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Re: Young Lady Called Off Her Wedding Over Boyfriend's Constant Abuse (photos) by bonnyhope: 8:14am On Apr 14, 2022
Parisian:
Look at this animal.

Just go and marry your fellow man okay, cuz you don't deserve any woman.

Who let you out of cage this morning

You are supposed to be on chain

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Re: Young Lady Called Off Her Wedding Over Boyfriend's Constant Abuse (photos) by Nobody: 8:17am On Apr 14, 2022
Aonkuuse:
I think this young lady have made the best choice for herself. She called off her wedding that supposed to hold on Saturday over her boyfriend's constant beatings

Read her story below:



https://www.facebook.com/100023344715047/posts/1125662428221904/?app=fbl
Another sad tale averted. Way to go.
Re: Young Lady Called Off Her Wedding Over Boyfriend's Constant Abuse (photos) by marsup: 8:17am On Apr 14, 2022
Very good decision. It's better to remain single, than manage a toxic relationship, and then leave in a body bag.
Pls return the cursed bride price immediately without any further delay.
Go girl. You have made a lot of people proud.
Re: Young Lady Called Off Her Wedding Over Boyfriend's Constant Abuse (photos) by Abelino(m): 8:25am On Apr 14, 2022
Who are the we here ? You re the most foolish and stupid idiot to ever comment trash here on this platform.... Just imagine your justification.... You never Jam Sha... Na Untill you go hit cultist sister.
Kingcalls:
Women always think they are right ... what did u do?? Men don't show emotions when they are abused , they can't cry , so they rather will hit, its in our nature ...so y do women think they can just insult men and get away with it... as long as the world dont preach that women should also respect men and dont insult men, men will continue to hit women... they wise women will dodge confrontation to avoid violence , the foolish ones will think they can insult men and expect no reaction....

Domestic violence against women has increased since feminists started preaching that a woman should not be hit even if she abuses the man to the point where he is pushed to the wall... just look at the last 2 big brothers... look at how those women insulted those guys to the point that one of the guys started crying... women like that will easily get hit by a man cis men respond with violence when angry....its in a man's nature and women should understand it... this is y most men don't wanna even get married again...
Re: Young Lady Called Off Her Wedding Over Boyfriend's Constant Abuse (photos) by charlypoker(m): 8:27am On Apr 14, 2022
Another bride on a death roll have freed herself and escaped from the hands of her killers.

Congratulations, Sister. Shallom!
Re: Young Lady Called Off Her Wedding Over Boyfriend's Constant Abuse (photos) by Passionate888: 8:29am On Apr 14, 2022
See the guy nose sef. That girl get luck, people with that type of nose dey wicked die

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Re: Young Lady Called Off Her Wedding Over Boyfriend's Constant Abuse (photos) by PEXBlog(f): 8:29am On Apr 14, 2022
BluntTheApostle:


You obviously lack comprehension skills.

I only faulted your reasoning.

According to you, a man should verbally abuse when verbally abused.

Then, a woman should physically abuse when physically abused.

That is your argument. I only faulted it.

Which is why I suggested emotional intelligence as a skill worth acquiring.

You are right. Will you rest rest now? Good luck on your emotional intelligence.

Peace!
Re: Young Lady Called Off Her Wedding Over Boyfriend's Constant Abuse (photos) by Djponpin1(m): 8:34am On Apr 14, 2022
immortalcrown:
Okay. Next...

Leaving him is a good choice because a broken relationship is better than a broken marriage. Good luck in your marriage. But the problem is most humans, especially women, are insatiable. You have left him. If he gets another woman or gets richer, you will begin to regret leaving him.

I like the fact that you publicized this. If you mess up in your marriage, your marriage will remember this publicity and do what will vindicate the man you accuse now.

ADDED:
I have gotten 21 quotes and have no time to reply to the quotes one after another. Fools attack me because of my last paragraph where I addressed the lady's publicity of the case. The stupid attackers ignored where I say a broken relationship is better than a broken marriage. My last paragraph implies that she herself should not be abusive in her marriage since she left an abusive man. If she becomes abusive in her own marriage, this publicity will work against her. Tonto is an example. Tonto left her marriage and made the world see her estranged husband as a beast. The man has been living peacefully with another woman and Tonto has failed in her second marriage. This does not mean Churchil is innocent of her accusation. She might have said the truth against Churchil. She might have lied against Churchil. I was not there to know the truth. But whether she lied or not, her failed second marriage went viral because of her publicity against Churchil. So, if you publicize the weakness of your ex, be careful in handling your next partner, be you a man or a woman. The stupid attackers who accept only one-sided judgment and hate a balanced judgment should hug live energy transformers.

