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Re: How Do I Deal With An Emotionally Cheating Husband by Yamprince(m): 3:40pm On Apr 01, 2022 |
You keep stumbling? The first thing you need to do is to stop stumbling into his messages.....for your sanity. However I still think your husband is cheating on you already. You need to decide if you will walk away, live with that lifestyle or work with him to stop it |
Re: How Do I Deal With An Emotionally Cheating Husband by pasuma(m): 3:40pm On Apr 01, 2022 |
My advice is for you to stop checking his phone.. unless of course you want to continue is this pain.. Cheerycherry: |
Re: How Do I Deal With An Emotionally Cheating Husband by Kobojunkie: 3:42pm On Apr 01, 2022 |
Ndidi2:I know women who kneeled for decades yet nothing changed except the man got more refined in his game. Why you are here declaring that this works makes me wonder if you are in anyway still connected to reality at all. 3 Likes |
Re: How Do I Deal With An Emotionally Cheating Husband by Kobojunkie: 3:44pm On Apr 01, 2022 |
Mercisharelove:Are those women who celebrate many decades of marriage marred by repeated fornication on the part of their spouse the more trained married women? 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Deal With An Emotionally Cheating Husband by Ficeo(m): 3:45pm On Apr 01, 2022 |
My sister, you are disturbing yourself. It's a simple matter to handle. I once sent a message to a lady I buy drugs from in a pharmacy. It ended with ... good night baby. My wife saw it. Two days later, she pretended to reply a cousin and wrote one epistle and ended it up with God bless you my Love. She gave it to me to proofread before she could send it out. Hia! I shouted which one is my Love, who is this guy? It's Dozie naaa! Which Dozie I Insisted? The one you know. It's a lie give me the number. She refused. My sister, after 30 mins, she sent the message I sent to that lady. Who is this lady I called baby? If I call another man my Love will that be okay by you? I explained and apologized. We married since 2017. That incident happened in 2018. Since then, such never occurred again till date. Just apply this format. His answers will help you know how to talk to him. Most importantly, go down on your knees and pray to God about it. It is well with your home, Amen. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Deal With An Emotionally Cheating Husband by Govocrete: 3:48pm On Apr 01, 2022 |
My cousin from Delta married a Yuroba lady and the have been married peacefully for more than 20 yrs. She always advise ladies, if you need to enjoy your marriage, live long and be healthy. Don’t check your husband’s phone and don’t worry yourself over what he does with other ladies as long as he fulfill his responsibility as a man at home. I know of another couple, any time the husband is traveling or claim he is traveling, she pack condom in his bag and tell him in any case use condom. Madam, life is too short to worry yourself into depression. If you don’t see, you will not be heart broken. Tell yourself, it’s in every man DNA. This include our father but the trying to be a responsible men at home. If you must check his phone again, once you see those messages, tell him I just delete message from you phone you don’t want me to see. |
Re: How Do I Deal With An Emotionally Cheating Husband by tmoneyu: 3:53pm On Apr 01, 2022 |
Madam don't go to your husbands phone to avoid stories that touches the heart that's my advise for u, whatever he does is his Wahala, I can see u are a very good woman, so far he touches and kisses u, just occupy ur mind with other things and let him be |
Re: How Do I Deal With An Emotionally Cheating Husband by Kobojunkie: 3:57pm On Apr 01, 2022 |
tmoneyu:If it had been the wife doing the cheating, would you have given the same advice then? 6 Likes |
Re: How Do I Deal With An Emotionally Cheating Husband by Brighfuture(f): 4:10pm On Apr 01, 2022 |
Focus on yourself and your children if you have any... Get something doing to keep your self busy instead of looking at his phone here and there... Look good ... Eat good food and take care of yourself... No go give yourself heart attack. |
Re: How Do I Deal With An Emotionally Cheating Husband by Amumaigwe: 4:20pm On Apr 01, 2022 |
Cheerycherry: If he starts fiddling your phone for a living as you do, will he not also find chats that points to cheating: that is of you are as careless as your husband not to clean up afterwards? |
Re: How Do I Deal With An Emotionally Cheating Husband by tmoneyu: 4:27pm On Apr 01, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:na ur type dey mumu in marriage, oya go challenge him naa, he is the head of the house and she is the tail, concentrate in what makes u happy and stop going through his phone, u will use ur hand and pursue your self, forget all these dummies telling u dis or Dat, they have more complicated issues, focus on ur energy |
Re: How Do I Deal With An Emotionally Cheating Husband by Kobojunkie: 4:29pm On Apr 01, 2022 |
tmoneyu:Again...my question to you is simple here.... If it had been the wife doing the cheating, would you have given the same advice then? |
Re: How Do I Deal With An Emotionally Cheating Husband by zakkxx: 4:31pm On Apr 01, 2022 |
Madam if you livam nobody will marry you!! Na use and dumb men go just chop money run! Who want marry second hand! Show him love! Use good character to flug him! Pray and telling him your concern in a calm way! Massage his ego! Be very neat and clean! Brush before you go to bed!! No chip soup with Eru com clime bed without brushing!! Report him to your God and watch him obey and worship you like say u givam utumokpo! No allow devil use one useless girl to scatter your marriage!! U will be a fool to allow that!! |
Re: How Do I Deal With An Emotionally Cheating Husband by Kobojunkie: 4:34pm On Apr 01, 2022 |
Prenonjebose:You are right that the major problem is a lack of mental discipline and he could benefit from mental health counseling. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Deal With An Emotionally Cheating Husband by bepositive11: 4:37pm On Apr 01, 2022 |
