have the time of going back to dig at one's past and if look closely their past too may even be worse.




Look for more justifiable reason to jappa after knacking the poor girl, don't come up with this childish excuse.

MadamVanessa:




Is there anyone both male and female that doesn't have a reckless past? personally, if I love , I love, I don't believe in the philosophy of digging one's past before settling down with the person; because to be very candid, there's nobody past that's is palatable.

Na sex she had no be say she kill person, or no be say she give you disease. Na knack she knack, u been de knack too before u even meet am. The abortion she committed, even house wives of today , commit abortion too. It's an old story.

Meeting you , means starting afresh with a new chapter. people with trust issue have the time of going back to dig at one's past and if look closely their past too may even be worse.




Look for more justifiable reason to jappa after knacking the poor girl, don't come up with this childish excuse.

Officiallyme:
Hello guys, met this girl some time around January this year and asked her out and we started dating ever since

So recently, I got to know about her past. Her past was so reckless that it is giving me a second thought about everything, started having s*x at the age of 15 while in secondary school and travelling to see a lot of men whom she claimed was asking after her hand in marriage. This girl has slept with so many guys that it's freaking me out, funny thing is, she's been lying and hiding some things but as a smart guy, I've always had my way around her to tell me the truth.

She told me she did a "mistake" abortion for one of her boyfriends then and just last year December, she had s*x with a married man and she knew very well he was married. These are just few of the stuffs I recently found out about, I know it's all in the past and she claims she's changed and want a real relationship with me but I don't believe at all, she claims to love me so much and cannot do without me and honestly, I love her too but I'm scared this may just change a lot about everything.

I don't know what to do, I'm hurt and disappointed and I don't know what to do now. I just need someone to talk to me, please don't insult me, I just need some pieces of advise.

Thanks

Officiallyme:
Hello guys, met this girl some time around January this year and asked her out and we started dating ever since

So recently, I got to know about her past. Her past was so reckless that it is giving me a second thought about everything, started having s*x at the age of 15 while in secondary school and travelling to see a lot of men whom she claimed was asking after her hand in marriage. This girl has slept with so many guys that it's freaking me out, funny thing is, she's been lying and hiding some things but as a smart guy, I've always had my way around her to tell me the truth.

She told me she did a "mistake" abortion for one of her boyfriends then and just last year December, she had s*x with a married man and she knew very well he was married. These are just few of the stuffs I recently found out about, I know it's all in the past and she claims she's changed and want a real relationship with me but I don't believe at all, she claims to love me so much and cannot do without me and honestly, I love her too but I'm scared this may just change a lot about everything.

I don't know what to do, I'm hurt and disappointed and I don't know what to do now. I just need someone to talk to me, please don't insult me, I just need some pieces of advise.

Thanks

rickleye:
I'll tell you a story... there was this lady who played " hard to get " one of many. She would later tell me that I was " too nice " & polite and tht she was not used to that. She was used to "bad boys " persona. In any case, once we started dating she would tell me her past . When we cuddle she would say mum sends her greetings and confess that she loves me and that she did this or that in her past. ( Had an abortion, had sex with this dude or that ) and she will keep wanting assurances that I wouldn't leave her or discard her because of her past.

Not to sound like a religious nut - But if Jesus loved us while we were yet sinners. Then babe - My love for you is not based on past relationships but in the now. I would chide her and say " Girl you bad o " and we laugh but then she would ask - do I still love her, in which I would respond. yes !

The most important thing is that she is with you Now !!!
As long as she does not have any affliction that cant deal with - Can she still have kids, or any virus which attacks the immune system but most importantly you both are compatible. Then enjoy the time you have you both have and see where it leads both.

angiemartinez:
I really do not think her past matters in as much as she is trying to start a fresh. He who is without sin should cast the first stone as the holy book says.

My fear is not weather you can continue with her, but how you can continue with her without reminding her of her past which she is trying hard not to remember.

Should you choose to continue with her, pls love her unconditionally.

khreus:
I was actually enjoying it till i got to the third paragragh. Why do we drag Jesus into every conversation.
If his mental health would remain intact that is, he lack imagination, he may continue with the relationship, anything otherwise he might want to consider taking the next TURN. Diving scripturally here(to my knowledge), the only case which I know was brother Hosea vs one sister my body-my pride like that.However his case was more like following God’s directive rather his personal preference.

Sister charity wey don see everything finish shouldn’t be with brother John wey neva see anything. It’s a mismatch pls

Connected1:


You are really funny, how you deviated from the actual topic made me laugh.

The main reason we are advising him is because of the one reason you stated up there, loose women like her will get you another man's child that's a fact you can't argue unless she truly loves you.

But what can't be changed is that they have sweet vagina walls that would make their exes came back for more and you can't satisfy her because she has gulped in divks that the sizes are much bigger than yours, so she must go outside.

Moreover they can't raise good kids because they know not good morals.

That's the sad reality, it's better you let her be than claim ownership to a public cargo.

Ishilove:
This is why you should keep your past mistakes between you and your God because God is merciful; Man is not.

Officiallyme:
Hello guys, met this girl some time around January this year and asked her out and we started dating ever since

So recently, I got to know about her past. Her past was so reckless that it is giving me a second thought about everything, started having s*x at the age of 15 while in secondary school and travelling to see a lot of men whom she claimed was asking after her hand in marriage. This girl has slept with so many guys that it's freaking me out, funny thing is, she's been lying and hiding some things but as a smart guy, I've always had my way around her to tell me the truth.