Thanks for your candid advice…..
Re: Young Lady Called Off Her Wedding Over Boyfriend's Constant Abuse (photos) by tonyson010(m): 8:37am On Apr 14, 2022
LilMissFavvy:
She is a very lucky woman. The sad thing is that a good percentage of Nigerian* men are like this man. The African tradition/culture was founded on pure misogyny/oppression of women, that's why mother's of old were grooming bad* husband's , poorly brought up sons who were taught that beating a wife is normal. SayNoToDomesticViolence!

Mine African culture never taught me that beating a woman is the best way or good. rather it teaches the man to learn maturity and tolerate his wife.
in my old culture, a man who comes of age is always given a pig to rear....this is to teach him how to tolerate. If he successfully rears the pig, then it means he is ready for marriage.

So far the man leads in everything pertaining relationship, marriage and in the union, he is supposed to remain the head and leader of the family. it is everywhere. if u don't like it, then take the initiative or remain single and do whatever u like without answering to anyone.

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Re: Young Lady Called Off Her Wedding Over Boyfriend's Constant Abuse (photos) by Slimwhyt(m): 8:38am On Apr 14, 2022
FutureIsFemale:
Nice move.
If I have my way I'd stay single forever.
These animals don't worth it.

He should be arrested and no refund of the bride price unless he has not had sex with you.

Wtf did I just read in the last sentence?
Re: Young Lady Called Off Her Wedding Over Boyfriend's Constant Abuse (photos) by Ishilove: 8:41am On Apr 14, 2022
Joseph1063:
Is that ur excuse of insulting ur man.. pls dear avoid insulting ur man. Then u have a beautiful family. U don't have to bring out the beast in man tru ur uncontrolled insults.
It's not about making excuses but your reaction to provocation. How do you handle provocation outside your home? Do you start fighting men who provoke you? I deliberately chose to use 'fighting' instead of 'beating' because you cannot 'beat' your fellow man; he will fight back and you may end up being the one beaten to stupor. Most women, unfortunately do not have the kind of strength men have because they are biologically built to be physically weaker than men, so if you know you can't just go out there and start beating men, then beating up a woman who you know cannot beat you back makes you a bully and a coward.

There are non-violent ways to deal with a verbally abusive partner so resorting to violence because she is 'insultive' is totally inexcusable.

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Re: Young Lady Called Off Her Wedding Over Boyfriend's Constant Abuse (photos) by Famous606: 8:45am On Apr 14, 2022
You made the best decision don't let any pastor,priest, Alfa, godmother, godfather talk you into going back,my dear the only way forward is forward.

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Re: Young Lady Called Off Her Wedding Over Boyfriend's Constant Abuse (photos) by Kisico: 8:47am On Apr 14, 2022
kushercain:
Any nigga that tries to lay a hand on any of my sis will get the Sonny Corleone treatment from me
Also make sure you don't lay your hand on another guy's sis.
Re: Young Lady Called Off Her Wedding Over Boyfriend's Constant Abuse (photos) by DrsultanNG: 8:50am On Apr 14, 2022
slawormiir:
Damnnn niggar
Nice...I hate domestic violence

I hate domestic violence with passion


First of all ....smoking weed makes you have a good sense of reasoning...
And secondly I can't beat a woman because I have lived with women almost all my life...I am the only male child among six children...
There are different ways to reprimand a woman for any wrong doing...don't beat them
bro try dey de honest all YAHOO BOYS are abusive take it to the bank.
Re: Young Lady Called Off Her Wedding Over Boyfriend's Constant Abuse (photos) by hakeemhakeem(m): 8:50am On Apr 14, 2022
the bill was cause of the beating
Re: Young Lady Called Off Her Wedding Over Boyfriend's Constant Abuse (photos) by Nobody: 8:51am On Apr 14, 2022
Visasolution048:

Which other part of the world do you know aside U.K and USA?
if you hit a lady in USA and UK you r done for. There laws there that protect ladies, although they tend to mlk men with it but still.