If someone wants to cheat, they will cheat. If they don't value you, there's nothing you can do to stop them Don't try to change your husband. Accept that he is the way he is and act accordingly - leave him or live with it Cheerycherry: |
Re: How Do I Deal With An Emotionally Cheating Husband by IamGreen1(f): 4:37pm On Apr 01, 2022 |
Fahdiga: You're minding them, mtchewwww 3 Likes |
Re: How Do I Deal With An Emotionally Cheating Husband by Kobojunkie: 4:38pm On Apr 01, 2022 |
Realdeals:Would you have given this same advice if it had been a husband here complaining of catching his wife cheating in much the same way? 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Deal With An Emotionally Cheating Husband by Kobojunkie: 4:41pm On Apr 01, 2022 |
gabbasin:Did you even read her post at all? She already spoke severally to him about it but he has obviously refused to stop. Most men are cheaters.... is that reason enough for why a woman should resign herself to such a fate - living in what is a failed marriage? 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Deal With An Emotionally Cheating Husband by Kobojunkie: 4:44pm On Apr 01, 2022 |
headbasher96:Wait a minute. . You mean the texts aren't evidence enough of his cheating on her?, 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Deal With An Emotionally Cheating Husband by ehay(f): 4:45pm On Apr 01, 2022 |
As your waiting to catch him don't forget your yearly PELVIC, HPV and HIV Screening. |
Re: How Do I Deal With An Emotionally Cheating Husband by Kobojunkie: 4:47pm On Apr 01, 2022 |
Oloksin:The husband literally breaks his marriage vows everytime he engages in these communications with other women yet you are literally telling her all is good? If this had been a wife engaging in this, would you have said the same? 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Deal With An Emotionally Cheating Husband by headbasher96(m): 4:49pm On Apr 01, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:oga texts mean nothing to me if u are chating i will draw a snare for u and u will fall in it that is when i will decided what to do. Pls remember some people are just naughty nothing more marrying someone does not necessarily mean u want to turn them to slaves they have right to keep friend its their conduct that matter u know this archaic african mentality don block our eyes look at oyibo not that am comparing the whites with us but shey we want be like them |
Re: How Do I Deal With An Emotionally Cheating Husband by ehay(f): 4:49pm On Apr 01, 2022 |
[color=#006600][/color] gabbasin: Cheating puts the life of your partner in danger. HPV/cervical cancer is real. Condom does not protect you from it. If you love your partner, you will not cheat on them. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Deal With An Emotionally Cheating Husband by Kobojunkie: 4:52pm On Apr 01, 2022 |
Omotosho1090905:Peaceful life in what is a failed marriage? Even God who we are told hates divorce, allows those who belong to Him an out from marriage in the case of cheating, so isn't it a fallacy to claim existence of peace in a failed marriage situation? |
Re: How Do I Deal With An Emotionally Cheating Husband by Kobojunkie: 4:53pm On Apr 01, 2022 |
headbasher96:Ok, so if your galfriend or wife is sex-texting other men, it is all because the one is just naughty ? 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Deal With An Emotionally Cheating Husband by Jhayeahsam01(m): 4:54pm On Apr 01, 2022 |
Your husband na mumu Why he no de lock phone? U too no get work.. having time to search phone u be sarz? |
Re: How Do I Deal With An Emotionally Cheating Husband by TrebleChamp(m): 4:55pm On Apr 01, 2022 |
Cheerycherry:For the sake of your own sanity and for peace of mind, stop checking his phone. |
Re: How Do I Deal With An Emotionally Cheating Husband by Princewell2012(m): 4:57pm On Apr 01, 2022 |
kernniejay: What if he guy doesn't mean any of those words? He might be joking anyway maybe trying to get at his wife, otherwise he will password his phone. Believe me he might truly be joking with it. He intensionally want his wife to see it. There are one or two reasons why he is behaving that way which the op might not want to disclose here. |
Re: How Do I Deal With An Emotionally Cheating Husband by frozen70(f): 4:58pm On Apr 01, 2022 |
AdedoyinO: That's if the man have that sense to use protective measures |
Re: How Do I Deal With An Emotionally Cheating Husband by kurlz(f): 5:01pm On Apr 01, 2022 |
Cheerycherry: Sorry to say o but, he's a very useless man. Well this is my advice to you. If you like take it or not. It's not advisable you build with such a promiscuous man. Don't be surprised one day he will bring in another woman. So if you join resources with him in anyway make sure you have records. It happened to.my mums friend, thank God for the record the man wanted to throw her out, she provided the proves in court and their joint ownership We proven so he couldn't throw her out nor bring in the woman. Be very smart, ensure you have proves of every penny you spent or buy for any thing or project you do with him. Or you build your own totally separately. Some Men can be funny and unpredictable especially when they see a new pussy, that's, that's why some of them jam mean and diabolic women. Besides some can never be content with what they have so give yourself rest. My 2coin. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Deal With An Emotionally Cheating Husband by Kobojunkie: 5:03pm On Apr 01, 2022 |
Princewell2012:The husband is joking this while intentionally disrespecting his vows and his wife? Assume your own wife carried out similar prank on you and your marriage, sexting other men, would you be this relaxed about it? 3 Likes |
Re: How Do I Deal With An Emotionally Cheating Husband by Princewell2012(m): 5:07pm On Apr 01, 2022 |
ChoCho54:I rushed to open this thread thinking he catch her husband red handed , only to see is all about chating this and chating that. Believe me there is no good evidence that her husband is cheating on her. The man might just be doing it intentional after all for best reasons known to him. Otherwise he would have password his phone. 1 Like |
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