"I love her too but I'm scared this may just change a lot about everything". you see Mr lover boy its okay to love o but do you have what it takes to keep her and i don't mean you good heart or good looks what i mean is money cause that's the only thing girls like her are attracted to yea she might like you as a nice guy but sadly that's not enough to keep her she would always cheat on you with someone who spends on her and this would still continue after marriage. So mr lover boy piece of advice date her but don't lover her to the extent you would be planning a future there is no future with girls like these only heart break. Think Man Think!!!!!!!

Officiallyme:

I don't know what to do, I'm hurt and disappointed and I don't know what to do now. I just need someone to talk to me, please don't insult me, I just need some pieces of advise.

Thanks

What to do is:

1. Never fall in love — only like

2. Don't ask a woman to be your girlfriend — act as her boyfriend from the day you met her and start doing things boyfriends do even though the friendship isn't official yet

3. Be her partner-in-crime to make her open up about her past and if you don't like it, you can keep her as a friend and move to another girl — afterall, nothing is official yet

Most of you men cage yourself into an exclusive relationship too early even before you know about the person.

I don't pity men who make this mistake — they're too needy and desperate to be in a relationship for my liking.

MadamVanessa:




Is there anyone both male and female that doesn't have a reckless past? personally, if I love , I love, I don't believe in the philosophy of digging one's past before settling down with the person; because to be very candid, there's nobody past that's is palatable.

Na sex she had no be say she kill person, or no be say she give you disease. Na knack she knack, u been de knack too before u even meet am. The abortion she committed, even house wives of today , commit abortion too. It's an old story.

Meeting you , means starting afresh with a new chapter. people with trust issue have the time of going back to dig at one's past and if look closely their past too may even be worse.




Look for more justifiable reason to jappa after knacking the poor girl, don't come up with this childish excuse.

girls know a man with a sexual past is still whole so they are always ready to forgive.

But a girl with a sexual past is an overused damaged meat.

Im tired of people discussing fornication with zero conscience and lot of excitement., when God said dont fornicate its for our good...sin affect oneself and and others,because we are connected like a spider web..anytin happenin on one line of the web affect the whole web somehow..,sinful men fornicate with girls and women,that are the future wifes of their fellow men,but they are worried about the body count of their partner, that hypocrisy at its peak..the cycles goes spreading unfaithfulness among mankind....REPENT AND SURRENDER TO THE LORD JESUS CHRIST. DONT DIE A SINNER.

What if she didn't tell you, how would you know?

bisqit:
have fùcked the girl i disvirgined a million times. When she got married i fùcked her, cum on her face on her wedding nite.

And you're so so proud saying it.

May God forgive you

Officiallyme:
Hello guys, met this girl some time around January this year and asked her out and we started dating ever since

So recently, I got to know about her past. Her past was so reckless that it is giving me a second thought about everything, started having s*x at the age of 15 while in secondary school and travelling to see a lot of men whom she claimed was asking after her hand in marriage. This girl has slept with so many guys that it's freaking me out, funny thing is, she's been lying and hiding some things but as a smart guy, I've always had my way around her to tell me the truth.

She told me she did a "mistake" abortion for one of her boyfriends then and just last year December, she had s*x with a married man and she knew very well he was married. These are just few of the stuffs I recently found out about, I know it's all in the past and she claims she's changed and want a real relationship with me but I don't believe at all, she claims to love me so much and cannot do without me and honestly, I love her too but I'm scared this may just change a lot about everything.

I don't know what to do, I'm hurt and disappointed and I don't know what to do now. I just need someone to talk to me, please don't insult me, I just need some pieces of advise.

Thanks

Baba she's for the street..

She's an igbo girl right??

Nonexisting:
Na so. He should leave everything he does and turn to a psychiatrist for her not to go back to her olosho ways.

Guy, don't be a judge
The guy talk say the babe love am and he loves her back
People change

Officiallyme:
Hello guys, met this girl some time around January this year and asked her out and we started dating ever since

So recently, I got to know about her past. Her past was so reckless that it is giving me a second thought about everything, started having s*x at the age of 15 while in secondary school and travelling to see a lot of men whom she claimed was asking after her hand in marriage. This girl has slept with so many guys that it's freaking me out, funny thing is, she's been lying and hiding some things but as a smart guy, I've always had my way around her to tell me the truth.