Here in Nigeria we don't have laws that protect women from men who beat n kill. Even if there is, it's as good as non existence.



May our sisters, friends and family not marry men who treat woken like animals.
Re: Young Lady Called Off Her Wedding Over Boyfriend's Constant Abuse (photos) by Juoflife1(f): 8:52am On Apr 14, 2022
If a woman insults you, insult her back or walk away. There is no excuse "WHATSOEVER" to hit another person.
Kingcalls:
Women always think they are right ... what did u do?? Men don't show emotions when they are abused , they can't cry , so they rather will hit, its in our nature ...so y do women think they can just insult men and get away with it... as long as the world dont preach that women should also respect men and dont insult men, men will continue to hit women... they wise women will dodge confrontation to avoid violence , the foolish ones will think they can insult men and expect no reaction....

Domestic violence against women has increased since feminists started preaching that a woman should not be hit even if she abuses the man to the point where he is pushed to the wall... just look at the last 2 big brothers... look at how those women insulted those guys to the point that one of the guys started crying... women like that will easily get hit by a man cis men respond with violence when angry....its in a man's nature and women should understand it... this is y most men don't wanna even get married again...

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Re: Young Lady Called Off Her Wedding Over Boyfriend's Constant Abuse (photos) by DrsultanNG: 8:59am On Apr 14, 2022
Ishilove:

It's not about making excuses but your reaction to provocation. How do you handle provocation outside your home? Do you start fighting men who provoke you? I deliberately chose to use 'fighting' instead of 'beating' because you cannot 'beat' your fellow man; he will fight back and you may end up being the one beaten to stupor. Most women, unfortunately do not have the kind of strength men because they are biologically built to be physically weaker than men, so if you know you can't just go out there and start beating men, then beating up a woman who you know cannot beat you back makes you a bully and a coward.

There are non-violent ways to deal with a verbally abusive partner so resorting to violence because she is 'insultive' is totally inexcusable.
Ishi I no dey support Violence against WOMAN or any Other living thing , but let me be very frank with you some women will disrespect you openly and insult the living hell out of you.


I have notice this first hand, a friend of mine who happen to be an Anglican Pastor try to correct his wife verbally about how she treat the members of the church he lead, the next thing is she started raining insult on him and accused him of not supporting her that he is even having an affair with some of the members, which me as a Muslim know my Pastor Friend to be very disciplined I that aspect I was a host that day on Health Awareness I have to calm the wife and talk to her after the service.

So just pray you have a woman that will keep her mouth shut when ever she is Angry in Public.
Re: Young Lady Called Off Her Wedding Over Boyfriend's Constant Abuse (photos) by Agbebakun22: 9:01am On Apr 14, 2022
FutureIsFemale:
Nice move.
If I have my way I'd stay single forever.
These animals don't worth it.

He should be arrested and no refund of the bride price unless he has not had sex with you.
no one is forcing u to marry oponu oshi

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Re: Young Lady Called Off Her Wedding Over Boyfriend's Constant Abuse (photos) by Nobody: 9:02am On Apr 14, 2022
FutureIsFemale:
Nice move.
If I have my way I'd stay single forever.
These animals don't worth it.

He should be arrested and no refund of the bride price unless he has not had sex with you.
I know you're joking grin
The guy go collect him money complete one shishi no go miss
Who calls off wedding and doesn't pay back the bride price
Re: Young Lady Called Off Her Wedding Over Boyfriend's Constant Abuse (photos) by Ishilove: 9:03am On Apr 14, 2022
DrsultanNG:
Ishi I no dey support Violence against WOMAN or any Other living thing , but let me be very frank with you some women will disrespect you openly and insult the living hell out of you.


I have notice this first hand, a friend of mine who happen to be an Anglican Pastor try to correct his wife verbally about how she treat the members of the church he lead, the next thing is she started raining insult on him and accused him of not supporting her that he is even having an affair with some of the members, which me as a Muslim know my Pastor Friend to be very disciplined I that aspect I was a host that day on Health Awareness I have to calm the wife and talk to her after the service.

So just pray you have a woman that will keep her mouth shut when ever she is Angry in Public.
I get your point and I totally agree with you that verbal abuse is unacceptable, but my point is you should handle provocation in your home the way you would normally handle it outside your home. There are ways you can deal with a woman with diarrhea of the mouth that will even be more effective than using your fists on her.
Re: Young Lady Called Off Her Wedding Over Boyfriend's Constant Abuse (photos) by Visasolution048: 9:04am On Apr 14, 2022
Fumiosasaki1:
if you hit a lady in USA and UK you r done for. There laws there that protect ladies, although they tend to mlk men with it but still.



