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Guys, Do U Agree With His Point Of View? by Truvelisback(m): 5:42pm On Apr 15, 2022 |
Good day, fellas. A guy created a post on fb saying: It is not easy to be a man, that God should bless the works of our hands. A guy replied saying: Been a man was as easy as been a human, till men started creating traditions against themselves. Do u agree with him? 1 Like |
Re: Guys, Do U Agree With His Point Of View? by MrBrownJay1(m): 5:45pm On Apr 15, 2022 |
i fully agree.... being a human being is easy for all human beings, but the minute foolish men started creating yeye DOs and DONT, thats when shiiit got out of hands. biggest nonsense: man is the head of the family thus he has to provide for a woman/family (while wifey can stay home all day being an expert in telemundo, lol!) 10 Likes |
Re: Guys, Do U Agree With His Point Of View? by Pierocash(m): 5:54pm On Apr 15, 2022 |
It is not about the tradition men created. God made it so. And unto Adam he said, Because thou hast hearkened unto the voice of thy wife, and hast eaten of the tree, of which I commanded thee, saying, Thou shalt not eat of it: cursed is the ground for thy sake; in sorrow shalt thou eat of it all the days of thy life; Gen 3:17 3 Likes |
Re: Guys, Do U Agree With His Point Of View? by slawormiir: 5:57pm On Apr 15, 2022 |
Damnnn niggar Grab my weed to read comments This thread is damnnn educative 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Guys, Do U Agree With His Point Of View? by immortalcrown(m): 5:58pm On Apr 15, 2022 |
MrBrownJay1:DOs and DON'Ts are not the problem. Worshiping wealth and discriminating against the poor causes the problem. If the society is not irrationally competitive, nobody will be envious of another. And if there is no envy, there will be contentment. And when there is contentment, man will not face too much stress. And when life is not too stressful, nobody will resort to crime. The DOs and DON'Ts are there to possibly curtail the crimes inspired by envy. Who imposes those things on you? In other words, who jails you for not having those things? The answer is nobody except you yourself. You impose those things on yourself. If there is no discrimination between the rich and the poor, would you be desperate to have everything the rich have? If you are not desperate, would you put yourself through too much stress? 4 Likes |
Re: Guys, Do U Agree With His Point Of View? by MrBrownJay1(m): 6:04pm On Apr 15, 2022 |
immortalcrown: i think you are mistaking DOs/DONTs with RIGHT and WRONG. which is a completely different subject. 1 Like |
Re: Guys, Do U Agree With His Point Of View? by Nonexisting: 6:05pm On Apr 15, 2022 |
I agree. Since I stopped putting certain pressures on myself, my life has been easy. No woman no cry. I live for me and not for anybody else, no need to impress anyone. I love myself more than anyone or anything in this life so I look out for me before others. There are many principles I have now but these are just a few. 8 Likes |
Re: Guys, Do U Agree With His Point Of View? by immortalcrown(m): 6:07pm On Apr 15, 2022 |
MrBrownJay1:Define your DOs and DON'Ts and explain how they directly make life difficult. Do it to show how I mistake the two. Competition makes life stressful. Those who cannot cope with the stress either face poverty and discrimination or resort to crime. DOs and DON'Ts come in to control the crime. 1 Like |
Re: Guys, Do U Agree With His Point Of View? by Nobody: 6:08pm On Apr 15, 2022 |
You should also note that the ground was cursed for man's sake, in as much as the guy's reply make sense, it most times isn't easy for niggers out there... 2 Likes |
Re: Guys, Do U Agree With His Point Of View? by Truvelisback(m): 6:09pm On Apr 15, 2022 |
Pierocash:I get ur point, but this goes beyound that. This has to do with traditions layed down by men which is now haunting them or has become a burden on themselves. |
Re: Guys, Do U Agree With His Point Of View? by Truvelisback(m): 6:12pm On Apr 15, 2022 |
bukky1994:I know but the traditions men layed down is even making the curse worse. |
Re: Guys, Do U Agree With His Point Of View? by JovialJune(f): 6:18pm On Apr 15, 2022 |
Truvelisback: Apt!!! 1 Like |
Re: Guys, Do U Agree With His Point Of View? by headbasher96(m): 6:21pm On Apr 15, 2022 |
Life is only hard for men that want it to be look at yourself today is life that hard for u. Some men want to wallow in ignorance for the rest of their lives life is sweet and simple unless u want to cut your agbada according to another mans size |
Re: Guys, Do U Agree With His Point Of View? by Truvelisback(m): 6:24pm On Apr 15, 2022 |
immortalcrown: |
Re: Guys, Do U Agree With His Point Of View? by MrBrownJay1(m): 6:26pm On Apr 15, 2022 |