She told me she did a "mistake" abortion for one of her boyfriends then and just last year December, she had s*x with a married man and she knew very well he was married. These are just few of the stuffs I recently found out about, I know it's all in the past and she claims she's changed and want a real relationship with me but I don't believe at all, she claims to love me so much and cannot do without me and honestly, I love her too but I'm scared this may just change a lot about everything.

I don't know what to do, I'm hurt and disappointed and I don't know what to do now. I just need someone to talk to me, please don't insult me, I just need some pieces of advise.

Thanks

Is she from Kogi state and does her name start with J.

You don't need advice rather you need to reset ur brain because it's faulty.

Officiallyme:
Hello guys, met this girl some time around January this year and asked her out and we started dating ever since

So recently, I got to know about her past. Her past was so reckless that it is giving me a second thought about everything, started having s*x at the age of 15 while in secondary school and travelling to see a lot of men whom she claimed was asking after her hand in marriage. This girl has slept with so many guys that it's freaking me out, funny thing is, she's been lying and hiding some things but as a smart guy, I've always had my way around her to tell me the truth.

She told me she did a "mistake" abortion for one of her boyfriends then and just last year December, she had s*x with a married man and she knew very well he was married. These are just few of the stuffs I recently found out about, I know it's all in the past and she claims she's changed and want a real relationship with me but I don't believe at all, she claims to love me so much and cannot do without me and honestly, I love her too but I'm scared this may just change a lot about everything.

I don't know what to do, I'm hurt and disappointed and I don't know what to do now. I just need someone to talk to me, please don't insult me, I just need some pieces of advise.

Thanks

You are scared, you don love up with a runs babe.


Humana don't change sha, they either Improve to a better version or become worst.

Keyyom22:
Is there any lady in this country that hv not involve in the bolded?

I don’t know oooooo

Iyaebe:
Haven't you also been sleeping around? what makes yours better than hers? if you don't love her then let her go,a fornicator cannot be condemning another fornicator,lailai.

You took that straight outta the mouth of Jesus Christ of Nazareth. That is exactly what makes a classic hypocrite. Condemning others for same sin you commit.

You're a mumu man

Officiallyme:
Hello guys, met this girl some time around January this year and asked her out and we started dating ever since

So recently, I got to know about her past. Her past was so reckless that it is giving me a second thought about everything, started having s*x at the age of 15 while in secondary school and travelling to see a lot of men whom she claimed was asking after her hand in marriage. This girl has slept with so many guys that it's freaking me out, funny thing is, she's been lying and hiding some things but as a smart guy, I've always had my way around her to tell me the truth.

She told me she did a "mistake" abortion for one of her boyfriends then and just last year December, she had s*x with a married man and she knew very well he was married. These are just few of the stuffs I recently found out about, I know it's all in the past and she claims she's changed and want a real relationship with me but I don't believe at all, she claims to love me so much and cannot do without me and honestly, I love her too but I'm scared this may just change a lot about everything.

I don't know what to do, I'm hurt and disappointed and I don't know what to do now. I just need someone to talk to me, please don't insult me, I just need some pieces of advise.

Thanks

Your babe still dey primary school be that...

Anyway, all these shouldn't matter, but the real problem is that they hardly change.

Also, most times such people lose one vital aspect of success: which is the ability to desire a good goal, work hard, and achieve it.

You may be dealing with a 'burnt-out' person.

advanceDNA:


U have seen the red flag...
Don’t marry a retired oloshò for a wife and come and complain later....

Nigga move.....

OP she was is one of 'em

Run

Officiallyme:
Hello guys, met this girl some time around January this year and asked her out and we started dating ever since

So recently, I got to know about her past. Her past was so reckless that it is giving me a second thought about everything, started having s*x at the age of 15 while in secondary school and travelling to see a lot of men whom she claimed was asking after her hand in marriage. This girl has slept with so many guys that it's freaking me out, funny thing is, she's been lying and hiding some things but as a smart guy, I've always had my way around her to tell me the truth.

She told me she did a "mistake" abortion for one of her boyfriends then and just last year December, she had s*x with a married man and she knew very well he was married. These are just few of the stuffs I recently found out about, I know it's all in the past and she claims she's changed and want a real relationship with me but I don't believe at all, she claims to love me so much and cannot do without me and honestly, I love her too but I'm scared this may just change a lot about everything.