Here in Nigeria we don't have laws that protect women from men who beat n kill. Even if there is, it's as good as non existence.



May our sisters, friends and family not marry men who treat woken like animals.

Amen to this oohhh..I asked that question because other part of the world to Nigerians doesn't exceed UK and US...
Re: Young Lady Called Off Her Wedding Over Boyfriend's Constant Abuse (photos) by Juoflife1(f): 9:06am On Apr 14, 2022
"But please whatever u do to him to make him best u I beg don't do it to d next man biko"
Some people are just plain stupid. You need a brain check undecided
VIKTO83:
U didbt call off any wedding as long as im concerned. From ur story he had paid bride price so he had married u. D wedding u are talking about is oyibo wearing white ceremony.
Anyways we are happy u have divorced. But please whatever u do to him to make him best u I beg don't do it to d next man biko. So u don't end up demonizing lot of men out there.

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Re: Young Lady Called Off Her Wedding Over Boyfriend's Constant Abuse (photos) by gosmoney(m): 9:11am On Apr 14, 2022
immortalcrown:
Okay. Next...

Leaving him is a good choice because a broken relationship is better than a broken marriage. Good luck in your marriage. But the problem is most humans, especially women, are insatiable. You have left him. If he gets another woman or gets richer, you will begin to regret leaving him.

I like the fact that you publicized this. If you mess up in your marriage, your marriage will remember this publicity and do what will vindicate the man you accuse now.

ADDED:
I have gotten 21 quotes and have no time to reply to the quotes one after another. Fools attack me because of my last paragraph where I addressed the lady's publicity of the case. The stupid attackers ignored where I say a broken relationship is better than a broken marriage. My last paragraph implies that she herself should not be abusive in her marriage since she left an abusive man. If she becomes abusive in her own marriage, this publicity will work against her. Tonto is an example. Tonto left her marriage and made the world see her estranged husband as a beast. The man has been living peacefully with another woman and Tonto has failed in her second marriage. This does not mean Churchil is innocent of her accusation. She might have said the truth against Churchil. She might have lied against Churchil. I was not there to know the truth. But whether she lied or not, her failed second marriage went viral because of her publicity against Churchil. So, if you publicize the weakness of your ex, be careful in handling your next partner, be you a man or a woman. The stupid attackers who accept only one-sided judgment and hate a balanced judgment should hug live energy transformers.
who knws if she has seen someone that promise her heaven and earth then decided to quit d wedding by dis grin
Re: Young Lady Called Off Her Wedding Over Boyfriend's Constant Abuse (photos) by ShaqFu: 9:14am On Apr 14, 2022
Ishilove:

So when you are provoked outside by your fellow men, do you rush to hit them, or is it only on women you flex your power with? Answer genuinely. Do you hit men when they insult you?
As regard the bolded. Yes some men do hit their fellow men when provoked. If you hung out in some places like beer parlours, bars and viewing centres. You'll find this occur very often, especially when there's a football match.

However, what I find disturbing is the ability of some women/girls to deliberately provoke men because they know the consequences if the man hit them. I've seen this one time too many.
Re: Young Lady Called Off Her Wedding Over Boyfriend's Constant Abuse (photos) by Jayzx: 9:15am On Apr 14, 2022
ShaqFu:
As regard the bolded. Yes some men do hit their fellow men when provoked. If you hung out in some places like beer parlours, bars and viewing centres. You'll find this occur very often, especially when there's a football match.

However, what I find disturbing is the ability of some women/girls to deliberately provoke men because they know the consequences if the man hit them. I've seen this one time too many.
Re: Young Lady Called Off Her Wedding Over Boyfriend's Constant Abuse (photos) by achimendy(m): 9:19am On Apr 14, 2022
Aonkuuse:
I think this young lady have made the best choice for herself. She called off her wedding that supposed to hold on Saturday over her boyfriend's constant beatings

Read her story below:



https://www.facebook.com/100023344715047/posts/1125662428221904/?app=fbl


From the decision you took it shows you have a functional brain.