She told me she did a "mistake" abortion for one of her boyfriends then and just last year December, she had s*x with a married man and she knew very well he was married. These are just few of the stuffs I recently found out about, I know it's all in the past and she claims she's changed and want a real relationship with me but I don't believe at all, she claims to love me so much and cannot do without me and honestly, I love her too but I'm scared this may just change a lot about everything.

I don't know what to do, I'm hurt and disappointed and I don't know what to do now. I just need someone to talk to me, please don't insult me, I just need some pieces of advise.

Thanks

Iyaebe:
Haven't you also been sleeping around? what makes yours better than hers? if you don't love her then let her go,a fornicator cannot be condemning another fornicator,lailai.

qtguru:
Personally ,I feel much more happier in a relationship than alone, cuz i mean you have someone who cares about you.

DrLevi:
Well there are friends, family and/or colleagues that care about you

Doesn't seem to justify the cost of a relationship for what is readily available elsewhere, for cheaper, with less mentally wrecking effect that tends to comes with terrible relationships

Or maybe I'm just slow with these things

MadamVanessa:




Is there anyone both male and female that doesn't have a reckless past? personally, if I love , I love, I don't believe in the philosophy of digging one's past before settling down with the person; because to be very candid, there's nobody past that's palatable.

Na sex she had no be say she kill person, or no be say she give you disease. Na knack she knack, u been de knack too before u even meet am. The abortion she committed, even house wives of today , commit abortion too. So It's an old story.

Meeting you , means starting afresh with a new chapter. people with trust issue have the time of going back to dig at one's past and if look closely their past too may even be more messy.




Look for more justifiable reason to jappa after knacking the poor girl, don't come up with this childish and RECKLESS excuse.

qtguru:
You will see what I mean in the future, it's all a phase. I had the same views too way earlier on Nl

khreus:
I was actually enjoying it till i got to the third paragragh. Why do we drag Jesus into every conversation.
If his mental health would remain intact that is, he lack imagination, he may continue with the relationship, anything otherwise he might want to consider taking the next TURN. Diving scripturally here(to my knowledge), the only case which I know was brother Hosea vs one sister my body-my pride like that.However his case was more like following God’s directive rather his personal preference.

Sister charity wey don see everything finish shouldn’t be with brother John wey neva see anything. It’s a mismatch pls

Officiallyme:
Hello guys, met this girl at to do now. I just need someone to talk to me, please don't insult me, I just need some pieces of advise.

Thanks

rickleye:
I'll tell you a story... there was this lady who played " hard to get " one of many. She would later tell me that I was " too nice " & polite and tht she was not used to that. She was used to "bad boys " persona. In any case, once we started dating she would tell me her past . When we cuddle she would say mum sends her greetings and confess that she loves me and that she did this or that in her past. ( Had an abortion, had sex with this dude or that ) and she will keep wanting assurances that I wouldn't leave her or discard her because of her past.

Not to sound like a religious nut - But if Jesus loved us while we were yet sinners. Then babe - My love for you is not based on past relationships but in the now. I would chide her and say " Girl you bad o " and we laugh but then she would ask - do I still love her, in which I would respond. yes !

The most important thing is that she is with you Now !!!
As long as she does not have any affliction that you cant deal with - Can she still have kids, or any virus which attacks the immune system but most importantly are you both compatible ?. Then enjoy the time you both have and see where it leads to.

2ndchildhood:
The situation am in ATM.. because with a girl having multiple sexual relationship in the past and high body count, they is a high possibility of her cheating in marriage.. they are not use to one man

Moloso:
See them trying to justify their reckless pass.



I no get rough pass make I tell you, and as a lady if your pass is rough I no get any business with you

advanceDNA:
Genuinely left her ways??..it’s a lie...sexual appetite doesn’t reset...
...a man/woman that has gotten used to jumping from on díck/pvssy to another should be a no go area for someone that wants a peaceful relationship and peace of mind

....that’s why we have broken marriages and paternity fraud everywhere...

Dah mofo na dunce.

Change koor....
APC niiiii

mrksquare:
If she divulged all these to you, it means she is very transparent. There is no saint in this world. She has seen it all. Is her type that end up being a good wife. The choice is yours.

Officiallyme:
Hello guys, met this girl some time around January this year and asked her out and we started dating ever since

So recently, I got to know about her past. Her past was so reckless that it is giving me a second thought about everything, started having s*x at the age of 15 while in secondary school and travelling to see a lot of men whom she claimed was asking after her hand in marriage. This girl has slept with so many guys that it's freaking me out, funny thing is, she's been lying and hiding some things but as a smart guy, I've always had my way around her to tell me the truth.

She told me she did a "mistake" abortion for one of her boyfriends then and just last year December, she had s*x with a married man and she knew very well he was married. These are just few of the stuffs I recently found out about, I know it's all in the past and she claims she's changed and want a real relationship with me but I don't believe at all, she claims to love me so much and cannot do without me and honestly, I love her too but I'm scared this may just change a lot about everything.

I don't know what to do, I'm hurt and disappointed and I don't know what to do now. I just need someone to talk to me, please don't insult me, I just need some pieces of advise.

Thanks

bisqit:
have fùcked the girl i disvirgined a million times. When she got married i fùcked her, cum on her face on her wedding nite.