I don't know what to do, I'm hurt and disappointed and I don't know what to do now. I just need someone to talk to me, please don't insult me, I just need some pieces of advise.

Thanks

Break up with her na? Wetin concern people concern this one na.

But love conquers all things, if you really love her you'd make her life better and forget her past. She didn't hurt you in anyway, but if you feel it will keep on hurting you even in the future, kindly quit the relationship already!



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Dnt let any one guilt trip you.. for every action there are consequences. She had lived her reckless life and has realized it’s time to settle down, den look for a Simpish fool to carry her baggage. My advise for you is don’t save her ; girls like that don’t change. Sexual promiscuity hardly dies, it’s continues for a lifetime.

rickleye:


I'll tell you a story... there was this lady who played " hard to get " one of many. She would later tell me that I was " too nice " & polite and tht she was not used to that. She was used to "bad boys " persona. In any case, once we started dating she would tell me her past . When we cuddle she would say mum sends her greetings and confess that she loves me and that she did this or that in her past. ( Had an abortion, had sex with this dude or that ) and she will keep wanting assurances that I wouldn't leave her or discard her because of her past.

Not to sound like a religious nut - But if Jesus loved us while we were yet sinners. Then babe - My love for you is not based on past relationships but in the now. I would chide her and say " Girl you bad o " and we laugh but then she would ask - do I still love her, in which I would respond. yes !

The most important thing is that she is with you Now !!!
As long as she does not have any affliction that cant deal with - Can she still have kids, or any virus which attacks the immune system but most importantly you both are compatible. Then enjoy the time you have you both have and see where it leads both.

urrggh

I give u honest advice....overlook her past.

We all make mistakes, but the real mistake, is failure to learn from one's mistakes.

But if she does any of those things now she met u, then quit the relationship ASAP before you die before your time of heart attack.

Thank you.








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So recently, I got to know about her past. Her past was so reckless that it is giving me a second thought about everything, started having s*x at the age of 15 while in secondary school and travelling to see a lot of men whom she claimed was asking after her hand in marriage. This girl has slept with so many guys that it's freaking me out, funny thing is, she's been lying and hiding some things but as a smart guy, I've always had my way around her to tell me the truth.

She told me she did a "mistake" abortion for one of her boyfriends then and just last year December, she had s*x with a married man and she knew very well he was married. These are just few of the stuffs I recently found out about, I know it's all in the past and she claims she's changed and want a real relationship with me but I don't believe at all, she claims to love me so much and cannot do without me and honestly, I love her too but I'm scared this may just change a lot about everything.

I don't know what to do, I'm hurt and disappointed and I don't know what to do now. I just need someone to talk to me, please don't insult me, I just need some pieces of advise.

Thanks[/quote]

Mcslize:


Exactly. Many men have been wifing hoes these days. It will only take the grace of God for such girls never to cheat if any gullible guy wife them.

They will act like good girls to you but if you get to know what they do in private with other men, you will be shocked.

I won't advise any guy to settle down with a girl that have terrible past. It doesn't always end well. They will never change. They might stay faithful for the early first 1-2 years of the marriage, but it will look like they are caged, and they will start seeking fun and eventually go back to their past lives.

Was it not some few days ago I saw one post in the front page of a man whose wife was jumping fence just to escape and prevent the man from checking her phone?

When a man marries a hoe, what does he expect?

And when a woman marries a brostitute, what happens? Abi are these not men sleeping around with women or what are you saying?

He should leave her if he wants to, nobody is stopping him.
You men will sleep around with lots of women during your youths and you decide to marry a virgin and you expect this same virgin to be faithful in your marriage. LOL

Who we go ask?

Wassup?









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Please, me I don't have a reckless past

The worst thing I have done in this life, is drink two bottles of Smirnoff, so, there are people that do not have reckless pasts.

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advanceDNA:


U have seen the red flag...
Don’t marry a retired oloshò for a wife and come and complain later....

Nigga move.....

This Bro has said my mind.

Don't try to get serious because if she gets pregnant then you are hooked and doomed forever.

When her past starts haunting her make sure you aren't part of it.

Just smash and pass, it's what she was made for, don't like to those women's advice.