An really happy for you.
Re: Young Lady Called Off Her Wedding Over Boyfriend's Constant Abuse (photos) by Rubyventures: 9:25am On Apr 14, 2022
excel101:
Liars, beating of women is now trending because Osinachi's case.

That means her death will not be in vain, other women will learn from it. Those who have been too blind to see that they have been abused can now see that its not normal and not good for the kids because they think that its normal and the circle begins.
Re: Young Lady Called Off Her Wedding Over Boyfriend's Constant Abuse (photos) by Rubyventures: 9:27am On Apr 14, 2022
ShaqFu:
As regard the bolded. Yes some men do hit their fellow men when provoked. If you hung out in some places like beer parlours, bars and viewing centres. You'll find this occur very often, especially when there's a football match.

However, what I find disturbing is the ability of some women/girls to deliberately provoke men because they know the consequences if the man hit them. I've seen this one time too many.

Those kind of relationships are toxic.
Re: Young Lady Called Off Her Wedding Over Boyfriend's Constant Abuse (photos) by Poleski: 9:29am On Apr 14, 2022
You made the right decision! Some mo*tonic women would've gone ahead and married their potential murderers, either because a stupid pastor said so or because they're too dumb and naive to believe the man would change.
Re: Young Lady Called Off Her Wedding Over Boyfriend's Constant Abuse (photos) by ehay(f): 9:33am On Apr 14, 2022
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Kingcalls:
Women always think they are right ... what did u do?? Men don't show emotions when they are abused , they can't cry , so they rather will hit, its in our nature ...so y do women think they can just insult men and get away with it... as long as the world dont preach that women should also respect men and dont insult men, men will continue to hit women... they wise women will dodge confrontation to avoid violence , the foolish ones will think they can insult men and expect no reaction....

Domestic violence against women has increased since feminists started preaching that a woman should not be hit even if she abuses the man to the point where he is pushed to the wall... just look at the last 2 big brothers... look at how those women insulted those guys to the point that one of the guys started crying... women like that will easily get hit by a man cis men respond with violence when angry....its in a man's nature and women should understand it... this is y most men don't wanna even get married again...


PLEASE MEN THAT CAN NOT STAND WOMEN AND THERE MOUTH SHOULD STAY AWAY FROM MARRIAGE, PERIOD.
Re: Young Lady Called Off Her Wedding Over Boyfriend's Constant Abuse (photos) by Skidee: 9:33am On Apr 14, 2022
immortalcrown:
Okay. Next...

Leaving him is a good choice because a broken relationship is better than a broken marriage. Good luck in your marriage. But the problem is most humans, especially women, are insatiable. You have left him. If he gets another woman or gets richer, you will begin to regret leaving him.

I like the fact that you publicized this. If you mess up in your marriage, your marriage will remember this publicity and do what will vindicate the man you accuse now.

ADDED:
I have gotten 21 quotes and have no time to reply to the quotes one after another. Fools attack me because of my last paragraph where I addressed the lady's publicity of the case. The stupid attackers ignored where I say a broken relationship is better than a broken marriage. My last paragraph implies that she herself should not be abusive in her marriage since she left an abusive man. If she becomes abusive in her own marriage, this publicity will work against her. Tonto is an example. Tonto left her marriage and made the world see her estranged husband as a beast. The man has been living peacefully with another woman and Tonto has failed in her second marriage. This does not mean Churchil is innocent of her accusation. She might have said the truth against Churchil. She might have lied against Churchil. I was not there to know the truth. But whether she lied or not, her failed second marriage went viral because of her publicity against Churchil. So, if you publicize the weakness of your ex, be careful in handling your next partner, be you a man or a woman. The stupid attackers who accept only one-sided judgment and hate a balanced judgment should hug live energy transformers.

"If he gets another woman or gets richer, you will begin to regret leaving him." If this bolded part is more reason the stupid attackers are angry, I can justify the bolded part. If not for material benefits or for getting an orgasm, what will make such a lady date the highly abusive man for more than a year? We can see the man's picture. We can see he is not all that physically attractive. So, what kept her in the relationship for more than a year? Any lady that decides to date a highly abusive man for up to a year does it either for material benefits or for sexual satisfaction, and such a lady will have interest in the man for a long time even after a breakup. If not that common sense is not common, those attacking me would have asked themselves why she dated him for more than a year.

You're just a mad man..
May every bad thing in life happen to you. Oloriburuku somebody.

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