immortalcrown: DOs and DONTs are things that the world/society believe that you should have as a man..(aka money, a good job, a house, position, family etc) and/or things that you should do as a man (go to school, find a good woman, get married, have kids etc), before you can be viewed as a man....and IMHO whether you have/do it or not is irrelevant because you will still be a man. but what you described (aka discrimination/envy/crimes) is something that is "wrong" to do, thus a different issue entirely. the world/society doesnt have to tell us all that its wrong to steal and/or impose that i dont kill someone. as humans we all know that its wrong to do that. thus why i said that what you described is RIGHTs/WRONGs, not DOs /DONTs sadly, a great part of this issue is down to RELIGION. 1 Like |
Re: Guys, Do U Agree With His Point Of View? by Nobody: 6:26pm On Apr 15, 2022 |
its either you are a man or your not. to be a man u must hustle 1 Like |
Re: Guys, Do U Agree With His Point Of View? by Starboytwo(m): 6:30pm On Apr 15, 2022 |
Nonexisting:I like this principle very much. |
Re: Guys, Do U Agree With His Point Of View? by Pierocash(m): 6:36pm On Apr 15, 2022 |
Truvelisback:like what and what? |
Re: Guys, Do U Agree With His Point Of View? by immortalcrown(m): 6:42pm On Apr 15, 2022 |
MrBrownJay1:I wonder the dictionary you use for your English. In what you listed as DOs and DON'Ts, which ones are DOs and which ones are DON'Ts? DOs mean what you should do, not what you should have. DON'Ts mean what you should not do, not what you should not have. |
Re: Guys, Do U Agree With His Point Of View? by Truvelisback(m): 6:42pm On Apr 15, 2022 |
Pierocash:Like things they must do or have or what they must be. Take note of the word "Must". |
Re: Guys, Do U Agree With His Point Of View? by Truvelisback(m): 6:43pm On Apr 15, 2022 |
MrBrownJay1: |
Re: Guys, Do U Agree With His Point Of View? by Pierocash(m): 6:44pm On Apr 15, 2022 |
Truvelisback:I want to know those things that made life not easy for man |
Re: Guys, Do U Agree With His Point Of View? by Daniel7543: 6:45pm On Apr 15, 2022 |
Nonexisting:Bro, I swear. I belong to your school of thought. You're just like me too. I try not to put pressure on myself. I try not to be in a competition with anyone. I try not to impress anybody. If you're driving benz,... I'm comfortable driving my camry voltron. If you're using iPhone 13... I'm comfortable using my tecno. If you stay in a mansion... I'm comfortable living in my 2 bedroom flat. If you pop champagne every day... I'm comfortable popping my trophy beer. Honestly. I try not to feel intimidated by anyone. I hustle to live a good life for myself and not to impress anyone. Life has been easy bro. 3 Likes |
Re: Guys, Do U Agree With His Point Of View? by MrBrownJay1(m): 7:12pm On Apr 15, 2022 |
immortalcrown: i am giving you examples of DOs and DONTs which are imposed on men (coupled with HAVE and HAVE NOT which are also imposed on men). is that so difficult for you to understand?! 1 Like |
Re: Guys, Do U Agree With His Point Of View? by immortalcrown(m): 7:20pm On Apr 15, 2022 |
MrBrownJay1:You are inarticulate in your statements. Who imposes those things on you? In other words, who arrests you for not having those things? The answer is nobody except you yourself. You impose those things on yourself. If there is no discrimination between the rich and the poor, would you be desperate to have everything the rich have? If you are not desperate, would you put yourself through too much stress? |
Re: Guys, Do U Agree With His Point Of View? by Truvelisback(m): 7:28pm On Apr 15, 2022 |
Pierocash:Read the comments in this thread, u will see them, since u are a female and u do not know what men go tru. |
Re: Guys, Do U Agree With His Point Of View? by Teddy96: 7:38pm On Apr 15, 2022 |
Truvelis u re alway with point. Kudos to dix ur post. . Mehn, i no get anything to say 1 Like |
Re: Guys, Do U Agree With His Point Of View? by Nobody: 8:10pm On Apr 15, 2022 |
Truvelisback:yeah |
Re: Guys, Do U Agree With His Point Of View? by Truvelisback(m): 8:21pm On Apr 15, 2022 |
Collinsaik:Hustling is one thing and to be a man is another thing. To be a man is not a day's job. When i was still a kid, i didn't understand the adage. It was when i became an adult, it became clear to me. 1 Like |
Re: Guys, Do U Agree With His Point Of View? by Truvelisback(m): 8:30pm On Apr 15, 2022 |
Daniel7543:True. However, Discrimination and Despising of others is another issue. There are folks who would want to make u feel so useless and unfortunate in life because of their achievements in life. |
Re: Guys, Do U Agree With His Point Of View? by jayworld15(m): 8:35pm On Apr 15, 2022 |
immortalcrown: Part of the DOs is that you must have money and have it affluently. Part of the DON'Ts is that you must never be poor. God understands that greatly, that's why Isaac sowed in the land a hundredfold. Be like The Isaacs, The Elon Musks, The Bill Gates etc. When you talk, money talks and the world listen. Money, to some extend, is wisdom no matter how foolish the advice could be. 2 Likes |
Re: Guys, Do U Agree With His Point Of View? by immortalcrown(m): 8:37pm On Apr 15, 2022 |
jayworld15:Apart from you yourself, who else makes these things a must for you? Mention the person. |
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