They would never advise their blood brothers that way.

U be brother wey deserve to be crown king of mumu with koboko. Other people chop clean mouth some even convert her womb to cemetry where they buried their innocent child. E reach ur turn wey u go chop as others chop clean mouth go front u begin fall in love and to top it all she succesfully manipulate u into believing she's serious with u and to prove to me the level of ur dumbness u open that nonesence u call mouth de tell me say she claim to be serious with u. Why u no ask the manipulator why she no de serious with other guys wey tear her kpekus with reckless aboundon. I pray to u where ever u are recieve sense oh u stupid son of stupidity. Shout amen and be free.

Connected1:

This Bro has said my mind.

Don't try to get serious because if she gets pregnant then you are hooked and doomed forever.

When her past starts haunting her make sure you aren't part of it.

Just smash and pass.

And you all will advise women to stick with a man when his own past starts to haunt him in form of having a child with someone else, saying as long as long as it didn’t happen when they were together then she should forgive him, talking about Love and shit.

Double standards everywhere

The person in question is GF not fiance.

In Nigeria, trenches to be precise, u don't look at shit of the past, u look at what can be achieved or gain from each other.

In the west, in the process of dating each other, u spill out ur past to each other.

The guy in question loves her but he is jealous of the past times the girl had with other guys.

I am a man and am telling u from experience.

Only when u feel that u want to marry a lady or GF, that's when u dig the past, even in ur church, u will be told to come and confess to each other secrets and about ur escapades.

safarigirl:


Stop giving people terrible advise please.

You cannot make plans for the future if you do not have knowledge of the past. It is only a fool that ignores the past and thinks their future will be problem free

If you are with someone, you are with every version of them, both their past, present and future and you need to be comfortable with every page of their story to love them fully.

If somebody was sexually assaulted in the past, it will reflect in their present and possibly their future. You must have the past in mind, so, you know how to handle their present and future.

Forget the past na wetin make some people dump Buhari on top our head.

The past is relevant and will always be relevant, it must not be forgotten

The person in question is GF not fiance.

In Nigeria, trenches to be precise, u don't look at shit of the past, u look at what can be achieved or gain from each other.

In the west, in the process of dating each other, u spill out ur past to each other.

The guy in question loves her but he is jealous of the past times the girl had with other guys.

I am a man and am telling u from experience.

Only when u feel that u want to marry a lady or GF, that's when u dig the past, even in ur church, u will be told to come and confess to each other secrets and about ur escapades.

We all have our opinion.

safarigirl:


Stop giving people terrible advise please.

You cannot make plans for the future if you do not have knowledge of the past. It is only a fool that ignores the past and thinks their future will be problem free

If you are with someone, you are with every version of them, both their past, present and future and you need to be comfortable with every page of their story to love them fully.

If somebody was sexually assaulted in the past, it will reflect in their present and possibly their future. You must have the past in mind, so, you know how to handle their present and future.

Forget the past na wetin make some people dump Buhari on top our head.

The past is relevant and will always be relevant, it must not be forgotten

Some guys , una dey try sha . Girl wey some guys don knack front right left up down center , na that kind girl you go carry go give you mama and papa say yo won marry. Una dey try oo

Officiallyme:
Hello guys, met this girl some time around January this year and asked her out and we started dating ever since

So recently, I got to know about her past. Her past was so reckless that it is giving me a second thought about everything, started having s*x at the age of 15 while in secondary school and travelling to see a lot of men whom she claimed was asking after her hand in marriage. This girl has slept with so many guys that it's freaking me out, funny thing is, she's been lying and hiding some things but as a smart guy, I've always had my way around her to tell me the truth.

She told me she did a "mistake" abortion for one of her boyfriends then and just last year December, she had s*x with a married man and she knew very well he was married. These are just few of the stuffs I recently found out about, I know it's all in the past and she claims she's changed and want a real relationship with me but I don't believe at all, she claims to love me so much and cannot do without me and honestly, I love her too but I'm scared this may just change a lot about everything.

I don't know what to do, I'm hurt and disappointed and I don't know what to do now. I just need someone to talk to me, please don't insult me, I just need some pieces of advise.

Thanks

She got a bomb pussy am sure that's why you're here whining like a simpleton

Let the poor girl GO!